Give them Something To Think About (XXX Edtion)

You know when you are dating someone,or if you are married to them,or just fucking partners,whatever relationship where sex is involved,you should always, leave the person you are sexting with something on there mind,when they are away from,you or if you know its going to be some time in between your next sexual encounter,and that goes for your wife,or husband,or girlfriend,or boyfriend,i dont care if you live with them,cause you want to put something in the back of there mind,sexually,so that when they get that urge,they will think about something you did,and try and do something out of the ordinary sometimes,that will most certainly leave something on there mind,if you a woman,suck his dick real good,maybe lick or suck his balls,to the point where you might decide hell im going to swallow this mans nut tonight,or give him some pussy in a different room,or a different position,or give him some asshole if you a real freak,or suck on him somewhere you never have,just do something to have him saying damn i need to see here,cause like i have said and stressed from day one when you close that door in the bedroom,anything should go,and making each other cum,by any means necessary should always be the goal,cause if its not then why the fuck should you be waisting each others time,cause i thought the point of sex was cumming,and enjoying the pleasure,and if you a man,you should be willing to lick any hole she wants,or let her cum in your mouth,or find her g.spot,kissing her a certain way,just do something to fuck her mind up,and make that pussy flow like aquafina, and if you willing to go the extra mile trust and believe there wont be to much in between time from the next sexual encounter and thats real talk.

Damn When Did Being in Your 40s Mean your Old"

You know i pride myself on looking good and feeling good for my age,but i see that people be calling people in the 40s old now,im like well damn,when did this happen,i was in the mall the other day at macys,and these young cats was talking,and they was like damn that nigga came to her birthday trying to look young with his old ass nigga like 42 i was damn they act like the nigga was 50.and then i was watching some show and they was like at the old man trying to stay in leauge at age 39 im like well damn am i missing something or has 50 become the new 40,is the new generation trying to make my generation the old geezers or what they got me fucked up cause you only as old as you feel and i be damn i f i feel like im ready for the rocking chair,shit i do more than the average,and i know most of my followers is the 35 to 40 plus crowd,so to my followers dont let this new generation lable you as old when have us is just a young,but wiser indeed.

Its Not the Price Of the Wedding That Matters,Its The Marriage"

You know i think that people nowadays get so caught up in wanting to have the most lavish,extravagant wedding, and having the baddest dress,and expensive venue,expensive food,most expensive ring,all of the above,but i think that they get so caught up in the wedding that they forget that the one day of happiness,is not going to guarantee a great marriage,its about so much more,and then you be having these people who be having these ice sculpture budgets,when they barely can afford popsicles,so all im saying its nothing wrong with having a beautiful wedding,im just saying dont get so caught up in that one day that you forget that the marriage is whats most important,i would take and average wedding for a marriage of a lifetime anyday,and thats real talk.

One Thing I hate Is Being Fake Around Phony People"

You know sometimes in life, you get put in a position,where you have to be fake around phony people,people who you know really dont like you,who are jealous of you,who envy you,and you try and keep the peace,because of other people,but one thing i have learned over there years if you a real nigga,who cant be fake your realness will come out if you are around a phony person,to long,and i cant stand a wannabe, or a fraud,or a person who wants to be more than what they are,just to put others down,so if you find your self being around phony people,and you feel you have to act a certain way,to keep the peace,my suggestion is just dont hang around those type of people,cause eventually if you keep doing it the situation is going to become uncomfortable for everyone involved, so all i can say is stay true to yourself,and be around people who keep it real and not a round phony people who dont have a clue on what it takes to be real.

Catifish MY Ass You Just And Insecure Bitch"

I dont know if you have ever watched the show catfish,but basically its people claiming to be somebody that there not,using social media sites to say there someone else just to get someones attention,using fake pictures,and and profiles,and thats not even the person,and what they do is play on other peoples emotions,to get them all in,because they not secure in there own skin ,and to me thats and insecure ass bitch,how the hell you going to use another persons profile,and pictures to say your somebody else,because you not happy with what god gave you,that is just sad ,and kind of sick,and demented because if a person is willing to change there whole personality,and face to try and lure someone into there life,then that right there should let you know they have a much bigger problem,and they might want to go get some serious help,so thats why i tell people,if you really dont know a person on these social sites,like facebook,or instagram,or twitter,then you better do your home work cause you could be falling victim to a sick insecure as person claiming to be someone there not and to me thats not catfish,thats and insecure ass person needing help.

Broken Promises"

You know in life,sometimes things dont always go as plan,i mean things come up,so sometimes people have to re adjust there plans,or reschedule and thats fine cause things happen,but one thing that is not cool is when you are constantly promising a child,or teen something,and never coming thru,i mean whether its taking them somewhere,or promising them a gift,or money,or whatever,a child can only take so many broken promises,cause eventually you sound like a broken record,and then a child will start to grow disinterested in anything that you say you are going to do,or if someone else tells them what there going to do,cause they have heard all the lies before,so all im saying is dont be one of those people who always break promises to there child,and never come thru,cause if you do that to your child they are going to grow up thinking everybody is full of shit when it comes to doing what they say and thats a terrible way for a person to be real talk.

A person Can Play There Part If they Knew There Role"

You know i hear this from a lot of women,and men that be complaining about a person not playing there part,or complaining about a person wanting to be more than what they are,or a person wanting to be there wife,or husband,or boyfriend,or girlfriend,My thing is if people would be honest with the person,and let them know what they really want,whether its a friend to talk to,or fuck buddy,or a husband,or a wife,or a girlfriend,or a boyfriend,just be straight up with the person and let the m know what role you want them to play in your life,then things would be a lot smoother,and then you wouldnt have all the drama,and confusion,cause if im not mistaken,a person can play there part,a lot better when they know there role,and thats real talk,cause if you got a person thinking they more than what they are,then you got a person all fucked up,and that aint right and thats real so all im saying is keep it real,and be a man,or a woman,and let the person you interested in know where you coming from from the jump and then things would be so much better from all parties concerned, it may not be the part they want to play,but its better to let them know instead of leading them on to think they gonna be bigger than what they are and thats real.