Cache

 You know guys always say what they want in a woman they want a sexy woman a woman who is pretty strong minded independent beautiful can fuck or suck or just be a beast in bed well this woman name cache she was beautiful sexy all of the above she met this dude who was crazy about her he loved her conversation he looks her personality everything in the bedroom all he wanted to do was kiss her, eat her pussy fuck her good massage her body he loved at first but he fell deeply in love with later on he loved taking her out for dinner to fine restaurants always thinking of ways to keep her smiling always planning things for her wanting to take her on trips and buy her nice gifts from flowers to balloons perfume clothes shoes jewerly you name he wanted her to have it he love being inside her making love to her talking to her he only wanted her attention and he had many choices of other women but he only wanted her and when you have a cache you know she is the best and you cant do nothing but love her indeed she is the type of woman you marry cause she is that deal indeed.

They May Taboo But Not for you.

 You know when you find someone that you can become taboo with having that type of sexual relationship that most people can not have it can be very exciting indeed, being able to tell your partner your past sexual experiences how you fucked someone from the past how it jumped off giving them a story or visual of how you were fucking your ex and your partner getting turned on by it is very rare but thats why its called taboo, or being able to fuck anywhere at the drop of a dime watching porn, smoking weed getting drunk and having fuckfests just having exotic behavior maybe threesomes,or your partner watching fuck another person now that is exotic and not for everyone but if you in a taboo relationship you wont mind discussing anything with your partner having the balls to watch or talk about anything sexual is a blessing indeed, but what people fail to realize is being taboo is only for those who are into you i be damn if you can really be taboo or care what a person you never fucked care about who they fucked to turn you on it dont work like that taboo is for a person who is so in love or lust with a person they will get turned on by any thing dealing with there lover,but not a stranger taboo is for lovers in love who have no limits when it comes to each other she can watch him fuck another woman he can watch her fuck another man and get turned on by it they have the most sensual sexual relationship you can have exotic erotic indeed so people if you not in love or cant handle being taboo then its not for you only for those who have fucks given indeed.

Its Just Social Media

 You know its funny how people look and take social media some people use it for keeping up with old friends, or family some use it just for laughs, or some use it for dating, and some lets be real for hook ups to fuck, but whats crazy is when you a popular person on social media and you attract lots of friends people will really get in the feelings if you dont say hello or have not spoken to them but ye the person may have over 3000 friends how the fuck are they supposed to keep up with you so people will get mad delete you like you really give a fuck i know i dont give a fuck but some may cause one thing about me i get along with everybody but im not kissing nobody ass especially a muthafucka i just met on social media and i have never met in real life dont get caught up in your feelings cause thats how they get hurt remember its social media not let me hook up with this guy or woman go in there inbox talking shit or shooting your shot and then get mad when a nigga dont respond or a female dont respond now yes you can meet some nice people on social media its just that nice people but when you get mad cause a nigga didnt accept your request to fuck or request to pay him to fuck you dont get mad cause the last thing you want is to be put on blast that you had to pay a nigga for some dick or a nigga who paying a woman for some pussy real talk so keep it social do what you do on facebook instagram twitter snapchat but dont get butt hurt if you dont get the feedback you seeked real talk indeed.

Aint no woman like the one he Got.

 You know sometimes you can be going thru life being in a relationship and yet instead of feeling you have someone you really dont yeah they there physically but mentally they making you feel alone and whats the point of a relationship if you feeling lonely sometimes you can be so used to something you forget things that are supposed to be happening in a relationship, so one day this guy decided he had enough of feeling alone bored and not in love so he found this woman he had been having his eye on for a couple of years so they became friends starting chatting getting to know each other and they had so much in common that he let her in his world and eventually in his heart, they started talking everyday chatting about any and everything then they had meet ups then there first date was great they got so close that he now treasure her she knows things about him that nobody on this earth does he buys her gifts he gives her attention she gives him attention he wants to take her on trips spoil her love her and she is sensational in bed and he only wants her she is all the woman he needs and all his attention is for her and he cherishes her like no other he not only wants to put a ring on it he is going to put a ring on it and no woman is like the one he got cause she knows when he needs love attention affection and all he ever wanted was her heart nothing more just her heart for her to be into him like he is into her he will never cheat on her lie nothing because he treats her as a blessing because he was such in a dark place she was that light that woke him up and that is real love indeed so jamal found his simone and simone has a man who loves her cherishes her only wants her and he trust her like no other indeed.

Taboo Relationship not meant for no one to understand but the 2 people in it. (XXX)

 Life is funny sometimes you can see two people from the outside looking in and people will say wow why did this person choose this person out of plenty of people who have came there way offering sex, money whatever, well sometimes a person can pick someone who they can open up and share everything there dark side, there intimate side, showing them a side so taboo that not everyone will understand or accept, well this guy jamal met this woman simone and simone was something very different to jamal he had dated plenty of women but never felt close enough to open up completely with any woman until he met simone him and simone started out as friends then lovers and then they both fell in love and so jamal and simone started fucking and sucking and just having explosive sex different positions intimate kissing just letting each other know everything about each other and most people will say thats a normal sexual relationship but in reality it was so much more thats where this relationship differs most men unlike women cant handle hearing about there womans sexual past, but jamal was so much different he encouraged simone to talk about her past sexual experiences it actually turned him made his dick hard because he was so into simone sexually that he had fantasies about her and finding out things from her past sexually turned him on and this made there relationship erotic refreshing and exciting because most men cant handle knowing things sexually about ther ex but why not jamal said his baby was everything to him and she turned him on he loved hearing details of he past to the tea cause he was that much into her and it made simone so comfortable that this made there relationship taboo freaky and exciting and all jamal wanted to do after hearing stories is wanting to eat her pussy her ass fucking her kissing her and just loving her indeed so if you find someone which is truly rare who lets you be taboo with them you hold on to them they say true love is rare a taboo love is even rarer especially when the two people are in love as well indeed jamal loves simone for her and only her and she is his sexual everything and nobody can come between that indeed.

They cant trust you cause they probably cant trust themselves.

 You know the old saying goes if they always accusing you, they probably cheating themselves, cause if a person is constantly blaming you for being unfaithful, or disloyal 9 times out of 10 its because they doing some shit themselves it has nothing to do with you it can be there past relationships or it can be they know they not shit so they treat you like shit, its just facts sometimes you can be the perfect mate for your lover treat them with respect, with kindness, loyal to them just being all in to them but yet they always saying you better not be talking to this person, you better not be having me looking like a fool, are you into this person, do you talk to other people, where were you, when they always asking you these things and you know in your heart that you are strictly and only into them and they keep accusing you just know they cant trust you because they probably cant trust themselves real talk and those are the ones you have to wonder about as far as a long term future because you can hope and try to be everything you can to please them make them believe you only want them but if they never gonna believe it or let you in there heart and trust you then how can you really have a future with them i mean you can but it might never be a trusting relationship if they dont ever believe you are the person you really are and all you have is there best interest at heart indeed.

Whatever it takes to make them happy.

 When you truly love someone and you in love with them you will do whatever it takes to make them happy whatever it takes to make them smile, it could be the little things finding there favorite food, getting them flowers that dont have to be on a occasion and when it is a occasion you really make it big always trying to keep them smiling taking them on trips giving them conversation, taking them out to eat,watching movies going places together giving them your all in the bedroom doing whatever to make them cum or feel good just letting them know you only want there attention and want only give them your attention never making them fell lonely letting them know you planning a lifetime with them not jus a today or tomorrow and making them always feel special indeed when you treat a person like this and you know you have and its sincere you will never have any regrets and they will truly love you for always being the person you said you was and not being untrustworthy and being loyal and even if they dont trust well giving them no reason to ever doubt you because actions say everything and that is big to a person and when a man or a woman truly take care of there lady mentally physically with great chemistry they will know they have someone who is here for as long they will have them indeed.

You can have passion and be freaky all in one.

 You know people think that being freaky is the same as being nasty but there is a difference you can meet someorts ane have passionate sex where your kissing, looking into each others eyes with every stroke but also mix in some freaky things as well, i knew this couple who let me share there story they met up one saturday night he had prepared dinner for her cooked her a great meal had her favorite drink so she loved to watch porn so they had porn on but on mute  music playing drinking and smoking some weed so they were really enjoying each other so she says come here so he comes closer they start kissing he kisses her neck then she takes her shirt off starts sucking and licking her titties then she stands up and he says oh shit love to see you pull your pants down so she does her ass pops out like bisquits so then she sits back down so he gets between her thighs and starts eating her pussy and eating and sucking her pussy real good she going crazy so right she about to cum he sticks his tongue in her ass then she sits up pulls his dick out sucks on it gets it hard and wet then he slides his dick inside her pussy stroking her pussy from the from kissing her and she kissing him she loving it then he flips her over puts his tongue inside her ass then he slides dick in from the back stroking her pussy until she cums on his dick then he pulls out her pussy puts it inside her ass fucks her asshole nice and slow until he gets ready to cum and she loving it says cum inside my ass he cums and she says her pussy was throbbing so they go to the bedroom watch porn in there and they start fucking again round two and round two is better than round 1 cause theis time she sucks his dick so good he cums and caught every drop took his soul then he got hard and they fucked with passion missionary style until she came again and they went to sleep.

Imagine That

 You know when you fall in love with someone your goal is to want to marry them or be with them long term or the ultimate forever, you give them your heart body and soul and you love being the relationship of honesty trust and just spending the majority of the time with them and once you meet someone like this you cant imagine your life with out them and you cherish them and cherish there love, and this goes for people who get married and meet someone who they love and plan to be with forever or people who meet someone and have the intentions of being with someone long term even if marriage is not the goal just loving someone who wants to be with you and love you the way you love them,but if you fall in love with someone who say they love you but wouldnt care if the relationship,or marriage ended today then that right there is deep imagine that you give your heart to a person who could care less if you walked out there life today that right there is deep because it makes you wonder if there love for you is really that deep cause when you truly love somebody you do everything you can to hold on to them but if it dont work out you can say at least you tried and yes you will be hurt thats life but if they be like life goes on keep it moving with no hesitation then you might not have what you think you have and you might want to be careful with your heart cause thast how hearts get broken indeed imagine that real talk.

Misery loves company

People think that haters will come from the outside people from social media, but a lot of times misery comes from people close to you there lifes may not be what they want or decisions they may have made contributed to there lifes being miserable so they want you to be miserable cause misery loves company never fails they can see you happy and say they happy for you but not really cause how you will know they will say shit like hey be careful they may not be who they say,or hey how you know they not doing this or doing that when just a month or so ago they were claiming they happy for you so you have to be careful who you share your happiness with real talk and sometimes it might be best to keep your happiness to your self because if you weak minded a hater will put doubt in your mind cause thats there intentions in the first place so you can fuck up your good thing and join them being sad or mad or whatever so watch the haters watch those close to you enjoy your life and  let the haters hate indeed. 

The heart wants What the heart wants.

 You can meet someone who you just click with and build a great bond with in a short time that you will be in love before you even know it but how you will know is when your life has become about not just making yourself happy its about making them happy, being loyal to one person never being unfaithful enjoying being with one person planning numerous trips, planning on visiting new restaurants, planning on buying gifts that will have meanings for a lifetime and no matter how much attention you receive none of that means nothing because the person you are with now has your heart and you know that this person is the real deal because before you met this person all you could think about as far as the future goes was moving to another state living a carefree life no strings attached nothing serious because you felt everybody had a agenda that wasnt best for you but when you get one more chance at real love you cherish it and follow your heart but follow it with your eyes open so you wont get hurt but you have to take a chance when you feel it is real and you give that person nothing but happiness make them smile make them happy make them feel like they are all that mattters cause they do and nobody else does so all im saying is when you get someone like this in your life you do every damn thing you can to hold on to them until they give you reason to show you they not worthy but if they show you they are worthy you make them yours with kindness love a sense of peace and always make them a priority never a option.

When you got a woman Who knows what you need.

 A lot of guys say that women aint shit calling them bitches and hoes having no respect, but thats because they have not found a real woman who is there for them and only them, and have not found a woman who knows what he may need even when he may not see it him self, you can be a guy who is always on the run always making plans to do this and do that and most women would love to have a guy with ambition who wants do more than just chill but sometimes a man needs his woman to say baby lets just chill relax talk make love watch tv be into each other having private time cause when you got a ambitious man you always gonna have fun always see things in life do things in life just constantly doing something but nothing wrong with taking it easy from time to time indeed and if you got a woman who truly cares she is going to make sure when to slow you down have your back and know whats best indeed.

Follow her Lead cause She Worth Following.you will fall in

 Sometimes in life a person may come in contact with someone who is sorta a mystery even after knowing them for months you still may not know as much as you think there ways, there likes, there dislikes, but you overlook all that when you fall in love with that person you want to please them in every way, you can have so many woman wanting you craving you wanting to fuck you for money, gifts trips, wanting relationships with you,but all that means nothing if you dont feel the same way but then out of nowhere a woman comes along and everything changes you love her conversation you love her laughter she is a real boss, sexy chocolate, funny, has helluva sex appeal and you just want to be with her all the time because she has won your heart its like my boy sad she is amazing and she is mature in every way so as a man most men who are real men love to lead plan trips, plan dates, plan visits surprise hotel visits surprise gifts just doing things to make a woman happy but when you truly love someone and you feel in your heart you trust her 100 percent you will step back and submit follow her lead let her plan dates, visits, hook ups let her control your free time with no apprehension indeed when you love someone truly you will follow there lead accordingly cause you know she gonna lead you to fun relaxation and a great time so all im saying is you find a woman who can lead and see how she treats you i guarantee you will fall in love indeed wanting to please her sexually lick her ass have passionate sex smoke weed with her drink with her travel with her wake up with fill all 3 of her holes her pussy her lips and her asshole just letting her know that your goal is to fuck her or make love to her like no other and cater to her like no other let her know your love is real and nobody can come between yall you will follow a woman of this caliber anywhere cause you know she gonna lead you to fun excitement things you like whether its netflix and chill or freakky fun or whatever she will do you well when you do her well in return real indeed so all im saying please your lady and follow her lead indeed.

Oral Stimulation equals Deep Penatration.

You know a lot of guys only want to get theres and keep it moving but if you truly want to please a woman you have to be willing to eat her pussy the way she wants if she likes her clit suck then suck it if she likes it licked or kissed then do it and do it for as long she wants until she cums and if she likes her asshole licked or sucked do it if you a true freak tongue kiss her asshole if she likes make her feel so good and relaxed from making her cum with your tongue that when she cums you can put your dick her and stroke her like she never been stroked before and if you can hit her g spot with your dick she gonna loved being sensual and sexual with you but you only about getting your nut then you wont be around long i believe a man should take pride in pleasing his woman and dont be afraid to eat her pussy like you eat your food please tease and satisfy the pussy by all means and any means necessary indeed give her the oral stimulation that leads to the ultimate penetration and just remember what you wont do someobody else will so get on your grown man shit learn her clit learn her pussy and suck it and fuck it like its yours and only yours thats real talk for anybody listening indeed. 

We just Fit.

 You ever meet someone and you just know that they are the one for you well this guy met this woman who both were in situations and they both were not being attended to like they should so they started chatting and having conversations about everything just enjoying each other so the conversation went from talking 24/7 to there first date where they enjoyed each other greatly then they took that next step making love for the first time and the loving was great as well it was like they  always have had sex they laugh together she makes his insides and outsides laugh there loving is great he loves everything about her he told her first that he loved her and she has trust issues but thats not scaring him away he loves her anyway he trust her only thing he wants from her is her heart he is in there but he doesnt have it all yet but the emotional connection is more important  to him than anything they just fit he could talk to her all day and night and this is who he wants a future with forever but for now he will take just the now one day at a time but one thing he knows is they fit like a ball and a glove real talk indeed she is the love of her life and hopefully she is his there like zach and fatima on sistas they belong together for more than what they are he wants a her to be his wife for the rest of his life a real life true love story indeed.

She Chose him When Everybody Else Was Chasing her.

 Every now and then people will have that look or personality that everyone wants or needs well it was this woman she was considered beautiful lightskin natural hair natural beauty and guys just loved her and women too she got offered clothes cars marriage proposals but for some reason she met this guy who waas not really chasing after her he thought she was nice looking but nothing fantastic but she loved this guys smile his style and the fact he was humble down to earth and different so she saw him at the mall told him he was cute in the macys and then she asked him for his phone number so they exchanged numbers went out on a date and on there date guys and women were starring admiring her beauty buy he just kept her laughing and complimented her so she told him she was really feeling him after weeks of dating they decided to get intimate so she came over his house with what she called a party bag he fixed dinner for her steaks baked potatoes salad and garlic bread she brought some weed some ciroc and she had on some sexy lingerie underneath her sundress so they ate dinner she had him put on some music so they were drinking and listening to music then they started smoking and she put on some porn to his shock and then she came over to him started kissing him and they kissed for a long time after kissing she undressed to her panties garter set and bra then she took his pants down and she said im about to suck the skin off your dick she told him he had a pretty dick so after she said that she sucked his dick and sucked his balls got his dick so hard she grabbed him by his dick said lets go to the bedroom grabbed her party bag went in his bedroom laid him on the bed pulled out a condom put it on his dick and told him to make love to her after he put his dick in she was hollering and moaning after he was fucking her so good from the front she said flip me over so he was fucking her from the back biting the back of her neck stroking her pussy until she was like im about to cum baby so he hit it harder and she was cumming screaming i love you and he came and then she got up said let me clean you off baby and laid in his arms and told him i love you and she got emotional saying it cause she said all this niggers be chasing after me but i got the man i was chasing and she fell in love indeed and they fucked 2 more times before falling asleep and she got his name tattoed on her ass indeed.

How do you give your heart to someone you know is full of shit.

 A lot of times we meet people who have had trust issues in the past so they meet someone who is really a good person but since you may have had bad experiences in the past you quick to assume that everyone you meet is full of shit but yet you decide im going to try new love so you meet someone who is nice to you treats you how you love to be treated you both like the same things you have great conversations great sex but yet you still refuse to give them your whole heart because you feel like you cant trust them and you feel like they full of shit but you cant assume that everyone is the same there are some genuine people out here who once they find real love they push it away from getting to close just enough to enjoy the person love the person but no emotional connection because if it gets to emotional then it gets to real and when it gets to real then that takes down the guard and then if the person turns out to be no good your heart wont break but how you gonna ever experience real love again if you think everybody full of shit how you take a chance and you open up your heart to a person who was there when you needed them and you were there when they needed you because its a reason you found this person and everybody is not full of shit some people really do love you for you and only you and have no agendas so all im saying is open up your heart to the one that is in front of you and dont push real love away indeed.

You cant be a Selfish Lover Part 2.

 When you enter a relationship you get to know a person you find out there there wants there thoughts there needs you find out what they love what makes them happy and when you truly love them you will do whatever you can to please them and if its certain things they dont like or you dont like sexually or outside the bedroom you let them know and sometimes you at least try them whether its going places you may not like before them but you at least try because of them or trying things sexually that you may not like but you at least try with them because you never know they might like going places with you that they may not have enjoyed with someone else or they may like something with you sexually that they didnt like with someone else but at least give the effort to try something whether its having a drink with them getting high with them or treating them sometimes instead of them always treating or being spontaneous and not being worried that they wont like just be open to say hey i went to lets say a art show with them you didnt like but you tried its called being a unselfish lover not a selfish lover have a drink with them get drunk if you trust them get high if you trust them try something out the box sexually eat something with them you normally wouldnt go somewhere with them you normally wouldnt just be oepn and if you still dont like you can at least say i tried and if you have to keep asking you should not want it cause it will be fake if you have to keep begging or asking and if you wait and they still be dragging there feet they either not into you or there and unselfish close minded lover and if you can deal with that then fine its all good but if you cant then you have decisions to make indeed.

When you realize You Are no More Than A Sidepiece,

 When people decide that they are not happy in there relationship and they decide instead of leaving they are going to find someone who will fulfill there needs elsewhere they get someone either for sex or conversation or time spent but you also may have just stipulate the rules to the other person that hey i just want sex thats all or you just want conversation companionship but they let you know from the jump where you stand who you are to them and what you will be nothing more nothing less, but sometimes you will meet someone and you have someone your not happy and two get together and start spending time talking all the time falling in love having bomb sex just spending quality time together making plans for the future treating each other and vowing to be there for each other, well that all sounds good and dandy until major things happen or hell even the little things where reality will hit and the person will realize may it be a major holiday, or a major event or a persons birthday or a holiday or something new coming out and they doing with there other person when you was thinking they would be doing it with you but they let you know hey i cant do that with you i cant go there with you i can spend those days with you i cant spend that time with you and then its hits home like damn all along you thinking they about to leave this person or you are number 1 but in reality you are number 2 and like i said its cool if things were established in from the start but when feelings get involved and yall suppose to feeling each other and the person have you thinking one way but when reality situations present themselves they quick to pump your brakes then its up to you to play your role know your role be happy with it or say you know what im bouncing and find someone who will make you feel like you number1 no matter what indeed or be with someone new who you know is going to make you priority and never and optyion cause you are the only option that matters indeed its your choice its your life  so choose wisely with your feelings.

Sometimes you have to Submit.

 When you find a lover who is willing to be sexual with you and willing to submit to you then you have to cherish this person especially if they are very sexual and into you cause when a person talks to you about you how they want o love your body taste your body kiss your body please your body then you have to enjoy the ride submit to them and let them love you cause a lot of men and women just think you get naked fuck and they have no idea of how to please you or try to please you or care to please you but when you have some one who is willing to do whatever to please your body you allow them to be the freak or lover you need let them taste your body fuck your holes please you indeed cause nothing is sexier than being able to submit to someone you love indeed.

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A lady in the streets But A freak in the sheets.

 one thing you should never do is kiss and tell so when you get a woman who is about her business she works she cooks she cleans she saves she good to you then you hold on to her and cherish her but when she is a freak in the bed you keep that to your self and enjoy this guy had it all a good woman who did everything had his boys begging him to hang out all the time to meet women had plenty of women chasing after him but he knew that he had a woman who was assertive freaky and discreet but she gave him everything he needed she was spontaneous and she made him feel appreciated she had her own he had his own but one day she texted him early in the morning told him she was thinking about him he was the first thing on her mind so a man or a woman loved being thought of so she said i want to see you today i got a room im going to text you the room number so he says ok so leading up to seeing him she sent him freaky messages nude pics just basically stimulating oral foreplay so he gets to the room she tells him take hisd clothes off let me cater to you today so he looking crazy so she ask him point blank do you want to get nasty or sensual or a little of both so he says do what you feel i will do whatever so he gets naked and she has on some sexy panties and no bra so she sucks on his dick for a minute comes back up tongue kisses him then after kissing she she gets on her knees tells him to lick her from the back so he licking all her holes then she cums in his face after cuming she says i want you to fuck me good so he gets between her thighs and starts slowly fucking her and they kissing fucking and she talking her ass off like never before to the point he says im about to cum she says cum inside me baby he cums and then they lay there she says i want you to rest and then after resting she starts massaging his balls then licking his balls then she cums to tip of the dick starts sucking until she get harder sucking and stroking his dick he says im about to cum so she kept sucking his dick and he came in her mouth she spit it out and then says its all about you tonight baby she says im your freak in these sheets and so then she shocks him pulls out some wine and weed they smoking drinking got a buzz and then she says im gonna let you fuck all 3 of my holes tonight his dick instantly gets hard and so after givng him some anl she loves it and he say im about to cum she says inside my asshole he does and she says baby its not always about me you matter too indeed thats real and sometimes thats all it takes indeed.

Sometimes the writing is on the wall we just refuse to look.

In relationships its suppose to be give and take loving each other pleasing each other making each other happy when you are giving all your effort and time to make your lover happy from going out to dinners quality time watching movies having great sex buying gifts whatever it takes to make them happy if thats not enough then you talk to your lover and ask them is it you or is it them because if you feel like you giving every thing you possibly can to make a person happy and you feel like the one your trying to satisfy and make happy is not into you or you feeling unappreciated or feel no matter what you do it still wont be enough then you gonna have to make a serious decision because its one thing to make your lover mad or piss them off but the worst thing you can do is make them feel that no matter what they do will never be enough then you have missed the writing on the wall and i dont care how much you love them staying somewhere you know its not healthy is detrimental indeed and for one who wants to wake up everyday trying to please someone who is not feeling you anymore and dont let them tell you they not treating you any different cause actions speak volumes so i know it may hurt but if things not changing in your situation read the writing and move on indeed. and never look back life lessons.

Sex should never be one sided.

 You know when you are becoming intimate with someone and having sex it should be something that is enjoyed by both yes you may have one lover who is more sexual than the other but it still should be exciting for both and also effort must giving by both cause if you not getting the sexual attention back that you are giving then that is not for one fun or exciting and it makes the sex boring because if you doing all you can to please a person sexually and they not trying to give effort its going to keep them from having pleasure and you from having yours real talk indeed.