You have to make a person feel comfortable.

you know a lot of times when you are with someone if you dont make things exciting then you will only bore the person your with and make them want to be somewhere else,say for instance for your man he may like going to nice restaurants,going for drives together,shopping going to the movies and then he might love some mindblowing sex put something on there mind like for instance this guy name dante was was coming from a situation he wanted out of and he met this woman who was sweet,had her own place,and so they would talk and laugh,then they went out to dinner and then he would come over and they would have some great sex,and then she would make him some lipton soup something simple but he loved it and he fell in love with her,he couldnt keep his hands off her and she made it so comfortable for him that he only wanted to be with her,and he didnt want to spend his free time no where else,and all im saying if you can make a person feel comfortable and you pleasing there needs,they will never have time to get bored elsewhere real talk indeed.