If A person cant show you there true self in the bedroom then maybe there not for you,

 Sometimes you can be with someone who you become intimate with and you can think your having great sex and great chemistry but the person your with may be holding back so you think but in reality they may never show you who they really are you can here people say they had sex with a woman and she got emotional and was crying during sex, or they will tell you they once cried during sex,but you will say how come that never happen with you well it might be because either you dont bring that out of them or they just not into you like you think or they may do freaky things to others but not you for instance a man might lick her ass or do anal with her eat her pussy a certain type a way or if she a woman she might suck his dick a certain type a way or talk more to a man or whatever freakiness she may do for him she not gonna do for you and thats because people will hold back because either they not into you or they not comfortable with you and they may never feel the way you want them to feel about you and if thats the case then you might be with the wrong person just a observation pay attention to who you become intimate with if they not progressing with you then what you see is what you gonna get and if thats all you need then thats great but if you wanting more or expecting more then i hope you get it but if you dont then its up to you to either stay put or keep it moving real talk indeed.