If you Dont Love Yourself How Do You Expect Someone Else To"

You know there are a lot of low self esteem ass people out here especially a lot of women,who feel that if they dont have the validation of a man that they our not worthy,to me there is nothing more sexy than a confident woman who does not need a man to validate whether she is worthy enough,or a woman who can let a man lower her self esteem,to me that is just crazy,and that is why a lot of times men are afraid of a confident independent woman,because they want a woman they can control,a woman that they can breakdown when they want,or build up when they want like they some damn puppets on a string,like they got a dog that needs to obey,to me who wants a woman with no mind of her on,A real man should want a woman that he can have equal footing with,a woman who is bringing conversation,already has her sex appeal,a woman who is not insecure,or not feeling worthy,hell a woman who loves her self first before any nigga,that to me is whats wrong with a lot of good strong black woman,who are single,and the first thing a guy says is damn,i cant believe you dont have a man,thats because you have to many of my brothers who rather pass up a sexy confident women who needs no man to justify her,and instead looks for a woman who is in need of a daddy figure,or someone from a broken home who is just happy to have a man,so my thing is women love your self,dont go out looking for justification or validation from no man,cause its inside your self,and for my brothers quit passing up the real sisters out here the strong confident ones,and give them there respect,and be a man,and let a strong woman know that your man enough to wine and dine her and come to the table with more than just your bullshit lines come to the table with a plan,a vision and see how it feels to be with a strong woman.