In the bedroom its give and take.

 When you become sexual with someone and they are willing to do whatever it is to please you in the bedroom then that right there is the best part the effort if they giving you the effort to try things and even if they dont like it if they willing to try thats all you can ask for if they like there pussy ate or asshole ate give it to them if they dont then thats fine to if they like anal at least try if they like threesomes at least discuss it even if it dont happen its all about trying or at least discussing dont just shut it down and if you got a person who is not interested in pleasing you then you have the wrong one cause sex is about the pleasure even the illusion that your partner can be freaky even if some things dont happen or they dont like at least they tried it or talked about it and you should always make sure your partener is sexually satisfied and your partner should not be the only one making palns for you guys to have sex it goes both ways cause if you the only one arranging when you guys have sex then that should be talked about indeed and remember sex is give and take not just take when they want it indeed.

KEEP THE FIRE BURNING.

 When you meet someone and you both start out as friends who become lovers you always have to remember how you met what you were needing before you met that person, if you were lonely or in a relationship that was not making you happy whatever the case was you have to remember were you were at in your life when you met that person who makes you happy now thats how you keep the fire burning when you meet someone if yoyu were texting or chatting 24/7 still try and do that when you can keep seeing each other when you can make surprise visits to see each other and when you are truly into that person still you will go out your way to meet with them not let days or even a week go by without seeing them and you wont have the other person feeling like you dont love them or want them the same anymore you have to what you did to get them to keep them and if your intentions are not to be with them then let them go cause all you doing is letting the fire die out and treating the person who was there for you when you needed them the same way you were feeling at one time and that is not right so all im saying if you truly want to keep your fire burning be creative be spontaneous be adventourous and be the way you were when you met then caus eif you can go hrs and days without texting them or calling them then its obvious you not really into them indeed.

Never take real love for granted.

 When you meet someone and they are different from anyone you ever been with you learn them you love them you cherish them and when you know its real you never take them for granted especially when they go out there way to make you a priority cause that in itself is a beautiful thing when you have someone who tells you every morning good i love you or good night sweet dreams i love you who only wants to be with you who prays for you who when that person wakes up you are the first thought on there mind And when they confess there love for you take it serious dont just blow it off as talk because actions do speak louder than words but words are important as well if the person you are with wants to be with you on there most important days always planning things for yall to do and all they think about is making you happy you never take that for granted because real love is hard to find you have so many people in relationships where they are settling, or there is no sex no fun no romance the thrill is gone or never been there or whatever so when you get someone who sole purpose in life at that time is to make you happy and you truly know they love you for you baby you hold on to that love bottled it up cause you best believe male and female plenty are out here looking for what you guys have and its a beautiful thing when to people who were lonely meet and find each other and become one so you never take that for granted cause life is to short it can be gone in a instant and you never want the other person to feel that if they left you today that you would not care cause that in itself is a hurtful thing when a person has truly opened up there heart to you over and over and is telling you that there future is with you that is something to never ever take for granted so the little things mean just as much as the big so all im saying is the good mornings the good nights the conversations the checking on you all that means something so dont stop what you did to get them cause that is how you keep them especially when the one who loves you has no agenda indeed.

Dont ever neglect the one who was there when you needed them.

People can be all different types of relationships some that are mentally abusing or toxic, or physical toxic relationships or relationships where they have been ignored or taken for granted so sometimes instead of walking away physically even though mentally you have already removed yourself from the situation your still there so you meet someone who you have no idea what is to become of this just a friend at first that you can talk about anything with so you and the person get close and you and the person agree to never lie to each other so from the moment you wake up you text thru out the day you texting talking then you become intimate and get even closer so now love is involved so you both are still for each other but you still in your situation with the person but what you cant forget is the person who was there for you when you needed love friendship attention all of that for the person who drove you to meet somebody else if she was neglecting you taking you for granted making you feel she was superior to any other female or the guy treating you like cant go nowhere or he dont want to go nowhere just remember the person you with now was there and will be there but you have to do what you did to get them to keep them it goes both ways if you texted him or talked to him or saw him 3 or 4 times a week dont stop now and the same goes both ways cause remember both of you found each other for a reason so cherish that and dont have neither seeking attention from no one else but each other indeed and hopefully you both will end up togther forever indeed.

Taboo 3 ( XXX Rated ) its not for everybody.

Well this not for everybody what im about to write, but oh well cause its my fucking blog lol, but anyway i had said that i would never write about this topic again but i feel it needs a refresher course indeed, when you are in a taboo relationship its not about being freaky 24/7 its about having that taboo in you taboo people live regular lives they make love they neflix and chill they do everything other couples do regular couples do, but when its time to get freaky or nasty they do it without any hesitation, and also you have to never let too much time elapsed between being taboo whether its a freaky story you tell your lover or just a regular sex story you tell you lover that you participated in, or you have threesomes or do something freaky spontaneous or you be sexting each other but you just keep the boredom from happening and what is done between 2 taboo lovers is never judged or brought back up to each other those are the rules, for instance it was guy who was taking to this woman she said i have a surprise for you i got a room for us i want you to come to the room with no underwear on so he came to the room with a jogging suit jacket on and a pair of basketball warm up pants well she opens the door ans he has on just some panties and no bra so she has rose pedals around the bed candles burning and tells him you better not have draws on so he takes off jacket no shirt on and he rips pants off butt naked no draws and he already hard so she tells him lay on the bed she has a bottle of baby oil so she massages him from head to toe kissing his nipples then suck his dick to tease him then she says im going to stroke your dick with this baby oil she strokes his dick he throbbing so she stops sits on his face he eats her pussy then she stops him from making her cum so then she sits on his dick rides him until she cums but he still has not cum then she says let me suck on his dick some more so she pulls out butt plug puts in his ass and sucks his dick until he tells her he about to cum she catches his cum in her mouth then gets it hard again and tell him i video taped the whole thing but little did he know her friend was in the close playing with her pussy watching the whole thing so when he told her he didnt care about her friend watching he said he wanted to watch her fuck a guy she said know and thats when the taboo relationship disappeared for him until he met simone his current lover who is taboo as it gets and now taboo love is back for him and her indeed.

Where they wanna be

 There is a time in life when you are in a situation and the person you meet is in one as well so this couple met they hit it off great lots of texting talking just connecting on a great level then they decide to go out just clicked one person coming out of situation of being neglected taking for granted not being treated as they once were and the other being with someone who didnt want to do anything with the person not wanting the other person to do anything but be with them but not wanting them going anywhere with out them so fast forward they meet each other and realize they were both what each other needed so they become intimate and the sex is great just as the conversation the vibe is right so now they become a couple but yet they still in there situations so they both talk about preparing to leave but yet in the meantime its getting harder for one of the 2 people to continue going thru the motions because they have falling in love with the other person and now they realize they cant take it anymore being the way they are and they want that one person and only that person so now they know where they wanna be and when you feel that feeling in your heart you act on it and hope the other person feels the same way too but if not you know the situation were in going thru the motions is not for you so secure your new love let them know you want them and only them and make it happen indeed cause true love only comes to a certain hand of people indeed. let the person you fell in love with know you know where you wanna be and tell them to open up there heart cause it wont be broken cause you feel the same way too.

Baecation

 You know when you meet someone who you just vibe with from talking, laughing, just get along well the next best thing is a vacation with them, from the moment you get to the airport the anticipation the laughter and excitement of just getting on the plane, then once the flight takes off conversation and once you arrive you get to your room change your clothes get comfortable then you decide what your going to do first eating at great restaurants, shopping sightseeing walking talking drinking laughing and seeing shows and having freaky wild sex or just making love having no time to wake up laying in bed watching movies or shows just not having a care in the world but enjoying each other making each other happy and having a great trip this is what you call a baecation and there is nothing like it indeed so once you get someone who you just vibe with on a level no one can understand you go on a vacation with them create memories indeed.