Old School Lovin.

You know its not just a myth its a fact this new era of dating and relationships is void of romance, and i blame social media for making guys not all of them but a lot of them for not romancing these women anymore,but you also have to blame some of the women who also dont make the men put in work or even give themselves a chance to be romanced its like what happen to the old school loving of buying a woman flowers buying her candy, taking her to nice places taking her on a trip,or talking to her on the phone instead of just texting what happen to good conversation,its like since facebook and instagram came along its like lets show are naked parts or let him or her like something they said or wrote and the next thing you know its fucking going on with out the romance ,and 9 times out of 10 once the panties have dropped you not going to get the man to all of a sudden decide he want to romance you he will be like why bother shit i got the pussy,im just being real, So all im saying to the ladies if you want romance then make the man earn your goodies,and fellas nothing wrong with romancing the lady this is what makes the loving so much better real talk indeed.

When It Comes To Fucking It takes More than Looks To Make A person Reach There Peak.

You know when people get behind close doors and decide that they want to become intimate,the first thing you hear a lot of people say is oh im the shit in the bedroom and im this and im that,and people think cause they got great looks  they dont have to do as much in the bedroom well my thing is when you get in the bedroom you are supposed to give 110% nobody should be short changing anyone cause the minute you do someone is waiting to fuck the shit out of you the way you wanted just cause you got a pretty face dont mean shit if you cant fuck,or if you not willing to get nasty and put something on your lovers mind,if you a man you should be willing to eat and lick and suck your ladies pussy for as long as it takes to make her cum,and if she wants to cum in your face then let her,dont be afraid to go the extra mile to please her, if she wants her asshole licked then man up and do it suck her toes kiss her lick her titties suck on her nipples do whatever she wants and then fuck her the way she wants tell her your loving is like burger king she can have it her way cause if you not willing to go the extra mile then you going to risk losing her please believe it,and now for the women you think cause you sexy and have a pretty face that a man should just be glad to be in bed with your monkey ass please aint nobody pretty when they fucking its called fuck faces for a reason a man wants a woman to suck his dick real good lick and suck his balls let him fuck you in the ass if you into it,and if not you better be willing swallow his cum or fuck him the way he wants cause if you dont you can best believe its a freak in waiting ready to fuck the shit out of him so get on with that thinking you pretty so he should be glad he fucking you cause and ugly woman can fuck to,and a pretty woman with more experience can fuck you to so all im saying is have the mentality that i have when you go in the bedroom put it down by all means necessary real talk put something on there mind when they leave you not have them leave in doubt wondering is that it is this how its going to be its this all they got fuck that make them want more not make them want to stay away looking for someone to do what they couldnt and thats real.

You Had The Winning Lottery Ticket But Wasnt Smart Enough To Cash It In.

You know in the game of love you have your ups and downs,and you have some people who get many chances at love,but then you some who never get a chance and then you have some who finally get the one they been looking for only to find away to fuck it up,its like a person who has been playing the lottery there whole life and finally get the winning ticket only to realize they to stupid to cash in the ticket, and just like winning the lottery your chances of winning our one in a million so what im saying is when you find that special someone that you have bben wanting in your life,you should do everything you can to keep them there,whether ts catering to there needs being there for them fuck them the way they want,give them less stress as possible in there life be that sunshine on a cloudy day for them,not be the storm and the clouds.in there life but you know what some people never get it they get so caught up in waht people say about them thinking they are the shit that they think there looks is all that they need to make a person happy and that is not the case cause if you not fucking and sucking a person good or feeding them good meals or just being sweet and not and asshole to them so all im saying is people need to check there attitudes at the door when you meet someone cause just as easy as they found you somebody else will come along and replace you with no problem please believe it if you dont then shame on you  real talk.

Keeping A persons Attention Is A must.

You know sometimes hell a lot of times people take people that they are with for granted,they feel that they have the person so they dont have to do the little things to keep there attention anymore, like if you are a woman if you have a man who you claim to love then you should still dress up in sexy lingerie if you did it in the past im not saying everyday but at least remind the person that you can still be sexy dont let them have to hear about sexy things from others when you as there mate should be giving them something to think about,and if you are a man and you used to lick her pussy or suck on her pussy all the time instead of just skipping the foreplay cause you have her now then you need to check yourself before your wreck yourself and thats real,and never let a person feel like they missing something keep there attention keep some excitement dont become a dull ass bitch or a dull ass nigga cause if you do then your mates attention will eventually wonder and if they dont wonder then they might fuck around and replace you and thats even worse so all im saying is keep the spark now and then cause if its to far and between then shit will get boring and nobody wants that nore should anyone have to get bored and thats real talk indeed.

Never Take True Friendship For Granted.

You know Yesterday i got a chance to hang with 2 of my best friends growing up i mean i been knowing these guys for over 30 plus years and it was a great day i mean we went and got something to eat watched the tigers play baseball,and we got a chance to catch up and look back on childhood memories and i told both of them yesterday we cant take these moments for granted cause we not here forever,and when you have true friends in your life who have never changed and been the same since day one that is priceless and you never take true friendship for granted cause true friends are hard to find,but hell i have to admit these guys that i hung with yesterday are not my friends those two are my brothers and i have a lot of friends but i have very few guys i consider my brothers and i dont take that for granted one bit so all im saying is yesterday was a good day and i wouldnt trade it for nothing in the world and thats being real indeed.

Gone But Never Ever Forgotten.

Well tomorrow is my grandmother Dora B Sandifords Birthday, She was the matriach of the family the rock the glue,and 2years ago she died of a heart attack,and i must say it is still hard but each day you get better its all about how you deal with it,but it was like yesterday i still remember going to her house and seeing on the floor dead,and it fucked me up i still think about it but im better her death left a void in my life cause next to my mom she was not a grandmother but a second mother to me and my brothers,and her death cause me to gain plenty of weight and with the weight came type 2 diabetes,and enlarged prostate and just not feeling well,but you know i snapped out of it and it took almost 2yrs to do it but im on the road to recovery and i know she would be proud of me getting my health right,and i know she proud of the man i become a husband a father a family man,who got all his traveling ambition form her,and its not a day that goes by that i dont miss her so tomorrow july 18 i salute a woman who was the best grandmother i could imagine who li loved to death and we didnt call her grandmother we called her dora and dora i miss you and i love you.

Hating is Easy,But it takes A real One to Salute.

You know its the summer time and i tell you its nothing that gives me joy than to be able to travel with my wife,my child and my family its like the joy of my life,but you know what else makes me happy is watching other people on my social media timeline doing big things i love to see my people traveling,or going to weddings,or going to the beach,or going to concerts,or visting family and friends,or getting new cars or gadgets or houses or even finding new loves,or mates or husbands or wives that is what life is all about, but yet you so many who love to sit back and hate and not appreciate the good things going on with others,and i know a lot of times people say oh its because there lives is not going good so they hate on others ,well thats bullshit cause you have people who have great lives and they still hate on the next because they want to be the only one doing big things,and to me that is a cop out because anybody can hate,but it takes a real one to salute the next man or woman,and thats just me i love to see people good cause if thats what life is not about then i dont know what it is,you see i dont have a enemy on this earth,i may have haters but i dont cliam them either because im not one of those people who get off having haters cause i could care less cause as long as my family and friends and me myself is doing good and keeping to myself thats all i care about,and to my friends i salute you keep living this life cause at the end of the day you only have one life to live indeed.