You cant be a Selfish Lover Part 2.

 When you enter a relationship you get to know a person you find out there there wants there thoughts there needs you find out what they love what makes them happy and when you truly love them you will do whatever you can to please them and if its certain things they dont like or you dont like sexually or outside the bedroom you let them know and sometimes you at least try them whether its going places you may not like before them but you at least try because of them or trying things sexually that you may not like but you at least try with them because you never know they might like going places with you that they may not have enjoyed with someone else or they may like something with you sexually that they didnt like with someone else but at least give the effort to try something whether its having a drink with them getting high with them or treating them sometimes instead of them always treating or being spontaneous and not being worried that they wont like just be open to say hey i went to lets say a art show with them you didnt like but you tried its called being a unselfish lover not a selfish lover have a drink with them get drunk if you trust them get high if you trust them try something out the box sexually eat something with them you normally wouldnt go somewhere with them you normally wouldnt just be oepn and if you still dont like you can at least say i tried and if you have to keep asking you should not want it cause it will be fake if you have to keep begging or asking and if you wait and they still be dragging there feet they either not into you or there and unselfish close minded lover and if you can deal with that then fine its all good but if you cant then you have decisions to make indeed.