You Should Never Have To Beg Your Lover For attention"

You know the purpose of being in a relationship,is to have someone that you can spendtime with,quality time,have mindblowing sex,trying freaky sexual things with,hang out together,have conversation with,dinners,movies,traveling,all the above,but if you feel that you have to beg or always ask for things such as there time,or you feel you having to beg to see them,then its obvious you are no longer a priority,you are becoming and option,and people use options as a way to take a person for granted and that aint right,so if you feel that you with someone who not living up to what you need or desire,then you know what to do,or at least you should know what to do,you either talk to that person be firm and let them know you aint fucking around and let them know they not leaving up to your needs,and if they dont listen,or keep doing the same thing then you move on its that simple and know need to bring another party in the mix you just either work it out,or you eliminate that person from your life,and trust me if they have made you and option instead of a priority,9times out of ten they have already moved on,you just took awhile to notice,real talk.

Diabetes Its Real

You know over a year ago i experienced something i had never dealt with before,one night i went to bed and i could not stop pissing i mean i pissed every 20 minutes,and at the time i thought i got a kidney infection,so i started drinking cranberry juice,and trying to shake it,not knowing there was a more serious problem going on then after that i started losing my vision,everything far away was blurry to me,so i went to the doctor,now mind you i have never had any serious medical problems,so when i get to the doctor my sugar is almost 400 so im like what the hell so i find out i have type 2 diabetes,and so i had to change my eating habits,lose weight walk and exercise,i was weighing 296 pounds i went from 296 to 250 i had a 46 pound weight drop in just 40 days so it can be done,and then people around started getting diagnosed with type 2 diabetes,and so what im saying to you is i have found out that there is over 3 billion americans who have type 2 diabetes and dont even know it because they dont go to the doctor regular like i used to,so they go undiagnosed so i just want my black people to go to the doctor getting tested,and if you are one,exercise changed there eating habits,cause having diabetes is no joke,who wants to have to prick there self everyday if they dont have to,so thats just a thought i wanted to share with you today.

You Never Know What A person Is Going Thru"

You know a lot of times people judge people from what they see on the outside,not knowing that the person they may think has it going on,can really be going thru a lot of shit,that is why i never judge a book by its cover,matter of fact i dont judge people period,cause only god can judge you,its so many people out here who sem like they have the perfect life,that if you really dont know the person then you dont know if they our putting on a facade or really happy at all sometimes people be on these social sites and they put up these images of having the fancy house the fancy car, the great relationship,they going to all the happening things,and traveling,and everybody be like wow,when a lot of times in the reality these same people posting all these pictures,and comments might be losing there homes,or having a health crisis,or lonely with out a man or woman,or not even have any finances,so all im saying is just be real i hate people who fake the funk and cant just be your self,if you have to lie to have people think highly of you or to give your self esteem some fake status,then you really do belong on fakebook or as i call it facebook island where you can be anyboy you want to be,and thats real cause the reality that i live in is the real world where everyday is a muthafucking struggle,you gonna have a good days,and your gonna have bad ones,and people need to be more thankful of the things they do have like a roof over there head,a car to drive,and last there family and health,those things to me our more important than trying to be something your not or drawing a fanbase on instagram,or facebook or twitter or in real life,just be you and the chips will fall where they may.

Aint Shit in The Streets

You know when you young in your teens you try to be into any and everything,and then when you get into your twenties you want to hang like wet clothes,go to clubs,parties,meet different people,and then you get in your thirtys,and then you start finding yourself,and the things you doing are not as fun anymore thats because you start wanting to do other things,like travel,or get married,just settle down,and then when you get in your forties,most people want to be settled down,and not be in the streets every night,and just find that one they can spend time with,and have that other half,because really there aint shit in the streets but a one way ticket to either jail,or getting shot and killed these days,or be called the old bitch in the club,or the old nigga still trying to be down,im not saying you cant go hang with your friends you grew up with or friends in your age range,im just saying trying to do what you did in your younger days,in your mid forties,it comes a time to fall back and settle down a little or a lot real talk.

The Grass Not Always Greener on The Other Side.

You know A lot of times people think that the grass is greener on the other side,but a lot of times its not,what problems you may have at home,or in a relationship,may seem major at that point in time,but if you sometimes,talk it out,communicate with the person,sometimes what you thought could not be fixed,really wasnt that hard to fix,at all,and you know people used to say you can know somebody for some years,but meet someone knew and feel like you been knowing them all your life,and people get caught up in the rapture,and think they in love,and really its just lust,and infatuation with the person,but what you have to look at is once all that lust and shit fades what do you have,do you have a person thats going not change,not get bored,love you for you,and have no desire to be with someone,and not change,thats what you have to look at,so that person who had your back,all that time,who loved you for you,who might have taken you for granted,but they never changed,sometimes you can find that all you needed was some fertilizer on that grass you had,and that grass you thought was greener was really artificial and thats real talk,so for people who think that what they have is not worth saving then ok cool let it go,but trust and believe you better be prepared to join a mass of people who are alone,or be with someone who you think is the real deal,who you really dont know,so all im saying is do your homework,cause otherwise you might end up with someone you who might not be there for the long haul.

No When To Fall Back"

You know a lot of times when people be in a relationship,they get comfortable,or they start taking the person they with for granted,and then in return the things they used to do for that person,or the way they made that person feel is not a priority any more,sometimes they dip out because they get bored.So they think they can find some one else exciting,not realizing that what they had was exciting enough,but the worst part is when people start feeling themselves so much that they think that all they have to do is do a little to satisfy the person they with,but what im saying to people who find themselves in relationships where they see a change has come,and they choose to become and option instead of a priority,what you need to do is fallback read the writing on the wall,and realize that either someone new has come along,or the person you with who was all in has gotten bored,and no matter what you do or say is not going to change anything,so either you can choose to deal with being treated different from the way you once was or fall the fuck back and find somebody who will appreciate what you have to offer its that simple.

Everybody Needs Somebody"

You know its been awhile since i have wrote about this topic or any other topic,but i got to say if you are single,and thats what you want thats great i can respect that,but what i dont like is the people who try and act like they dont need nobody and dogging people who are in happy relationships,just cause that mr or miss right hasnt come along for you yet,i mean its some miserable muthafuckas out here i mean its like they wake and get on these social media sites and just bash men,or women,cause a few bad apples have fucked them up mentally and sometimes physically,my thing is there is somebody for everybody,and eventually you will find that person,and when you do i guarantee you change your tune,and then you have those who just love being by themselves,and i respect those more than the ones who just hate on those who have found love,so that is why i dont fuck with negative people cause negativity is not even and option in my life i surround myself by positive people who can uplift me,and dont just close the book on a happy ending,let me tell you a quick story of a special friend and a woman who is like a sister to me,she was married at a young age,and her husband died,and for years she just dated,but was single for years,nothing serious,and she never dogged people who had someone,and she never was biter even with the knuckleheads she dated who wasnt shit,but guess what her knight an shining armor came into her life on sept 2 2012,and she married him and she is happy as hell and she is a prime example cause she lived by herself for years but now she has a companion and she told me she is happier than she has ever been so like i said people who choose to be miserable thats on you,but those that our single,and our positive people you ,might be some assholes along the way,but never let a no good nigga ruin your spirits,cause when that person that is right for you comes along you will know,and that is real talk.

Vote Or Die"

You know its kind of funny to me how a lot of republicans,and white america, act like when obama was elected that he didnt inherit nothing but a healthy economy and everything was just great in the white house and in america,man get the fuck out of here with all the bullshit,because thats just what it is bullshit,and if you vote for romney yand you is part of the middle america,or the poor you is a stupid as person,cause if you are one of those people who feel like obama has not changed anything then wait for romney to come in and see what he does for your ass,cause trust me he got something for your ass believe that cause the poor gonna get cut off of more public assistance,headstart programs will be a thing of the past,the rich will get richer,and any,or everything that helps black america will be tinkered with believe that shit,so i dont have to knock you upside the head and tell you that on nov 6 voting is even more important now than it was 4 years ago,so i just hope the lazy ass people get up off they ass and vote cause obama is going to need every last vote real talk.

Sexual Chemistry"

You know a lot of times women and men have a problem performing in the bedroom,because the chemistry might be off,a lot of times if the vibe is not right then the ultimate goal if climaxing,and cumming will not happen,and if the chemistry is right then you talking about a couple of people who whenever they laydown between those sheets,sparks will fly,let me tell you about tommy,and keisha,tommy was really feeling keisha and even though they had never hooked up,they had flirted thru text messages,and thru social sites,but they had never hooked up,then one day they finally met,and it was awkward at first,but after they relaxed,and got comfortable,the vibe was right because tommy had got keisha mind with his words,and if you can capture the mind then the sex is secondary,so they went up to tommys place,and tommy started kissing keisha as soon as they were alone in his house,and then he started kissing and caressing her neck,so then he helped her undress,and he was sucking and licking her breast,and her nipples,and so she was extra wet so then he went down and started eating her pussy,and sucking and licking her clit like it was swedish fish,to the point she couldnt take it and she came multiple times in tommys face,juices everywhere all in tommys beard,so then she pulled tommys pants off,and started sucking his dick until it was hard as a missle,and then tommy inserted his dick inside her sugarwalls and fucked her nice and slow with deep long strokes until she came again,and then he flipped her over layed on her stomach and stroked the pussy until she came and he came at the same damn time and after they bust nuts they layed there talked laughed,and then they was fucking some more off and on in different positions for the rest of the night until dawn and the reason why they clicked cause the chemistry was perfec and keisha had already been mindfucked by tommy so the rest was easy for him.

Do You"

You know what i hate more than anything is when a person always sits back and worries about what the next person is doing my thing is why waste time and energy trying to do what the next person is doing,and you cant,thats whats wrong with a lot of people they will go broke trying to impress a muthafucka who really could care less about what you are doing,my advice to you is just do you dont worry about what a person may thin of you or what somebody might say just do you and everybody will be happy cause one thing about me im always going to do me,one monkey has never stopped my show never has an never will real talk.

Confidence Is The Sexier Than A Body part"

You know a lot of times people get sex appeal misunderstood with a person having a big ass,or big titties,or a phat pussy,or sexy lips,a lot of times a woman can have all that and not know how to use them body parts correctly,sometimes if a woman is confident in her sex game,and she is a great lover,hell she can have a small lips,or small tits,or a small ass,but if she is confident she caould possibly be the most sensual sexy lover ever,so to me there is nothing more sexier than a confident sexy woman,and if she is confident and has the body parts,plus a great lover then thats a plus,but not a neccesity to me its all in the individual and if that person can bring that loving to the bedroom and get the job done a lot of times people will over look the big ass,big tits,big whatever because its not always about all that is about sensuality and the love making real talk.

Just cause you not happy Dont Hate"

You know its crazy when you have a friend or family member that has found true love and happiness,and yet someone who is supposed to be close to them is hating because there life is fucked up,my thing is why not just embrace the happiness that your friend or family member is having,and what your turn for true happiness,but no you cant because your a hater,and there are so many unhappy haters out here its not even funny,and what gets me is how a person is going to tell you who you should be with,or who they thought you should be with im like bitch please dont nobody pick love,love finds its way in all shapes and sizes,whether the person is fat,tall,old young,ugly,whatever as long as that person makes the other person smile and feel good,then thats all that matters,and for people who can accept when a person tell you they happy and you still want to hate then you aint no fucking friend you just a bitch nigga who is miserable as fuck and wants the next man to feel just like you,and i can tell you im one nigga who has never been a follower got damn it im a trendsetter so beauty is in the eyes of the beholder not no bitch nigga hell you chose your life,so either deal with it or do something about it,but dont be a hater cause its not a good look.

Vote Or Die 2012"

You know as november gets closer and closer i hope that americans get out and vote especially my fellow african americans,because if you thought 2008 was important you aint seen nothing yet,i truly feel that in 2008 we had the perfect combination,obama was a young up and coming candidate that was articulate and bright,and then you mcain who was old boring,and he had a dumb bimbo like sarah palin as his running mate,so thats how obama got in,in spite of 83 million americans not voting,but this year the republicans are going to run a smear campaign and its up to us to make sure that mitt romney and ryan his running mate dont sniff the white house cause if they do shit is going to get even rougher for people,and for those who dont or wont vote then i say just shut up deal with the hand your served cause you are a non muthafucking factor.

GooD Guys Finish Last When They make There woman Cum First"

You know they always say that good guys finish last,thats the old saying well my take on that is i would rather be a good guy when it comes to the bedroom,especially if it means making your woman cum first before you do,cause as i have said time and time again if you can make your woman cum from your tongue,and your dick before you even bust your first nut,then you can best believe that she is going to return the favor even better because just making that monkey get off her back is enough for her to want to suck the skin off your dick,and then let you fuck her in all kinds of postions,so to my fellas out here and listen good,take the time to know your ladies body,and when you do make sure you make her cum first before you do,so that you can have a smile on your face just like she will cause you dont want to be known as the man who can make his woman finish the race,cause if you cant finish the job the clean up man will real talk.

Everything isnt Meant For Social Media"

You know i used to think because people were young and dumb that they would be on social media sites telling all there business and just like in high school they would say im single,or two days later i got a boyfriend,or i got a girlfriend,or im engaged,or im married its like what the fuck when you do this it comes across as you being and attention whore,or your social life is unstable,i mean older people in there 30s and 40s be doing this shit its like if your shit is changing daily like this then just keep it to yourself cause all you are doing is welcoming people to talk shit about you,and say thing s like damn they cant keep a man or a woman its like remember this is aare social sites,and whatever personal business you put out everyone is there to see and talk about your status so just think before you post your personal business should not be everybody elses unless you just dont give a fuck.

Fellas Get Your Act together"

One thing About carl the truth just how i talks about the women,i will talk about the men,im and equal oppourtunity person when it comes to blame,and what im about to say to my dogs out here,you always saying you want a good woman,and you ready to settle down with one woman,then do that,find that woman who you are going to want to spend time with,who is going make you happy,who is going to be there for you,to make you laugh,share your ideas,and plans with,and grow with,and once you find that person,then give her all your love,time,and commitment and then love here the way you want to be loved,and do her right,and then you will have that women you been looking,for,im not talking about finding a woman in the bars,or clubs,and shit,im talking so much more,im talking about woman who is ready to settle down give you her all,and not be on the bullshit of wanting to still be with other niggas,and just wants to ne with you,so if you find that woman do her right and trust me everything that you have been looking for will come to lite for you,real talk.

SHe not happy being your bridesmaid"

Now let me tell you what im about to write about i have wrote about plenty times,but for some reason this topic seems to surprise people who end up in this situation,i dont care if you have been friends with a woman for years,sometimes not all the time,when a woman finds true happiness,and gets married,there best friend sometimes will show there true colors if they have not found mr right,they will start to act funny,not be as joyous,feel like they are about to be all alone,try and tell you shit about your husband,and the reality is they cant tell you shit about yours,and you should not let them tell you shit about yours,especially if they aint married,because a lot of times that so called advice,is actually the wrong advice to break up your happy home and be back single just like there asses,so when you hear that word from people it must be nice,sometimes it could be sincere but a lot of times that shit is some bull for real,cause its to many bridesmaids,and not enough actual brides,and you can best believe,maybe not all women but a lot of them prefer to find there knight and shining armour real talk.

Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you.

You know the old saying goes when you have finally found that special someone that is completely different than what you are used to having,you need to do the things that got you that person to keep them,sometimes people take for granted the simple things in life,the little things like caring,romance,love,affection,a lot of people take for granted of these little things cause they get caught up in the material things in life and dont realize you can have all the money,and material things but it dont mean shit if you dont have anybody thats truly down for you to share it with and thats real.And what people fail to realize is there are so many lonely people out here especially women cause they out number the men cause most of the black men are in jail,dead,or gay,so the ones that are left are out numbered and so its plenty of women for men to choose from,but what people dont want to do is just settle,so when you find that special someone that you can share your life with you hold on to it,and dont take it for granted cause thats the easiest way to send that good man to someone who will waiting with open arms,and i have sen it time and time again,so all im saying is cherish what you got cause if you dont someone else will.

Pleasing the pussy"

Sometimes I dont think a lot of men know how to make there woman cum,i dont think they are willing to take the time out to make her cum,not willing to have the patience to make the pussy drip,and to me that is selfish,and down right wrong,because whats the purpose if you cant or wont at least try to make that woman have her ultimate goal,and thats cum,especially if your lady is oragsmic make her have that feeling i have said it time and time again if you can make your woman or wife cum,then you will be rewarded because that is a filling that she will treasure,especially if you can make her cum with your tongue,and your dick oh you batting a thousand then,put her legs back and taste her clit,and her juices,and her asshole,and whatever she nneds you to lick,and suck to make her cum,and then if you are able to find her spot,and make her cum,then put that dick inside her and stroke her pussy and make her cum until she has multiple orgasms,or one big orgasm,shit you will be the man,and she will love that you took the time out to please her body,and im sure that a happy wet pussy will be sure and happy to please your dick so fellas take the time to do the jobe with your lady and make thats pussy cum just like that.

Real love is hard To Find"

You know i could write about this topic for so long that my page would be completely filled,but im going to be short and brief,if you have someone who you love,who makes you happy you hold on to that person you dont run them away,you dont make them feel unwanted or underappreciated,cause one persons trash is someone elses treasure,and what people fail to realize its to many people especially women,because the women out number the men,that are out here searching for what everybody at the end of the day is looking,for and that is true love,real love,so if you have someone who you love,and you know that your shit is real all you have to do is validate that love sometimes,do things to make that person feel special,let them know you love them tell them sometimes,dont just always go with the flow,cause when you do that a person whether its female or male will start to feel like you dont care,and all the shit and image you may portray to the people on the outside like you got the perfect love,that shit dont mean nothing if the perso who lays next to you every night is not feeling the love,real talk,its not about money or what you can do for a person,its about words,affection,romance,love,those things are priceless but they go a long way in validating a relationship,not saying you have to do all the time but got damn at least show your man,your woman,your wife, your husband whoever that they are important,so that they will feel it where it counts the most in there heart.

Where you Look You Shall find.

You know a lot of times women say they want a man, a good man a gentlemen,but yet they go to the wrong places trying to find a man,up in the clubs and bars trying to find your husband,not saying it cant happen but the odds are against you,most of the time all you going to find in places like that is a man trying to fuck you fo the night or for a little while,so you meet the guy thinking your pussy and your ways going to make him change,but once it doesnt do what you expected,or wanted it to do,you are now calling the same guy you was in love with,or crazy about on facebook saying he aint shit,or on twitter dogging him out,or telling your friends he aint shit,my thing is you should have not had your expectations so high,especially when you going in a club,or bar trying to find mr right,cause 9 times out of 10 you in the wrong place looking for the wrong thing,so all im saying is let love find you,or at least go to places where you might find that special someone who is looking for more than just getting a piece of ass real talk.

Watch Yo Kids Sometimes"

You Know my biggest pet peeve is parents who always taking there kids over other people house,and parents who dont spend no time with there kids,but get upset when there kids turn out to be fucked up, i mean what do you expect if you not raising your kids,you always in the streets,or in the club,or hanging out,how do you expect them to respect you when you never around,whats wrong with sitting your ass down and spending some quality time with your kids,thats all im saying,its ok to party and bullshit sometimes,but not all the time,so dont be asking what happen to him or her,or saying they were a good kid when your ass wasnt evening hardly there to raise them,you wanted a kid so damn it raise them you should have thought about fun and shit before you had them.

Giving Thanks On This Day"

You know people dont realize as you get older each year that you have a birthday,the older you get its not about the material things such as gifts,and cards,and trips,and parties,that matter its about being able to wake up on this day knowing that god has giving me another year on this earth,its about waking up having a great family,and friends in your life,its about the little things that you come to appreciate,like walking,talking,breathing,just being able to have your health to enjoy life thats whats important to me,so on this day june 24 2012, i want to give thanks for god allowing me to see another birthday with my health intact,and no matter what worries life bring your way nothing is as precious or valuable than being able to see this day So im going to enjoy this day to the fullest.

You Wanted A thug So deal with it"

You know what kills me,is when women say they want a guy who is a gentlemen,or a man who knows what he wants,not a street nigga,but yet they want a little swag,and they say the regular man is not exciting enough,well my thing is if you want that then go for it,just be prepared for the end results cause its not going to be what you think,all the time,hell most of the time,You get these street niggas who dont have time for you,who will get your ass pregnant,and still be in the streets,and your ass at home watching his one or two or three kids he got you on lockdown,and he either running around all times of the night,or he end up in jail,but remember it was exciting it was what you wanted,you just didnt look at the big picture,you thought that thug that swag that fast money would last forever,you thought your pussy was going to slow him down not knowing that you was just his bottom bitch,and he was always going to chase that paper just like he would be chasing the new pussy the new bitch for him,so you stupid women who want a street nigga,at least think before you make that move cause it aint no future except for the picture i just showed you on my page real talk.

Haters Gonna Hate"

Well let me be the first to say i told you so,i said that it was lebrons time,and he got focused he let the haters drive him to victory,and now the haters can go jump in a lake right next to all the cleveland haters,lebron played at and mvp level,he got his teamates involved time,and time again,and for that the miami heat is nba champions for 2012,and i am so happy i cant stop smiling cause never in all my years have i seen such hatred for one man who is just a basketball player very likeable guy who plays hard and does it the right way so to all his haters fuck you,to all of the cleveland fans fuck you,and to the lebron fans,and miami heat fans lets raise that glass and salute your team cause we here and we aint going nowhere please believe it.

Be A Father To Your Child"

You know on my old blog before it was taken down,i had wrote about this topic,so im going to refresh this topic for my new followers,I was a child who didnt have my real father in my life,he and my mom broke up when i was little,so i hardly knew him,so fathers day was not really a big day in my home,and a lot of young boys would use that as and excuse to get out of hand and rebel,but me and my brothers we didnt do that,because we had strong woman figures in our lives,we had my mother,my grandmother,and my great grandmother, and my great aunt,so we had strong black women to show us right from wrong,and how to be a man,and how to treat a woman,so i said to myself that it was his lost because he missed out on raising 3 fine boys who became men,and i also said that when i got grown,and had a child of my own,that i would be there for them,raise them,and let them know no matter what they had there daddy there,and im not talking about just materialistic things,im talking spending that quality time together,watching tv,going on field trips,teaching them how to ride a bike,going to amusement parks together,i wanted to be not just a provider for my child,but also and influence,a presence,and give her one on one time,so many men have these kids,and they either dont claim them,or dont spend time with them,nothing,and that is sad because a lot of kids espeically in the black community go thru life without no father,and they accept that as a way of life,well today i am saying to you fathers out here get up off your ass and raise your kids,dont expect to be saluted on this day when you dont deserve it cause a real father raises his kids anybody can bust a nut and make a child but it takes a real man to raise them real muthafucking talk cause this is a sour subject with me,cant nobody tell me about raising my child,and i just laugh at some of these fuck niggas cause they so funny claiming they real daddys when they hardly spend a minute if that with there kids,so once again be a father to your child.

Daddys Little Girl"

You know 10 years ago my life changed forever i was guy who was by himself,and to be honest never really thought about having kids,but all that changed on march 7 2002 when god gave me my bundle of joy,a little girl who showed me that love is unconditional,that no matter how bad things can get in life,whenever i look at her she would make me smile,a little girl who showed me the true meaning of love, a little girl that showed me that even on a cloudy day i had sunshine,i truly know what it means to make sure that she had whatever i could give her,to make her happy,and i was now responsible for this little girl,to make sure she ate,she was dressed,and to make her life as easy as i could,to raise her,and for the past 10 years i have had nothing but joy,so i would like to say on this fathers day thank you lord for allowing me to have the most precious gift you could give me my little chanel who i love dearly.

This Ones For You"

You know its nothing worse than having someone smile in your face,and talk shit or hate behind behind your back,i call these type of niggas fuck niggas,so im writing this one for you,Its like how the fuck you gonna follow in my footsteps,and try to do the things,that i do and yet your ass cant even keep up,my thing is how you gonna bite the hand that kept you relevant,didnt nobody even know your ass but a handful out of 3000 but yet they all knew me,how you gonna,try and downgrade a nigga when you want the life that i have,and always have had,i dont even brag,but i know i cant get who i want,i dont have to put salt on another niggas name to get the things i want,i happy with my life,but fuck niggas like you get up in the morning miserable cause you with a bitch that you dont want, never wanted,but yet you want to hate,on your mans,who had your back,front and side,but one thing about me once you hate on me i treat you like the bitch you are,and i dont just write about i address the shit to your face,but im putting this on blast cause its just to let a nigga like you know that bitch im bigger than you know my shit reaches from the D to out the country,so i wont all my readers to know never fuck around and get cool with a nigga who is smiling in your face,but yet he wish he had your place,cause thats whta you call a fuck nigga so i know you will read this it will hit home,and all i can say is this ones for you.

Miami Heat Haters"

You know i know a lot of people is still mad cause lebron left cleveland,and had the decision show,and all that,but my thing is he was a free agent,and just like when barkely tried to go play with akeem,and drexler, or when pippen went and played with akeem and barkley its a free country,and by the way fuck cleveland and i got family there i dont give a fuck about him leaving cleveland, im glad he went to south beach,and its his team,and im team heat all day everyday,and i hope the king gets a ring i love durant,and respect o.k.c,and they might beat my boys,but damn it if im not riding with my niggas to the end,and for all you boston lovers,go kill yourself,and i hope lebron gets that one,not 2 not 3 not 4 not 5 rings damn it so lets see what happen team heat signing off.

You Got All The Advice But Where is Your Man,Or Your Woman"

This short blog im a bought to write is dedicated to those lonely muthafuckas who love to get on facebook,or get on these chat forums,and try and tell the next woman,or man about relationships,when in reality,they asses is playing with some plastic shit at home,or jacking off they dick cause they cant find nobody,yeah like jeezy said this ones for you,My thing is ok people can share the experiences they have been thru,and maybe share it with a friend or two,but when you constantly seeing the same bashing,and the same quotes on a persons wall,about romance,or what they want settle for,and what they would do,you have to ask yourself,wait a minute is this person a relationship hater,or just a lonely person,who keeps striking out in the romance department,cause i be damn if i let someone try and tell me about a relationship,or romance who cant get it right there self,or is always by themself,that shit is crazy as hell to me,so for all you lonely ass always hating or bashing on your friend or family memebers cause they have somebody,and you dont shut the fuck up and sit your lonely tired ass played out ass down somewhere,and follow the advice you trying to give on your walls or profiles,and find a person of your own assholes real talk.

Watch Who you let in Your Circle"

You know people like to use the word friend very loosely thats a word i dont use a lot,because my circle is very limited,i may have plenty of associates,but friends shit the truth dont fuck around with just anybody my true friends it only take two hands to count them,and once you get my age thats all the friends i need real talk,cause when you start letting a lot of people in your circle shit gets started a lot of he say she say,and thats real cause trust me like ice t said back in the day some of these niggas is bitches to,i watch for a lot of niggas who want to try and be my friend cause of the things i do,the lifestyle i may live,but when i have my get togethers at my house,my true niggas know who they are and they been my noiggas for the past 15 years and some a lifetime,so when i get these fuck niggas trying to get all cool with me all of sudden i be looking at them niggas like bitch im watching you and you best believe you not even stepping foot in my circle cause i dont trust a lot of niggas and i just feel that once you get a certain age,its time out for all the bullshit real talk,The less niggas the less drama, So all im saying to my followers watch who you let in your circle cause everybody aint going to be real,you have users who just want to be on your team for status,and thats not my style so just watch who you let in,this goes for my dogs,and for the females out here watch your circle.

When You Have Somebody You Know Got Your Back You hold On to Them"

You know a lot of times people get it twisted and think that they might have someone who just because they can fuck you good or they sexy as hell that is all you need,but thats for a shallow muthafucka who is looking at the small picture and not the big picture,what you have to look at is knowing that when times are rough you have somebody thats in your corner supporting you,being there for you,somebody that you can celebrate the good times with them,and even thru the rough times if there are some you can still get along,thats when you know you have someone,that is down for you,and have your back,and i think a lot of times guys lose sight of what they have for something that is not really sincere when it comes to there well being,so what do they do they go fuck up a good thing not realizing that what they have is so much better for them than what they are looking for,and by the time they do its to late,and once its too late most of the time,you cant get it back,so to the fellas if you got a good woman,hold on to her,cause you never want to regret losing someone that is there for you and cherishes you for someone that is only out for material things or some dick real talk.

K2 Wish They Had The Same Uproar As Crack In The Black community"

For those that live in michigan you know about the case of tucker cipriano A teen who was adopted by the Cipriano family was using the drug K2 spice is another name for it on the streets of michigan,and so now that this drug has reached the white suburbs,now michigan is doing all it can to ban the drug,come down hard on people who are selling it,and they are going past legislation and making sure this ban passes fast,now my thing is ok im glad you banning the drug nobody wants to see young teens dying and shit over some drugs,but what is pissing me off is the way that they are trying to stop this drug, but if this drug was and epidemic in the black community it would not be this uproar,its like the same old song and dance if its killing the white people its and uproar,but if its in the black community oh well its just like crack what can we do,my point is fair is fair,im tired of the white leaders in michigan and other places who are bullshitting the black people,and not being fair this shit has to stop,cause its not fair,and its not right,and the fact that it takes a young troubled white man who was using the stuff to kill his father and brother,just shows you how its racial tones in everything real talk.If you white or the situation is white then its and uproar,if you black its just business as usual.

Someone Like You"

You know sometimes you can write about something that hits home with a lot of people,male and female,and i wrote about this topic,before my first blog crashed,but im going to refresh it for people,who might not have read it,Why is that a person can have the perfect person for them,a person who can make them laugh,make them happy,please them in and out of the bedroom,do things to them in there bed like no other,take them places they have never been or thought of,have that damn near perfect love people dream of, man may have that woman who is just the ultimate in and out the bedroom,You finally find a person who is willing and wanting to do things with you give you the quality time you deserve,but then somehow either the man or woman gets scared,or bored,or tired of this thing they have been searching for there whole life,and then they sabotage the relationship,and once they do that,they are back to the drawing board looking for what they had been searching there whole life for,now to me that just does not make any sense to me,but it happens all the time,and then once they lose that person they had,they are going out trying to find a person just like the one they let get away,and if they cant find that person then they go out trying to get that person back,not realizing that the person they fucked over,has moved on,and then they are miserable on sites,forums,facebook,chat rooms,any social outlet they can find trying to tell people how they are lonely,and missing out on that special someone,when the people who are listening to him or her,have no idea that they ran off the best thing they ever had,and now they are chasing someone like you the person they once had,but now have lost just crazy,i just wish people would realize what they have when they have it,so that they can do something then,before its too late,real talk.

Nothing Worse Than Being Somewhere Your Not Wanted"

You know i could probably write over a hundred topics about being lonely and not wanted,or appreciated,because i read about it,and see it every day,and what makes it even more crazy is when you have people who truly feel that they only have to do a little,and the person they with will be ok, like there arent over hundreds and hundreds of women and men wishing and praying they could have someone of there own,And i dont care what a person says there is nothing like being somewhere where you know that you are not wanted,where you feel if you walked away,that you would not be missed,that if you wasnt around that it would make things easier for a person,in the short term,but in the long term they might or they might not realize that you had some serious worth to them,but they couldnt see it because something caused them to not want to be with you as much as they used to,so my advice to people who may be in a situation where they feel this way,address once,and only once,because if you keep addressing it over and over again,then it will not hold water,it will not hold weight,cause your argument will have lost substance,and the person you are with that you are trying to get your point across to will not take you seriously,so after you have made them aware of your feelings,and things still dont change,or you still feel unwanted,unappreciated,and unworthy,then you will have to do what may see hard to you in the short term,but in the long term you will eventually see that it was the right thing to do for you,the person,and your piece of mind.

The Way You Got Them Is the way you keep them"

You know im going to be brief and to the point,whether you a man or woman when you enter a relationship,and you decide that you really want this person,the way you got the person is the way you keep the person whether its thru communication texting,spending time with them,making plans with them,sexting them a certain way,however you were able to win there heart that is how you keep there heart,because once you start not caring,or trying to keep them engaged,all you going to do is risk losing them,and once you lose something,its hard to get it back,and especially if its worth having,or saving,so all im saying to everyone who reads this,if you wined,and dined them from the start then how come you cant still do the same thing real talk im out.

Anal Sex Its Not For Everybody"

You know A lot of people frown upon anal sex,saying its nasty,or its gay,my thing is whats done between a man and a woman thats not gay,and if a woman loves for a man to lick her asshole,and fuck her in it then so be it,and my thing is dont knock it until you try it,if you a man who likes to eat your womans pussy good,and lick and suck on her asshole then if thats what turns your woman on then do it,and if you like stroking her asshole then do it,Cause if you dont and she likes it then trust me she will eventualy find someone who will unless she is a person who is unselfish about her needs,and is willing to do with out cause you might not like the anal sex,all im saying is anal sex if done right can be a sexy thing,but it aint for everybody especially if you a woman who cant take it all so just try it first before you judge it.

Learn Your Womans Body"

You know a lot of women want a man to take his time to learn her spots,he weakness her freakiness,and sensualness, but a lot of guys,just want to get the pussy wet fuck it and bust a nutt,but what they are failing to realize is that it is so much more to it than that,i mean for example,say you have woman who is hard to give and orgasm to,well what you need to do as a man,who should want to make her cum,just off the strength that she has not had and orgasm,so you have to kiss her,and see if she likes kissing,and if she likes deep passionate tongue kissing,and you will know if she likes it,then also,try and kiss her neck and breast,see if she likes that as well,and if she responds,then go down to her pussy,and take your time with her pussy you should be willing to stay down there for as long as she needs,not your needs give her her needs first,lick her clit,find her g.spot,lick the inside of her pussyhole,lick her asshole if needed she might like a finger in her ass do that,just take your time suck and lick her pussy good,then after making her either cream or scream,or cum,then put your dick inside and dont just start bam bam bam bam on her take your time stroke the pussy i mean stroke it where every stroke she just cant get enough then fuck her until she cums,and if you are a longlasting brother then she will love you even more,just take the time to learn your womans body real talk.

Feelin Single"

You know R.kelly got a new song out and i was reading a topic in another one of the forums i visit,and they were saying how if your in a relationship,any kind of relationship,you know your mate,your boyfriend,or girlfriend,So you know when something has changed,a person can tell you that your insecure,and sometimes you could be wrong,but 99% of the time your gut feeling and your instinct is right,if you have been doing something a certain way for a while,and then all of a sudden things change,you may not see the person like you once did, you might not text the person or recieve texts from the person like you used to,or phone calls are getting shorter,or if the other person is not planning for you,not making plans to go to a movie or dinner or something then you really just in a title, you really just a boyfriend,or husband,or girlfriend,or wife,cause its obvious that the one you loving is either loving someone else,or starting to be interested in someone else,real talk cause i dont want to hear the shit about there is nothing changing if you in a relationship,then you know when something just aint right,and all you can do is either deal with it,and be unhappy,or address it and hope that things can work out,or you can do what you might end up having to do and that is walk away no harm no foul,cause like i said 99% of the time the gut knows,now it could be that 1% that says hey you overreacting but like i said thats 1% so you know its some shit in the game,and my hting is who wants to be in a relationship when they starting to feel like they are no longer a priority,but more of and option,i mean the purpose of a relationship is to feel wanted and loved,and have a place of well being to know you have this person by your side,and in your corner,not to feel like your single,cause if you feeling single,and you supposed to be attached then damn it cut your loses and move the fuck on cause life is too short to be unhappy real talk,and if the person you with is too greedy,to not want to man up or woman up and do the right thing by you,and at least acknowledge that there is a someone else then you do them a favor and make it easy on them real talk.

Material Things Cant Buy You Happiness"

You know its a lot of people out here who are searching for that one person to fall in love with,be happy,and settle down with,and so a lot of times people think that stature,material things such as clothes,or jewerly, a fancy house,money that if they find a person who can give them all that,then they will be truly happy,well that is bullshit,you might have some who could care less about love,but most of the time thats bullshit,and then you have those who people on the outside think they got it going on nice car,job,house,fancy clothes,nice bank account,but they missing that one thing that money cant buy,and thats true happiness,true love,a true being of being with someone who loves the ground they walk on, being with a person who if your money is funny they gonna get you thru the rough times,because true love has a way of doing just that,and then when the good times come a calling that person who you truly love,makes them good times the best times,so i dont care what a person say i know plenty of people who have good jobs,and are able to buy whatever,but they some lonely ass people because they dont have that priceless jewel,and thats true love,and i have seen it on both sides my niggas with good jobs,who are lonely ass fuck they chasing a pipe dream looking for love in all the wrong places,i have seen it with women who they may look like they got it going on but they dont have that one thing they want the most,and thats a man who truly loves,and cares about they ass unconditionally,so all im going to say that if you find someone who truly loves you and they migh not have the material things at the time to give you,but they cant give you some things,and true love,you dont run those people,away,you dont neglect those people for someone with a little more cheese,cause when you do,and you can be one of those people who had true love,and lost it for something you can put a price on,then you is a dumb ass individual who deserves all the heartbreak you get cause it is to many people rich and poor searching for that one thing true love real talk fropm the truth.

If Your Woman Not Making The Ugly Face You Not Doing Something Right"

You know i have always said that when you in the bedroom forget about trying to be pretty,i mean you can be sexy if you trying to show off lingerie,and shit,but when it comes to the actual act of love making,or fucking or whatever you want to call it,then thats when cute goes out the window,and if your lady is looking cute then you must not be handling your business,I mean you need to learn your ladies body,what makes her moan,what makes holler,what makes her scream,if its your finger then finger her,if its your tongue,then lick her clit,or suck her clit,do whatever it takes to make her experience a feeling that she can only dream about,and then dont be afraid to go all out cause in the bedroom it takes more than just a pretty face,and a big dick to satisfy a woman,you need to be prepared to do whatever she needs to make her achieve her orgasm,and if you a bad motherfucker who can make her cum multiple times with your tongue and dick then you will be a hard act to follow,you are considered a keeper,so all im saying to the fellas is learn your womans body,and if you do she will be totally into your lovemaking ,and she wont think twice about how she looking all she gonna care about is cumming trust me i aint the truth for no reason.

Happy memorial day from The Truth

Enjoy your family and remember the fallen soldiers.

Dont Let Life Past You By"

You know i just got off a vacation,and im not saying you have to go out of town all the time,hell you dont if you dont want to,but just enjoy life life is too short to just not enjoy the things it has to offer,because tomorrow is not promised,i have a sister in law that was 28 and she died of breast cancer,and luckily she was able to go to vegas,and take her kids to disneyworld,and she went on a cruise all this while she was battling cancer,and i said to myself before she died and definitely after she died i would always enjoy life,people work all there lifes and never have any fun,i mean go on a trip,see the usa,or see the world,or go to the movies, out to dinner,and amusement park,take up a hobby,just do something that will put a smile on your face,and at least do something where you can say i enjoyed wht life has to offer,cause i be damn if i dont if i died today i can say i had a great life i have harldy no regrets,and from this day forward im going to just continue adding to my resume of fun,and im trying to instill it in my daughter so that when she gets older she want settle for less from these men out here my daughter is going hopefully have her own,but also expect a man to want to do things cause if she dont then she will be shortchanged and that not going to happen cause i am the example of a man who goes places,what to expect and what you should not settle for,so people just enjoy life cause tomorrow is not promised,hell neither is tonight each day you breath is a gift from god real talk.

Good Girl In The Streets But A freak In the Sheets.

You know a lot of guys talk about they want a freaky woman and they go to titty bars and clubs looking for a freak,but me personally i like a woman who is a woman who in the streets she represents you,she gets her hair and nails done,she works,she is confident about her herself,and she dont need a man to validate her,thats what you call a good woman,she dont have to dress half naked or talk dirty out and about to let everyone know her business i like a woman with class but behind doors she will freak your ass cause you her man,cause once them doors is closed and she into you whatever she decides to do with you at least its between you and her and not everybody else business if she wants to suck your dick,lick your ass,get fucked in the ass,sit on your face whatever the case maybe thats ok because thats what a real man who is looking for a real woman wants,a woman who can cook in the kitchen,be a lady in the streets spend that quality time with her man,but once them doors are closed she is down for whatever with her man,and if she is doing these things her man should be satisfied ,happy pleased,and have no reason to cheat unless he is greedy,or not getting satisfied at home or with the one he is with,otherwise if he has a woman who can make his toes curl then he knows he got a good girl,who can be dirty behind closed doors and what man wouldnt like that.

Detroit My City Under Siege"

You know i wrote about detroit in my old blog when i first started blogging,and like i said before the detroit that i grew up and loved,is not the detroit anymore,its like my generation was the last of a dying breed,its like when i came up we respected the older guys in the neighborhood, we respected the elderly,the elderly was like a preacher someone you respected even if you didnt like and older person you still respected them cause thats how we was raised,people keep trying to look for answers of why the city i love has crime thats out of hand marvin winans a pastor getting carjacked,a 84 year old security guard getting shot and killed,and 86 year old man getting carjacked,this type of shit you never used to hear about because of the upbringing in the homes,now a days not all but a lot of kids are raising themselves,you have these parents who are not raising there kids,and they letting the streets raise them,and raise them in a very bad way,this new generation has no regard for life,they quick to pull the trigger,but scared as hell to take and ass whooping,so every other night or every night in some case you hear on the news someone has been shot,or someone has been robbed,and its not about where you go or hang out cause niggas is everywhere robbing and stealing,and until we as parents get a hold of are kids before the streets do shit will never change,the economy is bad but whats worse is the neglection being done by these parents who are so quick to have these kids but dont want to take the time out to raise them from right and wrong,and so they think they can do whatever and whenever they want to do,and thats sad,so i amsaying to anyone who reads this get a handle on your kids before theyget to grown and its to late show them its a code of honor out here and they are breaking all the codes killing infants killing the elderly,just walking around with a i dont give a fuck attitude,and that is not right,and once we stop tolerating this type of behavior then we as a city can start our to rebuld and be the city i once i knew and loved hopefully its not to late.

She Found Mr Goodbar"

You know since its tasty tuesday i think its only right that i share a little story that was sent my way,by one of my followers,with there permission of course,it was this lady who was really tired of guys and all there bullshit,and she was just looking for a simple guy who was the opposite of everything she had been dealing with she said she had some guys who just like to hang in the streets,fuck them good and maybe they might get a meal and that was it,no quality time,well this woman had this guy who had admired her from a far for a while he told her she was his crush,and she thought he was sweet but she never really thought anymore than that well one day she decided to see what this guy was all about,so they exchanged numbers,and they hit it off with great conversation,found they had a lot in common,talked about everything,so then they went out on a date,and he gave her a rose,and a card,so she was like well damn this is different already,and then they went out to eat she was so used to getting carry outs and shit,so he took her to a nice restaurant,so then they went to a movie,and after movies they went for a drink,so she was really liking this guy,So he was different from what she is used to dating,so then after a few dates and hanging out she decided she wanted to go to the next level felt like he was taking his time,so she invited him over and cooked dinner for him,made him some steak,and shrimp,baked potato and a salad plus wine,so after a nice homecooked meal,and music,she decided she wanted a kiss and he kissed her,so she wanted another one,and then it got deep they started kissing with a lot of passion,and then he started kssing her neck,and then he took her shirt off but he kissed her nipples nice and slow,,and then he laid her back slid her panties off and slowly raised her legs up and licked her from ass crack to her clit,then he started licking and sucking her clit so good he found her spot she was hollering like never before in her life,she had been fucked before,and had her pussy ate but not like this,so he made her cum,not once but twice by his tongue,then after making her cream and scream he whipped out his dick and she was like damn baby you got a big dick so she sucked on his dick like a sucker,and then after getting extra hard and wet,he slid his dick inside her and fucked her nice,deep,and hard jusat the way she liked it,and he gave her at least 3 orgasms before he bust his nut she said damn baby i think i found my mr goodbar,and he said i dont know how you didnt see me i was right up under your nose all the time,and he made love to her and fucked her all night long off and on,and even though they never became a couple he is her mr goodbar and thats what she had been looking for her entire life.

If you Dont Love Yourself How Do You Expect Someone Else To"

You know there are a lot of low self esteem ass people out here especially a lot of women,who feel that if they dont have the validation of a man that they our not worthy,to me there is nothing more sexy than a confident woman who does not need a man to validate whether she is worthy enough,or a woman who can let a man lower her self esteem,to me that is just crazy,and that is why a lot of times men are afraid of a confident independent woman,because they want a woman they can control,a woman that they can breakdown when they want,or build up when they want like they some damn puppets on a string,like they got a dog that needs to obey,to me who wants a woman with no mind of her on,A real man should want a woman that he can have equal footing with,a woman who is bringing conversation,already has her sex appeal,a woman who is not insecure,or not feeling worthy,hell a woman who loves her self first before any nigga,that to me is whats wrong with a lot of good strong black woman,who are single,and the first thing a guy says is damn,i cant believe you dont have a man,thats because you have to many of my brothers who rather pass up a sexy confident women who needs no man to justify her,and instead looks for a woman who is in need of a daddy figure,or someone from a broken home who is just happy to have a man,so my thing is women love your self,dont go out looking for justification or validation from no man,cause its inside your self,and for my brothers quit passing up the real sisters out here the strong confident ones,and give them there respect,and be a man,and let a strong woman know that your man enough to wine and dine her and come to the table with more than just your bullshit lines come to the table with a plan,a vision and see how it feels to be with a strong woman.

It takes More than just having the equipment"

You know this is one topic that has been talked about before i came into this world and it will be talked about after i leave this world,for women a lot of them think because they got a big ass,or big titties,that they dont have to do a lot in bed,thats bullshit,you can have all the ass in the world if you dont know how to work it,and grind it,then whats the purpose,there is nothing worse then fucking someone,or making love to some one who does not have any rhythm or motion,or just dont know how to fuck lets just be real,and then as far as men go i hear a lot of women in different forums who be talking shit about a guy having a 10 inch or 11 inch dick,but he dont know how to work it,dont know how to stroke it,and dont have no since of long lasting ability,so my thing is if you got the tools,and you dont know how to use then then if you a woman you might as well have and ass flat as day old beer,and if you a man you might as well have a webster sized dick,because you are are useless to your partner if you dont know how to fuck its that simple,thats why a lot of guys thing they be fucking the shit out of there women,not knowing they aint doing shit,and a lot of these women be thinking they doing some serious fucking with there man,and yet he still has to go jack off because you didnt put it down cause you dont know how,not that you dont have the tools you just dont have the ability to please,so if you are getting complaints from someone you fucking with listen to them and start reading,books something cause you can have 12 inch dick,and a nigga with a 9 piece or a 10 piece might come along and knock you out the box cause your fucking skills are not up to par,and if you a woman with a big old ass and you cant fuck you better be careful cause a woman with ironing board ass might come along and put that red snapper pussy on your man and you ass will be history real talk.a lady wants motion in the ocean and size real talk.

Just be yourself"

You know it is a lot of insecure low self esteem ass people out here men,and women,that is why social media sites such as facebook.twitter instagram, is perfect for a lot of these people because its away for a lot of these people to be something they really not,im not saying that everybody is a phony by no means,but what i am saying is just be real about your shit,you have people who be having fake ass facebook pages,using other peoples pictures as there profiles,you have people lying about where they been or where they going when in reality they asses have never even left the city they live in,and my thing is its ok if you not ballin,or you not traveling,or living the life of reily,my thing is just be your self, to me that is much more expensive,and real as it can get,i have been fortunate to have lived a blessed life,i have been able to travel to a lot of places, see a lot of things,basically do whatever i want with hard work,and saving,but not once have i ever bragged or boasted about what i can do,or what i have done,i could easliy say yeah im living the life talking shit but thats not me,im humble cause material shit dont make me,and it should not make the next man or woman,im the same dude who i will hang with you if you got 4 grand in your pocket or 4 dollars im still your nigga to the end,so all im saying is be yourself quit trying to be something you not cause real nigga will expose a fake nigga all day every day and thats real.

You Cant Borrow Money From Everybody"

You know sometimes everybody needs a little help now and then,so you might have a friend,or a family member,that you might need to ask for a little help, or a loan,which is nothing wrong with it,but be prepared to deal with the consequences sometimes,because when you ask someone for loan its obvious you need it,and when you ask for a loan it should be i will pay you back on whatever terms,you and the person agree,and that should be the end of it,but you have somepeople that want to know why you need it,where is your money,what are you doing with all your money,how come you not saving all that dumb shit,but people think when they loan you something that gives them the right to question,you my thing is this if a person is asking you for something and you agree,and they say they going to pay you back damn it that should be the end of it simple as that no questions ask,nothing because its obvious if they ask you then they need you,not the extra shit that goes along with it just the cash,but you have some people out here who feel they automatically have the right to be in your business cause you ask for a loan,and to me thats not fair,just i had to spit my 2 cents in on this topic,cause i heard a few people talk about this on a few forums i sit in on,and i wanted to voice my opinion on this topic.

Jealousy And Love Dont Mix"

You know this is a tired subject to me but its one that must be addressed from time to time,A lot of women And im sure somebody who reads this knows of someone like this,Have been with or is with someone who thinks that putting there hands on A woman is ok,that hitting them is a way to show them that they love them,that this is there way of showing there love,or that they saw there mother or sister be hit so they think thats acceptable,well its not,and i hate when people say oh he or she is crazy jealous about ther man or woman,and they love them to death,its ok to have a little jealousy but not to the point where you putting your hands on someone,or you have to mentally or verbally abuse the one you claim you love,thats bullshit,and i swear before god i dont and i want ever want a woman to feel so jealous that she feels she has to get crazy over me cause that shit is a turnoff,and if you with a man who hits you then be prepared to keep getting hit cause once they hit you once they will hit you again,real talk,fuck that aint that much love in the world to be getting your ass beat.

The Best You Ever Had"

You know i have to say there is a old saying did you eat your wheaties,or you better eat your wheaties,Well i always have said that if you not going to try and give your best effort,in life,or the bedroom then why waste your time,and the woman your with,I mean i know its a lot of selfish lovers out here,who only care about getting there nutt,and keeping it moving,and its a lot of women who just want that orgasm,and once they get it they can keep on moving,but i feel that you should want to make a statement,leave a mark,put something on a womans mind, dont just try and be average,fuck it try to be the best she has ever had even if you might not be,at least try,I mean if you know she likes to kiss,then make sure you give that extra effort into kissing her,if she like lot of tongue then damn it give her some serious tongue,and i dont mean spitting all on her face tongue her ass good kiss her nice just like she like it,and if she likes her neck kissed then do it,and if she likes her titties sucked or licked then do it,and dont just half ass do it do it like you never going to see her again like your ass is about to go to prison,and then kiss her belly button,her inner thigh,and then after you get down to the pussy this is real important,postion your self just right so you can be comfortable,as you need to be prepared to be down there for as long as he wants,show here that time is not of the essence that you are willing to lick and suck on her clit,her hole,her juices,until she cums in your face,and if she is a multiple orgasm woman for the tongue then damn it eat that pussy like a real nigga dont get tired show her you mean business and you not playing and if you do this i guarantee you will have put some shit on her mind having her cumming and hollering just from your tongue,then she ask for some dick and you rise up dick better be hard cause she ready to fuck but she also is laying there with a throbbing pussy that has been ate fuck out of,so she is already fucked up in the head from your tongue if you handled your business so now you insert your dick inside her,and you start off adjusting to whats making her moan,and groan and if you see she loving what you doing then keep doing it but hit them spots go deep i mean deep as you can have her calling your name begging you to fuck her good,and be ready to do multiple positions,and please dont cum quick not a good look remember you trying to leave a mark,so if you fuck her and stroke her extra good,make her have some more orgasms from the dick there is no way possible that you want be called back for seconds,and who knows you might be the best she has ever had,and that is a helluva feeling knowing that you have a woman laying next to you who can tell whoever she confides in that you the best she ever had even if you dont wanna brag just knowing should feel good indeed.

WHat Every Man Wants A woman Who can Cook And Fuck"

Now you know this new generation of women im talking about the women in there early 30s,and down a lot of them can be sexy,and talk freaky,and dress freaky,and talk all the shit about the bedroom,but on the other hand a lot of them and i mean a lot of them cant fry a bologna sandwich,and thats real talk,and these new mcdonald eating ass niggas dont mind that cause they just looking for some good sexy,but my generation,is like a dying breed,now you got some women who know how to cook,thats in there 30s,and early 20s, but its too many that either dont know how,or dont want to know how,and thats sad,cause there is nothing sexier than having a woman who can fuck you and suck you,and please you in the bedroom,and then after some serious lovemaking or fucking go in that kitchen and hook you up a helluva meal,to me that is a turn on cause i was taught and brought up that a way to a mans heart is thru his stomach and his dick of course,so i just wish more women would realize that they can find that allusive husband they want if they can cook him a great homemade meal,and then make love to him like never before,but a lot of the problem is the women the young ones are not being taught like women used to be taught by there moms,so they have no guidelines,unless they watch the food network,or get a cook book,but its just my opinion cause its my blog damn it LMAO.

Unstable Creatures"

You know i saw on the news this morning, where this young man in detroit was stabbed and killed he was only 23 years old,and he was killed by and ex girlfriend of his,who i guess felt since he was no longer with her then he couldnt enjoy the rest of his life,now to me that is fucked up what gives a person the right to take another persons life,because they no longer want to be with them,thats some sick shit,but in the minds of people like this woman she saw the rational to do this ,because she has and unstable mind,and when you are mentally unstable then you dont think like other people who have common sense,now this man is dead that she no longer was with,and now her life is over because of her dumb ass rage,i dont understand how people cant handle rejection,i mean nobody says breaking up is easy,there will be tears,hurt,a since of lost,but the rage,and the anger to want to go and do harm to a person cause they dont want you anymore to me thats just some old bitch ass nigga shit and some old unstable ass way of thinking but you know what people need to do there homework,because quietly the signs are there when you are with that person,you will know what type of individual you dealing with when it comes to rejection trust me,if they have that crazy anger,those temper tantrums,get mad at the little things,then you will know that if you leave this person you might have some shit on your hands,cause everybody cant handle rejection its just that simple its sad but thats life,and its up to the people you get serious with to see if you have someone thats in there right mind,or our dating a nut just ready and waiting to be cracked open at the first sign of a breakup.

Carl The Truth Is Back"

I just wanted everyone who has been following me for over a year and a half that my blog is back up and running and today is a new day for the launch so i hope everyone enjoys the raw uncut topics i tackle and write about cause im going to continue giving it to you raw and uncut.