You have to make a person feel comfortable.

you know a lot of times when you are with someone if you dont make things exciting then you will only bore the person your with and make them want to be somewhere else,say for instance for your man he may like going to nice restaurants,going for drives together,shopping going to the movies and then he might love some mindblowing sex put something on there mind like for instance this guy name dante was was coming from a situation he wanted out of and he met this woman who was sweet,had her own place,and so they would talk and laugh,then they went out to dinner and then he would come over and they would have some great sex,and then she would make him some lipton soup something simple but he loved it and he fell in love with her,he couldnt keep his hands off her and she made it so comfortable for him that he only wanted to be with her,and he didnt want to spend his free time no where else,and all im saying if you can make a person feel comfortable and you pleasing there needs,they will never have time to get bored elsewhere real talk indeed.

Old School Woman

You know nowadays you hear a lot of women saying i wish i would cook for a man,or i wish i would be doing this and that for a man,or i worked today im not doing shit for a nigga,well let me tell you these woman a lot of them are telling yall the truth but guess what that is why they are by themselves cause of what they wont do.Well you know what they dont make them like they used to,you have some women out here who know how to keep there man happy,they will 10hr shifts come home cook a full course meal talk to them give them attention and last but not least make love to them and fuck them like they like,and you have to salute a woman like this because she is a throwback,and if you can get a woman like this you keep her cause these type of women are now considered rare and you cant go bye looks and big butts you have to go with a woman who can cook spend time with you and give you some sex like never before,so all im saying is for those always saying what they wont do,keep having that attitude and see where it gets you real talk indeed.

Dont Relax to much or you find somebody ready to work real talk.

you know im just going to be blunt and real with you, the women out here outnumber the men either you have men who are in jail,dead,or gay so that leaves a lot of lonely single women who are looking for a man,or a boyfriend,or a husband so all im saying is if you have a good man,or a man you want to keep,then you need to not get so relaxed when it comes to the bedroom,im not saying that its not the reponsibilty of the man to make you want to fuck him and freeak him,but what im saying if you have a man you should no when he needs some sex,or some head,or someasshole if you into that your man should never have to tell you or anybody that he wish he could get this or that in the bedrrom,you as a woman should be willing to give him whatever,cause if you dont,or wont,someone else will for real,and then you will say oh he was cheating,no he might just leave your ass for someone better so all im saying is surprise your man sometimes,and let him know that you about to let them panites hit the floor and you about to still the show right now,indeed.

No Rhyme No Reason.

You know sometimes People will try to get together and make a relationship between them,but sometimes everybody is not meant to be together i mean both individuals can be a good people who are just good people not meant for each other,sometimes people can have a different outlook on what they want and expect from the relationship and if they outlooks are on a different page then how the chapter ends will be incomplete because a relationship is about communication and trust,and if you dont have that then you dont have anything,you can say you love a person all day,but if you are not willing to do the things for each other to be happy then its not going to work its that simple, and a lot of times people like to say well that person is no good or that person aint shit its not always that cut and dry,sometimes you can have two good people who just arent good enough for each other thats all no rhyme no reason sometimes relationships dont work and its not always going to work you live you learn,and you move on its that simple indeed.

Be His Or hers Freak by Any Means Necessary. (Adult Edition)

You know the one thing i hear today more than any thing is people claiming they freaks,but there actions are saying otherwise,cause if they were truly freaks you wouldnt have so many people claiming they not getting sexed properly, i mean if you are in aserious relationship,and you not getting your needs met,then what the fuck our you doing in it, cause life is to short to be waisting time not having there needs met,if you a woman and you want to keep your man from cheating,or wandering about what he is missing,or being envious of his friends who may be getting what he wants in bed from there lady or man, a woman should be willing to suck her mans dick,let him cum where ever he wants,and if he want s his balls sucked or licked then damn it do it,if he wants hisassole licked or sucked if thats his thing then do it,cause you know what if you think shit is nasty then you might find yourself getting cheated on,or left real talk,also if he wants to fuck you in the ass,at least try it,cause i hear from a lot of people that if you give a man that asshole he will be all in real talk,and then for the guys eat your ladies pussy and eat it right dont bullshit with it suck her clit if she likes,lick her asshole,lick her pussyhole like you eating ice cream and dont be bullshitting and if she wants you to kiss her do it all im saying is dont be giving her nothing less than she asks for in the bedroom fuck her like she likes,and fuck her good cause if you dont somebody else will please believe it so all im saying is be willing to go the extra mile for you lover,or husband or wife or whoever you fucking and do it by any means neccesary.

You signed up to be a star,not a role player.

you know a lot of people this days cant just be real,i mean why do people have to lie to kick it,how come people just cant say what they want from and individual,if you really like somebody,and you sexually attracted to them,but you only want sex and goodtimes then say so,dont have nobody thinking they signing up to be the star of the team when all you really wanted was a role player,cause anybody can be a role player but it takes a real one to be the star,and if you just want a role player then be a man,or a woman and say hey this is all i really wanted and thats it,cause when you play with peoples emotions thats when you lead to drama,heartbreak,stress,and all that bullshit that didnt even have to happen if you would have just said what you wanted real talk,so all im saying is people be real not phony and then people would be better off.

You Cant Blame Nobody But Yourself.

You know what is fucked up,is when a person who claims they want to settle down,shows you with there actions that this is not the case,so when you do shit that is not showing the person you with that you are not ready,then you cant blame nobody but yourself for them wanting to lose interest and leave you,cause people have feelings and you cant play with peoples feelings cause that can sometimes be dangerous and even sometimes fatal indeed,real talk.my thing is this if you dont want a person in your life then say it dont be a coward cause cowards die of a nasty death,and real people survive cause of there word and the dignity they posess so all im saying is if you not truly ready then its best you be honest cause having someone hanging the breeze is not a good look at all real talk.

Never Settle For Good Enough.

The Biggest Temptation in life is too settle for less in a relationship,or in life,to many times people are so scared of change,that they will stay in a situation that is ok,that is good enough,instead of being in a situation that brings joy,fullfilment,and pleasure,to me that is what life is all about,and that is what a relationship is all about,if you have to be with someone,or be with somewhere that you have doubts about,or you not getting the full happiness you need or feel you deserve,then its obvious you are settling real talk indeed,and nobody should ever be settling,cause the longer you settle,the longer you miss out on what you should be getting,life is the pursuit of happiness and nobody should be lacking in happiness and self happiness so all im saying is every minute or second you stay at either a job,or in a relationship,or anyplace that you not getting what you feel you should be getting your losing precious time getting what god intended for you to have real talk.

When your in your darkest days watch who shines bright in your corner.

sometimes having a tragedy in your life,lets you know who is truly down for you and who is truly in your corner,cause sometimes you have people who claim to be sincere,who only want to be down with you when everything is going great,that aint shit anybody can do that,but when you layed up unable to do for yourself,its those who call,or text,or reach out to you who mean the most,and people like that you will never forget,cause those are the people who shine the brightest on the darkest days and when you are healed and back to normal those are the ones who deserve your attention not the fakes or the frauds never forget the real ones cause you know those are the ones who deserve your time and love real talk indeed.

It feels so good when somebody loves you back and thats a fact.

You know its easy to love someone or claim you love someone when everything is going great,or when that person you claim to love has money up the ass,but what means so much more to me is when you have someone who loves you whether you got a million dollars or lent in your pocket,having a person who adores you makes you feel like your all that matters,and when you down that person will cheer you up with out having to ask thats when you know you got somebody who loves you unconditionally real talk,and its nothing like having someone who no matter how busy they day may be they still will find time to say i love you or check on you and instead of stressing you they are praising you for you that to me its worth any mount of money real talk so if you got someone like that in your corner keep them cherish them praise them and last but not least love them cause it feels so good loving somebody,who you know loves you back indeed.

Beautiful Lie XXX Rated (Adults Only)

You know its crazy how sometimes to people can meet who some people cant understand how these two people are so happy,they think its all a lie,but what they dont understand nobody has to prove anything to anyone,so all i can say is if they think there loving is fake,lets just call them a beautiful lie, all i know is that my man told me that he went over to his girl house and she and him talked and laughed and went on a nice date they went to a sporting good store of all places dicks sporting goods to be exact talking and laughing then they had dinner,then after dinner they end up going back to her place and they kissed and kissed until before they knew there clothes was off and then my man started eating her pussy licking on her phat pusssy sucking her clit and licking her whole until she came in his mouth,then she sucked on his dick until he was so hard that they started fucking in all kinds of positions and they fucked at least three times making each other cum over and over again,and guess what after that date 13yrs later they still fucking each other and fucking like they just met but people still have the nerve to say its a lie they cant be that happy its a lie oh yes its a lie then a beautiful lie and its a beautiful lie they wish they had but they dont and they wont understand it real talk.

They are your man or woman not your pet.

you know i think people who get in relationships think that once they have someone to call there own they literally think that person is theres to own,i mean you are supposed to love and cherish that person not make that person feel like they are a dog or cat like do this you not doing that where are you going did you ask me its like wait a minute who signed up for that shit,cause to me that is a recipe for disaster and some people men and women might like being bossed around cause they think thats cute but a real man or woman will not like this treatment and eventually they will rebel and do the opposite of what you want and then you will be looking stupid cause snoopy didnt come back home so all im going to say is you cant make a person fall in love with you and then use your love as a will to possess a person cause that is not love that is being possessive and insecure with yourself and it will easily show with actions like this real talk indeed.

If he or she dont acknowledege you then you dont exist.

you know sometimes we as people are so eager to fall in love that we sometimes will ignore the certain signs that the person we are with is really not who they say they are its like if you in a relationship and your so called other half cant even let people know that you exist then its obvious you are a secret and its that simple and guess what its up to you to decide if you want to deal with being a secret instead of being respected as there other half real talk,cause nobody should ever feel like they are somebody who is being kept in the dark especially when you are letting everyone on your end that you have someone in your life it dont work one way its either equal or then you living a lie and you lying to yourself trying to convince your self that you have a man or woman when in reality you dont have anything of importance and thats real talk and me personally i would never want to be a person living in the shadows of a person who claims to love me.

You Should never feel lonely in a relationship

if you are in a relationship and you have no direction or communication or not knowing what each day holds for the relationship then you not in a relationship you are in a situation and a situation is just that a situation where you see the person you have a good time you fuck and eat and you may get a call or text but thats it thats not a relationship real talk, when you in a commited relationship you know what plans you have for the holiday,you know that you going to talk to your significant other and you should be able to call your significant other when ever you want thats because you have submitted to each other that you are a couple thats what couples do if you not doing this and making plans for one another then you not really a couple you living a lie and one of the people in the relationship is going to feel lonely and feel underappreciated and not feeling wanted and if they feel like that then someone is going to get hurt and lose something very special thath could have became more real talk.

Thru The Darkness You Will Find Those That Shine For You.

You know sometimes in life people take for granted those who are in tghere life for just them with no agendas just being a loyal friend or family member,but sometimes its when you go thru something so serious that you find out who is truly there for you and who is truly only there to shine off your greatness,and those who are there only to shine off your greatness always get exposed when something traumatic happens,and so all im saying is i went thru some deep shit and all i can say is i know who is there for me no matter what ands i know who is just a fake but you know what its all good cause you cant keep a good man down cause the real ones always rise to the top and if you dont believe just be a witness thats all i can say indeed.

Quality Over Quanity Thats What I say.(Adult Edition)

You know a lot of guys who when they are in there 20s or early 30s they trying to find themselves and find different women to fulfill there needs trying to date this one or that one because they just trying to find that perfect one,then you have some who just like variety maybe one with a big ass,or big titties or a deep pussy,or a tight pussy or one who can suck dick the best or whatever so they have 2 or three women for different things,but when you get in your 40s to me its time out for that fuck have quantity find you that ones who has the quality to give you all your needs one who has that pussy that you cant get enough of,one who is willing to give you a dick sucking of a lifetime,one who is not afraid to go to her highest freak level to please you and its so refreshing when you can find that one person to be submissive with and not have to worry about multiple people just getting all your needs met by one to me that is more mature and more safe to me i know some will say man i will get bored with the same old pussy,well like i said if a woman know how to make that pussy right it will always be tight and if she gives you all three holes then shit whats your complaint real talk.

Having A big Dick Or A phat Pussy Dont mean you can fuck.

You know people think that just because of the size of the tool that or the phatness of the pussy will guarantee great sex,well what people need to realize is its on the individual who has the tools to make it happen if you a person who dont eat pussy,and dont try to learn the lady your with body then she not going to get the loving she thinks just because of the size of the dick she needs you to be able to fuck her nice slow long and dick with the motion she desires and in the position she loves and for the woman you better be able to take the dick and open them legs very wide and let him fuck you nice long and deep with you fucking him back cause if you just laying there then the pussy not going to be any good real talk so before you ladies get all excited about the size of the dick make sure he knows what he doing and for the fellas marinate that pussy good and if she still not fucking you good then i think you better find some new thighs to get between cause the pussy is good as dead if she not making no moves real talk indeed.

You Dont Have To Lie To Kick It.

You know in this day and age people seem to be so unloyal,and dishonest when it comes to the dating scene its like people who have a girlfriend or a boyfriend,or a wife or husband,or if your person just dating several women or men,people feel like they cant tell someone they meet new the truth,it like they feel they have to lie or decieve the person to get them in bed,or get them to fall in love with them its like why cant you people be honest and let the person you seek make the decision if they want to be your woman,or man,or sidechick or side nigga or whatever just be upfront and be willing to accept rejection if the person you seek is not interested in you,but at least be honest and if they want to be your sidepiece or your wife or husband or boyfriend or woman just let them make the decision dont make it for them cause when you do then you are setting your self up for some hurt anger and a whole lot of drama that could have been avoided if people would just be upfront,and last but not least dont say you want a relationship with a person just cause you think thats what they want to hear do it because you ready if you not ready then you need to keep it moving and let the person you playing games with find someone who is ready to be serious and not be child playing in grown folks business and thats real talk indeed.

Never Lose Your Star Seeking Attention from fans.

You know some people cant handle the limelight, they cant handle attention,its like once they get a little attention form more than a few people they get the big head and instead of being happy getting that attention from the one person that matters the most they rather recieve the attention from someone they really dont know and what they fail to realize those people who are giving him or her attention have agendas where as that one person in there life is there to pick them up when they are down be there when things are good and bad ok,and be there to encouraged them when needed,and to me that should be all the attention you need but some dumb ass people want and seek attention from a stranger who they have no idea of the attention s instead of letting that one individual be there cheerleader,but guess what when you seek the attention of your fans,you will most likely lose your star and once you lose them sometimes you can never get them back real talk indeed.

She Had No Idea That His Dick Was As Good As his tongue skills. XXX

Let me tell you about a couple that met who used to flirt and talk shit to each other,well one day after they had been talking about there sex life to each other, the guy duane went over to alicia house and they was talking and laughing then they started kissing and so duane took alicia close off and then he started kissing between her thighs and then he started kissing and licking on her clit sucking it real nice long and slow and then after he played with her pussy he started sucking her pussyhole until she came in his mouth cum all over his face like a glaze donut,then after she came duane remembered alicia saying your dick must not be shit since duane always talked about eating pussy so when he raised up and she pulled down his pants she was surprised to see his 9 piece special so she sucked on it and got it real hard and then he layed her down got between her thighs and fucked the shit out of her i mean he had her screaming and hollering until she came 2 more times then he flipped her pulled his dick out and lick her asshole until it was soaked then he slid his dick back into her fucking both her asshole and her pussy until he finally came and once he came alicia looked at him like damn this nigga can fuck and suck and then she told him not only does he have tongue skills his dick was on point as well and alicia and duane is still fucking and sucking like it was still the first time indeed.

Money Isnt Everything.

You know i have no problem with people who love to make money i love money just like the next one,but sometimes you have to check your prioritys i mean you can make money but what about spending time with your family and loved ones your woman, your man your husband,and your wife,i mean when you work to the point that you not enjoying your money or the special people in your life,then you need to sit back and see if it is all worth it cause who wants to be without anyone to share there money with,who wants to work 80 or 90 hrs a week and then you to tired to do anything and then you better hope that you have someone in your corner to be there for you when you need them cause when you work too much trust and believe you will be neglecting a loved one and that will lead to heartbreak for someone and that someone could be you.

Good Pussy Never Gets Old.

You know i hear a lot of guys who say man how can you want to be with the same pussy for the rest of your life,they will say i cant get married or serious cause im not fucking the same pussy for the rest of my life,but what people dont understand if the pussy is good then it will never get old its like chicken you can have chicken baked fried,boiled,barbequed, thats just like good pussy you can eat it and lick it and suck it and make it juicy so that you can hit the spots and go deep,you can fuck good pussy in all kinds of positions so people need to realize that if you can marinate the pussy to your liking then you can make it always good,and if you got a woman who is adventurous then the pussy will be good and especially if you have a woman who will give you some asshole suck your dick good let you just do whatever in the bedroom thats how the pussy stays good and instead of wanting a variety you can have quality and there is nothing like great quality indeed so people who say pussy gets old thats because they have never had that good pussy that makes a man want to come home to it and get up in it real talk indeed.

You Cant Be Single In A Relationship.

You know this generation we got people who are supposed to be in a relationship not knowing the meaning of what it is to be in one, i mean when you get in a serious relationship you cant be doing single life things i mean you can still hang out but you cant be hanging out every night you cant be not calling your mate or girlfriend or boyfriend for 8 or 9 hrs you supposed to be wanting to be with your lover,talk to your lover keep in touch with your lover,show the world the love you have for your lover you can be going out to bars and clubs and being on social media acting like you dont have a significant other in your life cause if you are doing these type of things then its obvious you dont belong in a relationship you need to be single cause a relationship is 2 people coming together as one not that its a marriage but its damn close and you ae supposed to share things make each other comfortable in the relationship not having the other person feeling lonely its to many lonely and not getting there time people in relationships who deserve better and if you not willing to give them your time or commitment then you need to keep it moving and be the old muthafucka in the bar or club trying to give them your old wrinkled up dick or old wrinkled pussy when you could have had someone meaningful who loved you for you and wanted to be with only you cause you never want someone to feel neglected or not respected cause the minute they feel that way that opens the door for someone new and you dont want that and if it happens you cant blame nobody but you indeed real talk. TRUE SHIT.

Its Open Season On Killing Black People.

You know yesterday on the anniversary of michael browns death they had another shooting and once again police is trying to say the man opened fire on the police which is probably a lie and killing sandra bland the police is not trained properly anymore and they are scared and instead of doing there jobs they just shooting and killing black people and its fucked up so to all my followers watch yourself on traffic stops dont do nothing out of the ordinary cause its like they looking for a reason to kill people dirty pigs i cant stand cops cause they aint shit and they need some traing on life and get some skills dirty ass muthafuckas real talk i dont have no repsect for the police like cube said back in the fuck the police indeed.

You Should Not Have To Convince Yourself You In Love Either you are or your not.

You know its crazy to me when people say they are in love with someone but yet there actions towards that person say otherwise, when you are in love it should be something that comes natural you shoudl want to be with that person as much as you possibly can and not because you feel pressured but because you want to and if you have to keep saying i love this person if your actions dont match your words then they are just words with no meaning cause when you in love with a person you cant get enough of them you want to be with them all the time you want to give them your quality time and its just a feeling that you get when your with them that you just cant explain so all im saying is never tell a person you in love and then your actions show otherwise cause like i said your actions should match your words and if you have to convince yourself your in love then odds are your really not you just might be lusting real talk indeed.

No woman Wants To A girlfirend forever (Real Talk)

You know a lot of times men and women start dating and a lot of times men and women to get comfortable being boyfriend and girlfriend and that might work for some but you best believe most women dont want to give all there time and energy into a relationship with out having that ultimate goal of being a bride and not just a girl friend forever, but you have to put the blame on some women for not putting there foot down and not letting there boyfriend know that they want more than this and i can respect a woman who is willing to let a man know her true feelings cause if you dont a nigga will play house with you forever if you let him and there lies the problem all im saying is get what you deserve in a relationship have goals and if he not willing to meet them them give him a time limit and if his time expires then fuck it cause nobody is getting younger and life is to short to be playing a role that you really dont want to play get the part in the movie that you want not the part that they give you cause no woman should limit her self to please a man and thats real talk hell if you want him to put a ring on it then damn it let him know he cant keep getting the goodies with out putting some papers on it and thats real talk indeed.

A nice Date Remember those people.

sometimes when you in a relationship a good way to keep it fresh is sometimes spend the day with your lover, with a side of romance involved, start the day off by giving your lady roses,then after that take her to breakfast,and after breakfast both of you go to and outlet mall and shop and talk and have conversation,and then after some shopping go see a movie together,then after the movie go have some dinner at a nice place,and after dinner maybe have some drinks or not then take her home and make love to her like you never going to see her again i mean fuck the shit out of her until her pussy and your dick cant take no more and then after some great loving lay in the bed and talk and hold each other or rub on each other and then you both go to sleep now thats how you keep the romance going and flowing real talk indeed.

Old School Lovin.

You know its not just a myth its a fact this new era of dating and relationships is void of romance, and i blame social media for making guys not all of them but a lot of them for not romancing these women anymore,but you also have to blame some of the women who also dont make the men put in work or even give themselves a chance to be romanced its like what happen to the old school loving of buying a woman flowers buying her candy, taking her to nice places taking her on a trip,or talking to her on the phone instead of just texting what happen to good conversation,its like since facebook and instagram came along its like lets show are naked parts or let him or her like something they said or wrote and the next thing you know its fucking going on with out the romance ,and 9 times out of 10 once the panties have dropped you not going to get the man to all of a sudden decide he want to romance you he will be like why bother shit i got the pussy,im just being real, So all im saying to the ladies if you want romance then make the man earn your goodies,and fellas nothing wrong with romancing the lady this is what makes the loving so much better real talk indeed.

When It Comes To Fucking It takes More than Looks To Make A person Reach There Peak.

You know when people get behind close doors and decide that they want to become intimate,the first thing you hear a lot of people say is oh im the shit in the bedroom and im this and im that,and people think cause they got great looks  they dont have to do as much in the bedroom well my thing is when you get in the bedroom you are supposed to give 110% nobody should be short changing anyone cause the minute you do someone is waiting to fuck the shit out of you the way you wanted just cause you got a pretty face dont mean shit if you cant fuck,or if you not willing to get nasty and put something on your lovers mind,if you a man you should be willing to eat and lick and suck your ladies pussy for as long as it takes to make her cum,and if she wants to cum in your face then let her,dont be afraid to go the extra mile to please her, if she wants her asshole licked then man up and do it suck her toes kiss her lick her titties suck on her nipples do whatever she wants and then fuck her the way she wants tell her your loving is like burger king she can have it her way cause if you not willing to go the extra mile then you going to risk losing her please believe it,and now for the women you think cause you sexy and have a pretty face that a man should just be glad to be in bed with your monkey ass please aint nobody pretty when they fucking its called fuck faces for a reason a man wants a woman to suck his dick real good lick and suck his balls let him fuck you in the ass if you into it,and if not you better be willing swallow his cum or fuck him the way he wants cause if you dont you can best believe its a freak in waiting ready to fuck the shit out of him so get on with that thinking you pretty so he should be glad he fucking you cause and ugly woman can fuck to,and a pretty woman with more experience can fuck you to so all im saying is have the mentality that i have when you go in the bedroom put it down by all means necessary real talk put something on there mind when they leave you not have them leave in doubt wondering is that it is this how its going to be its this all they got fuck that make them want more not make them want to stay away looking for someone to do what they couldnt and thats real.

You Had The Winning Lottery Ticket But Wasnt Smart Enough To Cash It In.

You know in the game of love you have your ups and downs,and you have some people who get many chances at love,but then you some who never get a chance and then you have some who finally get the one they been looking for only to find away to fuck it up,its like a person who has been playing the lottery there whole life and finally get the winning ticket only to realize they to stupid to cash in the ticket, and just like winning the lottery your chances of winning our one in a million so what im saying is when you find that special someone that you have bben wanting in your life,you should do everything you can to keep them there,whether ts catering to there needs being there for them fuck them the way they want,give them less stress as possible in there life be that sunshine on a cloudy day for them,not be the storm and the clouds.in there life but you know what some people never get it they get so caught up in waht people say about them thinking they are the shit that they think there looks is all that they need to make a person happy and that is not the case cause if you not fucking and sucking a person good or feeding them good meals or just being sweet and not and asshole to them so all im saying is people need to check there attitudes at the door when you meet someone cause just as easy as they found you somebody else will come along and replace you with no problem please believe it if you dont then shame on you  real talk.

Keeping A persons Attention Is A must.

You know sometimes hell a lot of times people take people that they are with for granted,they feel that they have the person so they dont have to do the little things to keep there attention anymore, like if you are a woman if you have a man who you claim to love then you should still dress up in sexy lingerie if you did it in the past im not saying everyday but at least remind the person that you can still be sexy dont let them have to hear about sexy things from others when you as there mate should be giving them something to think about,and if you are a man and you used to lick her pussy or suck on her pussy all the time instead of just skipping the foreplay cause you have her now then you need to check yourself before your wreck yourself and thats real,and never let a person feel like they missing something keep there attention keep some excitement dont become a dull ass bitch or a dull ass nigga cause if you do then your mates attention will eventually wonder and if they dont wonder then they might fuck around and replace you and thats even worse so all im saying is keep the spark now and then cause if its to far and between then shit will get boring and nobody wants that nore should anyone have to get bored and thats real talk indeed.

Never Take True Friendship For Granted.

You know Yesterday i got a chance to hang with 2 of my best friends growing up i mean i been knowing these guys for over 30 plus years and it was a great day i mean we went and got something to eat watched the tigers play baseball,and we got a chance to catch up and look back on childhood memories and i told both of them yesterday we cant take these moments for granted cause we not here forever,and when you have true friends in your life who have never changed and been the same since day one that is priceless and you never take true friendship for granted cause true friends are hard to find,but hell i have to admit these guys that i hung with yesterday are not my friends those two are my brothers and i have a lot of friends but i have very few guys i consider my brothers and i dont take that for granted one bit so all im saying is yesterday was a good day and i wouldnt trade it for nothing in the world and thats being real indeed.

Gone But Never Ever Forgotten.

Well tomorrow is my grandmother Dora B Sandifords Birthday, She was the matriach of the family the rock the glue,and 2years ago she died of a heart attack,and i must say it is still hard but each day you get better its all about how you deal with it,but it was like yesterday i still remember going to her house and seeing on the floor dead,and it fucked me up i still think about it but im better her death left a void in my life cause next to my mom she was not a grandmother but a second mother to me and my brothers,and her death cause me to gain plenty of weight and with the weight came type 2 diabetes,and enlarged prostate and just not feeling well,but you know i snapped out of it and it took almost 2yrs to do it but im on the road to recovery and i know she would be proud of me getting my health right,and i know she proud of the man i become a husband a father a family man,who got all his traveling ambition form her,and its not a day that goes by that i dont miss her so tomorrow july 18 i salute a woman who was the best grandmother i could imagine who li loved to death and we didnt call her grandmother we called her dora and dora i miss you and i love you.

Hating is Easy,But it takes A real One to Salute.

You know its the summer time and i tell you its nothing that gives me joy than to be able to travel with my wife,my child and my family its like the joy of my life,but you know what else makes me happy is watching other people on my social media timeline doing big things i love to see my people traveling,or going to weddings,or going to the beach,or going to concerts,or visting family and friends,or getting new cars or gadgets or houses or even finding new loves,or mates or husbands or wives that is what life is all about, but yet you so many who love to sit back and hate and not appreciate the good things going on with others,and i know a lot of times people say oh its because there lives is not going good so they hate on others ,well thats bullshit cause you have people who have great lives and they still hate on the next because they want to be the only one doing big things,and to me that is a cop out because anybody can hate,but it takes a real one to salute the next man or woman,and thats just me i love to see people good cause if thats what life is not about then i dont know what it is,you see i dont have a enemy on this earth,i may have haters but i dont cliam them either because im not one of those people who get off having haters cause i could care less cause as long as my family and friends and me myself is doing good and keeping to myself thats all i care about,and to my friends i salute you keep living this life cause at the end of the day you only have one life to live indeed.

You Cant Dwell On THe Past If you expect to have a future.

You know this one is for encouragement for a dear friend and for anybody who is stuck in the past from a relationship, i dont care how great a past relationship may have been if it did not lead to where you may have wanted then you need to leave the past in the past i dont care how good the sex was or how good they may have did certain things that made you feel good,its a reason that your relationship may have ended and if you continue searching for reasons as to why it ended then you will never be able to move on,now if you just looking to rekindle some great sex then thats one thing thats just sex but if you looking to have a relationship with a love lost then you might be holding yourself back from a bright future cause i dont care how good things may have been in the past with that person it ended for a reason and sometimes there is no rhyme no reason you just have to close the book on that relationship and move on it may hurt but it will only damge you for the next one if you sit back searching for answers to that may never come and thats real talk indeed. you just have to look back on the past sometimes and just cherish the memories and move on and close that book and just remember sometimes all books are not meant to read to the end.

If you had a life you would nt be worried about others.

You know what i hate is when you see or know a hater i mean a point blank hayer who has nothing but negative stuff to say about any or everybody,i mean a person who life consist of random dicks licks,and drinks and and occasionally hanging out with bitter people just like them but yet they always find something to say when in reality they the joke they just dont know it cause they surround themselves with people who wont tell them the truth about themselves that they live a fucked up life and i dont want to hear about you making good money cause that dont give you the right to hate on other when you look like a man and have no man and you hanging around women who are uglier than you because you choose not to hang around women that look better than you cause you have a complex problem so what you do is get with your ugly friend sand you sit back and talk about people being ugly or people not not doing this or doing that or not giving people crdeit when you see them shining cause you cant cause you a hater so all im saying people never be like these people im talking about cause all they have is a job to make them feel like they better than others when they really just a former crackhead who looks like a man with a boot mouth who talks about other pweoples lives when there live is a life i wouldnt want for no one im cool with and thats real talk.

Anybody can get someone to fuck them,but can you get them to say I Do.

im so sick of hearing about people saying oh niggas be wanting this pussy or i these hoes be all on my dick,but my thing is its very easy to get some sex,but can you get someone to say i do to your ass,get someone to say they want to spend the rest of there life with your ass that to me is the big question and i know everybody not marriage material or they might not want to get married but for those who always claiming can have a husband or wife if they want then show me dont talk about it be about it,you know why i say that cause its not as easy as it seems,now dont get me wrong its some really nice people on my page who really do want a wife or husband one day and are not claiming there pussy is this and that they letting you know they have more to offer than just sex they offering being a good cook,a provider,having ambition to want to go places do things so that when or if they ever get married they wont get bored caus etrust me you can get bored if you not on the same page,but i just had to vent about all these pussy advertisers who are always promoting there sex game game like thats going to get you a husband or a wife all thats going to get you is a good fucking and a maybe i will call you in the morning if it was good you got have more to offer to get the offer that many seek in life people need to quit base everything on sex to get a husband or wife cause it takes so much more indeed.

She got the best of my love.

You know i am about to write about something that i dont normally write about i have wrote about it before subliminally but never point blank like i am now and its only because i feel the need to write this after reading about my boy T.I the rapper he put up a post on facebook where he addressed his so call fans who claim to love him but have the audacity to always have something negative to say about his wife tiny,about how she ugly or he can do better so he checked they asses and he let them know why she is his queen and i cant do nothing but give him mad respect for what he said.So with that being said i feel the need to do this once and one time only, because i know that i have over 1500 people on my page on facebook and i have over a million followers on my blog and most of them are women and for years i have gotten questions like why your wife short or why she dont have a big ass or i thought you would be with this girl or that girl well im here to tell you im with the one for me im with my best friend and i dont say that lightly im truly married to my best friend and we were friends before we were lovers and i have told this woman thing i have never told anyone and she has done the same,and we travel together we worked together for years and she is my queen and she has the best of my love if i got 5000 she got half if i got $2 she got a dollar there is no selfishness with us,she pleases in every way and it dont matter how big a ass or tits if you dont have my heart then what good is it and that is what makes the loving good always and last but not least she has raised my daughter from a toddler to a preteen and my daughter loves her like she is her flesh and blood and it takes a real woman to come in and make kid like her own and she does that and you know why cause she loves me for me,and she loves my daughter as one we a package deal that turned into a family 7yrs ago so all i have to say when people try and disrespect or throw shade my way at my wife be prepared to get fucked up or exited out of my blog and my social media and my life,cause you fucking with the wrong one and as her king i will always protect my queen cause she got the best of my love always and forever real talk indeed.

Blessings.

You know people take life for granted,they take money that they get for granted,they take there living situations for granted especially when they are living well,got a good job,got good health,all the above but you know what i never take anything i do for granted,or anything that happens to me for granted i count my blessings whether im having a good day or a bad day,and i will be the first to tell you i dont go to church like maybe society think i should but guess what i live a damn good christ like lifestyle i believe in my creator and i dont take anything for granted and you cant question what happens to you in life cause its all apart of gods plan, but what i dont like is when people feel like they have to be ashame of there blessings because it might be happening for them but not there friends or associates,but you know what you cant be ashame or hate on a person who is recieving there blessings cause yours will eventually come its all about living the right way and being patient and having the belief,and when your blessings come just accept them and move on and be thankful and humble and thats all you can do when you live a blessed life so i will tell anybody i know that i am blessed real talk indeed. and i dont take that for granted at all.

Never Use Sex As A Weapon When You In A Relationship (XXX)

You know when you are in a relationship sex should never be used as a weapon to punish your lover,or significant other, sex should only be used to make each other feel good,cause what people fail to realize that if you think that you not giving a person sex cause of a disagreement or as leverage to get what you want then its obvious you dont know know what day and time it is, we live in a new day where it is very easy for a person who is not getting satisfied at home to get sex elsewhere and you dont want to fuck up and send them looking elsewhere and they come back finding something better,or maybe not comeback at all, i got a perfect example i had a boy name tone and tone and his lady misha was having a couple of issues and misha was not giving tone the sex he wanted  because misha decided to move her sister in the house with them so they didnt have the privacy they once had, but tone didnt care he just wanted to still get sexual with his girl behind close doors,and she started acting funny so tone was like i want to be able to come home and eat my girls pussy and please each other so she told him he was being selfish and she didnt like his attitude so she said she wasnt giving him any,until she felt he deserved it,so tone was like you know fuck this shit so one day after work he went out with a coworker name regina and he and regina went to have a couple of drinks and then after having drinks they got a room and in the room they was sipping on some 1800 and before you know they was kissing and then tone told her he wanted her and she took her clothes off and told him he better be ready for what she was about to give him so she laid on the bed spread her legs and told tone to eat her pussy and he ate her pussy from front to back and then he turned her over and ate her pussy and asshole from the back until she came on his face and licked up all her cum,then she pulled his pants down and sucked his dick until he exploded in her mouth and she was a trooper she kept on sucking until every drop was down her throat then she got his dick hard again and he got on top of her and fucked her and she talked dirty to him tone liked that cause his girl was boring at home she didnt talk much so tone loved then she had tone fucking her until she came and then she had him flip her over and told him she wanted him to fuck her in the ass so tone said hell yeah and he fucked in the ass until he came in her asshole and then she got on her knees and shot the cum out of her ass tone was like fucked up cause he hadnt got this kind of sex at home he said he used to beg misha to wear sexy panties and lipstick to bed she wouldnt do it but regina did and you know what tone and regina fucked for a couple of more hours and then tone went home and 2 weeks later he told misha he couldnt take it no more and he moved out and told her she could keep her pussy so the moral to the story is misha was then ready to give tone some but it was to late cause he had found something better and he told her you can keep your loaded gun cause i found some one who is willing to please indeed.

If Making Them Happy Cost You Your Happiness Then You Cant Afford Them.

You know sometimes people try so hard to make the next person happy that they sometimes end up losing there self and personality and identity trying to make them happy, and to me that is not healthy or right because relationships are a two way street and its about give or take and learning one another if you dont take the time to learn a person then how will you ever grow as one.a lot of times people meet people and they think they are going to be together forever,and they think they are doing the other person a favor giving in to all there needs even when they are not pleasing there own,but in the long run that is not good because you will eventually resent the other person because you have giving up who you are trying to fulfill the other person every need and the other persons self esteem issues or jealousy issues or even being with them so long that you dont even realize that you are doing everything one sided and then 20 something years later that person walks out on you and you sitting there looking crazy not realizing that maybe if you would have put your foot down in the beginning things might not have ended the way they did, so all im saying is never change completely the person you were entering a relationship its ok to give some but never give up your whole self to make a person happy and cost you your happiness cause if you do that then its obvious you cant afford that person cause they are to expensive for your health and your self indeed.

Some People Wouldnt Know A blessing If it hit them in the face.

The old saying goes count your blessings,cause you never know when or if you will get them,but i really think that some people are destined to be miserable because they wouldnt know a blessing if it hit them samck dab in the face, i mean people search there whole life trying to be happy whether its financial or just finding someone to spend there life with,and people get caught up on a certain type that when they get something different they dont rrealize that god may have chosen to lead you ina different direction because the direction you been following only lead to nothing but heartbreak and headaches, so sometimes pay attention to your maker cause he wont steer you wrong he will sometimes give you blessings in a different package and that package might be the one you have been looking for all your life so all im saying is never mess up you r blessings there is thing called patience and maturity and that will lead you to prosperity whether its giving you money you never expected or giving you a wife or husband that you always wanted so all im saying watch for your blessings cause you never want to mess them up cause they dont come often and thats real.

Money Can Make Relationship Or Break it If its not Stable.

You know the old saying is that money is the root of all evil, but what people dont know is if you and your mate is not on a solid foundation then the relationship can easily be broken when money becomes funny,that is why you never get with someone just because of money cause money comes and goes but a loyal person is hard to find,someone who will be with you thru the good times and the bad,and someone who is going to be the same person whether they have a pocket full of money or not,and never stress about money cause if all your relationship is about is based on money then you never had a solid relationship in the first place so all im saying is be careful who claim to be your man or woman cause you might not have someone who will be down when the money run low,be with somebody who is down no matter what and once you have someone like that on your team you will be able to weather any kind of storm that comes your way real talk indeed.

Balanced Relationships are the best relationships.

When entering into a relationship the best relationships is when two people can give each other time to miss each other to make the other person miss them give them enough time and loving that the other person will want to be with them on there own not as and obligation,cause when you feel obligated in a relationship that will lead to boredom and resentment and then end game scenario will be a parting of ways, you have to give the person you with so much of a good time and fun that when they are away from you they will miss you and want to be with you ,but it goes both ways you have to also be willing when entering a relationship to give some time as well cause if you dont then the other person will feel neglected and then there attention will wonder so its all about give and take,not just all about you its all about you and your boo,and the sooner you both figure out and learn each other thats how you both will progress towards a happy relationship and the sooner you learn your mate then the better it will be for both cause if you dont give perosn air to breta then they will eventually start breathing elsewhere and thats real talk. its nothing wrong with wnating to be with each other you just have to kmake it where both of you missing each other and both of you are on the same page,now if that person never gets on your page then maybe you need to get a new book indeed.

be with someone who is willing to make lemons out of lemonade.

you know i have to write about this topic because its to many people that i know or have come in contact with who is thinking they have someone who is in there corner only to find that when the good times turn to bad times they are ready to leave a persons true character will show when the bad times come,if they are willing to make lemons out of lemonade then you got a keeper but im seeing that its to many people leaving people and not sticking around with the going gets tough,thats why you have so many relationships that are failing cause you dont have loyal people anymore as soon as the finance dry up,people looking for a way out,as soon as they get bored they looking for away out its like people dont try to work things out anymore people just ready to give up,and then asa soon as they give up on a person they think dont have it going on anymore then as soon as that person back on top people want to change there mind,i say fuck that be with that individual who was with you when times were rough and tough cause those are the true loyal people that are hard to find so if you got one hold on to them indeed. and let the material ones keep it moving.

There is a Such Thing As Me Time In A relationship.

You know people feel when you get in a relationship that once you get with a person that all there time is your time but thats not the case you have to give your husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend some me time cause if you dont then you will risk the chance of boredem setting in,or at least give the person a chance to miss you, every couple needs some me time i as a man i have my me time i like to watch my football on football sunday and its not a problem but some people would have a problem with that,and then sometimes a person especially when you are just dating them needs sometime to miss you,i mena if you are soulmates and you like being up under each other 24/7 then thats cool too,but eventually that will get old so all im saying is let a person breath so that the fresh air that they seek will be you and not trying to get away from you real talk indeed.

SAme Shit Just A Stronger Smell.

You know racism has been here for ever since i was born and before,crime has been here since i was born and before, but the shit that is going on today is a lot more bolder,stronger and down right outcold, i mean you got black churches burning daily, you got a white racist who goes into a church killing black preachers and elders and worshippers you got home invasions on the rise at and alarming rate you got more broad daylight killings and robberies you got racism all on the internet against mexicans blacks whoever that is not white,and yet the media tries to move you to be worried about gay marriage my thing is this i dont give a fuck who you marry just keep the gay shit out of my face i dont have a problem with gays i have a problem when you try to make me believe i have to like it and accept it i dont have to do shit i deal with it and thats it i have bigger issues to deal with like black on black crime, police brutality, racist remarks, carjackings, and black churches being burned down in the south, so what im saying is my people black or white who are not racist dont take your eyes off the real topics cause black lives matter and we as black people have to do better,and we have to realize its some shit going on that is the same shit from the past its just has a much stronger odor right now and with social media you hear and see everything and what i am seeing and hearing im not liking one bit and neither should you so all we can do is pray for better days but for some reason i dont believe things will get better they just keep getting worse real talk.

All That Glitters Is Not Gold.

You know people have images that they feel they have to live up to sometimes even when those images they are portraying are not real.and so when people are viewed as having it all people tend to not want to help those people when they strep out of there shell to ask for help, because they figure they got it going on, but my thing is this if a person comes to you and asked you for help its obvious that image you thought they was living is not gold,so dont judge them by what you thought they had just listen to the person and if you can help them help them not judge them, cause you never know when your day may come that you may need someone to help you i say this all the time be humble whether you got all the shit you want and need or if you dont have a dime be humble cause you never want to be known as a person who is not a person who is worth helping because of what you think you know cause on the outside a person can seem like they got it all but in reality they might not have what you nearly think so it may look like gold to you but remember all that glitters is not gold real talk so if you are willing and able to help a person in need who comes to you and ask you for there help then help them cause you dont lose from giving real talk indeed.

Facebook island part 2

you know its crazy that people be on social media hating on people because they think these people are living the life people better start doing there homework you got people working at target or some mininum wage job claiming they doing this and that and aint doing shit,but they got people hating on them cause people buy into the fantasy of facebook thinking people living large when in reality they barely living then whats really stupid is when you become one of the haters as they say when you hating on someon who is doing nothing you have falling into the trap of facebook island its all entertainment so people start doing your homework cause everybody is not who threy claim real talk indeed.

Never Take Advice From Someone Who Has Never Been Married.

You know the worstthing you can do is take advice from someone about your relationship or marriage when the person who is giving the advice has a terrible track record with men people like that are miserable and they want you to be miserable as weel so they give the worst advice they can find because they know like the hour glass on the days of our lives there life is ticking away and they cant find someone for them so they choose to give bad advice with the attentions of you listening and fucking up your happy home or relationship so all im saying is before you take advice check the messanger cause the messenger may be a person who does not have your best interest at heart real talk.

Dont front for others Just Be Yourself.

You know its a lot of people who try and do things to get attention from others even though they either cant afford it or they trying to act like the a boss when in reality you just and employee, be yourself dont try to create a life to look good to others on the outside create a life that feels good to you on the inside thats all that matters people be out here trying to floss living beyond there means instead of just doing things to make themselves happy and there family happy,i always tell people i do things for me my wife my daughter my family not for anybody else if i go on 9 or ten trips its not for show its for us if i have the finer things in life that i can get its not for show its for us and i think thats what people have to realize life is about making your self happy and if people have a problem with how you live your life then that s there problem not yours i just want people to be themselves and not be somebody there not real talk indeed.

Cherish Your Moms

You know tomorrow is mothers day and im thankful that i have my mom to spend the day with but there is a since of sadness as for the 2nd year in a row i will be with out my grandmother who was the rock of our family and i truly miss her she was so funny and about her business she was a woman that i wanted to be like with her success in life and i have to say i may not talk about her everyday but i truly miss her and i would give anything to talk to her or see her again she was the best grandmother you could imagine and i loved her dearly and i must say mothers day is very different now cause me and my brothers would take her and my mom to brunch on mothers day and have a great day and those times are now gone but i have the memories and now i can say now that my grandmother is gone me and my mom have gotten even closer as if that was possible but i know my mom will be sad tomorrow but i will be there to make her day and she will make ours so for all you people who still have your moms cherish them cause once there gone thats it and it is a lost that you will never get over indeed.

You Worth More Than A Pizza Wings And 2 Liter (Know Your Worth)

You know i used to think that when i was in high school that going over a ladies house and ordering pizza and wings and a 2 liter was doing something and renting a video thats good for a high school young man, and its good for even every now and then when you a grown up,but that being the norm always is not and shouldnt cut it, but a lot of women have come to accept just this because they feel that having this with a man is great but ladies need to know there worth a man should want to take his woman out to eat,out to the movies out of town for trips ,spend his quality time with her and not just fucking i mean talking laughing and enjoying each other, my thing is if you keep accepting less you going to keep getting it know your worth cause im not going to brag but please believe i was raised by women and that made me the man i am today and my wife will tell you i love spending quality time with her we go out to eat at least 4 or 5 times a month we go on trips all the time i get the flowers i give her the cards i know what it takes to give her the worth she deserves and even if i can give her a million dollars in worth im damn sure going to try cause she should not expect anything less but the best,and the same goes for you ladies and men settling for basic shit instead of doing the things you deserve and thats all im saying so people its ok to have cavier dreams and filet migon taste cause the only thing you should want hot ready is some good sex not a $5 pizza and $6 wings And A2 liter know your worth or at least find someone who will know it for you to show you real talk.

Damn It I Got A Right To Be Hostile.

You know i have set back and watched what is going on in baltimore and im not like everyone else saying why are they doing this why are they tearing up there own shit,my thing is this you can have all the peaceful protest in the world,but what good is that, if the system is rigged from the start you have police killing young black men,for no reason you have police planting guns and drugs on black men just to send them away,and lets be real clear,racism is at and all time high every since we got a black president, and people are quick to say oh baltimore has a black mayor,and half the police force is black,i dont want to hear that shit what the fuck does that have to do with crooked cops brutalizing young black men hiding behind there badges,and then lets not even talk about the media,there new code word for calling black men nigger is calling them thugs,and then lets talk about the white people who say im not racist some of my friends are black that shit right there is the tipoff that yeah they racist cut the bullshit,im not a racist i just dont trust a lot of white people who are crooked and i dont trust cops period white or black, my biggest fear as a black man is getting pulled over by a cop and nobody is around and they plant something on me or try to enforce police brutality on me and thats sad police are suppose to protect and serve but im just not confident in police anymore, and im not confident in this system we call the us legal system cause black people getting due process is not a giving and i hate when we do get a little justice we as black people suppose to jump for joy fuck that shit im not jumping for shit because in this country 8o% of the time white is right and being black to mean jack and thats real talk so for all of those thinking since we got a black president think again same shit just a diffrent era.

You Can Teach A Old Dog New Tricks.

You Know in relationships its give and take,and sometimes people take other people for granted in the bedroom when people have been together for awhile, not doing the freaky things they once did,not given your partner the effort or goodies that you once gave them, and nothing is more troubling then having to ask your mate to do something they once did to you,its like damn it if you did those freaky things to get me then damn do those things to keep me, but sometimes i think people have to be willing to light that fire once the flame starts getting dim, its like if your woman is not giving you that good head of licking your balls, or licking your ass or sucking that dick real good then you try the role reversal,and say let me put some shit down,i mean lick her pussy better, suck her toes,find her g spot, or lick her asshole if she into that, be aggressive and let her know that you owning the pussy tonight fuck her so good that she will have something on her mind to want to give you what you want,and if she still not willing to return the favor then at least you can say hey i tried and then maybe its time to move on to someone who will appreciate you,but if you go that route at least do it the right way dont be out here giving away community sex and you not taking care of home, teach the one you love that you want them to please you not nobody else and if all this fails then reach and agreement the right way instead of bringing unwanted shit to your home you can teach and old dog new tricks you just have to be a good trainer and your pet has to be a willing listener and thats real talk indeed.

Never Be Somebodies Good Enough.

You know you should never settle for anybody,be with someone who wants you for you,be with someone who wants you to be there everything,there friend there lover, there freak, there companion,be with someone who is completely satisfied with you not just settling with you,cause you will know when someone wants you for you, and you will know when someone thiks you are there everything cause when you are someones everything they will go to great lengths to make you happy,in the bedroom and out they will be willing to just keep you happy,and when you have someone like that you should be giving them the same never be someones good enough,and never be with someone who is just good enough to you cause you should want someone that you want to give them your all and make them your everything and not just settling indeed.

Gone too Soon.

You know today is my sister in laws birthday and 6 yrs ago  at the age of 29 my sis was taking away from us and she left behind 4 little boys and a lot of people who loved her,and even though i have other sister in laws she was the one i was really close to she was like the little sister i never had i  grew to love her very fast and she was just a real down to earth straight shooter who dint hold them up, and just a very nice person i used to make her cds all the time and you know when she went thru her battle with breast cancer other than her sisters and mother and father and kids she let me see when she lost hair and thats because she looked at me as a brother and so on this  day i salute her and wish her happy birthday gone to soon but never forgotten.

I Salute You Not HateOn You"

You know im seeing a lot more of my people friends associates and former co workers going on trips,and going to sporting events and doing things with this thing we called life,and you know what im so happy for them,i hate when people hate on others for trying to better themselves im the first one to not hate on you But im the one who will Salute you cause thats the kind of person i am i may not have a enemy in this world but i sure got haters and i got the worst kind the ones who you would never suspect but trust me i know them well i just choose not to let them matter cause im going to do me and me and my family going to continue to prosper travel and love one another to the fullest,and im going to continue to salute and encourage my black people to do whatever to make them happy and never let no haetr stand in your way cause you only have one life to live so lets take advantage of it real talk.

She got to be special cause he married her once and he wants to marry her again.

Its funny how people like to talk down on romance especially in the black community its like people dont like to recieve flowers,or be courted well let me tell you about this woman who the women hate on and some men have a problem with her body structure,but guess what the man who loves her body structure,and loves her personality is all that matters and those same women who be hating on her,dont even have husband number one,or even a boyfriend,but she has a husband and he loves her so much and loves romancing her so much that he wants to renew his vows with her,now if you get a man or woman that loves you so much that they want to renew there vows with you then you have something special and something that others wish they had and so these woman is the shit cause her husband loves giving her flowers,cards candy trips the whole nine but last but not least he wants to remarry her again cause she is the love of his life,and the haters and the bitch made niggas will never understand and as long the two who are in love keep each other close the rest can kick rocks and to me that is real love indeed.

You know How Make Me Feel So Good (XXX) Black Love Edition.(for Adults Only)

You know its been A minute Since I had a request to write about something but i was asked to share for hump day about this couple ashley and devon they were friends first but one night they kissed and it changed everything so after they went on a couple dates one night devon went over ashley apartment and they was laghing and talking and then they put on some music,and they were playing harold melvin and the blue notes old school classic you know how to love me makes me feel so good, and so devon was telling ashhley how sexy her hair looked and then they started kissing and so they went in the bedroom and he started kissing her beely and then her inner thighs and before you know it he was eating her pussy and it was hairy he said he was all in the pussy with his tounge,and then they started 69ing each other he was licking her asshole and her pussy so then after making her cum her laid her on her back with the music playing and her fucked her nice long and hard until she came,and then she flipped over and let him put it in herasshole and he fucked until he came in her ass and then they decided to record all these events and then they watched a movie then they fucked again and this time he came in her pussy and they became lovers forever and devon says to thi s day that ashley got the best pussy ever cause she still makes the sex exciting and he says the lovemaking with her is like a box of chocolates you never know what your going to get and she feels the same and thats what you call real lovers who gets it in and dont care what others think about them indeed.

Never take the little things for granted.

You know its easy for people to take people for granted especially the little things like a hello, or a text, or a card or flowers,or sending them a message people who get used to these things and come to expect them with out cherishing them are people who are not worthy of your time or your presence,so if you find that you are not being appreciated then you should quickly move on and let the person you took time out to give attention to know that someone else will appreciate not just the little things you do but also the big things,such as giving a person a massage,or eating there pussy like they want giving them conversation,or if its a woman seeking a man giving him a dick sucking he will never for get or some intense lovemaking like never before,people get so comfortable that they tend to lose sight of those who have taken the time to pay there ass some attention so if you feel like your not being appreciated then bounce and dont never let a muthafucka feel  like they can make you feel unsuperior cause no one should ever feel less than a man or a woman.

Nothing Like Being On The Same Page.

What does everyone want in a relationship, i would think someone who makes them smile,someone who makes them happy,someone who knows what that person needs and when they need it,someone who is so in sync with that other person that they know what the other is thinking before they say it,or they finish each others sentences, thats what you call the real deal its rare,but its truly the real deal being able to be with someone who knows how to keep your dick hard,and make your pussy wet,being with someone who is all into you and yet people will have questions as to why is this person making them smile its because people dont know what real love is and when you get it you will know,its being with someone when they only have either thousands between them,or only a couple of dollars but yet they still love each other the same, being with some one who will let you get anything you want from them in the bedroom and you willing to give them whatever they want in the bedroom being with someone like this is all everyone wants but few get it and once you get you hold on to it and you say fuck the rest of those who hate on you for having it and just keep doing you and loving the one you chose and fuck the rest of those hoes indeed.

This could be us But you be playing.

You know its funny how people be playing around when they want someone,its like they dont know how to pursue the individual,and they will say oh i like you im attracted to you but the old saying closed mouthes dont get fed, if you trying to be with someone,take them out to eat,take them to the show,take them out for drinks and even if you not sure of what you want cause you think you might miss out on something going after a new person, at least put in the work and try and reap the rewards hell you never know these woman or man you chasing could be a freak freakier than what you might have ever had giving you mindblowing sex to the point that shit you might want to marry them but at least quit playing and see if you get the results you desire cause you might look back and see that person you wanted might move on to someone else and you might see them all happy getting fucked good and smiling and the person you was chasing will say to you that this could have been us but you was playing real talk indeed.

Black Lives Matter But Just Not To Police.

You know its becoming more and more obvious that every week in the united states a black man is being being a victim of police brutality and its also becoming obvious that with social media and having a black president since 2008 that racism is more evident than ever white people are not hiding it and im not saying all white people are racist but damn it shit is out of hand white people can call a young boy on his school bus a nigger, you got people in livonia michigan hanging a noose on there tree shit is real out here and all i can say is black men stay on guard keep your nose clean and dont give these racist pigs a reason but i tell you what the more black people keep getting targeted with racism they will retalitate and we will evidently end up having a race war and white america dont want that or maybe they do but it wont be good for anyone because a lot of lives could be lost and we dont need that but the temperture is rising in the black communites around the united states and thats real talk so all im saying black people watch where you go and have your shit legit so that they can have any reason to fuck with you and im proud of my city for not filing charges against floyd dent a black man with 30 plus years at ford who the police planted cocaine on him and beat him up 16 times with there fist and the officer is being charged by the prosecuter so good for him justice needs to be served and thats real talk.

Be Careful Who You Let In Your House.

You know i understand when people move on in relationships,its easy to want to be with someone to replace that other person,but you have to do your homework cause people will be on there best behavior when you are pursuing them or they are pursuing you,its like applying for a job you really want of course your application is going to look great but once you get the job are you the same person with those great references on that resume or are you going to be the real person who really just was trying to get the job as your man or woman under false pretense, cause lets be real its some crazy muthafuckas out here and yeah you should take your time dating someone and getting to know them cause you just never know you might end up with someone who is just a step from the cuckoo farm real talk,its easy for a person to show you the great qualites when things are going great,but its when things are going bad you find out the real and sometimes the real can end up getting you killed,or hurt,so all im saying is do your homework or you could end up get poisoned physically and mentally real talk.

You Could Never Be Them On Your Best Day.

You know when people are miserable they tend to want others to join them,and when they are not willing to take a look in the mirror to see why they have no one of importance, they tend to be in denial,but im here to tell you when a person moves on from someone to another its usually the other persons fault, so the person who got dumped is quick to want to try and find something wrong with the new person that they got dumped for, they survey the persons looks,and trying to see if they look better or what is it that the new person has that they dont,well im here to tell you most of the time its not about just looks its about how the new person treats you,how the new person has your back how they know the new person is with them in the good times,and the bad,and not to mention that the new person is all that and a bag a chips in the bedroom and is a beautiful person who even on your best day you could never be them,fuck what others may think of the new person its all about the person they have found as long as they are happy thats all that matters,and last but not least the new person ihas the looks that are perfect for the person  and that is what counts the most so instead of listening to others as to how you lost that person,or looking for faults in the new person look at your self cause you only have yourself to blame its obvious you had diamond in the ruff but now all you can get is cubic zirconias never the real thing. Real Talk.

How You Gonna Open Up The Door For Somebody Else To Come In.

You know i never understand people who say they are ready to settle down and find that right person for them to share there life with, but once they get the person they have seeked attention, they dont know how to seal the deal and when i say seal the deal i dont mean get in there pants i mean getting to know them physically as far as going on a date,going to a movie,having drinks, just being around each other,especially when you know the person you have been pursuing has had trust issues and was coming out of a bad relationship, so what you as a woman or a man should be doing is just be yourself and romance the person you claim you have wanted if not then step aside and be prepared to let someone else come along and get the person you wanted attention,cause for the life of me a lot of people dont realize once you get a man or woman out there shell its the same as opening the door for them to want to date again and you being the person who has opened the door will look like a damn fool opening the door for someone else to walk in when you should be the one opening up there door and closing it with you being in the inside instead of possibly opening the door and letting someone else close the door and you on the outside looking in.

Humbleness Is A check That Can Be Cashed Anywhere.

You know a lot of times people who may have not grown up with anything are very humble people,but you have a lot of people who once they have achieved success in life they forget where they came from, and they start to look down on the very people and neighborhood they came from, so the only love they get is from the area they are living now,but im here to tell you its nothing like being able to recieve love from the hood to the burbs, cause one thing about me is i can have thousands of dollars and still be able to kick it with a person who has not a dime of money in there pocket because i will treat them as if they had a million dollars in there pocket cause i know where i came from and i will never change and if more people were humble then they would know that being is a check you can cash anywhere and nobody will look at you any different whether you in the gutter or in a mansion thats real talk indeed.

Sugarwalls The Remix.(Adult edition Black Love)

You know the reason im calling this the remix is because for my followers from about 3 years ago i wrote about the benefits of pleasing your wife or womans sugarwalls, well for some reason a lot of men seem to be selfish lovers and what i think they are missing out on is the fact that if you eat your ladies pussy real good taking your time then you the one that benefits from this i truly feel that the better attention you give the pussy the better the sex or lovemaking, a man should lay a woman down kissing her neck,her titties,her lips and just warming her up getting her aroused with some soft music and just pleasuring her body before moving down to her belly button kissing her all over then once you get to her pussy if you have aroused her then her pussy should be nice and her then you should start tounge kssing her pussy like the lips on her face then finding her g spot taste her clit and put your tongue in her hole and lick her from asscrack to pussyhole and just be prepared to be in no rush and just lick and suck and lick and suck until she is so aroused that she is ready to cum,and when she is ready to cum dont be no punk be ready to lick and swallow her juices whether her juices is creamy thick or just wet just be a man be her freak and suck then juices up until she tell you to stop,and when she tells you to stop be prepared for some hardcore deepstroking sex and trust and believe is going to be good if you ate her pussy good cause most women love to have there pussy ate real good and i always have said a happy pussy that has been marinated with the tongue will give the dick ultimate fun.

When A Man Gets Bored There Aint Nothing You Can Do About It.

You know years ago R.Kelly Made A Song called when a womans fed up there aint nothing you can do about it,well it goes both ways and i be damn if im not seeing it so much these days is when a woman has a man and thinks that she dont have to do the little things or sexy things she used to do to him anymore cause she got him, well just because you got him dont mean you have to neglect him because if you keep neglecting him the first thing he is going to do is come to you with his complaints and if you not sucking his dick like he likes or sucking it enough,or giving him some pussy on the regular,or maybe some asshole then you might have created a problem because if your man starts telling another woman about his lack of sex at home then thats the first step to him either cheating on you or leaving you,and you no whats even worse is if you neglect him for so long that once you realize you been slacking it might be too late if you all of sudden decide you want to get freaky or sexy and he dont evn notice or even care to engage cause he is bored then you good as fucked cause once a man is bored with your ass and someone else gets his attention there aint nothing you can do about it,so all im saying is ladies if you have a good man and he is coming to you for anything sexual then damn it give in to him you plan on keeping him and hell suck his dick sometimes when he not expecting it be freaky do some shit to blow his mind dont just be basic cause a nigga hates a basic chick indeed and trust and believe you can be a freak in the bedroom and a lady in the streets a man love sit real talk.

Dont Sweat The Petty Stuff (Big Game James Tribute)

You know i have not written in my blog for a week last sunday morning i got the shock of all shockers to me i lost a friend who was only 44 years old a family man who had a wife and two little girls, he died of a sudden heart attack and it still dont seem real cause i just talk to him last saturday on facebook, but you know his death just goes to show me that this life we live is a honor and a blessing and we should never take it for granted,and we should live it to the fullest,and also whatever beefs you may have with people or individuals like my boy used to say dont sweat the petty stuff let that shit go iron out your differences,dont go thru life with a grudge if its not that serious dont be walking around mad at a person over some he say she say stuff man i dont give a fuck about what he or she says just live your life and enjoy each other enjoy your friends,your wife or husband or boyfriend or girlfriend and to me thats all that is important in life so as a tribute to my dog rest in peace big game james woods you were a good dude gone to soon and may your wife and kids heal over time and for anybody reading this blog pick up the phone and call someone who you may have not talked to in awhile because of some dumb shit and just make peace with those you miss and oh yeah dont sweat the petty stuff indeed.

Do People Still Date Anymore.

You know i have wrote about this topic plenty of times so for my followers you know how i feel about this topic, why is it that people especially my dogs out here choose not to put the effort in to dating like we did in the past,well you know why i cant put all the blame on the fellas you got to blame a lot of these females, when you meet people online on social media guys meet a woman they chit chat back and forth online then next thing you know either the woman or the man is exchanging naked photos then next thing the two people meet up and they fucking at a hotel or one each others place,and then after all that then the woman wants respect and wants to be wined and dined but you made it so easy to give the guy the pussy that he is like shit why should i wine and dine you i already got the kitty kat, well i must say im old school i like going on that first date going to dinner talking holding hands going to a movie,then maybe having a drink or more talking afterwards let the vibe bulid up with each other ,then afterwards eventually leading up to some hot sex or lovemaking down the road but at least go on a few dates and get to know each other and see if it can become more than just fucking people so quick to want to get naked without getting to know the person maybe im old fashion but i like bringing my lady flowers and balloons and all that romantic stuff but thats just me,but what i hate even more is guys get the pussy so easy that it makes it hard for the women who are looking for a woman who wants a real relationship a woman who wants to wined and dined and thats real talk indeed so all i have to say is people who still believe in dating dont give up cause its still some people out here who not just into fucking and sucking. but more than that they want movies dinners trips then sex.

Give me my praise and roses while im here so i can smell the roses.

You know over the weekend i went to my cousins 60th surprise birthday party and i must admit she was really surprised and i watched as she recieved love and admiration from people who were there and i was thinking why is it that people have to show people how much they are loved and appreciated when they are dead and gone give people there roses while they are here so they can smell them whats wrong with showing a loved one or friend how much they mean to you while they are alive and well dont wait until they are sick and dead and gone to tell them show them the love they deserve while they are here and thats real talk.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words.

You know its funny how when people tell you that they are interested in you, they dont realize that actions speak louder than words, you can tell a person all day that you are interested in them but if you dont take the time out to call them or text them or ask them out for a date just be creative in your approach then the person you are pursuing will think that you are just like the rest and that your not really serious about being in a relationship or even interested in going on a meaningful date and you cant blame the person if they decide that you are not serious and they decide to move on cause when you are young and in 20s or early 30s you might have time to play games but when you get in your 40s its time out for games and bullshit either you are interested or you not and if you not then keep it moving and go find someone who likes to play games and let that person who wants a future with someone move on and not waste there time cause time is precious and people need to understand that game are for clowns not people.

Life Is What You Make It.

You know this gonna be short and sweet never let anyone keep you from enjoying your life the way you want, you only get one life to live and i truly believe that you should live your life the best way you see fit,and all i ever say is never let life pass you by cause life is too short to settle its short to not be doing anything,and never let anyones hate effect how you live your life,just because a person is not living the life they wanted is no reason you shouldnt,do what makes you happy and if you do that then you are getting the most out of what life has to offer cause like i have said before you only got one life to live so live it to the fullest indeed.

Sometimes The Love You Was Looking For Was Right In Your Face.

You know sometimes people be searching there life looking for love in all the wrong places, looking in the clubs,the bars,at a picnic all over the place,but sometimes the love or person you been looking for is right in your face but you might not noticed it because you to busy looking elsewhere, and sometimes the reason people dont see it cause the person might be a friend who you might work with,or a person who is a family friend who you might think is funny but you had no idea that this person is more than just funny,and this person might actually treat you and cherish you the way others have not,and then also finding out that this woman you worked with is actually someone who turns out to be your best friend and lover,your soulmate,see people go by looks and and superficial things instead of getting to know the person who is really just the right person for you a person who you will never get tired of,never get bored with a person who is willing to make you happy because there joy in life is making you happy that is what you call real love,so people need to quit disregarding signs that are thrown there way and pay attention to those who may be right there in your face cause i know i did and i must admit i never saw it coming but im damn sure glad i did get the message cause my life changed for the better forever,and so will yours especially this one couple who im pulling for that it works out for the better i would love to go to there wedding one day lol.

Its Only So Much Talking You Can Do.

you know when you are in your teens and you like someone some people may be shy,when they like someone so they will play games talk all day and stuff like that but when you get older its only so much talking you should be doing quit beating around the bush if you like someone then tell them and if you dont want people to know how you feel about that person then keep your feelings private but at least let the other person know and if they with it then act on it and stop all the talking and get to some action whether its a date,or a dinner or shit actually getting intimate but damn how much communicating are you going to do actions speak louder than words eventually so all im saying is if you truly feeling someone then get to know the person other than just the phone meet that person see if you two really click and if you do now you doing grown up shit real talk indeed to talk about it be about it.

Sometimes You Have To Cut Your Losses.

You know sometimes you have to come to the realization that everybody is not meant to be in your life forever,and when you realize that the better off you will be especially when you get older cause when you in your teens and your 20s and 30s you might have plenty of friends and associates but when you get in your 40s and you have a wife or husband and kids a family of your own, you will come to realize that you dont need everybody especially muthafuckas who make it seem like you bothering they punk ass when in reality they lucky they even being kept in the loop bitches,so me personally i know who my true friends is my wife is my best friend,then my childhood buddies and i have a few co workers from chrysler who are my dogs for life but those associates that i hardly even text then you will know that its nothing personal its just business and the business is you getting the fuck on and realizing that you had the ultimate friend in me but you didnt know how to act right so now you feel the wrath of not hearing from me and thats how other people need to be realize that everybody comes and goes and you make everybody happy so just close your circle and allow those who you know is your true dogs in i got a homeboy name sean me and him been boys since 94 going to wrestling matches concerts football games and we may not talk a lot but we text at least three or four times a week and he live on the other side of town but you know what he made it to a lot of my events cause thats what homeboys do and for that he a dog foe life so thats just and example of what a true friend is actions speak louder than words and for those who dont get it then you never will but i will be showing you indeed,and i got 5 brothers 2 by blood 3 by friendship and they know who they are cause we going to vegas in september real talk indeed so it dont matter if you known somebody for 30 years if they not wanting to be around you or interact unless its just to ride your dick cause they know you popular then you dont need those type of niggas cause those are bitch niggas so choose your friend sand associates wisely indeed.

You Not And Orignal Screenplay You Just A sequel Of the First Movie.

You know some people might get mad at what im about to write but you know me i dont give a fuck cause its the truth, i hate when people who were cheating with each other and one of the people who were in a relationship decides to leave to be with that person to have a relationship,and once there in the relationship they be surprised when they get cheated on, im like didnt you cheat with that person before you to became a couple, so what makes you think you gonna be treated diffrently you not the original you just a sequel and encore of what they been doing in the past the present and the future so dont hink that your sex or you as a person is going to make that person who cheated with a woman the night before his marriage and weeks after his marriage with over 30 women is going to ever be loyal to you please believe he is going to be that way forever,you just a person of convience for him and the moment you realize that then maybe you will get up and leave this horror movie and go find you a good movie to star in and thats real talk cause you should want to be a leading lady not a supporting cast with you mate real talk indeed.

Support Your Black Tv Shows.

You know whats funny to me well its funny but also sad, is that its 2015 and we as a black community only have a handful of black shoes on the air, but yet i find it funny that people complain about people liking empire cause they got a faggot on the show so what its more to the show than just the gay guy its a good show then you have ignorant people who say i watch power not empire how about watching both cause let me break it down to you out of regular tv and cable we only have blackish on abc power on starz, empire on fox, the game which is about to get canceled on bet, being mary jane on bet,have and have nots on own,love thy neighbor on own,for better or worse on own scandal even though its majority white, how to get away with murder.and thats it. 9 damn tv shows on all those networks,and you know why cause networks think this new generation is ignorant and dumb,and all they think we watch or want to watch is bullshit reality tv vh1 puts bullshit on for black people cause they dont think we our intelligent enough for good tv shows with scripts and plots, and another thing you dont see white people saying im only watching this white show instead of this white show cause they got so many to choose from im not saying you have to watch the few black shows we have but at least dont dog those that do watch them thats all i got to say about it.

Pay Attention to your Mate or some one Else Will.

You know i hate when i sit back and watch people i know who have a man or a woman, and i see from the outside looking in that there relationship is not how it should be,but yet they complain about oh she want this or she wants that,or he want to much from and im like man do you realize that you fucking up,and once a person get tired of your shit thats it,and the worst thing you can do is make the other person not care whether you coming or going,to me thats the worst cause once a person dont care its a wrap,nobody should have to complain in a relationship over and over about the same thing if they do then to me its obvious the other person dont give a fuck and if they dont give a fuck then someone else out there is truly willing to care please believe it people think cause they got a person they dont have to make and effort to keep them but thats bullshit its easy to get in a relationship but the work is keeping it happy,and if you are truly with your soulmate its not even considered work its considered fun cause you love that person so much you are willing to do whatever to make them happy, i know people and i dont give a fuck cause aint nobody going to kick my ass or confront me with what i say cause its the truth,but i no niggas who have a good woman and they been with them forever and wont take them no fucking where i mean been with for over ten plus years and only they ever took them was on a family trip or to see his side of the family no romance whats so ever and yet he think he go t something she just hasnt reached her boiling point but when she do he will be the first one begging and acting a fool but my thing is nigga you knew what you had but you chosed to be a hoe so let her go.And then you have those who have children and there children have never spent a trip not even to cedar point with there dad cause he choose to be barney fife and dont give a fuck about his family to take the time and make memories with his wife and kids but yet the minute she tell him she wont out he will be crying like a monkey and then you got womn who marry these old black muthafuckas and they know they old but yet the old muthatfucka got to pop viagra just to fuck his wife in the ass and yet his dick still dont work and he know she like it up the ass and there kid is grown now so if she decided to leave his ass cause he got a limp dick dont want to travel aor get freaky then he aint got nothing to say but he should have tried harder.so if im on the outside looking in and i can see all this then its obvious you need to pay attention cause im here to tell you i pay attention to mine i travel with her we go to movies we go shopping together we talk all the time we go out to eat and in the bedroom aint nothing i wont do to make her cum and aint shit she wont do to make cum either so all im saying is you dumbasses who be crying and bitching you better start paying attention or you gonna be ass out and some other nigga or woman gonna be where you used to be real talk from the truth.