How Could You Let them Get Away.

 Sometimes we can be are own worst enemies we can sabotage a great relationship by thinking we know the person were with and not giving the all that we did to get them only to start taking them for granted and in the process doing the very thing they told you that cost them there last relationship i know it can be easy to feel like oh i got his person they not going no where so i can just be me and not worry about pleasing them mentally and physically but you cant do that you have to keep things exciting in a relationship im not saying you always got to be doing things but you have to take trips go to the movies go to romantic dinners, go to sporting events concerts or amusement parks or walks give each other compliments make the person your with feel that the only love they need is yours and if you make them secure and make your relationship spicy you can have a long beautiful relationship but if you get lackluster about making them happy then you will start losing the person your with mentally first and once that happens and the interest starts to fade its pretty much a wrap and by the time you realize what you have done you will have a person saying i dont give a fuck but you really do cause you did this especially when you ignored the, treated the less than they should have been treated and before you know it you will hear from them that we need to talk but when they say we need to talk that usually means they ready to walk and if they walk you can blame nobody but yourself and you will be saying how did i let them get away but the answer will be simple you took them for granted less chatting less personal visits less compliments not doing shit but the same old thing boring sex just not caring anymore once this happens its a wrap and life is to short to be unhappy nobody should stay where they not happy real talk.