Ho Tendencies.

You know people say once a cheater always a cheater i disagree cause i know a couple of people men and women who used to sleep with all kinds of people but they found that one person who made them settle down and they changed for the better.Now you do have some guys and women who have hoesish tendencies and they cant help it its the hoe in them and those people are never going to settle with one person cause they crave the attention of more than one person to validate them and one person will never be enough plus they love to get attention from everybody except from the one person who is in there corner,so all im saying if they flirt,and got to have so many friends of the opposite sex and they have a bad track record of fucking up then you better hit the exit door or risk being just being a pawn in there game real talk indeed.

Some people never change they are who they are.

You know the biggest misconception in life is that you think you can change a person to suit your needs,now a person will only change if they are really into you and they love you,but most times a person is who they say they are and either you going to deal with them or move on,i dont care how good the sex is,or how spiritual a person you are or how good a person you think you are, sometimes that still is not enough and the person you might want them to be will never come to past so if you dont see enough good qualities to make you happy to deal with them then you need to keep it moving cause its never going to work its that simple.

Dont Be A Basic Bitch

You know its been a minute since i wrote in my blog but i have to say that i am seeing to many people who are in relationships allowing there relationships to become stale,or boring,my thing is its not rocket science,if you truly love the one your with then you will do what is needed to keep the fire blazing if you a woman suck his dick a little more lick his ass if you in to that give him anal if you into that suggest porn,or try and be the aggressor sometimes just let him know that you care about his needs indeed.and if you a man eat your womans pussy more,give her sex a little more cater to her needs a little more,if she likes porn then watch it or get it for her, rub on her just let her know that she is just as important to you as she is to you are to her and do these things cause you never want the one your with to lose interest and want to be with someone else doing the things you should have been doing with them when you had them and thats real talk indeed.

Once They Get A Certain Age They Are Who They Are.

You know people fail to realize that once a person gets a certain age the person they are is the person they will be,and if you think you can change them you may have another thing coming,a person has to be willing to change for themselves and not for other people,and if the person you are with doesnt feel like they need to change then thats where the problem will come in,cause a lot of times people think they are just fine not realizing that there ways may be hindering a relationship from growing and thats real talk,so if you not a strong woman,or a strong man,then you will have to accept the person you are dating is never going to be who you want them to be,because a weak person can never have a positive influence in a persons life it will take a person that is respected and strong willed to have a positive influence on a person if not then it is what it is and you will either accept your fate and hope they change for the better or be the mature one and walk away if you see that what you see is what you will always get and thats real talk indeed.

One persons leftovers can become somebody elses Gourmet meal.

You know what is really sad but it happens a lot,in relationships,sometimes the people in the relationship dont even realize there doing it,is when you first get with a person,and you doing all this freaky ass shit to get them in the beginning,sucking there dick extra,sucking there and licking there pussy extra,giving them some bomb ass sex,giving them some anal rubbing there feet giving them massages pedicures,kissing them more dressing up for them making porn videos for them fucking at the drop of a hat,but soon as the person may lose there job,or get fat or get older,somebody decides to pull back and not do the things they once did disregarding the other person in the relationship and then they make the other person feel bored and then after the person complains about it the other person ignores them like im doing what im supposed like there shit dont stank so the other persons starts feeling like there no longer worthy and feel like they dont matter anymore and thats when you open the door for someone else to come in and snatch them from you but i dont condone the cheating i condone talking it out and trying to work it out but if that dont work then you have a problem so what i say to the person getting mistreated raise up get in shape,or get you a job and get your healt or looks right to how you want them and if you feel better about yourself thats all that matters and the person who treated you like shit or like you was and afterthought you just remember at one pint you were a thing of beauty in there eyes and if you cant be that persons thing of beauty anymore then you will be a gourmet meal for someone else so im inspiring people to one raise up and be that person you once were and to those who take for granted the person your with be careful cause you just might lose the perosn who treasured like no other real talk indeed.

Looks can be decieving.

You ever see a person and from the outside looking in,people think that person has it going on,that the person has the money,the exciting life,doing big things,that they have no idea that the person they are being envious of, may have problems just like the next man,but they dont let it be known and people just assume oh he this or that to the point that there own family dont check on them or there mate may not not know to what extreme that there depression is,and it be those people that be the main ones who commit suicide,and then the family members be on the news saying i cant believe they did this,but what people fail to realize is when you have once had it going on,and you have regrets in life about the decisions you have made its hard when those decisions dont pan out the way you expected and its hard when everyone thinks you are the guy and you have to have this image and then cracks start showing in your armor,then you have to be humbled to the point that its embaressing so all im saying is looks can be decieving just because a person may seem to have it all dont assume,check on the person ask them how they are feeling ask them are they ok cause you never know just a couple of kind words or concern can make the diffrence between life and death and thats real talk indeed cause everybody has ups and downs and the downs can break a real nigga indeed.

Make Them Feel Comfortable.

You know its been A minute since i wrote in the blog but im back inspired and ready to go,You know you ever hear someone say why he with her,what she got that i dont have,she dont have no big ass,or she dont have no big tits,or she look ok,and all that dumb superficial hating shit,well a lot of times people get caught up on looks,and looks are important but they are not everything in keeping a person happy,or keeping them wanting to be where you are,its about making the person so comfortable,and at ease htat they want to just spend time with you,make them have a full belly of there favorite food,make them feel important,listening to there thoughts and needs and aspirations,making them laugh and of course giving them some damn good sex without nagging,or being bossy cause nobody wants a bossy bitch real talk,you supposed to make it where that man person when they leave you and is by themselves all they can think about is getting back to you,because you made them feel so good and comfortable that its not just about sex its about the whole atmosphere and when you can do that then you can sit back and have the haters wondering and wishing they had the skills that you have in making your lover only want to be with you and thats real talk indeed.