When you first meet someone and you getting to know them you are chatting 24/7 night and day cant wait to see each other finding days to see each other never allowing miss you time to fade away just cant wait to see each other and then you start loving each other having sex cant wait to be around each other making each other feel important like nobody else exist but you two and that feeling is great but then once sometime passes you will find out what you have is this newness just puppy love or real love cause if the fire starts fading quickly that in itself should let you know that it was never real just something new thats it but if its real it will endure over time plus it takes effort from both parties to keep the fire burning make it exciting whether its a romantic evening a trip, or dinner a freaky night or a romantic night still chatting still making the person you with feel important and also when you are becoming a couple you have to let the person you with know there boundaries with you they might not know if its ok to call at a certain hour or if they can text at a certain time you have to know how much access you have to them so they will know whats what and when people know there boundaries and how much they truly mean to one another it makes the relationship that much stronger and allows the relationship to grow and prosper so if you just sit back and give no effort to make your boyfriend or girlfriend feel special then you only going to let the relationship grow mold on it instead of keeping it fresh indeed cause a compliment dinner surprise sex surprise outings fun conversation makes people happy and if they not trying to do this for you its a chance that what you have now is as far as its gonna go indeed so all im saying is if its new do what you know to do if you have a clue about your new boo or your relationship gonna turn to doo doo real talk how you start is how you finish if they trying to put a smile on your face then that should be who you want in your place if they trying to keep it fresh they truly care about you indeed.
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