You Cant Dwell On THe Past If you expect to have a future.

You know this one is for encouragement for a dear friend and for anybody who is stuck in the past from a relationship, i dont care how great a past relationship may have been if it did not lead to where you may have wanted then you need to leave the past in the past i dont care how good the sex was or how good they may have did certain things that made you feel good,its a reason that your relationship may have ended and if you continue searching for reasons as to why it ended then you will never be able to move on,now if you just looking to rekindle some great sex then thats one thing thats just sex but if you looking to have a relationship with a love lost then you might be holding yourself back from a bright future cause i dont care how good things may have been in the past with that person it ended for a reason and sometimes there is no rhyme no reason you just have to close the book on that relationship and move on it may hurt but it will only damge you for the next one if you sit back searching for answers to that may never come and thats real talk indeed. you just have to look back on the past sometimes and just cherish the memories and move on and close that book and just remember sometimes all books are not meant to read to the end.

If you had a life you would nt be worried about others.

You know what i hate is when you see or know a hater i mean a point blank hayer who has nothing but negative stuff to say about any or everybody,i mean a person who life consist of random dicks licks,and drinks and and occasionally hanging out with bitter people just like them but yet they always find something to say when in reality they the joke they just dont know it cause they surround themselves with people who wont tell them the truth about themselves that they live a fucked up life and i dont want to hear about you making good money cause that dont give you the right to hate on other when you look like a man and have no man and you hanging around women who are uglier than you because you choose not to hang around women that look better than you cause you have a complex problem so what you do is get with your ugly friend sand you sit back and talk about people being ugly or people not not doing this or doing that or not giving people crdeit when you see them shining cause you cant cause you a hater so all im saying people never be like these people im talking about cause all they have is a job to make them feel like they better than others when they really just a former crackhead who looks like a man with a boot mouth who talks about other pweoples lives when there live is a life i wouldnt want for no one im cool with and thats real talk.

Anybody can get someone to fuck them,but can you get them to say I Do.

im so sick of hearing about people saying oh niggas be wanting this pussy or i these hoes be all on my dick,but my thing is its very easy to get some sex,but can you get someone to say i do to your ass,get someone to say they want to spend the rest of there life with your ass that to me is the big question and i know everybody not marriage material or they might not want to get married but for those who always claiming can have a husband or wife if they want then show me dont talk about it be about it,you know why i say that cause its not as easy as it seems,now dont get me wrong its some really nice people on my page who really do want a wife or husband one day and are not claiming there pussy is this and that they letting you know they have more to offer than just sex they offering being a good cook,a provider,having ambition to want to go places do things so that when or if they ever get married they wont get bored caus etrust me you can get bored if you not on the same page,but i just had to vent about all these pussy advertisers who are always promoting there sex game game like thats going to get you a husband or a wife all thats going to get you is a good fucking and a maybe i will call you in the morning if it was good you got have more to offer to get the offer that many seek in life people need to quit base everything on sex to get a husband or wife cause it takes so much more indeed.

She got the best of my love.

You know i am about to write about something that i dont normally write about i have wrote about it before subliminally but never point blank like i am now and its only because i feel the need to write this after reading about my boy T.I the rapper he put up a post on facebook where he addressed his so call fans who claim to love him but have the audacity to always have something negative to say about his wife tiny,about how she ugly or he can do better so he checked they asses and he let them know why she is his queen and i cant do nothing but give him mad respect for what he said.So with that being said i feel the need to do this once and one time only, because i know that i have over 1500 people on my page on facebook and i have over a million followers on my blog and most of them are women and for years i have gotten questions like why your wife short or why she dont have a big ass or i thought you would be with this girl or that girl well im here to tell you im with the one for me im with my best friend and i dont say that lightly im truly married to my best friend and we were friends before we were lovers and i have told this woman thing i have never told anyone and she has done the same,and we travel together we worked together for years and she is my queen and she has the best of my love if i got 5000 she got half if i got $2 she got a dollar there is no selfishness with us,she pleases in every way and it dont matter how big a ass or tits if you dont have my heart then what good is it and that is what makes the loving good always and last but not least she has raised my daughter from a toddler to a preteen and my daughter loves her like she is her flesh and blood and it takes a real woman to come in and make kid like her own and she does that and you know why cause she loves me for me,and she loves my daughter as one we a package deal that turned into a family 7yrs ago so all i have to say when people try and disrespect or throw shade my way at my wife be prepared to get fucked up or exited out of my blog and my social media and my life,cause you fucking with the wrong one and as her king i will always protect my queen cause she got the best of my love always and forever real talk indeed.

Blessings.

You know people take life for granted,they take money that they get for granted,they take there living situations for granted especially when they are living well,got a good job,got good health,all the above but you know what i never take anything i do for granted,or anything that happens to me for granted i count my blessings whether im having a good day or a bad day,and i will be the first to tell you i dont go to church like maybe society think i should but guess what i live a damn good christ like lifestyle i believe in my creator and i dont take anything for granted and you cant question what happens to you in life cause its all apart of gods plan, but what i dont like is when people feel like they have to be ashame of there blessings because it might be happening for them but not there friends or associates,but you know what you cant be ashame or hate on a person who is recieving there blessings cause yours will eventually come its all about living the right way and being patient and having the belief,and when your blessings come just accept them and move on and be thankful and humble and thats all you can do when you live a blessed life so i will tell anybody i know that i am blessed real talk indeed. and i dont take that for granted at all.

Never Use Sex As A Weapon When You In A Relationship (XXX)

You know when you are in a relationship sex should never be used as a weapon to punish your lover,or significant other, sex should only be used to make each other feel good,cause what people fail to realize that if you think that you not giving a person sex cause of a disagreement or as leverage to get what you want then its obvious you dont know know what day and time it is, we live in a new day where it is very easy for a person who is not getting satisfied at home to get sex elsewhere and you dont want to fuck up and send them looking elsewhere and they come back finding something better,or maybe not comeback at all, i got a perfect example i had a boy name tone and tone and his lady misha was having a couple of issues and misha was not giving tone the sex he wanted  because misha decided to move her sister in the house with them so they didnt have the privacy they once had, but tone didnt care he just wanted to still get sexual with his girl behind close doors,and she started acting funny so tone was like i want to be able to come home and eat my girls pussy and please each other so she told him he was being selfish and she didnt like his attitude so she said she wasnt giving him any,until she felt he deserved it,so tone was like you know fuck this shit so one day after work he went out with a coworker name regina and he and regina went to have a couple of drinks and then after having drinks they got a room and in the room they was sipping on some 1800 and before you know they was kissing and then tone told her he wanted her and she took her clothes off and told him he better be ready for what she was about to give him so she laid on the bed spread her legs and told tone to eat her pussy and he ate her pussy from front to back and then he turned her over and ate her pussy and asshole from the back until she came on his face and licked up all her cum,then she pulled his pants down and sucked his dick until he exploded in her mouth and she was a trooper she kept on sucking until every drop was down her throat then she got his dick hard again and he got on top of her and fucked her and she talked dirty to him tone liked that cause his girl was boring at home she didnt talk much so tone loved then she had tone fucking her until she came and then she had him flip her over and told him she wanted him to fuck her in the ass so tone said hell yeah and he fucked in the ass until he came in her asshole and then she got on her knees and shot the cum out of her ass tone was like fucked up cause he hadnt got this kind of sex at home he said he used to beg misha to wear sexy panties and lipstick to bed she wouldnt do it but regina did and you know what tone and regina fucked for a couple of more hours and then tone went home and 2 weeks later he told misha he couldnt take it no more and he moved out and told her she could keep her pussy so the moral to the story is misha was then ready to give tone some but it was to late cause he had found something better and he told her you can keep your loaded gun cause i found some one who is willing to please indeed.

If Making Them Happy Cost You Your Happiness Then You Cant Afford Them.

You know sometimes people try so hard to make the next person happy that they sometimes end up losing there self and personality and identity trying to make them happy, and to me that is not healthy or right because relationships are a two way street and its about give or take and learning one another if you dont take the time to learn a person then how will you ever grow as one.a lot of times people meet people and they think they are going to be together forever,and they think they are doing the other person a favor giving in to all there needs even when they are not pleasing there own,but in the long run that is not good because you will eventually resent the other person because you have giving up who you are trying to fulfill the other person every need and the other persons self esteem issues or jealousy issues or even being with them so long that you dont even realize that you are doing everything one sided and then 20 something years later that person walks out on you and you sitting there looking crazy not realizing that maybe if you would have put your foot down in the beginning things might not have ended the way they did, so all im saying is never change completely the person you were entering a relationship its ok to give some but never give up your whole self to make a person happy and cost you your happiness cause if you do that then its obvious you cant afford that person cause they are to expensive for your health and your self indeed.