There is a Such Thing As Me Time In A relationship.

You know people feel when you get in a relationship that once you get with a person that all there time is your time but thats not the case you have to give your husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend some me time cause if you dont then you will risk the chance of boredem setting in,or at least give the person a chance to miss you, every couple needs some me time i as a man i have my me time i like to watch my football on football sunday and its not a problem but some people would have a problem with that,and then sometimes a person especially when you are just dating them needs sometime to miss you,i mena if you are soulmates and you like being up under each other 24/7 then thats cool too,but eventually that will get old so all im saying is let a person breath so that the fresh air that they seek will be you and not trying to get away from you real talk indeed.

SAme Shit Just A Stronger Smell.

You know racism has been here for ever since i was born and before,crime has been here since i was born and before, but the shit that is going on today is a lot more bolder,stronger and down right outcold, i mean you got black churches burning daily, you got a white racist who goes into a church killing black preachers and elders and worshippers you got home invasions on the rise at and alarming rate you got more broad daylight killings and robberies you got racism all on the internet against mexicans blacks whoever that is not white,and yet the media tries to move you to be worried about gay marriage my thing is this i dont give a fuck who you marry just keep the gay shit out of my face i dont have a problem with gays i have a problem when you try to make me believe i have to like it and accept it i dont have to do shit i deal with it and thats it i have bigger issues to deal with like black on black crime, police brutality, racist remarks, carjackings, and black churches being burned down in the south, so what im saying is my people black or white who are not racist dont take your eyes off the real topics cause black lives matter and we as black people have to do better,and we have to realize its some shit going on that is the same shit from the past its just has a much stronger odor right now and with social media you hear and see everything and what i am seeing and hearing im not liking one bit and neither should you so all we can do is pray for better days but for some reason i dont believe things will get better they just keep getting worse real talk.

All That Glitters Is Not Gold.

You know people have images that they feel they have to live up to sometimes even when those images they are portraying are not real.and so when people are viewed as having it all people tend to not want to help those people when they strep out of there shell to ask for help, because they figure they got it going on, but my thing is this if a person comes to you and asked you for help its obvious that image you thought they was living is not gold,so dont judge them by what you thought they had just listen to the person and if you can help them help them not judge them, cause you never know when your day may come that you may need someone to help you i say this all the time be humble whether you got all the shit you want and need or if you dont have a dime be humble cause you never want to be known as a person who is not a person who is worth helping because of what you think you know cause on the outside a person can seem like they got it all but in reality they might not have what you nearly think so it may look like gold to you but remember all that glitters is not gold real talk so if you are willing and able to help a person in need who comes to you and ask you for there help then help them cause you dont lose from giving real talk indeed.

Facebook island part 2

you know its crazy that people be on social media hating on people because they think these people are living the life people better start doing there homework you got people working at target or some mininum wage job claiming they doing this and that and aint doing shit,but they got people hating on them cause people buy into the fantasy of facebook thinking people living large when in reality they barely living then whats really stupid is when you become one of the haters as they say when you hating on someon who is doing nothing you have falling into the trap of facebook island its all entertainment so people start doing your homework cause everybody is not who threy claim real talk indeed.

Never Take Advice From Someone Who Has Never Been Married.

You know the worstthing you can do is take advice from someone about your relationship or marriage when the person who is giving the advice has a terrible track record with men people like that are miserable and they want you to be miserable as weel so they give the worst advice they can find because they know like the hour glass on the days of our lives there life is ticking away and they cant find someone for them so they choose to give bad advice with the attentions of you listening and fucking up your happy home or relationship so all im saying is before you take advice check the messanger cause the messenger may be a person who does not have your best interest at heart real talk.

Dont front for others Just Be Yourself.

You know its a lot of people who try and do things to get attention from others even though they either cant afford it or they trying to act like the a boss when in reality you just and employee, be yourself dont try to create a life to look good to others on the outside create a life that feels good to you on the inside thats all that matters people be out here trying to floss living beyond there means instead of just doing things to make themselves happy and there family happy,i always tell people i do things for me my wife my daughter my family not for anybody else if i go on 9 or ten trips its not for show its for us if i have the finer things in life that i can get its not for show its for us and i think thats what people have to realize life is about making your self happy and if people have a problem with how you live your life then that s there problem not yours i just want people to be themselves and not be somebody there not real talk indeed.

Cherish Your Moms

You know tomorrow is mothers day and im thankful that i have my mom to spend the day with but there is a since of sadness as for the 2nd year in a row i will be with out my grandmother who was the rock of our family and i truly miss her she was so funny and about her business she was a woman that i wanted to be like with her success in life and i have to say i may not talk about her everyday but i truly miss her and i would give anything to talk to her or see her again she was the best grandmother you could imagine and i loved her dearly and i must say mothers day is very different now cause me and my brothers would take her and my mom to brunch on mothers day and have a great day and those times are now gone but i have the memories and now i can say now that my grandmother is gone me and my mom have gotten even closer as if that was possible but i know my mom will be sad tomorrow but i will be there to make her day and she will make ours so for all you people who still have your moms cherish them cause once there gone thats it and it is a lost that you will never get over indeed.