When you realize You Are no More Than A Sidepiece,

 When people decide that they are not happy in there relationship and they decide instead of leaving they are going to find someone who will fulfill there needs elsewhere they get someone either for sex or conversation or time spent but you also may have just stipulate the rules to the other person that hey i just want sex thats all or you just want conversation companionship but they let you know from the jump where you stand who you are to them and what you will be nothing more nothing less, but sometimes you will meet someone and you have someone your not happy and two get together and start spending time talking all the time falling in love having bomb sex just spending quality time together making plans for the future treating each other and vowing to be there for each other, well that all sounds good and dandy until major things happen or hell even the little things where reality will hit and the person will realize may it be a major holiday, or a major event or a persons birthday or a holiday or something new coming out and they doing with there other person when you was thinking they would be doing it with you but they let you know hey i cant do that with you i cant go there with you i can spend those days with you i cant spend that time with you and then its hits home like damn all along you thinking they about to leave this person or you are number 1 but in reality you are number 2 and like i said its cool if things were established in from the start but when feelings get involved and yall suppose to feeling each other and the person have you thinking one way but when reality situations present themselves they quick to pump your brakes then its up to you to play your role know your role be happy with it or say you know what im bouncing and find someone who will make you feel like you number1 no matter what indeed or be with someone new who you know is going to make you priority and never and optyion cause you are the only option that matters indeed its your choice its your life  so choose wisely with your feelings.