All that glitters isnt always gold.

you know people on the outside will look at you or and individual and say damn they got it going on they dont have a worry in the world,but you cant always go by appearances,and if you dont truly know a person you wont have any idea of what they are going thru or how they are feeling you just figure they doing great life is good and they dont have a care in the world but you cant always go by what you see you have to sometimes ask,or check on your freiend or mate or husband or wife,cause sometimes you may be surprised on how they truly feel,cause sometimes people may be depressed or not fulfilled,or unhappy,or feel they are not getting what they i want or need in life,it could be sex,it could be personal satisfaction from a job,or having no job at all, i used to wonder why people could walk out of there kids life,or leave there wives,or girlfriends ,or boyfriends or husbands,and never look back,and then people would say how could they do that well sometimes if you not really checking on a person how would you truly know how they feeling,cause life is too short to be miserable,or settling or just existing either you living or existing if you existing that can become very depressing and sucicial thoughts or feeling unwanted or feeling a need to start a new life,so thats why i tell people if you have a mate or brother or sister or mother or father or friend or husband or wife check on them sometimes i mean really check on them ask them how they are feeling and if you feel you can help them try to make them feel better or a t least try so that you can say at least you checked on them and you wont feel a sense of lost if one day you call them or check on them and they are gone,or worst they are dead and thats real talk so all im saying is pay attention sometimes to those who matter before its to late.

Pursuit of happiness

You know sometimes people in life want things that have no meaning, or material things to show off to other people,but to me to each is own i am a person who just wants to be able to travel, spend time with family be healthy and enjoy the fruits of labor and life,some times the little things are the big things in life and if you treasure the little things you will benefit in the long run,of not taking things in life for granted and you will have the pursuit of happiness,cause thats all i need travel spend time with family and never take life for granted cause one day none of us will be here so while im here i want to enjoy all that life has to offer and thats real.

You cant be happy if you still focusing on the past.

you know when you come out of bad relationship you have to heal and take timeand focus on yourself and think about how come your last relationship didnt work and move forward,but once you move on you have to leave all your thoughts and focus on your past in the past,cause if you dont then you will never be able to toatlly move on,and if you are truly happy in your new relationship or person your seeing you wont be still focusing on your past cause when a person is truly happy the last thing they will be thinking about is the person who did them wrong and thats real talk cause if you getting good dick,or good pussy you aint thinking about your ex,cause if you still thinking or talking about your ex then its obvious you not being real with yourself or the person your dating cause if you all in then the past will be just that the past and thats all im going to say about this indeed.

Be his or her medicine not there headache.

You know a lot of times you may not no what your lover,or wife or husband is going thru,and they may be in pain,or getting bored,or feeling sad or down from everyday life,so what you have to do as there mate is make them feel good. maybe give them a surprise massage,or just rub on them,if your a man maybe she needs you to eat her pussy real good make her cum,or fuck her real good deepstroke her pussy until she cums good,or maybe she wants to get away,go on a trip somewhere but just pay attention give her what she needs be her medicine not her headache,and for the ladies maybe your man just wants his dick sucked real good nice slow and wet,or maybe he wants its suck sloppy wet and fast,or he might want some asshole from you or just wants you to give him some pussy and fuck him good,or just surprise him and cook him his favorite meal, or give him a massage but just do something to make him feel good and not let another person get in there cirlce because you didnt do the little things he or she needed and once again be there medicine not there headache real talk indeed.

Attention Whores.

You know on social media you have all sorts of diffrent people who post and have diffrent agendas, but the ones that really get on my nerves is the ones who are constantly posting pictures for a reaction because they have no life so they have to post pictures of there selves or something that is irrelevant but they have to get those likes those likes make there day to the point that if they dont get those likes there day is not going to be good.and that is a shame that your self esteem is based on how many likes you get from friends otr family or complete strangers to make your day complete so i can call you nothing but and attention whore real talk is like hey dont you have something else to do in your life except posting all day and everyday on facebook or instagram or twitter thats just my opinion but who am except the truth who tells like it is real talk.

I salute My Mama.

If you know me you know how close i am to my mama,and i just want to salute my mama as i do everyday,for getting thru a true trauma in our life, my mom battled breast cancer and she won and she handled it with class and dignity,she showed me a fight that i knew she had but it was so impressive that it should be and inspiration to all she was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in march of last year 3 lumps in her breast she had one of her breast removed and had chemo but she fought it had some bad days but never changed kept the same happy spirit and now she is looking forward to resuming her life traveling and living life,thats why i tell you people all the time life is too short so live each day like your last and live life to the fullest cause tomorrow is not promised and all my mama did was inspire me to live life even more im traveling my ass of this year please believe it just watch and see cause my mama inspired me to get up get out and do something whatever i can do im doing it and im seeing it my family going to live love and laugh for 2017.

Romance Aint Dead Its What You Settle For.

Im so sick of hearing people say romance is dead,And valentines day is just another day, thats bullshit its all about what you make it, I once knew this old muthafucka who said valentines day been there done that,thats because the old muthafucka didnt have nobody so thats what a bitter bitch supposed to say,but i say you find someone who brings that romance out of you and then you get out and enjoy each other,get your flowers get your candy balloons cards dinner movie or a play or drinking listening to slow music dont settle for a person who say its just another man made holiday fuck that yes you can love each other all 365 days of the year but if you want romance on valentines day then get what you deseve cause nobody should have to settle never cause what you settle for is what you get real talk. if you want the wqhole 9 then damn it get it demand it and enjoy it and thats the bottom line cause you only get one life to live so live it the way you want indeed.