Paying Child Support Dont Make You A Parent"

You know what i really cant stand,is when you have parents male or female,that is paying child support for there kids,and they feel like just because the paying support,they dont have to do anything else,and im not talking about financially,im talking about spending quality time with your child,having a good relationship with your child,being there for doctor visits,advice,taking them on trips,or to the movies,or park,just spending the time with your kid,cause that money might be helping financially,but spending time with your child is what makes you a parent,raising them showing them whats right and whats wrong,and not giving a fuck about whats going on between you and the other parent,whether the two parents is getting along or not,the main thing is the relationship you have with your child,cause your child not going to remember the child support payments,they gonna remeber there parent being there for them,and at the end of the day that is priceless so all im saying is no matter what type of relationship you have with the other parent just remember your child comes first,and last,and fuck the money you have to pay,cause in the long run that bond you build with your child is going to be so much more important real talk.