Change it up in The Bedroom Sometimes"

You know sometimes when people are being intimate with each other,sometimes people take people for granted thinking that what they did to get that person in the bedroom will keep them in the bedroom,and a lot of times that will work for only so long,you have to switch it up sometimes,let me tell you about a couple that emailed me and told me how they went from a great sex life,to a boring sex life,to now after some words of advice there bedroom is sizzling again,what i will tell you is james was used to coming home and just taking a shower seeing his girl cheryl and they would get naked he would eat her pussy,and she might suck his dick and they fuck and go to sleep now thats cool sometimes but sometimes you got to do dome shit that will have that man or woman drifting off during the next day thinking about your ass,so this one night james was advised to do something different,and so was cheryl,so after a romantic evening of dinner and drinks,they starting doing something way out of character,then was drinking some grey goose,and you know the goose gets you loose,then cheryl surprised james with a blunt,and so he said i dont smoke she was like just try it tonight so they puffed a minute,and then after drinking and puffing,they started kissing real passionate like never before,then james went up cheryl short dress pulled down her lass panties turned her over,and started licking and sucking out her asshole and pussy,then after doing it for a while he flipped cheryl over,agrabbed her hand took her to the bedroom,pulled off his clothes,and he opened her thighs and put his dick in her mouth and they were 69ing like crazy to the point she came in his mouth and he came in hers,so after swallowin each other juices,he turned her and started fucking her from the side,so she was loving that but she had a surprise for james,and she pulled his dick out her pussy and put in her asshole,and he fucked her tight hole until he came in her ass,and after all of this she told james i want you to bend over and she tossed his salad for a long time got his dick back hard turned him over licked his balls and dick then she sat on his face and stroked his dick at the same time,then she rode his dick until they both came again at the same time,and then they both layed there knocked the fuck out only to wake up looking at each other with a smile from ear to ear cause they both knew they had brought the fire back into the bedroom and my point is sometimes you have to change it up and not do the same shit all the time that way you keep it spicy real talk.

For Better or Worse"

You know a lot of times when things is going great,the money coming in on the regular,and you with a person,and you guys going on trips,eating at the finest restaurants,going to plays,and shows,and shopping just living the good life,its easy to think you with someone who truly loves you, i mean how can you not tell i mean they smiling and giving you all the good loving you want,just enjoying the fruits of labor,but when you truly find out who has your back,and truly loves you for you is when the finances dry out, and the shopping sprees,the movies, the dinners,and the trips, stop,thats when you find out if you have a diamond in the rough,or cubic zirconia,cause life is never going to be perfect,yeah sure there will be bumpy roads,but to me there is nothing more sexy in a woman,who is down for her man or husband, or man who is down for his woman or wife,thru the bad times,i mean  to the point where between the both of them they only got $20 and he or she gives the other $10 thats what you call having each others back,and when times are rough like that,and you guys are able to persevere and make it and be happy thru that bad times, i mean still make great love,and keep each other smiling with out the material things,then when the good times come again it makes the good times so much fucking sweeter cause whether people realize it or not trouble dont last for ever,so if you a person that gave up on someone because they encountered struggles in the life,then you dont deserve to be there when things get better,and the person that stuck around thru the bad times,should defintely be there for the good,and those are the type of people you should want in your life,cause its easy to ride in a new cadillac but it takes a real person who truly loves you to be with you thru better or worse real talk,and those are the type of people you should want on your team.

Insecure People Put Others Down To Raise Themselves Up.

When you find someone who is always bragging about what they have and wanting people to acknowledge there accomplishments in life,instead of being humble,those are usually people who are insecure,and insecure people hate for someone to be doing just as good or better than them,there is nothing wrong with enjoying the good life,but it is a complete turnoff,when people brag,and boast about material things,or where they been or where they going,to me a person who is able to kick it with the richest of the rich and the poorer of the poor and still be thew same that in itself is much more appealing than a person who has to use there money,or stature to tear down someone who cant do the things that they can because of finances,cause what a lot of people sometimes forget,you can have all the money in the world but it aint shit without someone to share it with,so all im saying is have some humility and enjoy life,and if people want to give you props let them but dont go out your way to seek them cause its not a good look,actually its down right ugly real talk.

Nothing LiKe Hitting Her Spot"

You know a lot of guys out here and i hate to clown some of my niggas out here but,i read to much of social media,and magazines,and i hear the complaints from women,that a lot of men just want to fuck,and get there nut,and if that is the plan,then a lot of women,have to hope and pray that the nigga they fucking gets lucky and hits her spot,cause a lot of women are very unsatisfied, if a lot of men took the time out to please a womans,body,and kiss her in places that turns her on,if its her back,the back of her neck,her inner thigh,wherever it is that gets her going,or and after if you really want to make your lady feel good,get between your ladies thighs,and kiss her clit softly,lick her pussy lips softly,lick her asshole if thats what she likes,and suck on her pussy,and if you sucking and licking that pussy good,to the point she start getting that feeling in her asshole,and she moaning,and loving it then you are going to get some wet juicy pussy once you make her cum,and if she is a real one she might suck your dick real good before you enter her sugarwalls,and when you do start making love to her,or fucking her,take your time,and stroke the pussy nice and slow,and then eventually pick up the strokes,and fuck her faster,deeper,and harder until she bust that nutt,and after she cum keep fucking her why she nutting so she get the full orgasm,and then you bust your nut,and i guarantee you if you be hitting that spot with your tongue or dick she will always want some of you if you and her are on good terms,or if you are married to her,or if she your lady,then both of you will be smiling cause if your lady is smiling in the bedroom then you will be smiling as well real talk,so take care of the pussy cause if you dont eventually somebody else will.

You Got To Let the Past Go In Order to See The Future"

You know whats sad is when a person who you may have left alone a decade ago,or longer,may still have a thing for you,but they know in there heart that there is not a chance in hell that they can get you back,but yet they cant move forward because they stuck in the past,hoping and wishing one day that they can get the chance to get that person back,and to me that is sad,because a lot of people waist there time,and let years go by in there lives,missing out on new people and adventures,trying and hoping that the person they want from there past will comeback someday, i have a theory if it is meant to be it will happen if not then you have to let go of the past in order to see your future cause its not healthy and its not realistic,so if you are sitting are one of those people sitting around hoping someone you lost from your past comes back into your life,and you have put your life on hold,then you need to let go move on and live your life cause you only get one,you mess around and be waiting for someone who will never come as that person who may be right for you goes walking right past you,real talk.

Treat People Things Like You Treat Yours"

You know i have a pet peeve,and im sure a lot of you do as well im a neat freak,and one thing i hate is when a person who may keep there house,or car,or material things they own a certain way,they may keep there house clean,or car shining,or may be very organized with there things, all of a sudden when its not thee shit they have no regard for how they keep your car if they drive,it,or how they may dirty up your house,or if you loan them something they dont take care of it like you would,and i have come to the conclusion that people do this because its not there own so they dont give a fuck,and i cant stand muthafuckas like that i keep my shit clean,and i do the same to other people shit its called respect,so i learn to not deal with people like this cause being disrespectful with peoples shit can be a cause for and ass whooping real talk.

Never Take Advice From Someone About Your Marriage Who has never Said I Do.

You know nothing irritates me more than people who are quick to give  people advice about there marriage,when the person giving advice has never been married,my thing is how can you listen to someone tell you about the dos and donts of marriage when they asses hasnt found anybody to ever say i do to them,i mean thats just stupid to me,i mean i always thought that marriage was a and b not a c so if you a person who feels like they need advice on there marriage at least take it from someone who has been there and done that not a person who has never even walk down the aisle thats real talk,because a lot of times that very person who is giving you the advice,about your marriage is the very person who is quietly hoping that you marriage fail so that they can have more company being single,you would be surprised at how jealous ones envy and thats real.