You Must be able to leave your past in the past in order to move forward.

You know a lot of people whether its in past relationships,friendships,or whatever type of past relationships,get so caught up in the past that they cant move forward,and a lot of times people think that even though they may have had a good thing with a person in the past, the past is never where you left it,yeah you can try and recapture the magic of the past,thinking a friendship might be the same where you left off,or and old relationship is going to be just as good as you left off,but most of the time you cant pick up where you left off people change,and so many times there are to many people who are leaving off of what they thought was great in the past,because they are afraid of the future,and what they fell to realize is they are holding themselves hostage,because of maybe guilt of moving on to bigger and better things,and there past is not,or they afraid that if they move on to someone new,that they might not ever be able to retrieve what they had in the past,but you can think,or be like that you have to use the past for what it was intended for,good memories,and good times,and as a special place that you can always reflect,but you have to move on cause if you dont then you will always be a step back from everyone else talking about what you used to do,and how things used to be,instead of being relevent in present,and starting new memories for the future,i can always look back on the past had a great childhood,and had great friendships along the way,but im not going to have memories stop me from making new ones so dont live in the past accept what you had with someone,or friendships you had with people,and hopefully those people will move to the future with you,and if they cant then its best you leave them in the past where they probably belong real talk.