Seasoned Woman Over A Tender Anyday"

You know i have a lot of friends who as guys in there late 30s or early 40s, they tend to like younger women,they tend want a woman that they can call a tender, a woman in her early 20s or late 20s,and they think that having a young tender is much more sexually appealing than and older woman, they feel that a younger woman has perkier breast,sweet pussy,can be more flexible,is more freakier,i have heard it all from the lockeroom at work facilities, well i have a different take on it, my thing is just like my steak i rather have a woman thats well seasoned and well done, i would rather have a woman that is experienced and a woman that has lived life a little,not just a woman who opens her leg and just want you to fuck,and not take the time to learn your spots or let you learn hers,thats what you get from a sexy seasoned woman who is spicy has been marinated in experience,she can also be sweet,bubbly,and mellow she can be maternaland playful,also knows when to be submissive and sexy,so those of you who prefer the young tender you can have it,cause i am willing to bet that a mature woman can do just as much as a young tender just more patiently and better indeed.

Martin Luther Kings Dream Has Been More Of A Nightmare"

You know today is the 50th Anniversary of the MLK I Have A Dream Speech,well i must say some things have changed since dr.king was killed,but it is not the dream he imagined,and im not just blaming it on white racism in america which is a big problem still 50 years later,like the trayvon martin case,and the double standard in the justice system with the way blacks are being treated,but also i have to blame my own black people,who have not headed the speech,by carjacking there own,destroying there own communities,the killing and no regard for black life,and the way they carry there self,no respect for the elderly,no respect for anyone,pants sagging calling women bitches and hoes,not respecting the black women,just being fucking ignorant,if king was a live he would be disgusted at the way the inner city youth are being raised,how the black community is being falling apart,i mean yeah we have a black president,and yes we do have black people who have good jobs,and live in nice homes,but overall he would say damn dint my marches,being arrested,having to deal with racism,fighting for civil rights have any kind of effect on the new generation,and his answer would be no hell no.cause we as black people not all us,but a lot of us having taken not just two steps back,we have taken a whole foot,and its a damn shame,because you best believe that if have the people in this new generation had to go thru what king and a lot of our civil rights leaders had to go thru,they would be acting like they have some sense,cause this era is a disgrace,and i have a dream that i will see a better day when we as black people will have more respect for one another,and that also that white america,will one day give us as black people the justice,and peace that we deserve,now i could be dreaming but thats all you can do is dream and thats real talk.

How You Like Hannah Montana Now LOL Serves You Write"

You know its so fucking funny to me how white america is so upset with miley cyrus my thing is she has been telling you since hannah montana got cancelled that she wanted to be a teen adult,and that was not who she was,but you didnt want to believe her, and you know why because americans is quick to want a role model for there kids,they like to put these tv stars on such a pedastal to the point that they want to buy there dolls,and clothes,and accesories and whatever else you can think of,so the minute these stars get out of line and start acting out,they be like omg whats wrong with her,my thing is you stupid muthafuckas have to realize hannah montana was a tv show,you fuckers didnt know miley cyrus,and now you do at age 20,and you dont like her twerking her flat ass,and playing with her self, LOL well all i can say is it serves you right fucking having tv be your childs role model you be the role model,set the example thats the problem with a lot of you parents you have hollywood and tv raising your kids,and instead of you being the one they should look up to,so all i can say is i hope justin bieber,one direction,miley cyrus,lindsey lohan whoever keep fucking up your american dream or how you think a star should be cause you get what you deserve when you have your child emulating a child star who they have no idea how they really are once the lights go off,and thats real.

Ladies Be Careful Who You Bring Around Your Kids.

You know nothing i hate more is when i hear cases of women who meet these men,and get all into the men,and then decide they want to move the nigga into the home,or leave there kids alone with the guy,when they dont even really know if the nigga name is larry or joe,just like here in michigan a little 2year old boy was shaken and beaten to death by this womans boyfriend and she didnt even hardly know this man long but she felt comfortable so she left her son with him thinking he would be fine,and the bitch ass punk killed the little boy,and now she has lost a son cause of her trusting lonely ass,its like its so many people out here looking for love in all the wrong places,that they end bringing crazy ass muthafuckas into there homes,not knowing that they could be molesters,abusers,or killers,and its sad cause the children are innocent victims all because the ladies are lonely and think they have finally found mr right not knowing that they may have found a sick as bastard,so all im saying to you ladies is watch who you bring around your kids,do your homework,and if your child is uncomfortable around the fucker,then head the warning and kick that bitch to the curb,or else you might be having to make burial plans for your child and thats not right indeed.

Paying Child Support Dont Make You A Parent"

You know what i really cant stand,is when you have parents male or female,that is paying child support for there kids,and they feel like just because the paying support,they dont have to do anything else,and im not talking about financially,im talking about spending quality time with your child,having a good relationship with your child,being there for doctor visits,advice,taking them on trips,or to the movies,or park,just spending the time with your kid,cause that money might be helping financially,but spending time with your child is what makes you a parent,raising them showing them whats right and whats wrong,and not giving a fuck about whats going on between you and the other parent,whether the two parents is getting along or not,the main thing is the relationship you have with your child,cause your child not going to remember the child support payments,they gonna remeber there parent being there for them,and at the end of the day that is priceless so all im saying is no matter what type of relationship you have with the other parent just remember your child comes first,and last,and fuck the money you have to pay,cause in the long run that bond you build with your child is going to be so much more important real talk.

Give them Something To Think About (XXX Edtion)

You know when you are dating someone,or if you are married to them,or just fucking partners,whatever relationship where sex is involved,you should always, leave the person you are sexting with something on there mind,when they are away from,you or if you know its going to be some time in between your next sexual encounter,and that goes for your wife,or husband,or girlfriend,or boyfriend,i dont care if you live with them,cause you want to put something in the back of there mind,sexually,so that when they get that urge,they will think about something you did,and try and do something out of the ordinary sometimes,that will most certainly leave something on there mind,if you a woman,suck his dick real good,maybe lick or suck his balls,to the point where you might decide hell im going to swallow this mans nut tonight,or give him some pussy in a different room,or a different position,or give him some asshole if you a real freak,or suck on him somewhere you never have,just do something to have him saying damn i need to see here,cause like i have said and stressed from day one when you close that door in the bedroom,anything should go,and making each other cum,by any means necessary should always be the goal,cause if its not then why the fuck should you be waisting each others time,cause i thought the point of sex was cumming,and enjoying the pleasure,and if you a man,you should be willing to lick any hole she wants,or let her cum in your mouth,or find her g.spot,kissing her a certain way,just do something to fuck her mind up,and make that pussy flow like aquafina, and if you willing to go the extra mile trust and believe there wont be to much in between time from the next sexual encounter and thats real talk.

Damn When Did Being in Your 40s Mean your Old"

You know i pride myself on looking good and feeling good for my age,but i see that people be calling people in the 40s old now,im like well damn,when did this happen,i was in the mall the other day at macys,and these young cats was talking,and they was like damn that nigga came to her birthday trying to look young with his old ass nigga like 42 i was damn they act like the nigga was 50.and then i was watching some show and they was like at the old man trying to stay in leauge at age 39 im like well damn am i missing something or has 50 become the new 40,is the new generation trying to make my generation the old geezers or what they got me fucked up cause you only as old as you feel and i be damn i f i feel like im ready for the rocking chair,shit i do more than the average,and i know most of my followers is the 35 to 40 plus crowd,so to my followers dont let this new generation lable you as old when have us is just a young,but wiser indeed.

Its Not the Price Of the Wedding That Matters,Its The Marriage"

You know i think that people nowadays get so caught up in wanting to have the most lavish,extravagant wedding, and having the baddest dress,and expensive venue,expensive food,most expensive ring,all of the above,but i think that they get so caught up in the wedding that they forget that the one day of happiness,is not going to guarantee a great marriage,its about so much more,and then you be having these people who be having these ice sculpture budgets,when they barely can afford popsicles,so all im saying its nothing wrong with having a beautiful wedding,im just saying dont get so caught up in that one day that you forget that the marriage is whats most important,i would take and average wedding for a marriage of a lifetime anyday,and thats real talk.

One Thing I hate Is Being Fake Around Phony People"

You know sometimes in life, you get put in a position,where you have to be fake around phony people,people who you know really dont like you,who are jealous of you,who envy you,and you try and keep the peace,because of other people,but one thing i have learned over there years if you a real nigga,who cant be fake your realness will come out if you are around a phony person,to long,and i cant stand a wannabe, or a fraud,or a person who wants to be more than what they are,just to put others down,so if you find your self being around phony people,and you feel you have to act a certain way,to keep the peace,my suggestion is just dont hang around those type of people,cause eventually if you keep doing it the situation is going to become uncomfortable for everyone involved, so all i can say is stay true to yourself,and be around people who keep it real and not a round phony people who dont have a clue on what it takes to be real.

Catifish MY Ass You Just And Insecure Bitch"

I dont know if you have ever watched the show catfish,but basically its people claiming to be somebody that there not,using social media sites to say there someone else just to get someones attention,using fake pictures,and and profiles,and thats not even the person,and what they do is play on other peoples emotions,to get them all in,because they not secure in there own skin ,and to me thats and insecure ass bitch,how the hell you going to use another persons profile,and pictures to say your somebody else,because you not happy with what god gave you,that is just sad ,and kind of sick,and demented because if a person is willing to change there whole personality,and face to try and lure someone into there life,then that right there should let you know they have a much bigger problem,and they might want to go get some serious help,so thats why i tell people,if you really dont know a person on these social sites,like facebook,or instagram,or twitter,then you better do your home work cause you could be falling victim to a sick insecure as person claiming to be someone there not and to me thats not catfish,thats and insecure ass person needing help.

Broken Promises"

You know in life,sometimes things dont always go as plan,i mean things come up,so sometimes people have to re adjust there plans,or reschedule and thats fine cause things happen,but one thing that is not cool is when you are constantly promising a child,or teen something,and never coming thru,i mean whether its taking them somewhere,or promising them a gift,or money,or whatever,a child can only take so many broken promises,cause eventually you sound like a broken record,and then a child will start to grow disinterested in anything that you say you are going to do,or if someone else tells them what there going to do,cause they have heard all the lies before,so all im saying is dont be one of those people who always break promises to there child,and never come thru,cause if you do that to your child they are going to grow up thinking everybody is full of shit when it comes to doing what they say and thats a terrible way for a person to be real talk.

A person Can Play There Part If they Knew There Role"

You know i hear this from a lot of women,and men that be complaining about a person not playing there part,or complaining about a person wanting to be more than what they are,or a person wanting to be there wife,or husband,or boyfriend,or girlfriend,My thing is if people would be honest with the person,and let them know what they really want,whether its a friend to talk to,or fuck buddy,or a husband,or a wife,or a girlfriend,or a boyfriend,just be straight up with the person and let the m know what role you want them to play in your life,then things would be a lot smoother,and then you wouldnt have all the drama,and confusion,cause if im not mistaken,a person can play there part,a lot better when they know there role,and thats real talk,cause if you got a person thinking they more than what they are,then you got a person all fucked up,and that aint right and thats real so all im saying is keep it real,and be a man,or a woman,and let the person you interested in know where you coming from from the jump and then things would be so much better from all parties concerned, it may not be the part they want to play,but its better to let them know instead of leading them on to think they gonna be bigger than what they are and thats real.

Motor City Blues"

You Know Im A life long Detroiter i lived in houston for about 7 years of my life,but the majority has been detroit where i was born, and everybody knows what is going on in detroit,and i have wrote about it for the past couple of years,and i must say everyday from the bankruptcy filed, to the crime,the shootings,and the police chief coming in and promising all this joe clark from lean on me type shit,but what he fails to realize,is this is not the detroit he left,and this is a whole new breed of individuals that he is dealing with,these young cats have no respect for anybody,they dont fear jail,and they dont fear a bullet,so if you dont fear those things then how the fuck you gonna clean up crime,with a city that is undermanned,and under budget,save that tough talk for tv,and im so sick of the kurupt politicians, and people running the city,if it aint the stealing of money,people trying to rig and election,only to be a mayor who basically answers to the emergency manager for now,i mean is detroit scared to have a white mayor who knows,but all i know the harder they try to keep him out the easier it is going to be for him to get in,and dont believe that shit about the governer being a republican,cause you can best believe white is white,and he would love to have a white mayor running detroit so dont be no fool, and its like everybody is trying to take advantage of detroit right now cause they know the city is in trouble so what people do they kick the city why its down,but i can tell you this it might not be in my lifetime but i truly feel that one day the city will rise and comeback to the city i once loved and can call home cause right now if it wasnt for the tigers,playing baseball i wouldnt have shit to be proud of in the city,and thats real talk cause the city is a mess its not safe,its disrespectful,and there is no unity. so all i can say is hopefully we as a city will rise as one to be a good city again sooner that later.

Hibernation Season Is Coming (People Beware LOL)

Well ladies,and gentlemen,its getting near the end of summer,the days are starting to get shorter,and fall is creeping close,and eventually the cold winter will be near,and so those very ratchet females,and no good niggas,who said they needed to find themselves oddly right around may, the beginning of summer,have decided that they want to settle down,find someone to watch movies with on cold winter nights,somebody to have in house pussy,or dick with for the winter,somebody to have for the holidays to get gifts from at christmas,and valentines day,and somebody to lay up with and tell you what you want to hear during oct nov,dec,jan,feb,mar,and april just to only say they feel the need for space in may,so all im saying to you ladies,and the fellas,is be careful who comes showing up at your day like a stray,or who finds you phone number out the blue,or who tries to befriend you on one of the social sites, just in time for hibernation season,cause thats usually the M.O, of a lot of people not everybody,cause you do have some who are really looking for love,but you have a lot of no good muthafuckas just looking for someone to kill time until it gets hot again,so im just telling my followers to be on the look out real talk cause hibernation season is coming.

I thought you was my nigga"

You know i have a plenty of associates,more than i care to mention,but i have only a certain amount of what i call true friends,so when i consider you a friend you got a friend for life,because im the type of friend who will give you whatever i can to help you,i will never ask for anything in return,but good friendship,i will open my door to feed my crew,i will have football parties,boxing parties,buddy trips,all that good shit,go to sporting events,make cds,for my dogs,whatever,i can cause if you my dog ,i got you,but all of a sudden i found out that a person i thought was my boy really wasnt a wannabe this nigga wanted to be me,he was acting like we was the best of friends,never being a real nigga i met you in 96 not knowing you was going to be a bitch cause the way you acted a real man never would have,and i had no idea until i found out you was pillow talking to your bitch,and you had no idea that your words would ever get back to me,but its cool cause now im done with you and i thought you was my nigga but i should have known the only real niggas i know piss standing up not squatting like a bitch, so my thing is to anybody who has a clique make sure that the crew thats hanging with you is there for you and not because they want to use you to be more than what they are,especially when they was a nobody until they met me and thats real talk.

Eating Pussy Good Takes Skills"

You know there are some women out here who have never came from oral stimulation,and its either they cant find the right person,who knows what he is doing,or they cant find the right person who is patient or talented enough to find there g.spot,And i say to you ladies,if you have man who is not willing to take his time to learn your body,then you waisting your time,cause if he dont want to know what makes your body tick,then the last thing you should be worrying about is pleasing his dick,real talk,and im a real nigga,and i have to tell it like it is,i mean every woman is different,just like every man is,but when laying a woman down,some women like you to caress there bodies,they might like having there backs rubbed or massaged,or they might like you to massage there inner thigh,or there ass,and im talking about taking your time,maybe kissing that spot on there neck,or on there back,and then kissing there lips and tongue,and then if there breast is a hot spot play with there nipples,and after all that forepaly before the oral play,then worrk your way down to the pussy,and if you have done some of those things before you put your head between there thighs,then your pussy should be nice and wet and seasoned for the tongue,so then as you start kissing the clit,and fingering the hole,then lick,and suck on that clit nice and soft,and then after you have licked and sucked the outer part of the pussy taste her inside hell if you a real one swallow her juices,and once you get that soft grip of your two lips on her pussy stroke that pussy with your two lips and your tongue,until she gets ready to cum,cream,or squirt,and when she does let her cum all in your face,and down your throat if you freaky enough,and if she is a multiple cummer stay down there until she pushes you away,and i guarantee if you did it right when you finish she gonna fuck the shit out of you, because she is going to be so fucking horny because if you got the skills her pussy will be begging for the dick,so fellas take the time to know your ladies,body so you can make her reach the peak she desires, real talk.

Hindsight Is 20/20

You know in life sometimes you may make decisions that will have a big impact on your life,that you might not recognize in the present but will affect you in the long run,and sometimes you may make decisions on impulse,instead of thinking them thru,and those decisions are sometimes hard to overcome,so what im saying to you my followers,and readers of my blog, is whenever you come face to face with having to make a serious decision in your life,think it thru,be willing to deal with the consequences of your decision,and make sure that you have no regrets,because hindsight is 20/20,and if you have any regrets,it can fucking eat you up inside,to the point that no one will be able to understand the torture or uneasiness you may feel from the decision you made on anything that is life changing,so all im saying is have a clear head and understanding on any decision you may have to ever make in life,cause most times once your decision is final,you have to be prepared to live with your choice whether it works out for the good or the bad.

Hated By Many Loved By Few Not Always A Good Way To Be"

I know you have people who say they dont give a fuck about how people feel about them,or judge them,and i get all of that,but when you are a person that gets into it with everybody from your own family,to friends,coworkers,associates,just everybody,to the point where you can count on your hands how many people actually like you,that has go to be a miserable way to live,and a miserable life indeed,i mean everybody not going to like you,and a lot of times who cares,but i think if you are not getting along with damn near everyone that crosses paths with you then your ass need to take a long look in the mirror and see what it is that you are bringing to the table as a human being,and maybe you might want to change your ways,but a lot of times like they say you cant teach and old dog new tricks,some people as they get older just get stuck in there ways,so they dont want to change,so if that is the case and your the type of person who is hated by many,and loved by few,i say you should just save the funeral home,and the church money,and just go cremate your self,or have your funeral in a very small room cause when you hated by so many you can best believe the last thing people going to want to do is pay you respects,and thats real talk.

Who Did You Vent To Before Facebook"

You know i have written about this topic before,but i must say i have to quickly address this topic again,why is it that when people get into it with people,why do they have to address the person on facebook,especially when half the time the person they need to be addressing personally,is not even on facebook,or why is it that when people have and issue on facebook they want to air out all there dirty laundry,but get mad when a person puts there 2 cents in,my thing is when you open up your doors to let out your business,dont get mad when people want to come in and give there opinion,thats just the way it is,so my advice toanybody is never air your business out on a social site,somethings should remain personal,i mean damn what the hell did you do before there was facebook,i know what you did,you picked up the damn phone,and you called the person you had beef with or you met them in person face to face,cause i think personally when you have people who call other people out on a social site,its because most of the time they really scared bitches who only want to seem tuff,and be and internet gangster,or you have those are so lonely and so insecure that they need attention from practically strangers they have never met to make themselves feel secure,and that right there is a damn shame,but unfourtunately is so many insecure needing attention weak minded people out here that they have to broadcast there beefs,there loneliness and all there business that should be kept private cause they have no life,no heart,and no dignity and thats real talk,and its sad but true indeed.

Out of Sight Out Of Mind Not Always"

You know the old saying says that when you have a lover male or female,and you may not see that person that much eventually you will drift apart,and that person you were involved with sexually will become a thing of the past,and a distant memory, and most of the time that is true,unless you were a person who left there mark,and when i say left your mark,i mean lets say from the female point of view,you did something to him that had his toes curling,you sucked his dick so good that it made his eyes roll back in his head when he came,or you gave him some asshole,and let him cum in your asshole,or you kissed him and fucked him so good that he was screaming your name when he came,if you was that good and you left your mark,no matter how much out of mind or out of sight he will eventually get back to you if you are in just a sexual relationship,cause you put your mark on that person,and as far as the guys point of view, if you a man who was eating her pussy so good that made her so wet when she came from your tongue,she wont forget you,if you a person who stroke her nice and long,and was the freak she wanted in bed with no hang ups,she wont forget you,if you was the man who would lick and suck her asshole and didnt mind getting freaky and dirty,then trust me you might be out of sight but i be damn if you will ever be out of her mind and thats real.

2013 Racism Is Still In Full Effect"

You know i have to keep writing about racism,cause everyday, you keep hearing about some form of racism,and i get so fucking tired of the white media,and the black uncle toms who have been thrown a bone by white society that things are getting better,no shit is not getting better its just getting much more sneakier and the fact that here in 2013 we have incidents like yesterday adam jones, a black baseball player for the baltimore orioles was just doing his job in centerfield,and some white coward ass muthafucka threw a banana on the field like he some kind of monkey, thats the kind of shit im talking,about,and i hate when some white people say i have black friends whipty fucking do,i dont want to hear that shit,im not saying that all white people are racist,not at all,but what im saying is people need to wake the fuck up cause to a lot of white people you just another nigga,look at oprah winfrey she worth 77 billion dollars,and this white bitch in switzerland tells her she cant afford a $38000 dollar bag,cause she didnt know who oprah was thats besides the point she just saw color,and then you have a rodeo that dresses up a man in a obama mask to be trampled what kind of shit is this its bad enough you disrespecting the president of the united states,but you also showing your racism,so as long as i have a voice to connect with over 4 million visitors to my blog i will always address the racism that exist in this country every fucking time im going to speak my peace,and oh yeah fuck george zimmerman even though the white media has wanted to sweep it under the rug we as black people have not forgotten you got away with killing trayvon martin you punk ass bitch real talk.

Never Brag On Your Sex game Let Your Action Speak For Themself"

You know the worst thing you can do is brag on your sex game to someone who you may have and interest in,Because what you may have done with someone else in your past might not do the same for someone in your present,because everybody is different,if your woman you might like a man who knows how to find your g spot,or a man who can eat your pussy for a long time,or a man who can eat your pussy fast,and make you cum with his tongue,and his dick,or you might like a man to stroke you a certain kind of way,or you might want a man who is a total freak,so what im saying is even if you may have been the shit in your past in the bedroom,you could be just a regular ordinary fuck to the next man,and for the guys the same go for you never brag on how good you can fuck,let the new woman decide whether you the shit,and if you are no need to brag cause a real nigga that can bring it in the bedroom lets his actions speak for him,or at least lets the woman do the talking for him,cause how you may have fucked or made love to a woman in the past,is no guarantee they you will be so successful in your next encounter with someone new,so all im saying is never write a check your ass cant cash,cause if you do just like a bad check you will get bounced and thats real.

Once A person Loses Interest 9 times out of ten you shit out of luck"

You know im going to make this short and sweet,if you have gotten a persons attention,and you have gotten the person to really like you,then the one thing, you can never do unless you dont plan on keeping the person around,is take that person for granted,or to stop doing what you did in the first place to get that person attention cause once you dothat its makes it much easier for someone else to grab there attention,and the worst thing you can do is have a person lose interest in you,cause once a person does,its hard really hard to get them back interested especially when they have many options,and i think thats what happens a lot of times people get a person in,but they dont know how to keep them sure you can throw the rod in the lake,and maybe pull in the fish,but after you get the fish,do you know how to clean it,and cook it. The point to my metaphor, is this you cant always expect that a person will be so taken with what you have done to get them or that your sex game is so good that you know they will always be around,that you can text them,or call them,or sex them,or take them out when you want,and not expect that door to slide open for someone new,thats just keeping it real so if you got someone,that you like or love,dont slack off,cause its always someone waiting to take your spot for whatever and thats real talk enjoy your weekend from the truth.

The Grass Not Always Green On The Other Side"

You Know sometimes people think that when there going thru a little rift,or misunderstanding with there mate male,or female,they tend to want to test the waters,and think that they wont miss that person they been with for so long,thinking that the grass is greener with someone else because of what a person who likes tells you what they will do to you,or for you,but what you have to look at sometimes,and i know everybody situation is different,that the person you with might just need a little fertilizer on that grass and also you might need to just spice things up,and sometimes thats all it takes,but if you just say fuuck it and think im going to find someone new,and they going to slove all your problems,then in some cases that might be true,but i have seen a lot of cases where the people have made a serious mistake,and once you cross over to some ones elses lawn,and it might not be as green as you thought,that lawn you left might be dead to you with no sunshine at all to make it grow again,and thats real talk,so all im saying make sure you try and exhaust all avenues in the relationship before you make that step and thats real talk.

Homie Lover Friend"

You know every now and then i get a request to write about certain things on my blog,and sometimes i do,sometimes i dont,but if its a good story,and its true then yes i will accept the story,and write about it,so im about to write about two friends who crossed the friendship line,but thru it all they were able to continue to be friends,and that is not easy for a lot of people who cross that line because a lot of times feelings get involved people who cross that line can never have there friendship again,but you also have people like erica, and paul, paul and erica were good friends who had a very good friendship from day one almost like a brother and sister friendship,so they would always talk to each other play around with each other,just got a long real good from day one,and paul always thought erica was sexy,but he never crossed that line,so after years of being just great friends,one day erica,and paul decided to go out to eat for dinner and drinks,and they was just hanging out,and so after some good eating and drinks,they headed home,so paul walked erica to the door,and they was laughing and cracking jokes,and so when paul reached over to give erica a hug,they end up kissing and it was a good kiss so they both laughed and was shocked cause they had never been this way with each other before,so paul left and erica said good night, so after the date they started looking at each other different so then they end up hanging out again later,but this time they got some drinks and they was drinking and laughing at the holiday inn and then after drinking they started kissing and before you know it paul started sucking on ericas tittys,then he started eating her pussy,and he was eating her pussy good,and after eating her pussy for nice while then they started fucking and he fucked her real nice long and strong,and then after fucking and making each other cum,they drinked some more,and then paul bent erica over,and fucked her in the ass and he came in her ass,and for most of that night they end fucking and bustin 6 or 7 nutts it was like they just clicked and they was meant for each other,and eventually erica taught paul how to eat her pussy to the point that she would squirt and wet the bed and she came all in pauls face,so there sex was the bomb,and there friendship was the bomb so after a nice while of fucking and sucking and enjoying each having a great time,they both started to drift away,and eventually the sex stopped,and they bot h ended up marrying someone,but the friendship didnt end because these to people where mature,and on there grown up shit,and they were able to stay friends,and to this day are still friends who probably pick right up where they left off in the bedroom if they both didnt have partners now,but like i said these two people erica and paul are true homie lover friends,who were able to still be friends in spite of there relationship being sexual everybody cant be that way its all about the individuals,and how you channel your feelings and thats real talk.

Anybody Can make A Living But How About Having A Life"

Now I will be the first to tell you there is nothing wrong with wanting to make money,who doesnt love money,But if all you have is your job,And no life outside of your job,then to me all you are doing is making a living,and not truly enjoying what life has to offer, i mean when you dead and gone,can you take the money with you, no of course not,so what im saying is dont let your job consume you to the point where you look up and realize that you have no woman,or a man,no social life,nobody to share your money with,and nobody to go on trips with,or go out to dinner with or anything,cause i know plenty of people who are married to there jobs,and one thing anybody knows about me is i make the job the job has never made me,im all about getting my paper,but i choose to get it,and use it to have fun,and just absorb all that life has to offer,so that when i do get old,i can look back and say damn i did the dam thing i lived my life to the fullest,and just being able to say i did damn near everything i wanted to do,and was not just tied down to punching a clock every day with nothing to show for it,but being broke down,and alone,and having a big bank account with no one to share it with is not in my DNA,and its not going to be in my daughter cause im going to continue showing her that yes you want to work hard,and make good money,but its not just about that its about so much more,and thats just my take on it live your life,make your money,but enjoy your money real talk.

Dont play With A Good WomanS Feelings For One Who Aint Shit"

Im going to make this one short and quick and to the point,if you in a serious relationship,and you start having problems the worst thing you can do is start telling a female that might like you all your problems,especially when all she wants to do is secretly break up your relationship,oh sure she might have you to believe that she really is concerned about you,but on the inside she is plotting to break up your relationship,and if you have told her things that your girl may not do as far as sexually,or mentally,or even in some case financially such as material things,then you need to watch how she is operating,cause yeah she may start giving you the attention you have missed,or buying you nice things,and giving you great sex,sucking your dick like never before,or asshole,or doing multiple sex things and shit like that,what you have to remember is what you and the woman who was so good to you before may just be going thru some things,or taking you for granted,but dont just buy all the goods that the other person is selling you just because she telling you what you want to hear,and doing what you told her your girl was doing,cause if you start buying those goods,and forget what you had,and what you had was a good woman,and you lose her for this woamn who only intentions was to steal you away just to say she could,then you might get burned by a scorned woman who not only may not want you any more,but she is going to give someone else all the good things you used to get bigger and better than you ever got,so niggas need to think before they sink sometimes,and thats real cause i have seen it happen to much lately and thats real talk.

Check The Family Before You Get To Serious Indeed"

You know when you are dating someone male or female,and you really start liking a person,people will say if you love them that is all that matters,i will say to you thats bullshit if you looking to settle down with that individual, now if you just looking to have fun,date,or just have a sexual encounter,then thats different cause this dont pertain to you,but if you looking to marry this person then you better do your homework,and check out the female,or males family that you looking to become part of your family,and im not saying that its about thinking you better than anyone,but if for instance you meet a woman and she got ray ray,or peanut and them always getting into shootouts,or bringing bad things to your girls home,or always in some extra ghetto activity,then you need to say do i really want to bring this family into yours,especially if you live a certain type of way,now if you ghetto and dont give a fuck then thats cool,or if you a woman and you meet a man who got sisters name moet,and alize,and hennessy and they always getting into shit,and bring bullshit to your mans house or always having your man defending they trifiling ass then you need to think twice before you gewt serous with this person especially if every time you look around you sitting in a court room instead of barbeques and nice family outings,all im saying is that when you marry someone,or get real serious with someone,you cant exclude there family cause thats there family,and if they got a  ghetto ass dont give a fuck family then you either gonna have to accept it,or be prepared for and quick visit to divorce court and thats real talk,cause families will break up a good union indeed so its just something to think about so do your home work indeed especially if you come from a totally different upbringing and way of life.

Do We Matter"

You know i know its 2013,and people say its better for black people as far as racism goes,and to some degree it is i mean we have a black president,we have better jobs in the pros as far as sports go,and we have more black people with nice homes in nice neighborhoods and nice jobs,but even though we have all these things going for us,we still have so much farther to go,and to me personally not in my lifetime will things ever not be black and white, i mean look at the trayvon martin case,and how they let george zimmerman get away with murder,its funny how the media,just bounce on to the next story,as if we are supposed to forget that a 17 year old unarmed black man was killed and no justice was served,also then you have a white average at best football player riley cooper who plays for the philadelphia eagles at a country music singer kenny chesney concert talking about what he will do to niggers,and i say niggers plural to a black security guard and all he gets is a fine,and he back on the team,and dont give me that im sorry shit,he not sorry he just sorry he got caught im tired of the im sorry speeches after these racist punks get caught saying what they say all the time behind closed doors,but its a one sided world we live in its black and white,and you have a lot of white people who truly love black people,but you got far to many who steal have the hate in there heart,and if you dont belive me then i got some swamp land to sell you and thats real talk dont think shit is all honkey dory and thats real cause its not and when will we matter and have a voice i really dont know.its sad but true.

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