Once They Get A Certain Age They Are Who They Are.

You know people fail to realize that once a person gets a certain age the person they are is the person they will be,and if you think you can change them you may have another thing coming,a person has to be willing to change for themselves and not for other people,and if the person you are with doesnt feel like they need to change then thats where the problem will come in,cause a lot of times people think they are just fine not realizing that there ways may be hindering a relationship from growing and thats real talk,so if you not a strong woman,or a strong man,then you will have to accept the person you are dating is never going to be who you want them to be,because a weak person can never have a positive influence in a persons life it will take a person that is respected and strong willed to have a positive influence on a person if not then it is what it is and you will either accept your fate and hope they change for the better or be the mature one and walk away if you see that what you see is what you will always get and thats real talk indeed.

One persons leftovers can become somebody elses Gourmet meal.

You know what is really sad but it happens a lot,in relationships,sometimes the people in the relationship dont even realize there doing it,is when you first get with a person,and you doing all this freaky ass shit to get them in the beginning,sucking there dick extra,sucking there and licking there pussy extra,giving them some bomb ass sex,giving them some anal rubbing there feet giving them massages pedicures,kissing them more dressing up for them making porn videos for them fucking at the drop of a hat,but soon as the person may lose there job,or get fat or get older,somebody decides to pull back and not do the things they once did disregarding the other person in the relationship and then they make the other person feel bored and then after the person complains about it the other person ignores them like im doing what im supposed like there shit dont stank so the other persons starts feeling like there no longer worthy and feel like they dont matter anymore and thats when you open the door for someone else to come in and snatch them from you but i dont condone the cheating i condone talking it out and trying to work it out but if that dont work then you have a problem so what i say to the person getting mistreated raise up get in shape,or get you a job and get your healt or looks right to how you want them and if you feel better about yourself thats all that matters and the person who treated you like shit or like you was and afterthought you just remember at one pint you were a thing of beauty in there eyes and if you cant be that persons thing of beauty anymore then you will be a gourmet meal for someone else so im inspiring people to one raise up and be that person you once were and to those who take for granted the person your with be careful cause you just might lose the perosn who treasured like no other real talk indeed.

Looks can be decieving.

You ever see a person and from the outside looking in,people think that person has it going on,that the person has the money,the exciting life,doing big things,that they have no idea that the person they are being envious of, may have problems just like the next man,but they dont let it be known and people just assume oh he this or that to the point that there own family dont check on them or there mate may not not know to what extreme that there depression is,and it be those people that be the main ones who commit suicide,and then the family members be on the news saying i cant believe they did this,but what people fail to realize is when you have once had it going on,and you have regrets in life about the decisions you have made its hard when those decisions dont pan out the way you expected and its hard when everyone thinks you are the guy and you have to have this image and then cracks start showing in your armor,then you have to be humbled to the point that its embaressing so all im saying is looks can be decieving just because a person may seem to have it all dont assume,check on the person ask them how they are feeling ask them are they ok cause you never know just a couple of kind words or concern can make the diffrence between life and death and thats real talk indeed cause everybody has ups and downs and the downs can break a real nigga indeed.

Make Them Feel Comfortable.

You know its been A minute since i wrote in the blog but im back inspired and ready to go,You know you ever hear someone say why he with her,what she got that i dont have,she dont have no big ass,or she dont have no big tits,or she look ok,and all that dumb superficial hating shit,well a lot of times people get caught up on looks,and looks are important but they are not everything in keeping a person happy,or keeping them wanting to be where you are,its about making the person so comfortable,and at ease htat they want to just spend time with you,make them have a full belly of there favorite food,make them feel important,listening to there thoughts and needs and aspirations,making them laugh and of course giving them some damn good sex without nagging,or being bossy cause nobody wants a bossy bitch real talk,you supposed to make it where that man person when they leave you and is by themselves all they can think about is getting back to you,because you made them feel so good and comfortable that its not just about sex its about the whole atmosphere and when you can do that then you can sit back and have the haters wondering and wishing they had the skills that you have in making your lover only want to be with you and thats real talk indeed.

Its Not Always Financial What A person Does.

You know the old saying you dont miss what you got until its gone, well sometimes people think that just cause a person maybe cant contribute financially as they may like you have to look at what a person does in other ways,such as they may keep the house clean,they may wash the clothes,but the groceries,iron the clothes,take care of the kids,do the repairs,its the little things a person may do,that a person may take for granted until its gone,or that person is gone,so all im saying is be careful to judge a persons full worth basing it on finances cause people do so much more especially if they are a giving human being and not selfish indeed.

MODERN DAY BLACK GENOCIDE 2016.

You know this is really the main reason i came back to doing my blog, and i have to thank msnbc racheal maddox for bringing this story to light,what is going on in an american city flint michigan is a disgrace,and injustice,but im not shocked as some because you have a racist governer rick snyder who has let a mainly black american city drink bath in lead infected water im like are you kidding me this is crazy kids getting sick and this would not happen in a white suburban city but this a governer who has let detroit public schools go down the tubes kids going to school with no toliet paper.mold in the schools,rats running around the schools but yet his punk ass keeps his job,im so happy that this has become a national thing not just local cause at the very least he should be arrested for black genocide modern day racism against black people and im so sick of people saying its 2016 we have come along way keep that we shall overcome shit cause that is not the tune i live by i want action taken against all these modern day slave mentality people,anytime you have human beings drinking and washing up in water that has lead in it,and you knew it wasnt safe you aint shit but the devil,and eventually your horns will show and your ass will be dealt with indeed.

How you got them is How you keep them.

You know i write about this issue at least once every year since i started writing my blog,and i must say i hear,see and read about the same old shit,people claiming they want someone,and then they finally get someone and the things they used to do to get the person,they get comfortable,lazy,and take the person for granted,and then thats when the problems start,people start feeling neglected,people cheat,people leave,people start not caring,it can get real ugly,and the worst thing that can happen is when a person gets where they dont care whether they fuck that person,anymore,or get where they dont care if they go out with the person anymore,so all im saying is if you a man,and you ate her pussy good in the beginning then do it still if you bought flowers in the beginning then get back to it,if you did anything freaky that put a smile on your ladies face then do it cause if you dont someone else will,and if you a woman if you sucked your mans dick just because at the start then damn it get on your fucking job or someone else will,if you gave him asshole,or whatever then get back to it,and if your lover,or mate has to remember the last time they got the things they used to get then you not on your job and thats real talk so all im saying is how you start is how you finish and if you cant finish then someone will be waitting to start what you obviously couldnt finish real talk.