Giving Someone Attention Goes Both ways Indeed.

 Sometimes in life you start liking someone you giving them attention you giving them compliments buying them gifts doing things to make them smile, buying them dinners just checking on them cause you care you like them so there is nothing wrong with that at all cause your feeling them indeed but sometimes a person will get caught up all the attention there giving a person that they not realizing right away that the feeling is not mutual, they thinking one way and the person there giving all the attention too is thinking something totally different so the best way to solve that is either address the elephant in the room or move on and take your Ls cause you never want to feel like your giving your attention to them and there not doing the same and thats ok but at least acknowledge the issue so nobody feels like the feeling isnt mutual and if the feeling isnt mutual you move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned indeed.