Blessings.

You know people take life for granted,they take money that they get for granted,they take there living situations for granted especially when they are living well,got a good job,got good health,all the above but you know what i never take anything i do for granted,or anything that happens to me for granted i count my blessings whether im having a good day or a bad day,and i will be the first to tell you i dont go to church like maybe society think i should but guess what i live a damn good christ like lifestyle i believe in my creator and i dont take anything for granted and you cant question what happens to you in life cause its all apart of gods plan, but what i dont like is when people feel like they have to be ashame of there blessings because it might be happening for them but not there friends or associates,but you know what you cant be ashame or hate on a person who is recieving there blessings cause yours will eventually come its all about living the right way and being patient and having the belief,and when your blessings come just accept them and move on and be thankful and humble and thats all you can do when you live a blessed life so i will tell anybody i know that i am blessed real talk indeed. and i dont take that for granted at all.

Never Use Sex As A Weapon When You In A Relationship (XXX)

You know when you are in a relationship sex should never be used as a weapon to punish your lover,or significant other, sex should only be used to make each other feel good,cause what people fail to realize that if you think that you not giving a person sex cause of a disagreement or as leverage to get what you want then its obvious you dont know know what day and time it is, we live in a new day where it is very easy for a person who is not getting satisfied at home to get sex elsewhere and you dont want to fuck up and send them looking elsewhere and they come back finding something better,or maybe not comeback at all, i got a perfect example i had a boy name tone and tone and his lady misha was having a couple of issues and misha was not giving tone the sex he wanted  because misha decided to move her sister in the house with them so they didnt have the privacy they once had, but tone didnt care he just wanted to still get sexual with his girl behind close doors,and she started acting funny so tone was like i want to be able to come home and eat my girls pussy and please each other so she told him he was being selfish and she didnt like his attitude so she said she wasnt giving him any,until she felt he deserved it,so tone was like you know fuck this shit so one day after work he went out with a coworker name regina and he and regina went to have a couple of drinks and then after having drinks they got a room and in the room they was sipping on some 1800 and before you know they was kissing and then tone told her he wanted her and she took her clothes off and told him he better be ready for what she was about to give him so she laid on the bed spread her legs and told tone to eat her pussy and he ate her pussy from front to back and then he turned her over and ate her pussy and asshole from the back until she came on his face and licked up all her cum,then she pulled his pants down and sucked his dick until he exploded in her mouth and she was a trooper she kept on sucking until every drop was down her throat then she got his dick hard again and he got on top of her and fucked her and she talked dirty to him tone liked that cause his girl was boring at home she didnt talk much so tone loved then she had tone fucking her until she came and then she had him flip her over and told him she wanted him to fuck her in the ass so tone said hell yeah and he fucked in the ass until he came in her asshole and then she got on her knees and shot the cum out of her ass tone was like fucked up cause he hadnt got this kind of sex at home he said he used to beg misha to wear sexy panties and lipstick to bed she wouldnt do it but regina did and you know what tone and regina fucked for a couple of more hours and then tone went home and 2 weeks later he told misha he couldnt take it no more and he moved out and told her she could keep her pussy so the moral to the story is misha was then ready to give tone some but it was to late cause he had found something better and he told her you can keep your loaded gun cause i found some one who is willing to please indeed.

If Making Them Happy Cost You Your Happiness Then You Cant Afford Them.

You know sometimes people try so hard to make the next person happy that they sometimes end up losing there self and personality and identity trying to make them happy, and to me that is not healthy or right because relationships are a two way street and its about give or take and learning one another if you dont take the time to learn a person then how will you ever grow as one.a lot of times people meet people and they think they are going to be together forever,and they think they are doing the other person a favor giving in to all there needs even when they are not pleasing there own,but in the long run that is not good because you will eventually resent the other person because you have giving up who you are trying to fulfill the other person every need and the other persons self esteem issues or jealousy issues or even being with them so long that you dont even realize that you are doing everything one sided and then 20 something years later that person walks out on you and you sitting there looking crazy not realizing that maybe if you would have put your foot down in the beginning things might not have ended the way they did, so all im saying is never change completely the person you were entering a relationship its ok to give some but never give up your whole self to make a person happy and cost you your happiness cause if you do that then its obvious you cant afford that person cause they are to expensive for your health and your self indeed.

Some People Wouldnt Know A blessing If it hit them in the face.

The old saying goes count your blessings,cause you never know when or if you will get them,but i really think that some people are destined to be miserable because they wouldnt know a blessing if it hit them samck dab in the face, i mean people search there whole life trying to be happy whether its financial or just finding someone to spend there life with,and people get caught up on a certain type that when they get something different they dont rrealize that god may have chosen to lead you ina different direction because the direction you been following only lead to nothing but heartbreak and headaches, so sometimes pay attention to your maker cause he wont steer you wrong he will sometimes give you blessings in a different package and that package might be the one you have been looking for all your life so all im saying is never mess up you r blessings there is thing called patience and maturity and that will lead you to prosperity whether its giving you money you never expected or giving you a wife or husband that you always wanted so all im saying watch for your blessings cause you never want to mess them up cause they dont come often and thats real.

Money Can Make Relationship Or Break it If its not Stable.

You know the old saying is that money is the root of all evil, but what people dont know is if you and your mate is not on a solid foundation then the relationship can easily be broken when money becomes funny,that is why you never get with someone just because of money cause money comes and goes but a loyal person is hard to find,someone who will be with you thru the good times and the bad,and someone who is going to be the same person whether they have a pocket full of money or not,and never stress about money cause if all your relationship is about is based on money then you never had a solid relationship in the first place so all im saying is be careful who claim to be your man or woman cause you might not have someone who will be down when the money run low,be with somebody who is down no matter what and once you have someone like that on your team you will be able to weather any kind of storm that comes your way real talk indeed.

Balanced Relationships are the best relationships.

When entering into a relationship the best relationships is when two people can give each other time to miss each other to make the other person miss them give them enough time and loving that the other person will want to be with them on there own not as and obligation,cause when you feel obligated in a relationship that will lead to boredom and resentment and then end game scenario will be a parting of ways, you have to give the person you with so much of a good time and fun that when they are away from you they will miss you and want to be with you ,but it goes both ways you have to also be willing when entering a relationship to give some time as well cause if you dont then the other person will feel neglected and then there attention will wonder so its all about give and take,not just all about you its all about you and your boo,and the sooner you both figure out and learn each other thats how you both will progress towards a happy relationship and the sooner you learn your mate then the better it will be for both cause if you dont give perosn air to breta then they will eventually start breathing elsewhere and thats real talk. its nothing wrong with wnating to be with each other you just have to kmake it where both of you missing each other and both of you are on the same page,now if that person never gets on your page then maybe you need to get a new book indeed.

be with someone who is willing to make lemons out of lemonade.

you know i have to write about this topic because its to many people that i know or have come in contact with who is thinking they have someone who is in there corner only to find that when the good times turn to bad times they are ready to leave a persons true character will show when the bad times come,if they are willing to make lemons out of lemonade then you got a keeper but im seeing that its to many people leaving people and not sticking around with the going gets tough,thats why you have so many relationships that are failing cause you dont have loyal people anymore as soon as the finance dry up,people looking for a way out,as soon as they get bored they looking for away out its like people dont try to work things out anymore people just ready to give up,and then asa soon as they give up on a person they think dont have it going on anymore then as soon as that person back on top people want to change there mind,i say fuck that be with that individual who was with you when times were rough and tough cause those are the true loyal people that are hard to find so if you got one hold on to them indeed. and let the material ones keep it moving.