EX- Factor

 Sometimes in life you will be in a situation where it may have started great exciting and it served its purpose in the beginning, spontaneous, fun, something different but never truly having the feelings that the other person shared even though it may have went on for a couple of years never having the ultimate feeling that the other person wanted which is love, yes there may have been lust but never love cause love is when you want to be around a person for the little things movies dinners talking walking quality time lust just fucking and having sex, but then the situation becomes toxic because one party catches feelings that are not mutual and that is where the problem comes in so you try to remove your self from that toxic situation but the other person keeps trying to pull you back even though you know in your heart there bad for you even though the sex was the bomb it may have been one of the best the actual person still was toxic in the end so you get away from them finally years go by disappear and you never give them a thought but you know from friends associates they still want you lust for you even some say they still love you,but you know in your heart they were not good for you so time moves on and you escape that person and fast forward you have met someone who you seeked who you actually were attracted to you fall in love with them and you know its real cause you think about them all the time and you just want the love and attention from this one person so now you and your love are in a great place everything is moving along just great then boom out of nowhere your ex factor shows up unexpected looking the same basically all the material things they had before new car gucci boots mink looking the same but the in person visual only confirms that your new love is so strong that you dont even blink you dont have any physical interaction no hug no nothing no feelings even though its obvious from there look that they truly love you still and they are literally begging you to take there number but you easily blow them off because my point is yes they may be able to get a lot of guys when you are in love and truly love the one your with nothing even matters at all because they are a ex factor who has nothing on you but memories that you never want to rehash cause you only want to make new memories with the one you love now indeed.