BE There Medicine not there headache.

You know when you have a hard day at work or dealing with everday people,the last thing you want to do is have to get into and argument or disagreement with someone you with or fucking,or whatever,the person you dealing with needs to be your medicine not a headache, the person your dealing with is supposed to take you away from everyday stress if you a female then the guy your dealing with should listen to your problems,give you a piece of mind,fuck you good i mean if you want your pussy ate good,or you want to be deepstroked real good to make you feel good that person is supposed to be there for you to soothe your body and your soul.indeed.And if you are a man your lady is supposed to suck your dick well and be your freak your outlet away from everyday life and take your mind off of everyday life indeed that is all sometimes a person needs,not coming home arguing about dumb shit,or feeling like your not being appreciated if you having the same headaches in your personal life as your everyday life then you obviously are not in the right situation and you need to remove those people from your personal life cause life is about happiness not misery indeed.

holiday season.

You know the holiday season is a upon us and i know its nothing like getting gifts,shopping food having a good time,but lets not forget those who are less fortunate people who might not have any food,a roof over there head, might not have no clothes,if you can give some clothes or a can of food,or help someone this holiday season it will make most people feel so good i know it makes me feel great to donate cause everybody is not as well off so all im saying when you are getting ready for the holidays just think about some cause to give that will make you feel good indeed cause its always better to give than receive indeed.

Living with type 2 diabetes. get checked.

You know i have talked about having type 2 diabetes before,but never in depth but i must admit its not and easy thing to have or deal with,but it can be beat unlock type 1 which your born with, if you exercise,eat right and drink plenty of water and fruits and vegetables you can beat it,but the key is monitoring your sugar levels,and not eating to many carbs,and exercising evebn if its just 30 to 45 minutes a day do something to keep that blood flowing cause the urinating, dry mouth,sweating feeling sick or disoriented is no joke so all im saying is take care of yourself and if you dont go to the doctor at least go get checked out cause it s too many people especially in there 40s that are not going to the doctor regularly who are walking around with diabetes high blood pressure and more so just get checked and for those who have this disease diabetes battle it kick its ass and you will be able to live a full healthy happy life indeed.

Sometimes the Person Your With Can Keep you from the blessings You Deserve.

You know sometimes people will be going thru trials and tribulations in there life,and be robbing peter to pay paul,or be doing things the right way but always coming up short,and yet they pray for a better life,or for better chances to succeed,but yet sometimes your blessings can be blocked by the company you keep that person you may love or care for may be the very person who doesnt want you to be the person you want to be,or might privately hoping you never have a come up,so sometimes you have to get rid of that person out of your life or count your blessings that the person you wa with walks away for you to see that the very person you loved could have been keeping you from having the life you always wanted indeed.so all im saying is when you dont get your blessings or feel you are not getting all that you should be getting in life make sure your foundation is strong and the company you keep is truly in your corner indeed.

Dont be A selfish lover.

You know its lot of single women out here,and its also a lot of guys who just want to get the pussy and and dont care about whether the woman gets hers or not,and that is wrong men i was raised by women basically until i was 21 when my pops came along,and my mom raised three boys and she showed us books talked to us about pleasing a woman when we got older showing us forum magazines,so when we got older i said you should never not try to make your lady cum by any means necessary whether its eating her pussy tasting her holes,making her cum with your dick,you dont just get yours and get up cause to me thats not only selfish but it will also have your lady looking for another to go balls deep inside her and have her looking for a man who is willing and able to give her the orgasms thats she deserve if you can get yours she should get hers indeed.

Depression Comes in All types.

You know first thing people think when they think of depression is a person who is either broke or having health problems,or somebody that is poor or not able to do anything,but sometimes people who look like they have a great life smiling going places doing big things,behind that smile can be hurt or disappointment or regrets you just never know so all i can say is people can assume all day but if you dont pay attention to people those be the main ones you hear about or see on tv who took there life,or walked away from it all with no care in the world so sometimes ask your friend or spouse,or girlfriend or boyfriend how they are feeling what you can do to make them feel better cause if you dont then you might be ignoring a bigger problem than you cause depression is real people be depressed and dont even know and sometimes by the time they realize there problem it may be too late to solve and thats real shit indeed.

If you have moved on then why should you care.

I have a big pet peeve if a person is no longer with someone that they once dated,once you and that person have broken up,you have no right to say anything about what the person you once dated is doing i dont care if they have become a hoe it s not your right to say shit,especially if you were the one who broke up with them,and especially if you claim you are so happy in your new relationship,sounds a little fishy to me cause you worried about who your ex is fucking then its obvious that you not as happy as you claim and thats real talk cause people can end on good terms or bad but in any case what a person does is no longer you problem and if it is still bothering you then your shit must be for show instead of for real so all im saying is move on dont look back cause if you looking back you will never be able go forward indeed.

There is a Difference Between Thirsty And Flirting.

You know sometimes you have to wonder how some people were raised,because you have females and males who be on facebook thinking that if they show you there there body parts,or be all on peoples comments saying how sexy a person is or if a person talks a good game about sex that automatically a person has the right to think they got a person or they think being that way will guarantee you some pussy or dick.If anything some people dont wont people extra thirsty like that people take flirting or compliments the wrong way if a person say you look good or sexy take it for what it is but dont assume that person wants you and dont be the person all extra on a persons post thinking thats going to get you some ass if anything it might be a turn off so all im saying is there is a way to do things real talk have some discretion and have some tact dont just be acting like a hoe cause if you do a lot of guys will treat you just as that and who wants that indeed.

Grown Folks Dont Kiss And Tell.

You know if you are in social media groups on facebook or instagram,you  will encounter people who are trying to hook up with others but the thing is when you are either a male or female and you interested in someone in the group you dont be trying to get with that person and then go back like a little kid and tell your business thats what high school childish kids do,grown folks dont act like that it was always a cardinal rule you never kiss and tell and thats real talk and if you are a person who does this then you are not only immature you are noyt a real woman or man cause who does that only a bitch nigga would kiss or tell indeed.

Social Media killed The Dating Game.

People keep saying what happen to the dating game,especially women from the ages of 30 to 50 who ask this question daily,well its real simple it used to be a guy would call you,talk to you on the phone for hours,take you to dinner,buy you flowers,buy you a card or candy maybe,take you to a play,or a concert, or go for long walks gettting to know you mentally before the physical came along,well its more single women than there are men, men have the pick of choice,but the problem is you may have a woman who wants to be wined and dined,but then on the other hand  you got a women on social media showing you there titties,there pussy talking about getting a room,or coming to your house or theres before you even know her last name,so once a guy gets the pussy he like shit why should i have to wine and dine you i already got the goodies with out having to work for them,so there is no challenge cause the challenge a guy once had back in the 70s 80s 90s or early 2000s is over cause now its like a buffet for men they dont have to work anymore so the good females that still want to be treated like a lady is being ignored for a chick who just giving up the pussy like its a free meal so until women start demanding more of a man the good ones will continue to be ignored and passed over for a hoe,now there are some good guys who still want a woman to wine and dine,but with all the bad eggs in one bag you just have to sort thru them so the good guys and good women can hook up and show that chivarly is not dead its just be pushed aside for the microwave sex giving out in 2017 real talk,so ladies wondering where the good men at they out there they just got a buffet to choose from and just like any buffet you have bad items and you have good ones the men just have more to choose from cause the men even the ugly ones can get pussy real easy these days and thats because social media killed dating for real.

All that glitters isnt always gold.

you know people on the outside will look at you or and individual and say damn they got it going on they dont have a worry in the world,but you cant always go by appearances,and if you dont truly know a person you wont have any idea of what they are going thru or how they are feeling you just figure they doing great life is good and they dont have a care in the world but you cant always go by what you see you have to sometimes ask,or check on your freiend or mate or husband or wife,cause sometimes you may be surprised on how they truly feel,cause sometimes people may be depressed or not fulfilled,or unhappy,or feel they are not getting what they i want or need in life,it could be sex,it could be personal satisfaction from a job,or having no job at all, i used to wonder why people could walk out of there kids life,or leave there wives,or girlfriends ,or boyfriends or husbands,and never look back,and then people would say how could they do that well sometimes if you not really checking on a person how would you truly know how they feeling,cause life is too short to be miserable,or settling or just existing either you living or existing if you existing that can become very depressing and sucicial thoughts or feeling unwanted or feeling a need to start a new life,so thats why i tell people if you have a mate or brother or sister or mother or father or friend or husband or wife check on them sometimes i mean really check on them ask them how they are feeling and if you feel you can help them try to make them feel better or a t least try so that you can say at least you checked on them and you wont feel a sense of lost if one day you call them or check on them and they are gone,or worst they are dead and thats real talk so all im saying is pay attention sometimes to those who matter before its to late.

Pursuit of happiness

You know sometimes people in life want things that have no meaning, or material things to show off to other people,but to me to each is own i am a person who just wants to be able to travel, spend time with family be healthy and enjoy the fruits of labor and life,some times the little things are the big things in life and if you treasure the little things you will benefit in the long run,of not taking things in life for granted and you will have the pursuit of happiness,cause thats all i need travel spend time with family and never take life for granted cause one day none of us will be here so while im here i want to enjoy all that life has to offer and thats real.

You cant be happy if you still focusing on the past.

you know when you come out of bad relationship you have to heal and take timeand focus on yourself and think about how come your last relationship didnt work and move forward,but once you move on you have to leave all your thoughts and focus on your past in the past,cause if you dont then you will never be able to toatlly move on,and if you are truly happy in your new relationship or person your seeing you wont be still focusing on your past cause when a person is truly happy the last thing they will be thinking about is the person who did them wrong and thats real talk cause if you getting good dick,or good pussy you aint thinking about your ex,cause if you still thinking or talking about your ex then its obvious you not being real with yourself or the person your dating cause if you all in then the past will be just that the past and thats all im going to say about this indeed.

Be his or her medicine not there headache.

You know a lot of times you may not no what your lover,or wife or husband is going thru,and they may be in pain,or getting bored,or feeling sad or down from everyday life,so what you have to do as there mate is make them feel good. maybe give them a surprise massage,or just rub on them,if your a man maybe she needs you to eat her pussy real good make her cum,or fuck her real good deepstroke her pussy until she cums good,or maybe she wants to get away,go on a trip somewhere but just pay attention give her what she needs be her medicine not her headache,and for the ladies maybe your man just wants his dick sucked real good nice slow and wet,or maybe he wants its suck sloppy wet and fast,or he might want some asshole from you or just wants you to give him some pussy and fuck him good,or just surprise him and cook him his favorite meal, or give him a massage but just do something to make him feel good and not let another person get in there cirlce because you didnt do the little things he or she needed and once again be there medicine not there headache real talk indeed.

Attention Whores.

You know on social media you have all sorts of diffrent people who post and have diffrent agendas, but the ones that really get on my nerves is the ones who are constantly posting pictures for a reaction because they have no life so they have to post pictures of there selves or something that is irrelevant but they have to get those likes those likes make there day to the point that if they dont get those likes there day is not going to be good.and that is a shame that your self esteem is based on how many likes you get from friends otr family or complete strangers to make your day complete so i can call you nothing but and attention whore real talk is like hey dont you have something else to do in your life except posting all day and everyday on facebook or instagram or twitter thats just my opinion but who am except the truth who tells like it is real talk.

I salute My Mama.

If you know me you know how close i am to my mama,and i just want to salute my mama as i do everyday,for getting thru a true trauma in our life, my mom battled breast cancer and she won and she handled it with class and dignity,she showed me a fight that i knew she had but it was so impressive that it should be and inspiration to all she was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in march of last year 3 lumps in her breast she had one of her breast removed and had chemo but she fought it had some bad days but never changed kept the same happy spirit and now she is looking forward to resuming her life traveling and living life,thats why i tell you people all the time life is too short so live each day like your last and live life to the fullest cause tomorrow is not promised and all my mama did was inspire me to live life even more im traveling my ass of this year please believe it just watch and see cause my mama inspired me to get up get out and do something whatever i can do im doing it and im seeing it my family going to live love and laugh for 2017.

Romance Aint Dead Its What You Settle For.

Im so sick of hearing people say romance is dead,And valentines day is just another day, thats bullshit its all about what you make it, I once knew this old muthafucka who said valentines day been there done that,thats because the old muthafucka didnt have nobody so thats what a bitter bitch supposed to say,but i say you find someone who brings that romance out of you and then you get out and enjoy each other,get your flowers get your candy balloons cards dinner movie or a play or drinking listening to slow music dont settle for a person who say its just another man made holiday fuck that yes you can love each other all 365 days of the year but if you want romance on valentines day then get what you deseve cause nobody should have to settle never cause what you settle for is what you get real talk. if you want the wqhole 9 then damn it get it demand it and enjoy it and thats the bottom line cause you only get one life to live so live it the way you want indeed.

You Ever Think You Drove Them To Cheat On You.

You know sometimes people think its cut and dry why a person cheats,thinking they wanted something better,or they was greedy,so the other person be thinking shit i was a good guy,or a good woman,well sometimes you have to check yourself and say well damn maybe im overestimating myself maybe i wasnt doing all i could over maybe i drove them to cheat, so before you start saying what the fuck is the truth talking about, let me give you a couple of examples, i knew a woman who always was riding her man asking him to text her call her more mind you he was doing all that but she wanted the shit 24/7 mind you this man worked he was not doing this in bed enough she always rode him where you at,you better do this you better do that so he got tired of the shit and instead of breaking up with her he cheated on her not saying it was right but she drove him to the arms of another woman so sometimes you have to check yourself before you wreck yourself real talk. Another example i knew a man who loved his woman wanted to just be with her loved fucking and sucking on her, he wanted some anal, some excitement wanted his dick sucked more wanted some  spontaneous sex she wouldnt listen to him so he said fuck it i tried to tel her she wouldnt listen so he found somebody who wanted to fuck the shit out of him give him asshole dress up for him give him more than what he was getting and then he ended up liking it so he went from cheating on her to leaving her so yeah he may have been wrong to cheat but she drove him to do it and unfourtantely he never came back so all im saying is people need to look in the mirror and realize sometimes people cheat for a reason real talk.

Aint No Woman like The One I Got.

You know sometimes you have to let people know who dont know why, the truth walks around with a smile always feeling happy feeling good, smiling well let me tell you why, cause for some people they be like wow his lady dont have a big ass, or big titties, its like they expect you to be with a woman of there choosing fuck that shit you dont know me so how could you possibly know what makes me tick, so let me explain when you got a person who knows when to leave you a one to your self,but not too long but just enough to give you your man cave time,knows what you r thinking before you say it, can cook like a top chef in the kitchen, and make love in the bedroom like champion, can be your freak when you need that loves to travel, loves to do the things you like to do,and shes settled like im settled and she is my best friend who was sent to me personally from god,and i know she is my soulmate so a person can flirt all day everyday have a big ass big titties all thats superficial cause in the end my love is king and i have crowned her with my heart and she is my queen so its nothing that can come between us so that is why when you see my pictures im always smiling cause i know at the end of a hard day or a good day im coming home to my little queen with a big heart who not only makes me laugh makes me smile but she also has the best of my love indeed.

Aint No More Good Little Nigga In Sports.

You know what im watching and loving from a far in the sports world, is athletes like lebron james steph curry, martellis bennett, of the new england patriots and many others in the sports world who are speaking there minds about donald trump and his racist views, and i watch uncle toms like stephen a smith of espn and maike valenti of 97.1 who want athletes to stick to sports and not speak there minds on political issues fuck that im glad they are speaking there mind cause im sick of the uncle tom mentality with sports figures worried they might lose there endorsements now they speaking there mind not being a good little nigga like the white man want them to fuck that dumb shit lebron dont want to go to the white house thats his right hell its a lot of white stars who didnt go when obama won mainly tom brady punk ass he didnt go but they didnt blow that up cause he all american boy so now a lot of the white announcers and black unlce tom announcers on espn, fox sports 97.1 detroit all talking shit cause they not use to this new generation of sports stars standing up for there rights as and american citizen and not just staying quiet as the country is being run by a business man who dont know shit about politics so i salute this sports stars keep standing up for what you believe in time out for the coonery and buffoonery real talk indeed.oh yeah and fuck stephen a smith bitch nigga.

Aint you tired of the club.

You know everybody is not going to be settled down some people like to hangout and go to clubs,bars,parties,and nothing wrong with that, but who wants to be the old person at the club its cool when you in your 20s 30s and early 40s but once you start approaching 50 you need to have some kind of life goals unless you just want to be single for the rest of your life,or just have someone to have fun with,im not judging no one about there lifestyle,but i run across to many people who say they hate being alone its starting to get old so i say if you going to a club looking for a husband or wife then 9 times out of ten you only going to find somebody trying to fuck or have a no strings attached fun,love can be found in the most unlikely places car wash,a mall church,workplace you just have to wait for it,but dont be the old person in the club looking for love,you might find it but it will be like finding a needle in a haystack and thats real talk so all im saying is what you did in your early years you might want to let your maturity set in and find what you truly want instead of being the old person the club people talking about thats just my opinion real talk.

Friends And Associates Its A difference.

You know people like to use that word friend loosely, but i know the difference you have friends who you may not see for months or a year,but when you do see each other you pick right up where you left off like time has never left, then you have friends you see everyday,but associates are those who will only deal with you when you are relevant,but really only wanted to be around you when you where needed those are not true friends those are associates,if you can text that person or call that person then you will know if they are true friends or not by there responses if they cant respond or act like you dont exist then they are asscociates its that simple, i got and example my dog sean bean friends with him since 1996 21 years dogs for life we might text a couple times a week we hooked up went to the michigan game last month had a ball just like old times a true friend i been gone away from chrysler since 2009 homie never acted any different thats a true homie and i have plenty of friends like that koron been homies since 1995 22 years text talk like we never left when we see each other pick right up like no time has passed,but then you have those who will say they were with you as a alibi but yet you havent seen them in years those not friends or associates and then you have your boys from the tracey crew randy, tee, rashard dre,dada, leaonard those are your childhood homies they go in another category but those are friends for life so people need to quit calling people friends just because cause everybody not your friend, they associates and some are not even that real talk, and for those that i talk to now on the regular my boy dre,hornerpitts,spooney the boxing guru my boy greg the whole tracey family is doggs for life no matter what and my chrysler family that i keep in touch with doggs for life but the others just associates just telling the truth.

Never Take Relationship Advice From Someone Who Has Never Had A meaningful Relationship.

You know i always look at people who are giving advice on relationships And love and i say well damn if they got all the answers then shit they must be winning big time in that department,but you will be surprised that those who give the advice cant seem to practice what they preach,my thing is this nobody is perfect when it comes to relationships or being in a relationship,what might work for you might not work for them,and if you are in a good relationship give advice to those who seek it from you but not to those who are already experiencing what you desire,cause those people who give advice about love and relationships be the very ones either at home talking to there girlfriends about how lonely they are,or its a nigga who claims to have all the answers about relationships,but yet he hanging with his boys cause he cant find nobody who wants more than dick and money from him so he is just as lonely as well but he got all the answers, but yet has never been in a meaningful relationship,so all im saying is before you hand out advice to others save a little advice for your self cause you need it just as much the ones you dishing it out to real talk indeed.

Looking For Love On Facebook Island.

You know Socoal media is a great place to reconnect with people from your past, or keep up with family or friends,and some people have found love,but if you are going in groups looking for love and looking for a wife or husband,then you might as well find mr rourke and tatoo and tell them you ready to go home from facebook island,cause yeah you can get all the sex and likes and popularity you want or need,or be whoever you want to be on facebook island,but finding love true love is rare and far and between especially if that is your sole purpose,so many people are so naive that they dont realize the majority of the people on facebook island will tell you what you want to hear to get some sex from you and once they get it,they either going to want more sex,or go on about there business,now you might get some who truly want what you want and you might find your wife or husband on facebook,but you cant go on facebook thinking you going to find mr or mrs right,and be disappointed if you dont because it may not happen,so look at facebook as entertainment that way if you dont get what you are looking for you want be looking like the lonely desperate thirsty man or woman. And thats real talk cause pussy and dick come a dime a dozen,but true love is a diamond in the rough on facebook island so just enjoy the island and be whoever you want to be hell everybody is LOL.

Trump Factor.

You know its funny that on Jan 20 Donald trump was sworn in as president, and today only 8 days later he is already trying to undo everything obama put in order and he is trying to build a wall and keep muslims out of the united states, so now people are in and uproar about him well my thing is you knew this was going to happen he been saying through his whole campaign,the people that are worried the most is muslims people who are foreigners us as black people got shitted on by bush so we not realy worried about him we just prefer his ass go away,but everyday you will see something he does and it will piss you off but it wont be a suprise to me because i didnt vote for him so i exepect nothing but the worst from a guy who is not qualified to run the free world so all i can say is lets hope he is a one term president and for those who voted for him i hope you get everything you didnt expect and nothing that you wanted cause you have to be and asshole to vote for him real talk indeed.

2017 is going To Be Big.

You know a lot of people make resolutions and say they want there life to be better each year,but i say dont talk about it be about it.cause i have said it over and over again life is too short people put off things they say they want to do one day and never do it, people who know me know i do what i say and i plan on this year doing even more than ever i plan on traveling the united states going to sporting events and getting money spending time with family and enjoying life like its no tomorrow and i know you cant do everything but i damn sure gonna try this year indeed and people need to get out and do something dont let your life waste away whatever you feel that you want to do in life and dont let nobody stop you from doing you cause you only got one life to live indeed.