Keep That Dick Hard And Keep That Pussy Wet. (XXX warning)

 You know when you have someone who you love you make sure that they are satisfied sexually i dont care if its sending them a naked pic or talking dirty to them or being taboo with them or surprising them with some unexpected sex if you a woman sucking his dick when he least expect it and suck it good or play with his balls or passionate sex or if you a man eat her pussy so good that she trembles fuck her in multiple positions and eat her ass if she like just dont have her walking around with a pussy that needs to be fucked and dont have him walking around with a hard dick cause thats when you start having problems and dont blame shit on work or everyday life yes we get busy in life but its a time and a place to satisfy the one you love and if you not trying to do that then you obviously dont care and once you dont care thats when they start fucking someone else or end up leaving you and this goes for the men who neglect there women and for the women who neglect there men you have to fucking do what you did to get them i cant stress this enough and be creative pay attention to your lover see what getas them going dont make them feel likethere wants and needs dont matter because if you do this then whats the point of having them if you cant please them real talk.

Material things are nothing with out love.

 You have people who feel that they can buy you love buy you expensive jewels gifts give you money and think if they doing that you not going no where but if you not happy mentally and you dont love them then you just using them i rather be with someone who loves me for me and not try an buy me fuck all the money offers gifts or trips or whatever that shit dont mean nothing coming from someone who you not into real talk yes for some money can buy you love but  for me love trumps everything when it comes to material things i rather have a nice gift and dinner spending it with someone i love or like compared to someone saying hey i got a $1000 for you or lets go on a trip or i will take you on a shopping spree but you dont love them or like them that stuff means nothing and thats real shit indeed so all im saying is if you find someone who loves you for you and is not fazed by material shit keep them indeed.

You change for the one you love.

 Sometimes when you meet someone who you truly love you will make changes if the one you love sees something in you that will make a better version of you and you feel that they are right then make the change for you and them because if you truly love someone you cant just be stuck in your ways im not saying let a person change you just tweak yourself for a better version of yourself nothing wrong with it people be so stubborn not realizing that sometimes change is good and lets say your woman thinks you are too uptight or too mean or too sensitive then open up and bring them walls down so she can see that you are not who they think you are it can come from being shy or not having that complete trust to remove them walls and let them see the complete you and also females can have walls up and not show everything they have to offer as far as there true personality it could be they afraid to have more than one drink because they afraid how they may act if drunk in front this person they like or love or there is a trust factor that they can let there guard down with the person they love because they feel they giving up control but its about give and take for both you make certain changes for the one you love to better the relationship you have established indeed nothing wrong with a tweak here and letting your guard down indeed.

Is flirting good when in a relationship

 sometimes when your in a relationship people will flirt with you and some people will say oh its harmless flirting but when you are the one who doing the flirting thats when its a problem especially when the person you flirting with starts liking you i know females will say oh thats my boy he got a woman fuck all that if you opening the door then you giving them hope they can fuck lets not play dumb if you keep giving a person hope they going to approach you and same goes for guys if a you give a woman hope she going to approach you real talk or at least shoot there shot especially if you giving her compliments she going to say he flirting with me so he letting me know its a chance we can hook up so all im saying is if you in a relationship and you are committed to a person have some tact and class and respect for the one you love indeed.

When you find out you not the main event you the side piece.

 its crazy how you can meet someone fall in love make plans to be together that person is in a relationship you in a relationship but you both claim to want out so you making plans and thru the beginning you guys spend any and everytime you can together telling each other everything no lies no secrets just being 100 with each other you go on dates get rooms go on trips go to the zoo fancy restaurants text all day see each other 4 days a week or more and you make sure each other are always fed and so then you realize that hey i can post this person or i cant be seen in public with this person and its not because you dont want it its because the person you in love with who say they are so unhappy is all of sudden giving more respect to the person who wasnt treating them good which is how you met them in the first place and they cant tell nobody about you and all of sudden you feeling like damn you not the main event you not the priority you thought you were you the side piece and you hoping that when you move out your gonna become the main event but do the person you with really want that or do they just want you for what you are and thats it you start questioning everything like i know they love me but is that just it are you in there future or just the now and wants you are truly free will they be there for you cause you only want them but do they rerally only want you all i can say is you have to take leap and trust they will but if not still leave your situation you in cause its others that will make you happy one day it just might not be the one you wanted in the first place indeed. but hopefully the one you wanted will want you the same real talk and you two can have your happily ever after it does happen if both want it to indeed.

Leave the past in the past or you will be left alone.

 The worst thing you can do is keep bringing up something someone did to you in the past especially when you still with the person whats the fucking point if you going to still lay up with the person cook for the person buy for the person cater to the person but yet you still bring up them cheating on you and them fucking someone else but yet you still there and you said you forgive and move on but you obviously didnt forget or forgive cause you still bringing up shit searching for shit so my suggestion is move on or move out or get out cause if you gonna harp on shit they did to you and you still there you the fool real talk cause you can play inspector gadget all day so what if that shit happen years ago and you still talking about it or getting info on what happen then what you still here get the fuck out my face with that shit cause its old and you old and your ass about to get dumped left alone and someone else will appreacite what you didnt and wont take a person for granted real talk.

In the bedroom its give and take.

 When you become sexual with someone and they are willing to do whatever it is to please you in the bedroom then that right there is the best part the effort if they giving you the effort to try things and even if they dont like it if they willing to try thats all you can ask for if they like there pussy ate or asshole ate give it to them if they dont then thats fine to if they like anal at least try if they like threesomes at least discuss it even if it dont happen its all about trying or at least discussing dont just shut it down and if you got a person who is not interested in pleasing you then you have the wrong one cause sex is about the pleasure even the illusion that your partner can be freaky even if some things dont happen or they dont like at least they tried it or talked about it and you should always make sure your partener is sexually satisfied and your partner should not be the only one making palns for you guys to have sex it goes both ways cause if you the only one arranging when you guys have sex then that should be talked about indeed and remember sex is give and take not just take when they want it indeed.

KEEP THE FIRE BURNING.

 When you meet someone and you both start out as friends who become lovers you always have to remember how you met what you were needing before you met that person, if you were lonely or in a relationship that was not making you happy whatever the case was you have to remember were you were at in your life when you met that person who makes you happy now thats how you keep the fire burning when you meet someone if yoyu were texting or chatting 24/7 still try and do that when you can keep seeing each other when you can make surprise visits to see each other and when you are truly into that person still you will go out your way to meet with them not let days or even a week go by without seeing them and you wont have the other person feeling like you dont love them or want them the same anymore you have to what you did to get them to keep them and if your intentions are not to be with them then let them go cause all you doing is letting the fire die out and treating the person who was there for you when you needed them the same way you were feeling at one time and that is not right so all im saying if you truly want to keep your fire burning be creative be spontaneous be adventourous and be the way you were when you met then caus eif you can go hrs and days without texting them or calling them then its obvious you not really into them indeed.

Never take real love for granted.

 When you meet someone and they are different from anyone you ever been with you learn them you love them you cherish them and when you know its real you never take them for granted especially when they go out there way to make you a priority cause that in itself is a beautiful thing when you have someone who tells you every morning good i love you or good night sweet dreams i love you who only wants to be with you who prays for you who when that person wakes up you are the first thought on there mind And when they confess there love for you take it serious dont just blow it off as talk because actions do speak louder than words but words are important as well if the person you are with wants to be with you on there most important days always planning things for yall to do and all they think about is making you happy you never take that for granted because real love is hard to find you have so many people in relationships where they are settling, or there is no sex no fun no romance the thrill is gone or never been there or whatever so when you get someone who sole purpose in life at that time is to make you happy and you truly know they love you for you baby you hold on to that love bottled it up cause you best believe male and female plenty are out here looking for what you guys have and its a beautiful thing when to people who were lonely meet and find each other and become one so you never take that for granted cause life is to short it can be gone in a instant and you never want the other person to feel that if they left you today that you would not care cause that in itself is a hurtful thing when a person has truly opened up there heart to you over and over and is telling you that there future is with you that is something to never ever take for granted so the little things mean just as much as the big so all im saying is the good mornings the good nights the conversations the checking on you all that means something so dont stop what you did to get them cause that is how you keep them especially when the one who loves you has no agenda indeed.

Dont ever neglect the one who was there when you needed them.

People can be all different types of relationships some that are mentally abusing or toxic, or physical toxic relationships or relationships where they have been ignored or taken for granted so sometimes instead of walking away physically even though mentally you have already removed yourself from the situation your still there so you meet someone who you have no idea what is to become of this just a friend at first that you can talk about anything with so you and the person get close and you and the person agree to never lie to each other so from the moment you wake up you text thru out the day you texting talking then you become intimate and get even closer so now love is involved so you both are still for each other but you still in your situation with the person but what you cant forget is the person who was there for you when you needed love friendship attention all of that for the person who drove you to meet somebody else if she was neglecting you taking you for granted making you feel she was superior to any other female or the guy treating you like cant go nowhere or he dont want to go nowhere just remember the person you with now was there and will be there but you have to do what you did to get them to keep them it goes both ways if you texted him or talked to him or saw him 3 or 4 times a week dont stop now and the same goes both ways cause remember both of you found each other for a reason so cherish that and dont have neither seeking attention from no one else but each other indeed and hopefully you both will end up togther forever indeed.

Taboo 3 ( XXX Rated ) its not for everybody.

Well this not for everybody what im about to write, but oh well cause its my fucking blog lol, but anyway i had said that i would never write about this topic again but i feel it needs a refresher course indeed, when you are in a taboo relationship its not about being freaky 24/7 its about having that taboo in you taboo people live regular lives they make love they neflix and chill they do everything other couples do regular couples do, but when its time to get freaky or nasty they do it without any hesitation, and also you have to never let too much time elapsed between being taboo whether its a freaky story you tell your lover or just a regular sex story you tell you lover that you participated in, or you have threesomes or do something freaky spontaneous or you be sexting each other but you just keep the boredom from happening and what is done between 2 taboo lovers is never judged or brought back up to each other those are the rules, for instance it was guy who was taking to this woman she said i have a surprise for you i got a room for us i want you to come to the room with no underwear on so he came to the room with a jogging suit jacket on and a pair of basketball warm up pants well she opens the door ans he has on just some panties and no bra so she has rose pedals around the bed candles burning and tells him you better not have draws on so he takes off jacket no shirt on and he rips pants off butt naked no draws and he already hard so she tells him lay on the bed she has a bottle of baby oil so she massages him from head to toe kissing his nipples then suck his dick to tease him then she says im going to stroke your dick with this baby oil she strokes his dick he throbbing so she stops sits on his face he eats her pussy then she stops him from making her cum so then she sits on his dick rides him until she cums but he still has not cum then she says let me suck on his dick some more so she pulls out butt plug puts in his ass and sucks his dick until he tells her he about to cum she catches his cum in her mouth then gets it hard again and tell him i video taped the whole thing but little did he know her friend was in the close playing with her pussy watching the whole thing so when he told her he didnt care about her friend watching he said he wanted to watch her fuck a guy she said know and thats when the taboo relationship disappeared for him until he met simone his current lover who is taboo as it gets and now taboo love is back for him and her indeed.

Where they wanna be

 There is a time in life when you are in a situation and the person you meet is in one as well so this couple met they hit it off great lots of texting talking just connecting on a great level then they decide to go out just clicked one person coming out of situation of being neglected taking for granted not being treated as they once were and the other being with someone who didnt want to do anything with the person not wanting the other person to do anything but be with them but not wanting them going anywhere with out them so fast forward they meet each other and realize they were both what each other needed so they become intimate and the sex is great just as the conversation the vibe is right so now they become a couple but yet they still in there situations so they both talk about preparing to leave but yet in the meantime its getting harder for one of the 2 people to continue going thru the motions because they have falling in love with the other person and now they realize they cant take it anymore being the way they are and they want that one person and only that person so now they know where they wanna be and when you feel that feeling in your heart you act on it and hope the other person feels the same way too but if not you know the situation were in going thru the motions is not for you so secure your new love let them know you want them and only them and make it happen indeed cause true love only comes to a certain hand of people indeed. let the person you fell in love with know you know where you wanna be and tell them to open up there heart cause it wont be broken cause you feel the same way too.

Baecation

 You know when you meet someone who you just vibe with from talking, laughing, just get along well the next best thing is a vacation with them, from the moment you get to the airport the anticipation the laughter and excitement of just getting on the plane, then once the flight takes off conversation and once you arrive you get to your room change your clothes get comfortable then you decide what your going to do first eating at great restaurants, shopping sightseeing walking talking drinking laughing and seeing shows and having freaky wild sex or just making love having no time to wake up laying in bed watching movies or shows just not having a care in the world but enjoying each other making each other happy and having a great trip this is what you call a baecation and there is nothing like it indeed so once you get someone who you just vibe with on a level no one can understand you go on a vacation with them create memories indeed.

please your lover by any means.

 when you become sexual with a person you have to pay attention to there likes and dislikes sexually and sometimes add in a few things that you may think they love or like so this couple got together and he invited her over his house so they had a few drinks and then he told her he wanted her to undress for him cause it turned him on watching her undress so she slowly took her clothes off as he played with his dick so after she took her clothes off he laid her down kissing her passionately licking and sucking her tittys and then he kissed her thighs and started eating her pussy and then he turned her over and starting eating her pussy from the back putting his tongue in her ass and then sucking her pussy until she came in his mouth then he came up asked her to suck on his dick she sucked his dick licked his balls then got between her thighs fucking her nice long and strong then he put her one leg up got between her thigh grinding in her pussy and sucking her toes at the same time until she came on his dick after she came he flipped her over licked her asshole and then put some lube on his dick and slide slowly inside her ass stroking her slowly until she said get it and when he got it stroked her asshole so good her pussy was soaked until he said im about to cum and he came inside her asshole and she came from her pussy as well and then he got up and they took a shower together and in the shower they kissed deeply and started fucking in the shower she said you love me he said he loved her and loved pleasing her and only her indeed and he said he would always please her by any means indeed.

Your lover should never feel incomplete

 when you have a lover or someone you in love with you should never have them feeling like they not satisfied or not complete in the bedroom making love or having sex is about pleasing your lover to the fullest if your lover wants her pussy ate multiple times do it if she wants multiple positions do it if they need stimulating conversation do it im not saying you have to be super erotic but at least dont be closed minded and sometimes what you may be lacking in one area you might be super strong in another its about passion and caring that your lover is pleased caress them touch them kiss them just let them be comfortable doing things to you sexually that they want to do dont make them feel pressured because if you do it wont feel sincere so all im saying is please your partner never have them feeling incomplete if you give effort that is all that matters cause effort goes a long way indeed.

Dont play with your health

 You know i have wrote about going to the doctor and seeing about your self and i see people be waiting until something goes wrong to go see about themselves and sometimes its about having the right physician sometimes you can get a doctor who to them your just another number to bill the insurance company but when you find a doctor who truly cares about your well being you keep them and you have to do your part especially as we get older eating better exercise taking your meds properly or supplements drinking water having sex just being active cause as we get older no matter what people say you closer to death than ever and so you have to treat your body like a car that needs a tune up and you have to monitor what you put into your body and pay attention to your body when its trying to tell you something cause if you dont you might be too late especially in the black communtiy diabetes high blood pressure heart disease obesity we got to do better hell i got to do better im 50 yrs old and i have been a diabetic since i was 40 yrs old yes at 42 i got off my meds completely did what i was supposed to do only to 18 months later right back on the meds gaining weight so i have never shared this with anyone because people sometimes either dont want to hear scary stuff or think you always having issues or think you a hype well i was sleep and in my dream it was like i was awaken to a timer it said 5 4 3 2 1 boom your time is up and in my dream my heart stopped last night scared the shit out of me i jumped out the bed grasping for air to see if it was real but it was dream but in reality it was god telling me to get your health right this is not a game so all im saying is people do what you need to do for you to be healthy and be here in this world we live yes we got to all go one day but dont rush the process indeed.

spoil your lover sometimes

You know a lot of times we take the ones who come into are lives for granted the good ones the ones who truly love you and appreciate you for you, the ones who dont have to wait for a holiday to acknowledge the way they feel about you the ones who will spoil you on the holidays and random days these are the type of people you cherish, and dont mind doing nice things for no matter what day it is, say your a man and you have a good woman you take her out to dinner or to a movie or buy her a random gift or flowers make the day about her romance her and even if you dont have the money give her conversation shower her with your love just show her that its all about her whether its getting a room and her some flowers or a card candy a massage drinks perfume shoes her favorite food on a regular day its nothing wrong with spoiling her let her know that when she with you she never will feel less than special and for the ladies show your guy some love sometimes cook him dinner get him a room or invite him out for a romantic day or take him to a sporting event show him he got a woman who makes him feel special and no other woman can make him feel as special as you do its all about keeping the fire burning keeping each other happy and not waiting on valentines day or sweetest day or christmas or birthdays to show them make them feel that everyday can be a special day somehow someway indeed.

Romance is not dead people just not requiring it Anymore.

 When you are raised by 4 women your mother grandmother great grandmother great aunt, and they tell you that a woman should be treated a certain way from the age you are 10 you cant help but be romantic so me and my brothers were raised that a woman should be given flowers just because or on holidays candy cards gifts opening up there car door pull there chair out just wining and dining her making her happy and if you do this you will be happy as well, a man should cater to his woman feed her fuck her wine her take her on trips do spontaneous things show her she is your queen and make her feel that no matter how many women are out here she is the queen she is the one sprinkle her with a gift from time to time tell her you love her tell her how much you need her respect her treasure her just be romantic cause its nothing wrong with that cause when you do as a man you reap the rewards of a happy woman she will do some things for you feed you fuck you buy you a gift sometime but in the end please your lady always make her feel she is more than just sex make her feel like she is everything to you and she is all you need.

Taboo Love Part 2

 This is the sequel for taboo love because i see it has to be revisited already but its cool cause its not for everybody to understand when you in a taboo love relationship what you do or say or engage in is what makes a taboo relationship different the two people have to be in love truly in love comfortable, trusting that whatever they say or do is between them and not for anybody else to understand or approve and if lets say your taboo mate ask you for A freaky story or sexual story from your past it will only mean something coming from your lover not from a stranger trying to tell you some shit about there past when you dont even care because here is no emotional connection between the two individuals the taboo is when you and the lover you with have no problem sharing another lover or watching there lover fuck someone else or doing freaky shit that may be normal to another person also when you are taboo with each other dont think its just all freaky wild sex its also emotional passionate sex making love with each other netflix and chill travel movies dinners sporting events conversations all the shit that is done in a regular relationship but with the taboo as well that makes it that much more exciting a taboo relationship is never boring cause if it gets boring someone not doing there part indeed cause taboo means fucking or sucking a person anywhere watching porn doing whatever you can to freak your partner out indeed so this is my last time explaining this because some people didnt hear  or understand but now hopefully they will if not Fuck em.

A person gonna do what they wanna do.

You know you can be in a relationship and hope for all the good things to come with it loyalty love trust fun great sex conversations companionship all that who wouldnt want that but sometimes it dont always work out like that a person who you love and trust may not trust you so they feel like hey i dont trust them so why should i be faithful to them cause in my mind i dont trust them anyway so then the person no matter how much you think you keeping them happy to the point they will not feel the need to talk to another person for anything outside of you when it comes to making them happy but here is the thing if a person dont trust you they gonna step out and you can giver them the world or die trying and they still gonna do what they wanna do whether its talking to a person seeing a person whatever its nothing you can do but pray you are enough hope that you are enough or just wake the fuck up and find someone who will never make you feel that you not enough that they will have to talk to or be with someone else real talk.