Never Cry Over Spoiled Milk.

You know when you in a relationship,and you loving a person and you having your ups and downs with that person, once that relationship ends,you have to sit back and look at the pros and cons of what you were doing with that person whether if it was for a year or two or three just sit back and say to yourself was that person really making you happy, i mean if you and that person was having that mindblowing sex,great talks,conversations,going on beautiful trips,dinners,movies concerts,plays then ok it might take awhile to get over, but the person you were with was disrespectful,didnt take you nowhere hardly looked down on you, cheated on you then you have to say to yourself well damn what was it,why am i feeling this way over someone who really wasnt doing shit in the first place yes you may hurt now but time heals all wounds and eventually you will distance yourself from that situation and realize that milk was ever fresh that shit was spoiled and im crying over spoiled milk no need for that just find you a new fresh dairy to drink from indeed.

Adversity Reveals A persons True Character.

Everyone in life at some point will deal with adversity whether its a loss of a love one, or the the loss of a job,a relationship break up, after anyone deals with this what they do after the adversity and how they respond to it ,will reveal there true character,and how they respond will show you what kind of person you have been dealing with all this time,and sometimes the character they reveal might shock you but its a lesson learned and the lesson is just because you have known a person all your life,doesnt mean they are meant tostay in your life real talk people come and people go,but a person with true grit and character is there forever where a s a fraud,a hypocrite will be exposed for the phony they truly are indeed.

Whatever It Takes.

You know when you in a relationship with someone,its about give and take,sometimes you have to do things you may not want to,but its about making the person you with happy,if you cant do that then whats the point of being in a relationship,i believe in doing whatever it takes to make your lover happy,if they a woman and you know she likes flowers then buy them and not just on and occasion,if they like to go to movies,or dinners take them,dont be a boring ass dude who is not doing what it takes to make his lady happy on the outside and the inside,and if you a lady be a woman who is willing to cater to her mans needs if he likes freaky things then do it for him,cause the thing i hate most is when a person has had a person and they take them for granted and then the minute they find someone who is willing to do things with them you get mad,fuck that get on your job while you have the person in your life,dont wait until they threaten to leave to do what you should have done from the start so all im saying is whatever it takes to make them happy do it indeed.

Ho Tendencies.

You know people say once a cheater always a cheater i disagree cause i know a couple of people men and women who used to sleep with all kinds of people but they found that one person who made them settle down and they changed for the better.Now you do have some guys and women who have hoesish tendencies and they cant help it its the hoe in them and those people are never going to settle with one person cause they crave the attention of more than one person to validate them and one person will never be enough plus they love to get attention from everybody except from the one person who is in there corner,so all im saying if they flirt,and got to have so many friends of the opposite sex and they have a bad track record of fucking up then you better hit the exit door or risk being just being a pawn in there game real talk indeed.

Some people never change they are who they are.

You know the biggest misconception in life is that you think you can change a person to suit your needs,now a person will only change if they are really into you and they love you,but most times a person is who they say they are and either you going to deal with them or move on,i dont care how good the sex is,or how spiritual a person you are or how good a person you think you are, sometimes that still is not enough and the person you might want them to be will never come to past so if you dont see enough good qualities to make you happy to deal with them then you need to keep it moving cause its never going to work its that simple.

Dont Be A Basic Bitch

You know its been a minute since i wrote in my blog but i have to say that i am seeing to many people who are in relationships allowing there relationships to become stale,or boring,my thing is its not rocket science,if you truly love the one your with then you will do what is needed to keep the fire blazing if you a woman suck his dick a little more lick his ass if you in to that give him anal if you into that suggest porn,or try and be the aggressor sometimes just let him know that you care about his needs indeed.and if you a man eat your womans pussy more,give her sex a little more cater to her needs a little more,if she likes porn then watch it or get it for her, rub on her just let her know that she is just as important to you as she is to you are to her and do these things cause you never want the one your with to lose interest and want to be with someone else doing the things you should have been doing with them when you had them and thats real talk indeed.

Once They Get A Certain Age They Are Who They Are.

You know people fail to realize that once a person gets a certain age the person they are is the person they will be,and if you think you can change them you may have another thing coming,a person has to be willing to change for themselves and not for other people,and if the person you are with doesnt feel like they need to change then thats where the problem will come in,cause a lot of times people think they are just fine not realizing that there ways may be hindering a relationship from growing and thats real talk,so if you not a strong woman,or a strong man,then you will have to accept the person you are dating is never going to be who you want them to be,because a weak person can never have a positive influence in a persons life it will take a person that is respected and strong willed to have a positive influence on a person if not then it is what it is and you will either accept your fate and hope they change for the better or be the mature one and walk away if you see that what you see is what you will always get and thats real talk indeed.