Love is Supposed To Be 50/50

 You know when you meet someone and you getting to know each other and you fall in love or start having feelings for a person your supposed to give and take not just take take take, and also you cant expect one person in the relationship to just cater to your needs and you not give back until you get ready thats the quickest way to fuck around and lose someone love is supposed to be 50/50 not 80/20 yes its fine to cater to your woman or mans needs or fallback and follow there lead and submit to them but it has to be some give and take on both parts if your man or woman wants to go eat at a certain restaurant then go dont always shut it down and go where you want to go,if they want to do something out the norm then do it cause it goes both ways if one partner is feeling sexual then pay attention to there vibe not saying you have to give them sex right then and there but just pay attention so you know that hey maybe i will initiate the loving and not just let everything seem one sided cause when you do that and everything is always about you all is going to do is make the other person feel underappreciated and either just keep following your lead but on the inside feeling not so happy or they gonna walk its that simple so all im saying treat love as a partnership keep each other happy cause if you dont someone else will indeed.