Sometimes the writing is on the wall we just refuse to look.

In relationships its suppose to be give and take loving each other pleasing each other making each other happy when you are giving all your effort and time to make your lover happy from going out to dinners quality time watching movies having great sex buying gifts whatever it takes to make them happy if thats not enough then you talk to your lover and ask them is it you or is it them because if you feel like you giving every thing you possibly can to make a person happy and you feel like the one your trying to satisfy and make happy is not into you or you feeling unappreciated or feel no matter what you do it still wont be enough then you gonna have to make a serious decision because its one thing to make your lover mad or piss them off but the worst thing you can do is make them feel that no matter what they do will never be enough then you have missed the writing on the wall and i dont care how much you love them staying somewhere you know its not healthy is detrimental indeed and for one who wants to wake up everyday trying to please someone who is not feeling you anymore and dont let them tell you they not treating you any different cause actions speak volumes so i know it may hurt but if things not changing in your situation read the writing and move on indeed. and never look back life lessons.