Having A Sugardaddy Aint Always Sweet"

You know im about to keep it real as possible,and this is to the ladies who are not independent who feel that finding them and older man who will take care of them and pay there bills and help them out,is the way to go,well let me tell you a story of someone i know personally,its a friend of mine who had a decent job making ok money not great but ok,who decided she wanted to meet this man who 18 years older than her and at the time she was 39 and he was 57 going on 58, so life was good he was taking her on nice trips,buying her nice gifts,just showing her the good life,well she started falling in love with him so she thought,and so they kicked for a while,and finally they got married so she made the sugar daddy her husband,well lets fast forward 13 years later now she 52 and he 70 and his ass got a million ailments now,all those trips and shit is over cause he cant do it no more and he dont want to do it no more,and now she is breaking down from taking care of his ass so i asked her life aint so sweet now with your sugardaddy and she said not only is it not sweet she had no idea that he would quickly get set in his ways,and all those great times they had together his old ass was not up to it no,more so now she wants to back track and find somebody her age,but she didnt look at the big picture then she just saw dollar signs,and the smell of roses,and now all she see is his pension and social security coming in once a month and the smell of bengay,and having a dry ass pussy cause he to broke down to fuck her,so for those looking for a sugardaddy do your homework first and look at the big picture real talk.

Catching Feelings 2013 (Sexual Edition)

I had to share this one cause this is someone who i know personally but its a perfect example of someone not being able to hold up there end of the bargain, i t was this girl name tish,and she was just getting out of a relationship with her ex who cheated on her,and they had been together for 8 years,so after they broke up she met this guy name eric so eric was like a good friend to her,who she was attracted to,but she didnt want things to get to serious cause she didnt want to lose his friendship,so one day after being friends for a couple monthst eric,and tish went out for lunch,and so she came clean and told him that she was liking him,but she only wanted sex and his friendship,so eric was like cool he was attracted to her as well,so they went back to his place,and he was showing her his new furniture,and they was laughing and having a good time,then she reached over,and kissed him,and so they got really into each other so she stop him and asked him if we go any further you can handle it,so he said of course,so then she shocked him and said she wanted to taste him so she unzipped his pants and started sucking his dick and she sucked his dick so good that he came in her mouth and she swallowed all his juices,then she pushed him back on the couch,and pulled her skirt down,and sat on his face,and rode his face until she came,but then she bent over and told him to lick her asshole so he was like she is freaky so he did it and she was loving it then she suck on him some more and then she put his dick inside her and he fucked and sucked both her holes,and after a night day and night of multiple orgasms she was ready for him to leave,so eric left,and so they were fucking and freaking for over a month,but then eric fucked up one night after tish gave him some asshole and he came in her ass, he told her he loved her and wanted to be her man,but what fucked him up was tish did not want what he wanted,so eric did exactly what tish hoped would not happen he got caught up,and got mad,and started catching feelings,so she had to break it off with him cause she did not want a serious relationship,and eric kept blowing up her phone,to the point she had to threaten him with the police,so finally eric left her alone but he was all fucked up by tish love so my point of this story is people will tell you anything to get in your pants,or to get some sex,but everybody dont want to play by the hand they were dealt,so my advice is lay your cards on the table from the start and if you do that then everybody should like the hand they were dealt real talk.

RESPECT"

You know its a sad day and age we live in now,it seems like nobody respects anybody anymore,in relationships you have couples who call each other bitches,and hoes,i mean just downright disrepecting there love ones,you have women who see another woman and want to call her a bitch cause of eye contact,and then you have shit happen like the women on linwood and davidson fighting at the coney island at 3am in the morning just ratchet shit beating each other up over some words or eye contact,and then nobody trying to stop women from beating each others asses,its like the men standing around got off on that shit,and you know why cause they dont have any respect for women, and its a damn shame that this is the society we live in now,i have a daughter and if saw any women rolling around half naked fighting getting beat up hell yeah i would try and stop it,cause thats the way i was raised and i damn sure not going to call a woman out her name for no reason especially a woman i love,thats just disrespectful to me,but the sad part is this generation is not like the one i grew up in,and some good kids,but its a lot of bad ones being raised with no manners,no structure,and no respect for there elders,and that is why we live in a society where you have wives,or girlfriends,calling there men,bitch niggas,and saying all kind of bad shit to cause they dont respect them,same goes for the men,they quick to put there hands on a woman,or call her out her name cause of the respect they dont have,so all im saying is people we got to do better im just a person who has over a million followers and i hope that after reading this it will help a few change cause the respect issue is terrible. Real Talk.

She Just Wants To Fuck It Doesnt Make Her A hoe or A bitch"

You know its always has been a double standard in the past when it comes to men,and women A man can fuck a woman and not want any emotional connection with her,but now in 2013 when a woman does it she is considered, a hoe,freak,slut,or a freak bitch.But to me that shit is so stupid,thats why i write the truth,cause i like to tell it like it is,and the real just of it is so many niggas come with baggage that a lot of women is tired of they bullshit so they really dont want to deal with a niggas insecurity,or him being abusive,or not wanting to do things with her,so they rather not deal with the bullshit,the lies,the games,all the above,but just as man,a woman does have her needs,and i know you hear some women saying they have there toys,but at the end of the day there is nothing like the real thing,so the modern day woman may be looking for a man, to satisfy her sexual needs,make her cum,and make her feel good,but once he does his job sexually its time for him to go cause thats all she might be looking for at that time,and if thats what she wants then more power to her thats her business and nobody should be judging her cause in reality she just doing what niggas been doing for years, and i dont blame her if thats what she wants. So a lot of guys get caught up in there feelings and think they can give her some dick,and make her change her mind,and want more but if a woman has her mind made up with the mentality that she just wants sex and nothing more,then niggas need to deal with it and move,on cause these are not old days this is how it is for some women, hell some niggas be catching feelings worst than a woman anyway real talk. My thing is be the man that she wants and maybe you might get more than some pussy if not do your job that she needed you to do and keep it moving.

One Bad Apple Should Not Spoil A Bunch"

You know not everybody,but a lot of people have been hurt by love in there lifetime by a no good ass woman or man,and it will hurt,and it will make you put your guard up,but what i hate is people who get fucked over by a person,and then they judge anybody new,the same thinking the next person is going to bring the same bullshit to the table that the one who hurt you did,but what you are doing  by not allowing the next person a chance to give you true happiness,is allowing your ex to continue to have a hold on you and thats fucked up real talk, i mean they will have gone on with there lives,and you still walking around,saying biggas aint shit,or bitches aint shit,or posting negative,messages on social media,looking like a bitter scorned person,and that shit aint cool,and its not a good look,because you are letting a person change the essence of you,and not allowing the true person that you are glow,and shine to the next man or woman,so all im saying is if you are hurt by and individual you will hurt,and you will need time to get over them,but dont let them hold you down to long from finding the true happiness that you deserve real talk.

Its Women You Date And Its Women You Marry"

You know i was talking to my boy the other day,and he was telling me that he liked this girl a lot,they have a good time,they have great sex,she loves to go to the clubs,and party,and drink,and get fucked up,and hang out half the night,and she just wild,and he was like man she is a real freak,and she is really fun,but he said that he was getting tired of all the wild stuff,and ready to settle down,but he said as much as he liked her he couldnt see his self marrying her,so i told him,son its women you marry,and its women you date,cause when you get married its not like the fun stops,its just its a time to settle down,you cut back on the wild things you used to do,you can still be that freak for your mate,and still have some fun,but all the hanging out every night,and trying to bring single person things to a married situation,is not going to work,and if you have somebody thats not ready to adjust there lifestyle to fit the marriage then you must do your homework,before you fall in love with someone who is not ready to settle,cause looks aint everything she can be fine as wine,or the freak,or the party girl,and thats cool to date,but if you looking for someone to call your wife,then better be ready to have some one who is willing to give up the single life indeed.

April 2 2013 I Lost A peace Of My Heart"

On April 2 2013 Just A little Over A week Ago I found My grandmother in her home dead, and it wasnt the worst feeling i have ever had to experience in my life,cause the sad part was i got talk to her for almost 40 minutes, a couple of nights before her death,and we talked like we always have about everything and i still cant believe she is gone,it isnt like she was sick she was active,on the go,and just a great respected lady who i loved,and was like a 2nd mom to me,And now this saturday i have to say my final goodbye to her,and that in itself is going to be hard as well, i know people have told me to cherish the good times,and i eventually i will, but right now my heart hurts,because i have lost not just and icon in my family,but my idol a woman who i patterned my life around,she taught to enjoy life,travel,have fun,not just sit around and do nothing,she would have superbowl parties when i was growing up, she would take me to the racetrack at drc,when i was old enough and we spent our saturdays watching the horses run,and having lunch that was our time,and she loved me and my brothers like we were her sons, and when i gave her the first and only great granddaughter she was so proud,and she loved my daughter just as she loved me and my brothers, mothers day wont be the same this year cause every mothers day me and my mom and grandma,and brothers would go out to dinner and spend time,and now she is gone,and christmas eve this year will be the hardest saddest christmas eve ever because it has been a tradition in my family on christmas eve since 1982 of going to my grandmothers house for dinner,opening gifts,and spending time with family,and last year i am so proud that i hosted the first christmas eve dinner at my house cause my grand mother was tired and i mad her proud,so i know i have the memories,but i am truly going to miss you dora,and people will say dora,yes thats what we called my grandmother by her first name and thats the way she liked it,and i wouldnt have it any other way,so i finally got the strength to write about my dora,and let her know that i love her,i miss her,and life wont be the same with out her,yes i wil move on but you will never be forgotten cause you was the best grandmother i could have ever imagined i love you from your grandson Dion.