The Way A person Start Is usually the Way They Finish"

I will be the first to say im no relationship expert,i just speak from experience,and from the over a million of my followers of my blog,and the over 1600 different personality of my blog, that a lot of women,and men but i hear it more from women,that he not romantic he doesnt celebrate anniversaries, we used do things, he dont want to travel,he doesnt want to cuddle,i can go on and on and on,but my thing is from what i see is if the person you with didnt bring you flowers in the beginning or they never cuddle at the start of the relationship, or they dont want to travel,or they not romantic,then i blame you for not doing your homework,because i see alot of relationships consist of watching movies at home,getting a carry out,some drinks,maybe smoke some weed,and fucking and thats what they do in the beginning and once again im not knocking that at all,but its so much more to do,and eventually one of the two people will get tired of doing the same old thing,and then start complaining about the things i have wrote about thus far but see you have to your homework,and make sure if this person is someone you want to get serious with,that you have to let them know you want these things from the start,you cant be fucking around for 3 or 6 or a year doing the same thing and then expect them to do more,cause you have made them comfortable,and they feel like they dont have to the big stuff cause you have accepted a carry out,movies at home,fucking all day and night, and drinking so you have to from the start lay the ground rules,and let them know what you expect,and not let them become comfortable unless you want what they want cause otherwise once a person get comfortable its hard to make them change for the better you cant enable a person who you want romance,traveling going out for a movie,or going out for a dinner, so make them start off doing these things and then you want have a rreason to complain and thats real talk.