Pay Attention to your Mate or some one Else Will.

You know i hate when i sit back and watch people i know who have a man or a woman, and i see from the outside looking in that there relationship is not how it should be,but yet they complain about oh she want this or she wants that,or he want to much from and im like man do you realize that you fucking up,and once a person get tired of your shit thats it,and the worst thing you can do is make the other person not care whether you coming or going,to me thats the worst cause once a person dont care its a wrap,nobody should have to complain in a relationship over and over about the same thing if they do then to me its obvious the other person dont give a fuck and if they dont give a fuck then someone else out there is truly willing to care please believe it people think cause they got a person they dont have to make and effort to keep them but thats bullshit its easy to get in a relationship but the work is keeping it happy,and if you are truly with your soulmate its not even considered work its considered fun cause you love that person so much you are willing to do whatever to make them happy, i know people and i dont give a fuck cause aint nobody going to kick my ass or confront me with what i say cause its the truth,but i no niggas who have a good woman and they been with them forever and wont take them no fucking where i mean been with for over ten plus years and only they ever took them was on a family trip or to see his side of the family no romance whats so ever and yet he think he go t something she just hasnt reached her boiling point but when she do he will be the first one begging and acting a fool but my thing is nigga you knew what you had but you chosed to be a hoe so let her go.And then you have those who have children and there children have never spent a trip not even to cedar point with there dad cause he choose to be barney fife and dont give a fuck about his family to take the time and make memories with his wife and kids but yet the minute she tell him she wont out he will be crying like a monkey and then you got womn who marry these old black muthafuckas and they know they old but yet the old muthatfucka got to pop viagra just to fuck his wife in the ass and yet his dick still dont work and he know she like it up the ass and there kid is grown now so if she decided to leave his ass cause he got a limp dick dont want to travel aor get freaky then he aint got nothing to say but he should have tried harder.so if im on the outside looking in and i can see all this then its obvious you need to pay attention cause im here to tell you i pay attention to mine i travel with her we go to movies we go shopping together we talk all the time we go out to eat and in the bedroom aint nothing i wont do to make her cum and aint shit she wont do to make cum either so all im saying is you dumbasses who be crying and bitching you better start paying attention or you gonna be ass out and some other nigga or woman gonna be where you used to be real talk from the truth.

Are You Living Or Are You Existing.

You know i think its a shame when people who have the oppourtunity to get out and enjoy life and they dont do it i mean there is nothing wrong with working and making a living but its more to life than just work, i dont care who you are everybody needs a vacation and even if its not going out of town and just relaxing doing things that make you happy do them but dont just sit back and not take advantage of what life has to offer, i hate when people sit back and just work work and work,but then complain and hate on people who go on trips,who go to sporting events ,concerts movies plays whatever,my thing is you chose the life you live,so dont hate on the next man cause your life is boring and not the way you want,do something about it cause if you dont you will look up and realize that you are not living you just existing and i be damn if i ever be that way and thats real talk. And for those people who fill the need to hate on the next person for enjoying life trust and believe when your ass get old and cold you gonna wish you had did something in life.

Go See The Doctor.

You know when you are young you think that you are going to be healthy forever,you dont even think about being sick,you dont think about what you eat or drink you just feel like you are invincible well im here to tell you that we have and epidemic of mass proportion in the black community especially with type 2 diabetes hypertension, and obesity, so especially for my dogs in there 40s go to the doctor get check ups,physicals make sure you are ok cause you dont want to be walking around and not knowing if you have something or if your body is out of wack and thats real talk.i go to the doctor whenever i dont feel right cause i want to live for as long as god will let me,and im not trying to leave here no time soon and for people who be saying its cool to be a big fella walking around with a big ass stomach and over weight that shit aint cool that shit is unhealthy and its just slowly but surely taking years off your life and thats serious so for whoever reading my blog keep up with your health cause we leaving here way to early i want to be in my 80s or 90s sipping lemonade in the shade looking back on my life not leaving here in my 40s or 50s real talk go see the doctor.

When you become one its not I its We (Team Concept)

You know when you decide that you want to become married or in a serious relationship its not about what one individual wants to do all the time its about what we as a couple are going to agree to do, or its about pleasing your other half even if it means doing things you might not like,but its about being supportive with your other half you cant just be selfish and make it all about you if you choose to be this way then you might as well have stayed single cause what woman or man want a person who is selfish and not caring about what the other person wants or needs thats not a team player thats a individual player real talk and what people need to realize if you cant play on the team the person who is not being treated fairly will eventually get tired and ask to be waived to another team and thats real indeed.

Close The Door"

You know this post im about to write is about people who think once they break your heart,or walk out of your life that they think they will always have and open invitation to return,thats bullshit,i can see if you both ended on good terms,or it was mutual,but to leave in a fucked up matter,and then think you can just pop up and say hey baby im back or how you doing after being away for months and years thats bullshit,nowadays people dont get once you close that door, the locks have been changed and you are no longer welcomed no more, and i dont see nothing wrong with it,especially when you hurt someones heart and soul you cant do shit like that and expect a person to be happy your back,if anything the person is going to rehash the hurt you caused before you left,or they are going to resent you for trying to comeback especially when the person you left has found true happiness the last thing they want is to be reminded of you,so people who think grass is green on the other side,and then they find out it was artificial turf, just keep on moving cause best believe the other person has found someone else to water there grass real talk indeed.

50 Shades Of Black ( Black Love Edition)

You know today is valentines day a day for lovers or showing people that you care about how you feel and also its a day for some intense love making or stimulating sex, and with the that being said let me tell you about a story that i was allowed to share about a follower of my blog who i want reveal there names, but anyway this woman name lasandra and this guy name corleone had been dating and there sex was pretty good but i dont think corleone knew that lasandra was the freak that he would love find out about, so one day he came over to her apartment and they started talking and laughing like always until they started kissing,and the kissing led to clothes coming off and so lasandra  layed on the bed and corleone started kissing her from head to toe eating her pussy sucking on her clit just all in the pussy,and then after he made her cum she said hold on and she went into the other room,and then she called him so he got up dick hard as hell and she had put on a red garter set and she had him sit in a chair in the middle of the living room and then she tied up his hands and blindfolded him, then she sucked his dick real good and then she climbed on top of him and started to slide her pussy on his dick but then she said hold on i want to video tape this so then sfter pushing record she got on his dick riding him hard and then she got off his dick before he could cum and she turned around and got back up on him and started riding his dick in her asshole until he came in her ass and as he was cumming he was moaning hard and after that they went back to bedroom and fucked somemore off and on for the rest of the night and from that day forward corleone knew he had the woman he always wanted and they became lovers and eventually husband and wife and this is real talk so fuck 50 shades of gray this couple had already experienced 50 shades of black from making porns to making love.

Whats Wrong With My Black People.

I Try not to tackle a lot of political stories and a lot of racial or gay topics because as i have found out the powers that be called the internet will shut you down if you go overboard cause i lost my first blog 2 years ago so i know, but i have to say something about some things that i have been seeing or reading about in the black community that i just want to address and put my point and opinion on. First what happen to compassion for your fellow man or woman, the man who walked 21 miles to work everyday got a story written about him and they gave him a car and collected $35000 for him and the first thing people say is what makes him so special i been walking to work for years and then you got people coming to his house trying to ask for handouts can they drive his car perfect strangers im like people true you have people who do walk to work everyday catching buses and so forth, but this man just recieved a blessing cause a person read his story felt sorry for him and decided that he was going to raise money for him and they did and good for this man im glad for him just as if he was anybody else no hate he was blessed god blessed him but people gonna hate cause its so much jealousy and hate in the black community that its not even funny,black people need to support each other not tear each other down,then you have empire a black show on fox killing the game and yes it has some gay shit on it but look at the big picture how many black shows do we have on tv, not many and for some reason some black people call the show stereotypical and the man trying to keep us down but my thing is white people have many shows on and all of them our not good but you dont hear the white people bashing the shows you have good and bad but what im saying is damn it we only got a handful of shows support them or dont watch but dont say take them off cause these shows need support from the black community not hate but it goes back to why we dont have many black grocery store owners in the black community cause we as black people dont stick together we always hating on each other and if we ever got smart and supported each other then we could possibly achieve success together instead of tearing each other down unity brings prosperity real talk so people support each others success not shit on them.