Check The Family Before You Get To Serious Indeed"

You know when you are dating someone male or female,and you really start liking a person,people will say if you love them that is all that matters,i will say to you thats bullshit if you looking to settle down with that individual, now if you just looking to have fun,date,or just have a sexual encounter,then thats different cause this dont pertain to you,but if you looking to marry this person then you better do your homework,and check out the female,or males family that you looking to become part of your family,and im not saying that its about thinking you better than anyone,but if for instance you meet a woman and she got ray ray,or peanut and them always getting into shootouts,or bringing bad things to your girls home,or always in some extra ghetto activity,then you need to say do i really want to bring this family into yours,especially if you live a certain type of way,now if you ghetto and dont give a fuck then thats cool,or if you a woman and you meet a man who got sisters name moet,and alize,and hennessy and they always getting into shit,and bring bullshit to your mans house or always having your man defending they trifiling ass then you need to think twice before you gewt serous with this person especially if every time you look around you sitting in a court room instead of barbeques and nice family outings,all im saying is that when you marry someone,or get real serious with someone,you cant exclude there family cause thats there family,and if they got a  ghetto ass dont give a fuck family then you either gonna have to accept it,or be prepared for and quick visit to divorce court and thats real talk,cause families will break up a good union indeed so its just something to think about so do your home work indeed especially if you come from a totally different upbringing and way of life.