Sex should never be one sided.

 You know when you are becoming intimate with someone and having sex it should be something that is enjoyed by both yes you may have one lover who is more sexual than the other but it still should be exciting for both and also effort must giving by both cause if you not getting the sexual attention back that you are giving then that is not for one fun or exciting and it makes the sex boring because if you doing all you can to please a person sexually and they not trying to give effort its going to keep them from having pleasure and you from having yours real talk indeed.