In the bedroom its give and take.

 When you become sexual with someone and they are willing to do whatever it is to please you in the bedroom then that right there is the best part the effort if they giving you the effort to try things and even if they dont like it if they willing to try thats all you can ask for if they like there pussy ate or asshole ate give it to them if they dont then thats fine to if they like anal at least try if they like threesomes at least discuss it even if it dont happen its all about trying or at least discussing dont just shut it down and if you got a person who is not interested in pleasing you then you have the wrong one cause sex is about the pleasure even the illusion that your partner can be freaky even if some things dont happen or they dont like at least they tried it or talked about it and you should always make sure your partener is sexually satisfied and your partner should not be the only one making palns for you guys to have sex it goes both ways cause if you the only one arranging when you guys have sex then that should be talked about indeed and remember sex is give and take not just take when they want it indeed.