Some People Wouldnt Know A blessing If it hit them in the face.

The old saying goes count your blessings,cause you never know when or if you will get them,but i really think that some people are destined to be miserable because they wouldnt know a blessing if it hit them samck dab in the face, i mean people search there whole life trying to be happy whether its financial or just finding someone to spend there life with,and people get caught up on a certain type that when they get something different they dont rrealize that god may have chosen to lead you ina different direction because the direction you been following only lead to nothing but heartbreak and headaches, so sometimes pay attention to your maker cause he wont steer you wrong he will sometimes give you blessings in a different package and that package might be the one you have been looking for all your life so all im saying is never mess up you r blessings there is thing called patience and maturity and that will lead you to prosperity whether its giving you money you never expected or giving you a wife or husband that you always wanted so all im saying watch for your blessings cause you never want to mess them up cause they dont come often and thats real.

Money Can Make Relationship Or Break it If its not Stable.

You know the old saying is that money is the root of all evil, but what people dont know is if you and your mate is not on a solid foundation then the relationship can easily be broken when money becomes funny,that is why you never get with someone just because of money cause money comes and goes but a loyal person is hard to find,someone who will be with you thru the good times and the bad,and someone who is going to be the same person whether they have a pocket full of money or not,and never stress about money cause if all your relationship is about is based on money then you never had a solid relationship in the first place so all im saying is be careful who claim to be your man or woman cause you might not have someone who will be down when the money run low,be with somebody who is down no matter what and once you have someone like that on your team you will be able to weather any kind of storm that comes your way real talk indeed.

Balanced Relationships are the best relationships.

When entering into a relationship the best relationships is when two people can give each other time to miss each other to make the other person miss them give them enough time and loving that the other person will want to be with them on there own not as and obligation,cause when you feel obligated in a relationship that will lead to boredom and resentment and then end game scenario will be a parting of ways, you have to give the person you with so much of a good time and fun that when they are away from you they will miss you and want to be with you ,but it goes both ways you have to also be willing when entering a relationship to give some time as well cause if you dont then the other person will feel neglected and then there attention will wonder so its all about give and take,not just all about you its all about you and your boo,and the sooner you both figure out and learn each other thats how you both will progress towards a happy relationship and the sooner you learn your mate then the better it will be for both cause if you dont give perosn air to breta then they will eventually start breathing elsewhere and thats real talk. its nothing wrong with wnating to be with each other you just have to kmake it where both of you missing each other and both of you are on the same page,now if that person never gets on your page then maybe you need to get a new book indeed.

be with someone who is willing to make lemons out of lemonade.

you know i have to write about this topic because its to many people that i know or have come in contact with who is thinking they have someone who is in there corner only to find that when the good times turn to bad times they are ready to leave a persons true character will show when the bad times come,if they are willing to make lemons out of lemonade then you got a keeper but im seeing that its to many people leaving people and not sticking around with the going gets tough,thats why you have so many relationships that are failing cause you dont have loyal people anymore as soon as the finance dry up,people looking for a way out,as soon as they get bored they looking for away out its like people dont try to work things out anymore people just ready to give up,and then asa soon as they give up on a person they think dont have it going on anymore then as soon as that person back on top people want to change there mind,i say fuck that be with that individual who was with you when times were rough and tough cause those are the true loyal people that are hard to find so if you got one hold on to them indeed. and let the material ones keep it moving.

There is a Such Thing As Me Time In A relationship.

You know people feel when you get in a relationship that once you get with a person that all there time is your time but thats not the case you have to give your husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend some me time cause if you dont then you will risk the chance of boredem setting in,or at least give the person a chance to miss you, every couple needs some me time i as a man i have my me time i like to watch my football on football sunday and its not a problem but some people would have a problem with that,and then sometimes a person especially when you are just dating them needs sometime to miss you,i mena if you are soulmates and you like being up under each other 24/7 then thats cool too,but eventually that will get old so all im saying is let a person breath so that the fresh air that they seek will be you and not trying to get away from you real talk indeed.

SAme Shit Just A Stronger Smell.

You know racism has been here for ever since i was born and before,crime has been here since i was born and before, but the shit that is going on today is a lot more bolder,stronger and down right outcold, i mean you got black churches burning daily, you got a white racist who goes into a church killing black preachers and elders and worshippers you got home invasions on the rise at and alarming rate you got more broad daylight killings and robberies you got racism all on the internet against mexicans blacks whoever that is not white,and yet the media tries to move you to be worried about gay marriage my thing is this i dont give a fuck who you marry just keep the gay shit out of my face i dont have a problem with gays i have a problem when you try to make me believe i have to like it and accept it i dont have to do shit i deal with it and thats it i have bigger issues to deal with like black on black crime, police brutality, racist remarks, carjackings, and black churches being burned down in the south, so what im saying is my people black or white who are not racist dont take your eyes off the real topics cause black lives matter and we as black people have to do better,and we have to realize its some shit going on that is the same shit from the past its just has a much stronger odor right now and with social media you hear and see everything and what i am seeing and hearing im not liking one bit and neither should you so all we can do is pray for better days but for some reason i dont believe things will get better they just keep getting worse real talk.

All That Glitters Is Not Gold.

You know people have images that they feel they have to live up to sometimes even when those images they are portraying are not real.and so when people are viewed as having it all people tend to not want to help those people when they strep out of there shell to ask for help, because they figure they got it going on, but my thing is this if a person comes to you and asked you for help its obvious that image you thought they was living is not gold,so dont judge them by what you thought they had just listen to the person and if you can help them help them not judge them, cause you never know when your day may come that you may need someone to help you i say this all the time be humble whether you got all the shit you want and need or if you dont have a dime be humble cause you never want to be known as a person who is not a person who is worth helping because of what you think you know cause on the outside a person can seem like they got it all but in reality they might not have what you nearly think so it may look like gold to you but remember all that glitters is not gold real talk so if you are willing and able to help a person in need who comes to you and ask you for there help then help them cause you dont lose from giving real talk indeed.