Just Be Yourself In The Bedroom"

You know a lot of times when people decide to become intimate,they hold back sometimes until they get to know the person more,or they might not want to do as much with that person at once,but my thing is that is all fine and dandy,but i say once those doors close just be your self if you a freak then be a freak,dont be afraid that being the real you will scare off the person,cause if you have to hold back from being the real you in the bedroom then in reality you shortchanging yourself,and the person you with,cause sometimes you will here people say oh i didnt want you to think i was a freak,or i didnt want you to think i do this with everyone,my thing is fuck what they did in there past you the present,and if you want to lay a woman down and lick her pussy,her asshole,,suck her toes,whatever,then do it,and if you like to fuck more than once then let her know what type of guy she dealing with cause if she not on your level then at least you will know that she is not the one for you,cause the worst thing you can do is hold back that inner freak,thats not a good thing to do,and if you a woman who might get off on sucking dick,or tossing salad,or liking a man to fuck you a certain way,or call you dirty names,or you like it in the ass,or you like to kiss whatever,then let that nigga know hey this what i like,and if he not down then trust and believe its someone who is,but dont be laying back getting fucked and sucked,and its not the way you like just cause you find a person attractive,or they sweet,cause that shit only going to go so far,just be real,and let the person know hey this what i like to bring to the bedroom,and if they with it cool,if not then you either going to continue being fake,or you going to find somebody who gonna get that nut out of you the way you like it and thats real talk.

You Dont Need A man Cause You got it going on And He Dont Really Hmmmm"

You know its different circumstances in this world we live in that things like welfare,or child support,or some form of government assistance is needed for single mothers,and thats fine especially when you have have fathers who are not in the kids life,or if the woman loses her job, but what gets me is when you run across these women who are real arrogant towards a man who may have a job or some income coming in,and the woman has the nerve to be cocky,and say she got it going on,and she got to have a man who is on her level,okay thats fine and dandy if the woman has a job,her own house,and car and she wants a man on her level thats real,but when you a woman who is arrogant enough to talk shit,and your so called having it going on is a fraud,then you need a taste of humble pie,how dare you walk around like you the shit,when in reality you really dont have shit,and i hear this a lot from women,who are perpetrating a fraud, lets examine this hmmm, ok you getting food stamps,from the government,you got a section 8 house, from the government,you getting child support from your baby daddies, you getting some cash assistance from the governement your family is getting medicaid from the government, so my question for you is why would feel the right to say you have it going on and you dogging a man who has a job,or a woman who has a job but you the shit you just laying on your ass having the government take care of you,and once again im not dogging anybody who is getting help cause people need it,but im dogging the ones out who are a fraud and have the nerve to be talking shit about there life when in reality you aint bringing shit to the table either the government is supporting you,my tax dollars is supporting you,so all im saying is be humble,cause living off the government and getting help the rest of your life you are not winning your just a person bragging who really aint bringing shit to no table uncle sam is please believe it and for the ones who are really in need of help and dont be bragging and boasting things will get better this wasnt for you this for the ones who think they winning and in reality they aint doing shit but talking shit be humble not and asshole.

You Must be able to leave your past in the past in order to move forward.

You know a lot of people whether its in past relationships,friendships,or whatever type of past relationships,get so caught up in the past that they cant move forward,and a lot of times people think that even though they may have had a good thing with a person in the past, the past is never where you left it,yeah you can try and recapture the magic of the past,thinking a friendship might be the same where you left off,or and old relationship is going to be just as good as you left off,but most of the time you cant pick up where you left off people change,and so many times there are to many people who are leaving off of what they thought was great in the past,because they are afraid of the future,and what they fell to realize is they are holding themselves hostage,because of maybe guilt of moving on to bigger and better things,and there past is not,or they afraid that if they move on to someone new,that they might not ever be able to retrieve what they had in the past,but you can think,or be like that you have to use the past for what it was intended for,good memories,and good times,and as a special place that you can always reflect,but you have to move on cause if you dont then you will always be a step back from everyone else talking about what you used to do,and how things used to be,instead of being relevent in present,and starting new memories for the future,i can always look back on the past had a great childhood,and had great friendships along the way,but im not going to have memories stop me from making new ones so dont live in the past accept what you had with someone,or friendships you had with people,and hopefully those people will move to the future with you,and if they cant then its best you leave them in the past where they probably belong real talk.

If It Can Happen To Them It can Happen To You"

You know i think its a shame that the city of detroit is under bankruptcy, but i think whats even more shameful is the chance that they can now take away a persons pension, a person who has worked 25 to 30 years,who has families and all of a sudden you saying that everything they have worked for could be gone,that to me is injust,and unfair,and its a damn shame that it is not more uproar than it is,and i think its because its one of those things of,well its them not me they fucking with,but that kind of attitude,is terrible to have,because one day it could be you who is being fucked with, it could be you who might at the age of 60,be looking for work, where you once was getting anywhere from 3000 to 5000 or more a month to now maybe nothing or as little as 1000 a month that to me is highway robbery,and i hope and pray that these fuckers dont take there pensions away but if they do then all i can say is pray for these people cause they will need it real talk,and may god have mercy on the souls of those who take there pensions away.

Holiday Blues"

You know the holidays are upon us starting with thanksgiving, and then christmas,and new years,and a lot of  people from what i have been hearing and seeing,is not feeling the holiday season this year,and it might be for various reasons,finances,a loss of a loved one,being lonely,not having a lover,who knows,but what i can respect is the ones who will tell you how they are feeling,and hopefully you can cheer them up,if they let you,but the ones i can respect,are the ones who want you to join there sad party,or the ones who get mad cause your life is going a certain way that theres is not,so what i have to say to those people is if you want to be depressed and dont want any help from anyone,then thats on you and i can do nothing but respect that,but the ones who are sad and depressed,and want you to feel the same way,you ass out on my end cause i may not have my grandmother this year and it will be rough,but i be damn if im going to stop living and enjoying life,and i damn sure not going to make how i feel about my grandma not being here on someone else cause thats not fair,and its not cool so all i can say is if you know someone who is down and out this holiday season,try to cheer them up,and if they dont want your help respect that,and enjoy the holiday season the best way you know how and thats real talk.

FOREPLAY XXX EDTION"

You know when your young and you a man and maybe young women to,all you thinking about when it comes to sex,is how many nuts can you get,you not thinking about learning her body,or her learning your body,you just want to cum,and hope she cums,and fuck like jack rabbits until you to tired to fuck,but when you get a little older,and a little wiser,its not all about just busting a nut,unless you a selfish lover,or a lover who is not really into perfecting your craft,and if you are one of those people then this topic is not for you,but if you are one of those people then you know where im going with this one, i mean i think that from what i hear about and see on this social media sites,and im not speaking for everybody,but a lot of people have stopped practicing the art of foreplay,and to me foreplay is what makes the sex,or lovemaking that much better,i mean you and a woman get together,whats wrong with taking the time to learn each others bodies or spots that get each other hot,i mean kissing the good old fashion kissing,kissing the neck,or the belly button,or the crease between her thigh,rubbing her thighs,or her feet,or sucking her toes,or taking your time and eating her pussy nice and long,or sucking her titties if she likes,just finding her spots,or her g spot,and for the fellas,just look at your lady as a juicy steak,and how you want your steak prepared,you know i like to marinate my steak real good so its so juicy,and seasoned before i eat it,and to me that is how you should do your lady marinate her body with your tongue and hands,and dont be afraid to taste her holes,asshole,pussyhole whatever,just get her so fired up,and ready that when you get to the sexual intercourse part,she is going to be wet and flowing like a river,waiting for your dick to slide right in,and after you have gotten her there you are going to be ready as well cause your dick should be hard as a rock waiting to fuck her form all the foreplay you have giving her,but the key is patience like the old saying goes good things come to those who wait,and if you can wait to get her body flowing then she is going give you a helluva showing in the bedroom,kitchen living room wherever the foreplay takes you real talk.

Must Be Nice It Damn Sure Is"

You know if you been a follower of my blog i have wrote about how people who you think are happy for your success really deep down,be hoping and praying for your downfall,i mean you have some people who are truly hapy for you,but you have those who will say it must be nice,and i love to hear those words come out peoples mouths,cause my comeback is always the same it sure is,cause i know they truly dont mean it,its just away to say something rather than show the hate,jealousy,and envy,and its sad because so many people give there selves away on social media sites,and in life,cause if you post a quote or comment about something good or positive going on in your life,you will be surprised at how few likes you will get,the only true likes will come from someone who is truly happy for you,a true friend,but post something about a break up,or losing your job,or something negative,shit you gonna get all kinds of likes because misery loves company,and its sad because it be the people you least expect who be hating on you the most,so for all you positive people out there,let your haters hate,do you,enjoy your life,to the fullest,and when someone says it must be nice look them dead in there face and say you got damn right it is real talk.