Never Take True Friendship For Granted.

You know Yesterday i got a chance to hang with 2 of my best friends growing up i mean i been knowing these guys for over 30 plus years and it was a great day i mean we went and got something to eat watched the tigers play baseball,and we got a chance to catch up and look back on childhood memories and i told both of them yesterday we cant take these moments for granted cause we not here forever,and when you have true friends in your life who have never changed and been the same since day one that is priceless and you never take true friendship for granted cause true friends are hard to find,but hell i have to admit these guys that i hung with yesterday are not my friends those two are my brothers and i have a lot of friends but i have very few guys i consider my brothers and i dont take that for granted one bit so all im saying is yesterday was a good day and i wouldnt trade it for nothing in the world and thats being real indeed.

Gone But Never Ever Forgotten.

Well tomorrow is my grandmother Dora B Sandifords Birthday, She was the matriach of the family the rock the glue,and 2years ago she died of a heart attack,and i must say it is still hard but each day you get better its all about how you deal with it,but it was like yesterday i still remember going to her house and seeing on the floor dead,and it fucked me up i still think about it but im better her death left a void in my life cause next to my mom she was not a grandmother but a second mother to me and my brothers,and her death cause me to gain plenty of weight and with the weight came type 2 diabetes,and enlarged prostate and just not feeling well,but you know i snapped out of it and it took almost 2yrs to do it but im on the road to recovery and i know she would be proud of me getting my health right,and i know she proud of the man i become a husband a father a family man,who got all his traveling ambition form her,and its not a day that goes by that i dont miss her so tomorrow july 18 i salute a woman who was the best grandmother i could imagine who li loved to death and we didnt call her grandmother we called her dora and dora i miss you and i love you.

Hating is Easy,But it takes A real One to Salute.

You know its the summer time and i tell you its nothing that gives me joy than to be able to travel with my wife,my child and my family its like the joy of my life,but you know what else makes me happy is watching other people on my social media timeline doing big things i love to see my people traveling,or going to weddings,or going to the beach,or going to concerts,or visting family and friends,or getting new cars or gadgets or houses or even finding new loves,or mates or husbands or wives that is what life is all about, but yet you so many who love to sit back and hate and not appreciate the good things going on with others,and i know a lot of times people say oh its because there lives is not going good so they hate on others ,well thats bullshit cause you have people who have great lives and they still hate on the next because they want to be the only one doing big things,and to me that is a cop out because anybody can hate,but it takes a real one to salute the next man or woman,and thats just me i love to see people good cause if thats what life is not about then i dont know what it is,you see i dont have a enemy on this earth,i may have haters but i dont cliam them either because im not one of those people who get off having haters cause i could care less cause as long as my family and friends and me myself is doing good and keeping to myself thats all i care about,and to my friends i salute you keep living this life cause at the end of the day you only have one life to live indeed.

You Cant Dwell On THe Past If you expect to have a future.

You know this one is for encouragement for a dear friend and for anybody who is stuck in the past from a relationship, i dont care how great a past relationship may have been if it did not lead to where you may have wanted then you need to leave the past in the past i dont care how good the sex was or how good they may have did certain things that made you feel good,its a reason that your relationship may have ended and if you continue searching for reasons as to why it ended then you will never be able to move on,now if you just looking to rekindle some great sex then thats one thing thats just sex but if you looking to have a relationship with a love lost then you might be holding yourself back from a bright future cause i dont care how good things may have been in the past with that person it ended for a reason and sometimes there is no rhyme no reason you just have to close the book on that relationship and move on it may hurt but it will only damge you for the next one if you sit back searching for answers to that may never come and thats real talk indeed. you just have to look back on the past sometimes and just cherish the memories and move on and close that book and just remember sometimes all books are not meant to read to the end.

If you had a life you would nt be worried about others.

You know what i hate is when you see or know a hater i mean a point blank hayer who has nothing but negative stuff to say about any or everybody,i mean a person who life consist of random dicks licks,and drinks and and occasionally hanging out with bitter people just like them but yet they always find something to say when in reality they the joke they just dont know it cause they surround themselves with people who wont tell them the truth about themselves that they live a fucked up life and i dont want to hear about you making good money cause that dont give you the right to hate on other when you look like a man and have no man and you hanging around women who are uglier than you because you choose not to hang around women that look better than you cause you have a complex problem so what you do is get with your ugly friend sand you sit back and talk about people being ugly or people not not doing this or doing that or not giving people crdeit when you see them shining cause you cant cause you a hater so all im saying people never be like these people im talking about cause all they have is a job to make them feel like they better than others when they really just a former crackhead who looks like a man with a boot mouth who talks about other pweoples lives when there live is a life i wouldnt want for no one im cool with and thats real talk.

Anybody can get someone to fuck them,but can you get them to say I Do.

im so sick of hearing about people saying oh niggas be wanting this pussy or i these hoes be all on my dick,but my thing is its very easy to get some sex,but can you get someone to say i do to your ass,get someone to say they want to spend the rest of there life with your ass that to me is the big question and i know everybody not marriage material or they might not want to get married but for those who always claiming can have a husband or wife if they want then show me dont talk about it be about it,you know why i say that cause its not as easy as it seems,now dont get me wrong its some really nice people on my page who really do want a wife or husband one day and are not claiming there pussy is this and that they letting you know they have more to offer than just sex they offering being a good cook,a provider,having ambition to want to go places do things so that when or if they ever get married they wont get bored caus etrust me you can get bored if you not on the same page,but i just had to vent about all these pussy advertisers who are always promoting there sex game game like thats going to get you a husband or a wife all thats going to get you is a good fucking and a maybe i will call you in the morning if it was good you got have more to offer to get the offer that many seek in life people need to quit base everything on sex to get a husband or wife cause it takes so much more indeed.

She got the best of my love.

You know i am about to write about something that i dont normally write about i have wrote about it before subliminally but never point blank like i am now and its only because i feel the need to write this after reading about my boy T.I the rapper he put up a post on facebook where he addressed his so call fans who claim to love him but have the audacity to always have something negative to say about his wife tiny,about how she ugly or he can do better so he checked they asses and he let them know why she is his queen and i cant do nothing but give him mad respect for what he said.So with that being said i feel the need to do this once and one time only, because i know that i have over 1500 people on my page on facebook and i have over a million followers on my blog and most of them are women and for years i have gotten questions like why your wife short or why she dont have a big ass or i thought you would be with this girl or that girl well im here to tell you im with the one for me im with my best friend and i dont say that lightly im truly married to my best friend and we were friends before we were lovers and i have told this woman thing i have never told anyone and she has done the same,and we travel together we worked together for years and she is my queen and she has the best of my love if i got 5000 she got half if i got $2 she got a dollar there is no selfishness with us,she pleases in every way and it dont matter how big a ass or tits if you dont have my heart then what good is it and that is what makes the loving good always and last but not least she has raised my daughter from a toddler to a preteen and my daughter loves her like she is her flesh and blood and it takes a real woman to come in and make kid like her own and she does that and you know why cause she loves me for me,and she loves my daughter as one we a package deal that turned into a family 7yrs ago so all i have to say when people try and disrespect or throw shade my way at my wife be prepared to get fucked up or exited out of my blog and my social media and my life,cause you fucking with the wrong one and as her king i will always protect my queen cause she got the best of my love always and forever real talk indeed.