Its Only So Much Talking You Can Do.

you know when you are in your teens and you like someone some people may be shy,when they like someone so they will play games talk all day and stuff like that but when you get older its only so much talking you should be doing quit beating around the bush if you like someone then tell them and if you dont want people to know how you feel about that person then keep your feelings private but at least let the other person know and if they with it then act on it and stop all the talking and get to some action whether its a date,or a dinner or shit actually getting intimate but damn how much communicating are you going to do actions speak louder than words eventually so all im saying is if you truly feeling someone then get to know the person other than just the phone meet that person see if you two really click and if you do now you doing grown up shit real talk indeed to talk about it be about it.

Sometimes You Have To Cut Your Losses.

You know sometimes you have to come to the realization that everybody is not meant to be in your life forever,and when you realize that the better off you will be especially when you get older cause when you in your teens and your 20s and 30s you might have plenty of friends and associates but when you get in your 40s and you have a wife or husband and kids a family of your own, you will come to realize that you dont need everybody especially muthafuckas who make it seem like you bothering they punk ass when in reality they lucky they even being kept in the loop bitches,so me personally i know who my true friends is my wife is my best friend,then my childhood buddies and i have a few co workers from chrysler who are my dogs for life but those associates that i hardly even text then you will know that its nothing personal its just business and the business is you getting the fuck on and realizing that you had the ultimate friend in me but you didnt know how to act right so now you feel the wrath of not hearing from me and thats how other people need to be realize that everybody comes and goes and you make everybody happy so just close your circle and allow those who you know is your true dogs in i got a homeboy name sean me and him been boys since 94 going to wrestling matches concerts football games and we may not talk a lot but we text at least three or four times a week and he live on the other side of town but you know what he made it to a lot of my events cause thats what homeboys do and for that he a dog foe life so thats just and example of what a true friend is actions speak louder than words and for those who dont get it then you never will but i will be showing you indeed,and i got 5 brothers 2 by blood 3 by friendship and they know who they are cause we going to vegas in september real talk indeed so it dont matter if you known somebody for 30 years if they not wanting to be around you or interact unless its just to ride your dick cause they know you popular then you dont need those type of niggas cause those are bitch niggas so choose your friend sand associates wisely indeed.

You Not And Orignal Screenplay You Just A sequel Of the First Movie.

You know some people might get mad at what im about to write but you know me i dont give a fuck cause its the truth, i hate when people who were cheating with each other and one of the people who were in a relationship decides to leave to be with that person to have a relationship,and once there in the relationship they be surprised when they get cheated on, im like didnt you cheat with that person before you to became a couple, so what makes you think you gonna be treated diffrently you not the original you just a sequel and encore of what they been doing in the past the present and the future so dont hink that your sex or you as a person is going to make that person who cheated with a woman the night before his marriage and weeks after his marriage with over 30 women is going to ever be loyal to you please believe he is going to be that way forever,you just a person of convience for him and the moment you realize that then maybe you will get up and leave this horror movie and go find you a good movie to star in and thats real talk cause you should want to be a leading lady not a supporting cast with you mate real talk indeed.

Support Your Black Tv Shows.

You know whats funny to me well its funny but also sad, is that its 2015 and we as a black community only have a handful of black shoes on the air, but yet i find it funny that people complain about people liking empire cause they got a faggot on the show so what its more to the show than just the gay guy its a good show then you have ignorant people who say i watch power not empire how about watching both cause let me break it down to you out of regular tv and cable we only have blackish on abc power on starz, empire on fox, the game which is about to get canceled on bet, being mary jane on bet,have and have nots on own,love thy neighbor on own,for better or worse on own scandal even though its majority white, how to get away with murder.and thats it. 9 damn tv shows on all those networks,and you know why cause networks think this new generation is ignorant and dumb,and all they think we watch or want to watch is bullshit reality tv vh1 puts bullshit on for black people cause they dont think we our intelligent enough for good tv shows with scripts and plots, and another thing you dont see white people saying im only watching this white show instead of this white show cause they got so many to choose from im not saying you have to watch the few black shows we have but at least dont dog those that do watch them thats all i got to say about it.

Pay Attention to your Mate or some one Else Will.

You know i hate when i sit back and watch people i know who have a man or a woman, and i see from the outside looking in that there relationship is not how it should be,but yet they complain about oh she want this or she wants that,or he want to much from and im like man do you realize that you fucking up,and once a person get tired of your shit thats it,and the worst thing you can do is make the other person not care whether you coming or going,to me thats the worst cause once a person dont care its a wrap,nobody should have to complain in a relationship over and over about the same thing if they do then to me its obvious the other person dont give a fuck and if they dont give a fuck then someone else out there is truly willing to care please believe it people think cause they got a person they dont have to make and effort to keep them but thats bullshit its easy to get in a relationship but the work is keeping it happy,and if you are truly with your soulmate its not even considered work its considered fun cause you love that person so much you are willing to do whatever to make them happy, i know people and i dont give a fuck cause aint nobody going to kick my ass or confront me with what i say cause its the truth,but i no niggas who have a good woman and they been with them forever and wont take them no fucking where i mean been with for over ten plus years and only they ever took them was on a family trip or to see his side of the family no romance whats so ever and yet he think he go t something she just hasnt reached her boiling point but when she do he will be the first one begging and acting a fool but my thing is nigga you knew what you had but you chosed to be a hoe so let her go.And then you have those who have children and there children have never spent a trip not even to cedar point with there dad cause he choose to be barney fife and dont give a fuck about his family to take the time and make memories with his wife and kids but yet the minute she tell him she wont out he will be crying like a monkey and then you got womn who marry these old black muthafuckas and they know they old but yet the old muthatfucka got to pop viagra just to fuck his wife in the ass and yet his dick still dont work and he know she like it up the ass and there kid is grown now so if she decided to leave his ass cause he got a limp dick dont want to travel aor get freaky then he aint got nothing to say but he should have tried harder.so if im on the outside looking in and i can see all this then its obvious you need to pay attention cause im here to tell you i pay attention to mine i travel with her we go to movies we go shopping together we talk all the time we go out to eat and in the bedroom aint nothing i wont do to make her cum and aint shit she wont do to make cum either so all im saying is you dumbasses who be crying and bitching you better start paying attention or you gonna be ass out and some other nigga or woman gonna be where you used to be real talk from the truth.

Are You Living Or Are You Existing.

You know i think its a shame when people who have the oppourtunity to get out and enjoy life and they dont do it i mean there is nothing wrong with working and making a living but its more to life than just work, i dont care who you are everybody needs a vacation and even if its not going out of town and just relaxing doing things that make you happy do them but dont just sit back and not take advantage of what life has to offer, i hate when people sit back and just work work and work,but then complain and hate on people who go on trips,who go to sporting events ,concerts movies plays whatever,my thing is you chose the life you live,so dont hate on the next man cause your life is boring and not the way you want,do something about it cause if you dont you will look up and realize that you are not living you just existing and i be damn if i ever be that way and thats real talk. And for those people who fill the need to hate on the next person for enjoying life trust and believe when your ass get old and cold you gonna wish you had did something in life.

Go See The Doctor.

You know when you are young you think that you are going to be healthy forever,you dont even think about being sick,you dont think about what you eat or drink you just feel like you are invincible well im here to tell you that we have and epidemic of mass proportion in the black community especially with type 2 diabetes hypertension, and obesity, so especially for my dogs in there 40s go to the doctor get check ups,physicals make sure you are ok cause you dont want to be walking around and not knowing if you have something or if your body is out of wack and thats real talk.i go to the doctor whenever i dont feel right cause i want to live for as long as god will let me,and im not trying to leave here no time soon and for people who be saying its cool to be a big fella walking around with a big ass stomach and over weight that shit aint cool that shit is unhealthy and its just slowly but surely taking years off your life and thats serious so for whoever reading my blog keep up with your health cause we leaving here way to early i want to be in my 80s or 90s sipping lemonade in the shade looking back on my life not leaving here in my 40s or 50s real talk go see the doctor.