If you cant get attention from the one you love then who you supposed to get it from.

 Too many times people desire attention from the one they love now some people dont need as much attention as others but lets just say you do want some attention from the one you love or the one you with and there not giving it to yothat they u then who the fuck are you supposed to get it from what self love i mean isnt that the point of being in a relationship making each other happy it dont always have to be about sex it can be moral support boosting each other up from a bad day or just complimenting each other making each other feel good but when you make the other person feel like they seeking attention it makes the person feel funny and its either going to push them away to seek attention elsewhere or feel they cant come to you because of how you made them feel so all im saying is be careful how you treat people who only want the attention from you they may need to make them smile thats if you want to make them smile if not then you mighrt not have the chemistry you thought indeed.

Sex should never feel pressured it should desired.

 You know when it comes to sex and being with someone your intimate with you should want the person your having sex with to want you desire you not feel pressured to have sex with you it should be a desire of the one your with not feel like a job if the person you fucking or making love to makes you feel like they dont truly desire you or make you feel like fucking you is a job then you need to take a look at the situation your in because its obvious its either them or its you cause who wants to be fucking someone who makes you feel like you want sex to much or make you feel like you pressuring them to have sex with you if thats the case they either not really feeling you or they want to fuck someone else and if thats the case take your L move on and find you someone who really wants to fuck you please you and actually enjoy doing it not making you feel bad indeed.

What goes On Between A Man And A Woman is not Gay (XXX) Taboo edition)

 In life you have different facets of people who either are having regular sex which is fine, or regular sex with a sprinkle of freaky sex, or people who have wild kinky sex or people who just have all types of sex but in the end if its between a man and a woman who are we to judge, if a man likes his ass licked or sucked or played with by his woman so be it if a woman likes to get fucked in the ass so be it at the end of the day its between a man and a woman and if thats there afrodisiac so be it it may be taboo to you but freaky to them so im going share a story of a freaky couple that did all kinds of sex from regular lovemaking to passionate lovemaking to spontaneous sex to whatever type of sex you can think of so this guy who didnt want his name used went over this woman house and she was ready to just let her hair down for him and wanted him to do the same so he gets to her home and she has so drinks fruits and snacks and some weed so they drink smoke and snack so after they get thru drinking and smoking she says i want you to come in the bedroom in 5 minutes and she say i want you to come in buttnaked so he takes his clothes off heads into the bedroom and when he walks in she has a red lightbulb going on and she has on no bra and see thru lace panties so she lays him down and handcuffs his hands and then she gets on top of him sprinkles some sweet dust on him licks it off his chest then starts tongue kissing him then she kisses his nipples then goes down to his dick sucks on his dick for a minute then she licks his balls  then she comes back up and sits on his face after she grinds on is face his dick rockhard she slides back down jumps on his dick after he makes her cum rides his dick until they both cum then get up off his dick gets a hot rag wipes his his dick then she flips him over on his stomach gets some oil massages his back then she opens up his ass and licks his ass then she puts him on his knees starts licking his balls and dick from the back then she is stroking his dick and pulls out a toy fingering his ass so she notices his dick getting harder so she gets excited and then she stops and say hold she got his dick and ass wet so she says im about take us to another level and she pulls out her strap and starts fucking him and she got so wet from doing that her pussy was soaked and his dick was so hard after she fucked him she took off her strap and let him eat her ass and pussy then he fucked her in the ass and her pussy and she had the most explosive orgasm ever and after they both came they fell asleep and they had one of there kinky ass sex nights call it taboo call it freaky you can call it what you want but its what they like and who are we to judge its not gay its taboo between them two and the only lesson from this is you cant do this with everyone cause some people kiss and tell and that in itself is childish indeed.

EX- Factor

 Sometimes in life you will be in a situation where it may have started great exciting and it served its purpose in the beginning, spontaneous, fun, something different but never truly having the feelings that the other person shared even though it may have went on for a couple of years never having the ultimate feeling that the other person wanted which is love, yes there may have been lust but never love cause love is when you want to be around a person for the little things movies dinners talking walking quality time lust just fucking and having sex, but then the situation becomes toxic because one party catches feelings that are not mutual and that is where the problem comes in so you try to remove your self from that toxic situation but the other person keeps trying to pull you back even though you know in your heart there bad for you even though the sex was the bomb it may have been one of the best the actual person still was toxic in the end so you get away from them finally years go by disappear and you never give them a thought but you know from friends associates they still want you lust for you even some say they still love you,but you know in your heart they were not good for you so time moves on and you escape that person and fast forward you have met someone who you seeked who you actually were attracted to you fall in love with them and you know its real cause you think about them all the time and you just want the love and attention from this one person so now you and your love are in a great place everything is moving along just great then boom out of nowhere your ex factor shows up unexpected looking the same basically all the material things they had before new car gucci boots mink looking the same but the in person visual only confirms that your new love is so strong that you dont even blink you dont have any physical interaction no hug no nothing no feelings even though its obvious from there look that they truly love you still and they are literally begging you to take there number but you easily blow them off because my point is yes they may be able to get a lot of guys when you are in love and truly love the one your with nothing even matters at all because they are a ex factor who has nothing on you but memories that you never want to rehash cause you only want to make new memories with the one you love now indeed.

He only wants your heart

A guy meets this woman who he falls in love with and he knows she is hesitant to his love and he knows she has other guys who wants her or use to date her chasing after her but he is only interested in making her smile and making her happy but she can sometimes frustrate him because he loves her more than she knows but yet she doesnt quite believe him or doesnt want to believe him but when you truly love somebody you never play games with there feelings and especially there heart this man loves this woman unconditionally he would give her his last to make her smile because he knows where she was mentally that he wants to keep her where she is now he wants to travel the world with her go to plays with her dinners movies make passionate love to her assist her in any way he can financially just be her rock and not have her worry about shit he is loyal to her and all he wants is her heart and he has not given anyone his heart in a very long time but he trust her with his heart that she want break it but all he wants is for her to trust her heart with him nothing else either matters at all but having her heart in his hands to secure indeed.

How you start is how you keep them.

 The thing you cant and should not ever do if you are trying to maintain a relationship especially a new one is start treating the one you love differently than you did in the beginning yes when a relationship is new you are calling, texting,chatting 24/7 true indeed and once the newness wears off one of the 2 parties might slack off just a bit but you cant do that you have to bring the same energy you had to get them especially when it is becoming noticeable because if you knew that the person you are now ignoring or not giving as much attention to past you would not do this to them especially how you to met was both being lonely so you find each other and then bam somebody gets bored and decides they either not happy no more or you were just a reason for the season and what you thought they wanted is not really you they just needed you for what they needed at the time so you have to pay attention cause i hate when you ask someone is everything alright and its really not but yet here you are asking them for a reason nobody is stupid if you truly love someone let them know if you falling off or not into them like you once where so there feelings wont get hurt and you wont get hurt indeed cause the same energy you got them with is the same energy that you need to bring and keep if you want them around if not then let them go but nevetr mislead anyone indeed.

The Art of A Good Lover (XXX)

You know when you find someone who is truly interested in pleasing you sexually even more than pleasing them self you hold on to that person cause a good lover is not a selfish lover if they truly care about satisfying you they will i mean from kissing your lips to rubbing your back rubbing your feet, kissing your neck and tasting your pussy and licking your pussy the way you like cause everybody not going to respond the same so you have to listen and pay attention to your lover and once you do then you take what you have learned and then perform the best way you know how on there body if your lover likes nice long strokes give it to her if she likes a pounding give it to her if she wants you to fuck any of her holes give it to her but first and foremost do what you can to give her the orgasm she desires and wants if its with your lips then so be suck her pussy or lick it the way she wants and if it tasting her hole do it but make her body the priority and let he rmake yours the option cause if you please her she will most likely return the favor indeed when you find a lover who gets off more from pleasing there lover than themselves you hold on to them and realize you have a winner not a selfish lover not a oh i got mine sorry you didnt get yours so ladies find you a man who is ready willing and able to please you indeed.