Out of Sight Out Of Mind Not Always"

You know the old saying says that when you have a lover male or female,and you may not see that person that much eventually you will drift apart,and that person you were involved with sexually will become a thing of the past,and a distant memory, and most of the time that is true,unless you were a person who left there mark,and when i say left your mark,i mean lets say from the female point of view,you did something to him that had his toes curling,you sucked his dick so good that it made his eyes roll back in his head when he came,or you gave him some asshole,and let him cum in your asshole,or you kissed him and fucked him so good that he was screaming your name when he came,if you was that good and you left your mark,no matter how much out of mind or out of sight he will eventually get back to you if you are in just a sexual relationship,cause you put your mark on that person,and as far as the guys point of view, if you a man who was eating her pussy so good that made her so wet when she came from your tongue,she wont forget you,if you a person who stroke her nice and long,and was the freak she wanted in bed with no hang ups,she wont forget you,if you was the man who would lick and suck her asshole and didnt mind getting freaky and dirty,then trust me you might be out of sight but i be damn if you will ever be out of her mind and thats real.

2013 Racism Is Still In Full Effect"

You know i have to keep writing about racism,cause everyday, you keep hearing about some form of racism,and i get so fucking tired of the white media,and the black uncle toms who have been thrown a bone by white society that things are getting better,no shit is not getting better its just getting much more sneakier and the fact that here in 2013 we have incidents like yesterday adam jones, a black baseball player for the baltimore orioles was just doing his job in centerfield,and some white coward ass muthafucka threw a banana on the field like he some kind of monkey, thats the kind of shit im talking,about,and i hate when some white people say i have black friends whipty fucking do,i dont want to hear that shit,im not saying that all white people are racist,not at all,but what im saying is people need to wake the fuck up cause to a lot of white people you just another nigga,look at oprah winfrey she worth 77 billion dollars,and this white bitch in switzerland tells her she cant afford a $38000 dollar bag,cause she didnt know who oprah was thats besides the point she just saw color,and then you have a rodeo that dresses up a man in a obama mask to be trampled what kind of shit is this its bad enough you disrespecting the president of the united states,but you also showing your racism,so as long as i have a voice to connect with over 4 million visitors to my blog i will always address the racism that exist in this country every fucking time im going to speak my peace,and oh yeah fuck george zimmerman even though the white media has wanted to sweep it under the rug we as black people have not forgotten you got away with killing trayvon martin you punk ass bitch real talk.

Never Brag On Your Sex game Let Your Action Speak For Themself"

You know the worst thing you can do is brag on your sex game to someone who you may have and interest in,Because what you may have done with someone else in your past might not do the same for someone in your present,because everybody is different,if your woman you might like a man who knows how to find your g spot,or a man who can eat your pussy for a long time,or a man who can eat your pussy fast,and make you cum with his tongue,and his dick,or you might like a man to stroke you a certain kind of way,or you might want a man who is a total freak,so what im saying is even if you may have been the shit in your past in the bedroom,you could be just a regular ordinary fuck to the next man,and for the guys the same go for you never brag on how good you can fuck,let the new woman decide whether you the shit,and if you are no need to brag cause a real nigga that can bring it in the bedroom lets his actions speak for him,or at least lets the woman do the talking for him,cause how you may have fucked or made love to a woman in the past,is no guarantee they you will be so successful in your next encounter with someone new,so all im saying is never write a check your ass cant cash,cause if you do just like a bad check you will get bounced and thats real.

Once A person Loses Interest 9 times out of ten you shit out of luck"

You know im going to make this short and sweet,if you have gotten a persons attention,and you have gotten the person to really like you,then the one thing, you can never do unless you dont plan on keeping the person around,is take that person for granted,or to stop doing what you did in the first place to get that person attention cause once you dothat its makes it much easier for someone else to grab there attention,and the worst thing you can do is have a person lose interest in you,cause once a person does,its hard really hard to get them back interested especially when they have many options,and i think thats what happens a lot of times people get a person in,but they dont know how to keep them sure you can throw the rod in the lake,and maybe pull in the fish,but after you get the fish,do you know how to clean it,and cook it. The point to my metaphor, is this you cant always expect that a person will be so taken with what you have done to get them or that your sex game is so good that you know they will always be around,that you can text them,or call them,or sex them,or take them out when you want,and not expect that door to slide open for someone new,thats just keeping it real so if you got someone,that you like or love,dont slack off,cause its always someone waiting to take your spot for whatever and thats real talk enjoy your weekend from the truth.

The Grass Not Always Green On The Other Side"

You Know sometimes people think that when there going thru a little rift,or misunderstanding with there mate male,or female,they tend to want to test the waters,and think that they wont miss that person they been with for so long,thinking that the grass is greener with someone else because of what a person who likes tells you what they will do to you,or for you,but what you have to look at sometimes,and i know everybody situation is different,that the person you with might just need a little fertilizer on that grass and also you might need to just spice things up,and sometimes thats all it takes,but if you just say fuuck it and think im going to find someone new,and they going to slove all your problems,then in some cases that might be true,but i have seen a lot of cases where the people have made a serious mistake,and once you cross over to some ones elses lawn,and it might not be as green as you thought,that lawn you left might be dead to you with no sunshine at all to make it grow again,and thats real talk,so all im saying make sure you try and exhaust all avenues in the relationship before you make that step and thats real talk.

Homie Lover Friend"

You know every now and then i get a request to write about certain things on my blog,and sometimes i do,sometimes i dont,but if its a good story,and its true then yes i will accept the story,and write about it,so im about to write about two friends who crossed the friendship line,but thru it all they were able to continue to be friends,and that is not easy for a lot of people who cross that line because a lot of times feelings get involved people who cross that line can never have there friendship again,but you also have people like erica, and paul, paul and erica were good friends who had a very good friendship from day one almost like a brother and sister friendship,so they would always talk to each other play around with each other,just got a long real good from day one,and paul always thought erica was sexy,but he never crossed that line,so after years of being just great friends,one day erica,and paul decided to go out to eat for dinner and drinks,and they was just hanging out,and so after some good eating and drinks,they headed home,so paul walked erica to the door,and they was laughing and cracking jokes,and so when paul reached over to give erica a hug,they end up kissing and it was a good kiss so they both laughed and was shocked cause they had never been this way with each other before,so paul left and erica said good night, so after the date they started looking at each other different so then they end up hanging out again later,but this time they got some drinks and they was drinking and laughing at the holiday inn and then after drinking they started kissing and before you know it paul started sucking on ericas tittys,then he started eating her pussy,and he was eating her pussy good,and after eating her pussy for nice while then they started fucking and he fucked her real nice long and strong,and then after fucking and making each other cum,they drinked some more,and then paul bent erica over,and fucked her in the ass and he came in her ass,and for most of that night they end fucking and bustin 6 or 7 nutts it was like they just clicked and they was meant for each other,and eventually erica taught paul how to eat her pussy to the point that she would squirt and wet the bed and she came all in pauls face,so there sex was the bomb,and there friendship was the bomb so after a nice while of fucking and sucking and enjoying each having a great time,they both started to drift away,and eventually the sex stopped,and they bot h ended up marrying someone,but the friendship didnt end because these to people where mature,and on there grown up shit,and they were able to stay friends,and to this day are still friends who probably pick right up where they left off in the bedroom if they both didnt have partners now,but like i said these two people erica and paul are true homie lover friends,who were able to still be friends in spite of there relationship being sexual everybody cant be that way its all about the individuals,and how you channel your feelings and thats real talk.

Anybody Can make A Living But How About Having A Life"

Now I will be the first to tell you there is nothing wrong with wanting to make money,who doesnt love money,But if all you have is your job,And no life outside of your job,then to me all you are doing is making a living,and not truly enjoying what life has to offer, i mean when you dead and gone,can you take the money with you, no of course not,so what im saying is dont let your job consume you to the point where you look up and realize that you have no woman,or a man,no social life,nobody to share your money with,and nobody to go on trips with,or go out to dinner with or anything,cause i know plenty of people who are married to there jobs,and one thing anybody knows about me is i make the job the job has never made me,im all about getting my paper,but i choose to get it,and use it to have fun,and just absorb all that life has to offer,so that when i do get old,i can look back and say damn i did the dam thing i lived my life to the fullest,and just being able to say i did damn near everything i wanted to do,and was not just tied down to punching a clock every day with nothing to show for it,but being broke down,and alone,and having a big bank account with no one to share it with is not in my DNA,and its not going to be in my daughter cause im going to continue showing her that yes you want to work hard,and make good money,but its not just about that its about so much more,and thats just my take on it live your life,make your money,but enjoy your money real talk.