Anal Sex Its Not For Everybody"

You know A lot of people frown upon anal sex,saying its nasty,or its gay,my thing is whats done between a man and a woman thats not gay,and if a woman loves for a man to lick her asshole,and fuck her in it then so be it,and my thing is dont knock it until you try it,if you a man who likes to eat your womans pussy good,and lick and suck on her asshole then if thats what turns your woman on then do it,and if you like stroking her asshole then do it,Cause if you dont and she likes it then trust me she will eventualy find someone who will unless she is a person who is unselfish about her needs,and is willing to do with out cause you might not like the anal sex,all im saying is anal sex if done right can be a sexy thing,but it aint for everybody especially if you a woman who cant take it all so just try it first before you judge it.

Learn Your Womans Body"

You know a lot of women want a man to take his time to learn her spots,he weakness her freakiness,and sensualness, but a lot of guys,just want to get the pussy wet fuck it and bust a nutt,but what they are failing to realize is that it is so much more to it than that,i mean for example,say you have woman who is hard to give and orgasm to,well what you need to do as a man,who should want to make her cum,just off the strength that she has not had and orgasm,so you have to kiss her,and see if she likes kissing,and if she likes deep passionate tongue kissing,and you will know if she likes it,then also,try and kiss her neck and breast,see if she likes that as well,and if she responds,then go down to her pussy,and take your time with her pussy you should be willing to stay down there for as long as she needs,not your needs give her her needs first,lick her clit,find her g.spot,lick the inside of her pussyhole,lick her asshole if needed she might like a finger in her ass do that,just take your time suck and lick her pussy good,then after making her either cream or scream,or cum,then put your dick inside and dont just start bam bam bam bam on her take your time stroke the pussy i mean stroke it where every stroke she just cant get enough then fuck her until she cums,and if you are a longlasting brother then she will love you even more,just take the time to learn your womans body real talk.

Feelin Single"

You know R.kelly got a new song out and i was reading a topic in another one of the forums i visit,and they were saying how if your in a relationship,any kind of relationship,you know your mate,your boyfriend,or girlfriend,So you know when something has changed,a person can tell you that your insecure,and sometimes you could be wrong,but 99% of the time your gut feeling and your instinct is right,if you have been doing something a certain way for a while,and then all of a sudden things change,you may not see the person like you once did, you might not text the person or recieve texts from the person like you used to,or phone calls are getting shorter,or if the other person is not planning for you,not making plans to go to a movie or dinner or something then you really just in a title, you really just a boyfriend,or husband,or girlfriend,or wife,cause its obvious that the one you loving is either loving someone else,or starting to be interested in someone else,real talk cause i dont want to hear the shit about there is nothing changing if you in a relationship,then you know when something just aint right,and all you can do is either deal with it,and be unhappy,or address it and hope that things can work out,or you can do what you might end up having to do and that is walk away no harm no foul,cause like i said 99% of the time the gut knows,now it could be that 1% that says hey you overreacting but like i said thats 1% so you know its some shit in the game,and my hting is who wants to be in a relationship when they starting to feel like they are no longer a priority,but more of and option,i mean the purpose of a relationship is to feel wanted and loved,and have a place of well being to know you have this person by your side,and in your corner,not to feel like your single,cause if you feeling single,and you supposed to be attached then damn it cut your loses and move the fuck on cause life is too short to be unhappy real talk,and if the person you with is too greedy,to not want to man up or woman up and do the right thing by you,and at least acknowledge that there is a someone else then you do them a favor and make it easy on them real talk.

Material Things Cant Buy You Happiness"

You know its a lot of people out here who are searching for that one person to fall in love with,be happy,and settle down with,and so a lot of times people think that stature,material things such as clothes,or jewerly, a fancy house,money that if they find a person who can give them all that,then they will be truly happy,well that is bullshit,you might have some who could care less about love,but most of the time thats bullshit,and then you have those who people on the outside think they got it going on nice car,job,house,fancy clothes,nice bank account,but they missing that one thing that money cant buy,and thats true happiness,true love,a true being of being with someone who loves the ground they walk on, being with a person who if your money is funny they gonna get you thru the rough times,because true love has a way of doing just that,and then when the good times come a calling that person who you truly love,makes them good times the best times,so i dont care what a person say i know plenty of people who have good jobs,and are able to buy whatever,but they some lonely ass people because they dont have that priceless jewel,and thats true love,and i have seen it on both sides my niggas with good jobs,who are lonely ass fuck they chasing a pipe dream looking for love in all the wrong places,i have seen it with women who they may look like they got it going on but they dont have that one thing they want the most,and thats a man who truly loves,and cares about they ass unconditionally,so all im going to say that if you find someone who truly loves you and they migh not have the material things at the time to give you,but they cant give you some things,and true love,you dont run those people,away,you dont neglect those people for someone with a little more cheese,cause when you do,and you can be one of those people who had true love,and lost it for something you can put a price on,then you is a dumb ass individual who deserves all the heartbreak you get cause it is to many people rich and poor searching for that one thing true love real talk fropm the truth.

If Your Woman Not Making The Ugly Face You Not Doing Something Right"

You know i have always said that when you in the bedroom forget about trying to be pretty,i mean you can be sexy if you trying to show off lingerie,and shit,but when it comes to the actual act of love making,or fucking or whatever you want to call it,then thats when cute goes out the window,and if your lady is looking cute then you must not be handling your business,I mean you need to learn your ladies body,what makes her moan,what makes holler,what makes her scream,if its your finger then finger her,if its your tongue,then lick her clit,or suck her clit,do whatever it takes to make her experience a feeling that she can only dream about,and then dont be afraid to go all out cause in the bedroom it takes more than just a pretty face,and a big dick to satisfy a woman,you need to be prepared to do whatever she needs to make her achieve her orgasm,and if you a bad motherfucker who can make her cum multiple times with your tongue and dick then you will be a hard act to follow,you are considered a keeper,so all im saying to the fellas is learn your womans body,and if you do she will be totally into your lovemaking ,and she wont think twice about how she looking all she gonna care about is cumming trust me i aint the truth for no reason.

Happy memorial day from The Truth

Enjoy your family and remember the fallen soldiers.

Dont Let Life Past You By"

You know i just got off a vacation,and im not saying you have to go out of town all the time,hell you dont if you dont want to,but just enjoy life life is too short to just not enjoy the things it has to offer,because tomorrow is not promised,i have a sister in law that was 28 and she died of breast cancer,and luckily she was able to go to vegas,and take her kids to disneyworld,and she went on a cruise all this while she was battling cancer,and i said to myself before she died and definitely after she died i would always enjoy life,people work all there lifes and never have any fun,i mean go on a trip,see the usa,or see the world,or go to the movies, out to dinner,and amusement park,take up a hobby,just do something that will put a smile on your face,and at least do something where you can say i enjoyed wht life has to offer,cause i be damn if i dont if i died today i can say i had a great life i have harldy no regrets,and from this day forward im going to just continue adding to my resume of fun,and im trying to instill it in my daughter so that when she gets older she want settle for less from these men out here my daughter is going hopefully have her own,but also expect a man to want to do things cause if she dont then she will be shortchanged and that not going to happen cause i am the example of a man who goes places,what to expect and what you should not settle for,so people just enjoy life cause tomorrow is not promised,hell neither is tonight each day you breath is a gift from god real talk.

Good Girl In The Streets But A freak In the Sheets.

You know a lot of guys talk about they want a freaky woman and they go to titty bars and clubs looking for a freak,but me personally i like a woman who is a woman who in the streets she represents you,she gets her hair and nails done,she works,she is confident about her herself,and she dont need a man to validate her,thats what you call a good woman,she dont have to dress half naked or talk dirty out and about to let everyone know her business i like a woman with class but behind doors she will freak your ass cause you her man,cause once them doors is closed and she into you whatever she decides to do with you at least its between you and her and not everybody else business if she wants to suck your dick,lick your ass,get fucked in the ass,sit on your face whatever the case maybe thats ok because thats what a real man who is looking for a real woman wants,a woman who can cook in the kitchen,be a lady in the streets spend that quality time with her man,but once them doors are closed she is down for whatever with her man,and if she is doing these things her man should be satisfied ,happy pleased,and have no reason to cheat unless he is greedy,or not getting satisfied at home or with the one he is with,otherwise if he has a woman who can make his toes curl then he knows he got a good girl,who can be dirty behind closed doors and what man wouldnt like that.

Detroit My City Under Siege"

You know i wrote about detroit in my old blog when i first started blogging,and like i said before the detroit that i grew up and loved,is not the detroit anymore,its like my generation was the last of a dying breed,its like when i came up we respected the older guys in the neighborhood, we respected the elderly,the elderly was like a preacher someone you respected even if you didnt like and older person you still respected them cause thats how we was raised,people keep trying to look for answers of why the city i love has crime thats out of hand marvin winans a pastor getting carjacked,a 84 year old security guard getting shot and killed,and 86 year old man getting carjacked,this type of shit you never used to hear about because of the upbringing in the homes,now a days not all but a lot of kids are raising themselves,you have these parents who are not raising there kids,and they letting the streets raise them,and raise them in a very bad way,this new generation has no regard for life,they quick to pull the trigger,but scared as hell to take and ass whooping,so every other night or every night in some case you hear on the news someone has been shot,or someone has been robbed,and its not about where you go or hang out cause niggas is everywhere robbing and stealing,and until we as parents get a hold of are kids before the streets do shit will never change,the economy is bad but whats worse is the neglection being done by these parents who are so quick to have these kids but dont want to take the time out to raise them from right and wrong,and so they think they can do whatever and whenever they want to do,and thats sad,so i amsaying to anyone who reads this get a handle on your kids before theyget to grown and its to late show them its a code of honor out here and they are breaking all the codes killing infants killing the elderly,just walking around with a i dont give a fuck attitude,and that is not right,and once we stop tolerating this type of behavior then we as a city can start our to rebuld and be the city i once i knew and loved hopefully its not to late.

She Found Mr Goodbar"

You know since its tasty tuesday i think its only right that i share a little story that was sent my way,by one of my followers,with there permission of course,it was this lady who was really tired of guys and all there bullshit,and she was just looking for a simple guy who was the opposite of everything she had been dealing with she said she had some guys who just like to hang in the streets,fuck them good and maybe they might get a meal and that was it,no quality time,well this woman had this guy who had admired her from a far for a while he told her she was his crush,and she thought he was sweet but she never really thought anymore than that well one day she decided to see what this guy was all about,so they exchanged numbers,and they hit it off with great conversation,found they had a lot in common,talked about everything,so then they went out on a date,and he gave her a rose,and a card,so she was like well damn this is different already,and then they went out to eat she was so used to getting carry outs and shit,so he took her to a nice restaurant,so then they went to a movie,and after movies they went for a drink,so she was really liking this guy,So he was different from what she is used to dating,so then after a few dates and hanging out she decided she wanted to go to the next level felt like he was taking his time,so she invited him over and cooked dinner for him,made him some steak,and shrimp,baked potato and a salad plus wine,so after a nice homecooked meal,and music,she decided she wanted a kiss and he kissed her,so she wanted another one,and then it got deep they started kissing with a lot of passion,and then he started kssing her neck,and then he took her shirt off but he kissed her nipples nice and slow,,and then he laid her back slid her panties off and slowly raised her legs up and licked her from ass crack to her clit,then he started licking and sucking her clit so good he found her spot she was hollering like never before in her life,she had been fucked before,and had her pussy ate but not like this,so he made her cum,not once but twice by his tongue,then after making her cream and scream he whipped out his dick and she was like damn baby you got a big dick so she sucked on his dick like a sucker,and then after getting extra hard and wet,he slid his dick inside her and fucked her nice,deep,and hard jusat the way she liked it,and he gave her at least 3 orgasms before he bust his nut she said damn baby i think i found my mr goodbar,and he said i dont know how you didnt see me i was right up under your nose all the time,and he made love to her and fucked her all night long off and on,and even though they never became a couple he is her mr goodbar and thats what she had been looking for her entire life.

If you Dont Love Yourself How Do You Expect Someone Else To"

You know there are a lot of low self esteem ass people out here especially a lot of women,who feel that if they dont have the validation of a man that they our not worthy,to me there is nothing more sexy than a confident woman who does not need a man to validate whether she is worthy enough,or a woman who can let a man lower her self esteem,to me that is just crazy,and that is why a lot of times men are afraid of a confident independent woman,because they want a woman they can control,a woman that they can breakdown when they want,or build up when they want like they some damn puppets on a string,like they got a dog that needs to obey,to me who wants a woman with no mind of her on,A real man should want a woman that he can have equal footing with,a woman who is bringing conversation,already has her sex appeal,a woman who is not insecure,or not feeling worthy,hell a woman who loves her self first before any nigga,that to me is whats wrong with a lot of good strong black woman,who are single,and the first thing a guy says is damn,i cant believe you dont have a man,thats because you have to many of my brothers who rather pass up a sexy confident women who needs no man to justify her,and instead looks for a woman who is in need of a daddy figure,or someone from a broken home who is just happy to have a man,so my thing is women love your self,dont go out looking for justification or validation from no man,cause its inside your self,and for my brothers quit passing up the real sisters out here the strong confident ones,and give them there respect,and be a man,and let a strong woman know that your man enough to wine and dine her and come to the table with more than just your bullshit lines come to the table with a plan,a vision and see how it feels to be with a strong woman.

It takes More than just having the equipment"

You know this is one topic that has been talked about before i came into this world and it will be talked about after i leave this world,for women a lot of them think because they got a big ass,or big titties,that they dont have to do a lot in bed,thats bullshit,you can have all the ass in the world if you dont know how to work it,and grind it,then whats the purpose,there is nothing worse then fucking someone,or making love to some one who does not have any rhythm or motion,or just dont know how to fuck lets just be real,and then as far as men go i hear a lot of women in different forums who be talking shit about a guy having a 10 inch or 11 inch dick,but he dont know how to work it,dont know how to stroke it,and dont have no since of long lasting ability,so my thing is if you got the tools,and you dont know how to use then then if you a woman you might as well have and ass flat as day old beer,and if you a man you might as well have a webster sized dick,because you are are useless to your partner if you dont know how to fuck its that simple,thats why a lot of guys thing they be fucking the shit out of there women,not knowing they aint doing shit,and a lot of these women be thinking they doing some serious fucking with there man,and yet he still has to go jack off because you didnt put it down cause you dont know how,not that you dont have the tools you just dont have the ability to please,so if you are getting complaints from someone you fucking with listen to them and start reading,books something cause you can have 12 inch dick,and a nigga with a 9 piece or a 10 piece might come along and knock you out the box cause your fucking skills are not up to par,and if you a woman with a big old ass and you cant fuck you better be careful cause a woman with ironing board ass might come along and put that red snapper pussy on your man and you ass will be history real talk.a lady wants motion in the ocean and size real talk.

Just be yourself"

You know it is a lot of insecure low self esteem ass people out here men,and women,that is why social media sites such as facebook.twitter instagram, is perfect for a lot of these people because its away for a lot of these people to be something they really not,im not saying that everybody is a phony by no means,but what i am saying is just be real about your shit,you have people who be having fake ass facebook pages,using other peoples pictures as there profiles,you have people lying about where they been or where they going when in reality they asses have never even left the city they live in,and my thing is its ok if you not ballin,or you not traveling,or living the life of reily,my thing is just be your self, to me that is much more expensive,and real as it can get,i have been fortunate to have lived a blessed life,i have been able to travel to a lot of places, see a lot of things,basically do whatever i want with hard work,and saving,but not once have i ever bragged or boasted about what i can do,or what i have done,i could easliy say yeah im living the life talking shit but thats not me,im humble cause material shit dont make me,and it should not make the next man or woman,im the same dude who i will hang with you if you got 4 grand in your pocket or 4 dollars im still your nigga to the end,so all im saying is be yourself quit trying to be something you not cause real nigga will expose a fake nigga all day every day and thats real.

You Cant Borrow Money From Everybody"

You know sometimes everybody needs a little help now and then,so you might have a friend,or a family member,that you might need to ask for a little help, or a loan,which is nothing wrong with it,but be prepared to deal with the consequences sometimes,because when you ask someone for loan its obvious you need it,and when you ask for a loan it should be i will pay you back on whatever terms,you and the person agree,and that should be the end of it,but you have somepeople that want to know why you need it,where is your money,what are you doing with all your money,how come you not saving all that dumb shit,but people think when they loan you something that gives them the right to question,you my thing is this if a person is asking you for something and you agree,and they say they going to pay you back damn it that should be the end of it simple as that no questions ask,nothing because its obvious if they ask you then they need you,not the extra shit that goes along with it just the cash,but you have some people out here who feel they automatically have the right to be in your business cause you ask for a loan,and to me thats not fair,just i had to spit my 2 cents in on this topic,cause i heard a few people talk about this on a few forums i sit in on,and i wanted to voice my opinion on this topic.

Jealousy And Love Dont Mix"

You know this is a tired subject to me but its one that must be addressed from time to time,A lot of women And im sure somebody who reads this knows of someone like this,Have been with or is with someone who thinks that putting there hands on A woman is ok,that hitting them is a way to show them that they love them,that this is there way of showing there love,or that they saw there mother or sister be hit so they think thats acceptable,well its not,and i hate when people say oh he or she is crazy jealous about ther man or woman,and they love them to death,its ok to have a little jealousy but not to the point where you putting your hands on someone,or you have to mentally or verbally abuse the one you claim you love,thats bullshit,and i swear before god i dont and i want ever want a woman to feel so jealous that she feels she has to get crazy over me cause that shit is a turnoff,and if you with a man who hits you then be prepared to keep getting hit cause once they hit you once they will hit you again,real talk,fuck that aint that much love in the world to be getting your ass beat.

The Best You Ever Had"

You know i have to say there is a old saying did you eat your wheaties,or you better eat your wheaties,Well i always have said that if you not going to try and give your best effort,in life,or the bedroom then why waste your time,and the woman your with,I mean i know its a lot of selfish lovers out here,who only care about getting there nutt,and keeping it moving,and its a lot of women who just want that orgasm,and once they get it they can keep on moving,but i feel that you should want to make a statement,leave a mark,put something on a womans mind, dont just try and be average,fuck it try to be the best she has ever had even if you might not be,at least try,I mean if you know she likes to kiss,then make sure you give that extra effort into kissing her,if she like lot of tongue then damn it give her some serious tongue,and i dont mean spitting all on her face tongue her ass good kiss her nice just like she like it,and if she likes her neck kissed then do it,and if she likes her titties sucked or licked then do it,and dont just half ass do it do it like you never going to see her again like your ass is about to go to prison,and then kiss her belly button,her inner thigh,and then after you get down to the pussy this is real important,postion your self just right so you can be comfortable,as you need to be prepared to be down there for as long as he wants,show here that time is not of the essence that you are willing to lick and suck on her clit,her hole,her juices,until she cums in your face,and if she is a multiple orgasm woman for the tongue then damn it eat that pussy like a real nigga dont get tired show her you mean business and you not playing and if you do this i guarantee you will have put some shit on her mind having her cumming and hollering just from your tongue,then she ask for some dick and you rise up dick better be hard cause she ready to fuck but she also is laying there with a throbbing pussy that has been ate fuck out of,so she is already fucked up in the head from your tongue if you handled your business so now you insert your dick inside her,and you start off adjusting to whats making her moan,and groan and if you see she loving what you doing then keep doing it but hit them spots go deep i mean deep as you can have her calling your name begging you to fuck her good,and be ready to do multiple positions,and please dont cum quick not a good look remember you trying to leave a mark,so if you fuck her and stroke her extra good,make her have some more orgasms from the dick there is no way possible that you want be called back for seconds,and who knows you might be the best she has ever had,and that is a helluva feeling knowing that you have a woman laying next to you who can tell whoever she confides in that you the best she ever had even if you dont wanna brag just knowing should feel good indeed.

WHat Every Man Wants A woman Who can Cook And Fuck"

Now you know this new generation of women im talking about the women in there early 30s,and down a lot of them can be sexy,and talk freaky,and dress freaky,and talk all the shit about the bedroom,but on the other hand a lot of them and i mean a lot of them cant fry a bologna sandwich,and thats real talk,and these new mcdonald eating ass niggas dont mind that cause they just looking for some good sexy,but my generation,is like a dying breed,now you got some women who know how to cook,thats in there 30s,and early 20s, but its too many that either dont know how,or dont want to know how,and thats sad,cause there is nothing sexier than having a woman who can fuck you and suck you,and please you in the bedroom,and then after some serious lovemaking or fucking go in that kitchen and hook you up a helluva meal,to me that is a turn on cause i was taught and brought up that a way to a mans heart is thru his stomach and his dick of course,so i just wish more women would realize that they can find that allusive husband they want if they can cook him a great homemade meal,and then make love to him like never before,but a lot of the problem is the women the young ones are not being taught like women used to be taught by there moms,so they have no guidelines,unless they watch the food network,or get a cook book,but its just my opinion cause its my blog damn it LMAO.

Unstable Creatures"

You know i saw on the news this morning, where this young man in detroit was stabbed and killed he was only 23 years old,and he was killed by and ex girlfriend of his,who i guess felt since he was no longer with her then he couldnt enjoy the rest of his life,now to me that is fucked up what gives a person the right to take another persons life,because they no longer want to be with them,thats some sick shit,but in the minds of people like this woman she saw the rational to do this ,because she has and unstable mind,and when you are mentally unstable then you dont think like other people who have common sense,now this man is dead that she no longer was with,and now her life is over because of her dumb ass rage,i dont understand how people cant handle rejection,i mean nobody says breaking up is easy,there will be tears,hurt,a since of lost,but the rage,and the anger to want to go and do harm to a person cause they dont want you anymore to me thats just some old bitch ass nigga shit and some old unstable ass way of thinking but you know what people need to do there homework,because quietly the signs are there when you are with that person,you will know what type of individual you dealing with when it comes to rejection trust me,if they have that crazy anger,those temper tantrums,get mad at the little things,then you will know that if you leave this person you might have some shit on your hands,cause everybody cant handle rejection its just that simple its sad but thats life,and its up to the people you get serious with to see if you have someone thats in there right mind,or our dating a nut just ready and waiting to be cracked open at the first sign of a breakup.

Carl The Truth Is Back"

I just wanted everyone who has been following me for over a year and a half that my blog is back up and running and today is a new day for the launch so i hope everyone enjoys the raw uncut topics i tackle and write about cause im going to continue giving it to you raw and uncut.