When It Comes To Fucking It takes More than Looks To Make A person Reach There Peak.

You know when people get behind close doors and decide that they want to become intimate,the first thing you hear a lot of people say is oh im the shit in the bedroom and im this and im that,and people think cause they got great looks  they dont have to do as much in the bedroom well my thing is when you get in the bedroom you are supposed to give 110% nobody should be short changing anyone cause the minute you do someone is waiting to fuck the shit out of you the way you wanted just cause you got a pretty face dont mean shit if you cant fuck,or if you not willing to get nasty and put something on your lovers mind,if you a man you should be willing to eat and lick and suck your ladies pussy for as long as it takes to make her cum,and if she wants to cum in your face then let her,dont be afraid to go the extra mile to please her, if she wants her asshole licked then man up and do it suck her toes kiss her lick her titties suck on her nipples do whatever she wants and then fuck her the way she wants tell her your loving is like burger king she can have it her way cause if you not willing to go the extra mile then you going to risk losing her please believe it,and now for the women you think cause you sexy and have a pretty face that a man should just be glad to be in bed with your monkey ass please aint nobody pretty when they fucking its called fuck faces for a reason a man wants a woman to suck his dick real good lick and suck his balls let him fuck you in the ass if you into it,and if not you better be willing swallow his cum or fuck him the way he wants cause if you dont you can best believe its a freak in waiting ready to fuck the shit out of him so get on with that thinking you pretty so he should be glad he fucking you cause and ugly woman can fuck to,and a pretty woman with more experience can fuck you to so all im saying is have the mentality that i have when you go in the bedroom put it down by all means necessary real talk put something on there mind when they leave you not have them leave in doubt wondering is that it is this how its going to be its this all they got fuck that make them want more not make them want to stay away looking for someone to do what they couldnt and thats real.

You Had The Winning Lottery Ticket But Wasnt Smart Enough To Cash It In.

You know in the game of love you have your ups and downs,and you have some people who get many chances at love,but then you some who never get a chance and then you have some who finally get the one they been looking for only to find away to fuck it up,its like a person who has been playing the lottery there whole life and finally get the winning ticket only to realize they to stupid to cash in the ticket, and just like winning the lottery your chances of winning our one in a million so what im saying is when you find that special someone that you have bben wanting in your life,you should do everything you can to keep them there,whether ts catering to there needs being there for them fuck them the way they want,give them less stress as possible in there life be that sunshine on a cloudy day for them,not be the storm and the clouds.in there life but you know what some people never get it they get so caught up in waht people say about them thinking they are the shit that they think there looks is all that they need to make a person happy and that is not the case cause if you not fucking and sucking a person good or feeding them good meals or just being sweet and not and asshole to them so all im saying is people need to check there attitudes at the door when you meet someone cause just as easy as they found you somebody else will come along and replace you with no problem please believe it if you dont then shame on you  real talk.

Keeping A persons Attention Is A must.

You know sometimes hell a lot of times people take people that they are with for granted,they feel that they have the person so they dont have to do the little things to keep there attention anymore, like if you are a woman if you have a man who you claim to love then you should still dress up in sexy lingerie if you did it in the past im not saying everyday but at least remind the person that you can still be sexy dont let them have to hear about sexy things from others when you as there mate should be giving them something to think about,and if you are a man and you used to lick her pussy or suck on her pussy all the time instead of just skipping the foreplay cause you have her now then you need to check yourself before your wreck yourself and thats real,and never let a person feel like they missing something keep there attention keep some excitement dont become a dull ass bitch or a dull ass nigga cause if you do then your mates attention will eventually wonder and if they dont wonder then they might fuck around and replace you and thats even worse so all im saying is keep the spark now and then cause if its to far and between then shit will get boring and nobody wants that nore should anyone have to get bored and thats real talk indeed.

Never Take True Friendship For Granted.

You know Yesterday i got a chance to hang with 2 of my best friends growing up i mean i been knowing these guys for over 30 plus years and it was a great day i mean we went and got something to eat watched the tigers play baseball,and we got a chance to catch up and look back on childhood memories and i told both of them yesterday we cant take these moments for granted cause we not here forever,and when you have true friends in your life who have never changed and been the same since day one that is priceless and you never take true friendship for granted cause true friends are hard to find,but hell i have to admit these guys that i hung with yesterday are not my friends those two are my brothers and i have a lot of friends but i have very few guys i consider my brothers and i dont take that for granted one bit so all im saying is yesterday was a good day and i wouldnt trade it for nothing in the world and thats being real indeed.

Gone But Never Ever Forgotten.

Well tomorrow is my grandmother Dora B Sandifords Birthday, She was the matriach of the family the rock the glue,and 2years ago she died of a heart attack,and i must say it is still hard but each day you get better its all about how you deal with it,but it was like yesterday i still remember going to her house and seeing on the floor dead,and it fucked me up i still think about it but im better her death left a void in my life cause next to my mom she was not a grandmother but a second mother to me and my brothers,and her death cause me to gain plenty of weight and with the weight came type 2 diabetes,and enlarged prostate and just not feeling well,but you know i snapped out of it and it took almost 2yrs to do it but im on the road to recovery and i know she would be proud of me getting my health right,and i know she proud of the man i become a husband a father a family man,who got all his traveling ambition form her,and its not a day that goes by that i dont miss her so tomorrow july 18 i salute a woman who was the best grandmother i could imagine who li loved to death and we didnt call her grandmother we called her dora and dora i miss you and i love you.

Hating is Easy,But it takes A real One to Salute.

You know its the summer time and i tell you its nothing that gives me joy than to be able to travel with my wife,my child and my family its like the joy of my life,but you know what else makes me happy is watching other people on my social media timeline doing big things i love to see my people traveling,or going to weddings,or going to the beach,or going to concerts,or visting family and friends,or getting new cars or gadgets or houses or even finding new loves,or mates or husbands or wives that is what life is all about, but yet you so many who love to sit back and hate and not appreciate the good things going on with others,and i know a lot of times people say oh its because there lives is not going good so they hate on others ,well thats bullshit cause you have people who have great lives and they still hate on the next because they want to be the only one doing big things,and to me that is a cop out because anybody can hate,but it takes a real one to salute the next man or woman,and thats just me i love to see people good cause if thats what life is not about then i dont know what it is,you see i dont have a enemy on this earth,i may have haters but i dont cliam them either because im not one of those people who get off having haters cause i could care less cause as long as my family and friends and me myself is doing good and keeping to myself thats all i care about,and to my friends i salute you keep living this life cause at the end of the day you only have one life to live indeed.

You Cant Dwell On THe Past If you expect to have a future.

You know this one is for encouragement for a dear friend and for anybody who is stuck in the past from a relationship, i dont care how great a past relationship may have been if it did not lead to where you may have wanted then you need to leave the past in the past i dont care how good the sex was or how good they may have did certain things that made you feel good,its a reason that your relationship may have ended and if you continue searching for reasons as to why it ended then you will never be able to move on,now if you just looking to rekindle some great sex then thats one thing thats just sex but if you looking to have a relationship with a love lost then you might be holding yourself back from a bright future cause i dont care how good things may have been in the past with that person it ended for a reason and sometimes there is no rhyme no reason you just have to close the book on that relationship and move on it may hurt but it will only damge you for the next one if you sit back searching for answers to that may never come and thats real talk indeed. you just have to look back on the past sometimes and just cherish the memories and move on and close that book and just remember sometimes all books are not meant to read to the end.

If you had a life you would nt be worried about others.

You know what i hate is when you see or know a hater i mean a point blank hayer who has nothing but negative stuff to say about any or everybody,i mean a person who life consist of random dicks licks,and drinks and and occasionally hanging out with bitter people just like them but yet they always find something to say when in reality they the joke they just dont know it cause they surround themselves with people who wont tell them the truth about themselves that they live a fucked up life and i dont want to hear about you making good money cause that dont give you the right to hate on other when you look like a man and have no man and you hanging around women who are uglier than you because you choose not to hang around women that look better than you cause you have a complex problem so what you do is get with your ugly friend sand you sit back and talk about people being ugly or people not not doing this or doing that or not giving people crdeit when you see them shining cause you cant cause you a hater so all im saying people never be like these people im talking about cause all they have is a job to make them feel like they better than others when they really just a former crackhead who looks like a man with a boot mouth who talks about other pweoples lives when there live is a life i wouldnt want for no one im cool with and thats real talk.

Anybody can get someone to fuck them,but can you get them to say I Do.

im so sick of hearing about people saying oh niggas be wanting this pussy or i these hoes be all on my dick,but my thing is its very easy to get some sex,but can you get someone to say i do to your ass,get someone to say they want to spend the rest of there life with your ass that to me is the big question and i know everybody not marriage material or they might not want to get married but for those who always claiming can have a husband or wife if they want then show me dont talk about it be about it,you know why i say that cause its not as easy as it seems,now dont get me wrong its some really nice people on my page who really do want a wife or husband one day and are not claiming there pussy is this and that they letting you know they have more to offer than just sex they offering being a good cook,a provider,having ambition to want to go places do things so that when or if they ever get married they wont get bored caus etrust me you can get bored if you not on the same page,but i just had to vent about all these pussy advertisers who are always promoting there sex game game like thats going to get you a husband or a wife all thats going to get you is a good fucking and a maybe i will call you in the morning if it was good you got have more to offer to get the offer that many seek in life people need to quit base everything on sex to get a husband or wife cause it takes so much more indeed.

She got the best of my love.

You know i am about to write about something that i dont normally write about i have wrote about it before subliminally but never point blank like i am now and its only because i feel the need to write this after reading about my boy T.I the rapper he put up a post on facebook where he addressed his so call fans who claim to love him but have the audacity to always have something negative to say about his wife tiny,about how she ugly or he can do better so he checked they asses and he let them know why she is his queen and i cant do nothing but give him mad respect for what he said.So with that being said i feel the need to do this once and one time only, because i know that i have over 1500 people on my page on facebook and i have over a million followers on my blog and most of them are women and for years i have gotten questions like why your wife short or why she dont have a big ass or i thought you would be with this girl or that girl well im here to tell you im with the one for me im with my best friend and i dont say that lightly im truly married to my best friend and we were friends before we were lovers and i have told this woman thing i have never told anyone and she has done the same,and we travel together we worked together for years and she is my queen and she has the best of my love if i got 5000 she got half if i got $2 she got a dollar there is no selfishness with us,she pleases in every way and it dont matter how big a ass or tits if you dont have my heart then what good is it and that is what makes the loving good always and last but not least she has raised my daughter from a toddler to a preteen and my daughter loves her like she is her flesh and blood and it takes a real woman to come in and make kid like her own and she does that and you know why cause she loves me for me,and she loves my daughter as one we a package deal that turned into a family 7yrs ago so all i have to say when people try and disrespect or throw shade my way at my wife be prepared to get fucked up or exited out of my blog and my social media and my life,cause you fucking with the wrong one and as her king i will always protect my queen cause she got the best of my love always and forever real talk indeed.

Blessings.

You know people take life for granted,they take money that they get for granted,they take there living situations for granted especially when they are living well,got a good job,got good health,all the above but you know what i never take anything i do for granted,or anything that happens to me for granted i count my blessings whether im having a good day or a bad day,and i will be the first to tell you i dont go to church like maybe society think i should but guess what i live a damn good christ like lifestyle i believe in my creator and i dont take anything for granted and you cant question what happens to you in life cause its all apart of gods plan, but what i dont like is when people feel like they have to be ashame of there blessings because it might be happening for them but not there friends or associates,but you know what you cant be ashame or hate on a person who is recieving there blessings cause yours will eventually come its all about living the right way and being patient and having the belief,and when your blessings come just accept them and move on and be thankful and humble and thats all you can do when you live a blessed life so i will tell anybody i know that i am blessed real talk indeed. and i dont take that for granted at all.

Never Use Sex As A Weapon When You In A Relationship (XXX)

You know when you are in a relationship sex should never be used as a weapon to punish your lover,or significant other, sex should only be used to make each other feel good,cause what people fail to realize that if you think that you not giving a person sex cause of a disagreement or as leverage to get what you want then its obvious you dont know know what day and time it is, we live in a new day where it is very easy for a person who is not getting satisfied at home to get sex elsewhere and you dont want to fuck up and send them looking elsewhere and they come back finding something better,or maybe not comeback at all, i got a perfect example i had a boy name tone and tone and his lady misha was having a couple of issues and misha was not giving tone the sex he wanted  because misha decided to move her sister in the house with them so they didnt have the privacy they once had, but tone didnt care he just wanted to still get sexual with his girl behind close doors,and she started acting funny so tone was like i want to be able to come home and eat my girls pussy and please each other so she told him he was being selfish and she didnt like his attitude so she said she wasnt giving him any,until she felt he deserved it,so tone was like you know fuck this shit so one day after work he went out with a coworker name regina and he and regina went to have a couple of drinks and then after having drinks they got a room and in the room they was sipping on some 1800 and before you know they was kissing and then tone told her he wanted her and she took her clothes off and told him he better be ready for what she was about to give him so she laid on the bed spread her legs and told tone to eat her pussy and he ate her pussy from front to back and then he turned her over and ate her pussy and asshole from the back until she came on his face and licked up all her cum,then she pulled his pants down and sucked his dick until he exploded in her mouth and she was a trooper she kept on sucking until every drop was down her throat then she got his dick hard again and he got on top of her and fucked her and she talked dirty to him tone liked that cause his girl was boring at home she didnt talk much so tone loved then she had tone fucking her until she came and then she had him flip her over and told him she wanted him to fuck her in the ass so tone said hell yeah and he fucked in the ass until he came in her asshole and then she got on her knees and shot the cum out of her ass tone was like fucked up cause he hadnt got this kind of sex at home he said he used to beg misha to wear sexy panties and lipstick to bed she wouldnt do it but regina did and you know what tone and regina fucked for a couple of more hours and then tone went home and 2 weeks later he told misha he couldnt take it no more and he moved out and told her she could keep her pussy so the moral to the story is misha was then ready to give tone some but it was to late cause he had found something better and he told her you can keep your loaded gun cause i found some one who is willing to please indeed.

If Making Them Happy Cost You Your Happiness Then You Cant Afford Them.

You know sometimes people try so hard to make the next person happy that they sometimes end up losing there self and personality and identity trying to make them happy, and to me that is not healthy or right because relationships are a two way street and its about give or take and learning one another if you dont take the time to learn a person then how will you ever grow as one.a lot of times people meet people and they think they are going to be together forever,and they think they are doing the other person a favor giving in to all there needs even when they are not pleasing there own,but in the long run that is not good because you will eventually resent the other person because you have giving up who you are trying to fulfill the other person every need and the other persons self esteem issues or jealousy issues or even being with them so long that you dont even realize that you are doing everything one sided and then 20 something years later that person walks out on you and you sitting there looking crazy not realizing that maybe if you would have put your foot down in the beginning things might not have ended the way they did, so all im saying is never change completely the person you were entering a relationship its ok to give some but never give up your whole self to make a person happy and cost you your happiness cause if you do that then its obvious you cant afford that person cause they are to expensive for your health and your self indeed.

Some People Wouldnt Know A blessing If it hit them in the face.

The old saying goes count your blessings,cause you never know when or if you will get them,but i really think that some people are destined to be miserable because they wouldnt know a blessing if it hit them samck dab in the face, i mean people search there whole life trying to be happy whether its financial or just finding someone to spend there life with,and people get caught up on a certain type that when they get something different they dont rrealize that god may have chosen to lead you ina different direction because the direction you been following only lead to nothing but heartbreak and headaches, so sometimes pay attention to your maker cause he wont steer you wrong he will sometimes give you blessings in a different package and that package might be the one you have been looking for all your life so all im saying is never mess up you r blessings there is thing called patience and maturity and that will lead you to prosperity whether its giving you money you never expected or giving you a wife or husband that you always wanted so all im saying watch for your blessings cause you never want to mess them up cause they dont come often and thats real.

Money Can Make Relationship Or Break it If its not Stable.

You know the old saying is that money is the root of all evil, but what people dont know is if you and your mate is not on a solid foundation then the relationship can easily be broken when money becomes funny,that is why you never get with someone just because of money cause money comes and goes but a loyal person is hard to find,someone who will be with you thru the good times and the bad,and someone who is going to be the same person whether they have a pocket full of money or not,and never stress about money cause if all your relationship is about is based on money then you never had a solid relationship in the first place so all im saying is be careful who claim to be your man or woman cause you might not have someone who will be down when the money run low,be with somebody who is down no matter what and once you have someone like that on your team you will be able to weather any kind of storm that comes your way real talk indeed.

Balanced Relationships are the best relationships.

When entering into a relationship the best relationships is when two people can give each other time to miss each other to make the other person miss them give them enough time and loving that the other person will want to be with them on there own not as and obligation,cause when you feel obligated in a relationship that will lead to boredom and resentment and then end game scenario will be a parting of ways, you have to give the person you with so much of a good time and fun that when they are away from you they will miss you and want to be with you ,but it goes both ways you have to also be willing when entering a relationship to give some time as well cause if you dont then the other person will feel neglected and then there attention will wonder so its all about give and take,not just all about you its all about you and your boo,and the sooner you both figure out and learn each other thats how you both will progress towards a happy relationship and the sooner you learn your mate then the better it will be for both cause if you dont give perosn air to breta then they will eventually start breathing elsewhere and thats real talk. its nothing wrong with wnating to be with each other you just have to kmake it where both of you missing each other and both of you are on the same page,now if that person never gets on your page then maybe you need to get a new book indeed.

be with someone who is willing to make lemons out of lemonade.

you know i have to write about this topic because its to many people that i know or have come in contact with who is thinking they have someone who is in there corner only to find that when the good times turn to bad times they are ready to leave a persons true character will show when the bad times come,if they are willing to make lemons out of lemonade then you got a keeper but im seeing that its to many people leaving people and not sticking around with the going gets tough,thats why you have so many relationships that are failing cause you dont have loyal people anymore as soon as the finance dry up,people looking for a way out,as soon as they get bored they looking for away out its like people dont try to work things out anymore people just ready to give up,and then asa soon as they give up on a person they think dont have it going on anymore then as soon as that person back on top people want to change there mind,i say fuck that be with that individual who was with you when times were rough and tough cause those are the true loyal people that are hard to find so if you got one hold on to them indeed. and let the material ones keep it moving.

There is a Such Thing As Me Time In A relationship.

You know people feel when you get in a relationship that once you get with a person that all there time is your time but thats not the case you have to give your husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend some me time cause if you dont then you will risk the chance of boredem setting in,or at least give the person a chance to miss you, every couple needs some me time i as a man i have my me time i like to watch my football on football sunday and its not a problem but some people would have a problem with that,and then sometimes a person especially when you are just dating them needs sometime to miss you,i mena if you are soulmates and you like being up under each other 24/7 then thats cool too,but eventually that will get old so all im saying is let a person breath so that the fresh air that they seek will be you and not trying to get away from you real talk indeed.

SAme Shit Just A Stronger Smell.

You know racism has been here for ever since i was born and before,crime has been here since i was born and before, but the shit that is going on today is a lot more bolder,stronger and down right outcold, i mean you got black churches burning daily, you got a white racist who goes into a church killing black preachers and elders and worshippers you got home invasions on the rise at and alarming rate you got more broad daylight killings and robberies you got racism all on the internet against mexicans blacks whoever that is not white,and yet the media tries to move you to be worried about gay marriage my thing is this i dont give a fuck who you marry just keep the gay shit out of my face i dont have a problem with gays i have a problem when you try to make me believe i have to like it and accept it i dont have to do shit i deal with it and thats it i have bigger issues to deal with like black on black crime, police brutality, racist remarks, carjackings, and black churches being burned down in the south, so what im saying is my people black or white who are not racist dont take your eyes off the real topics cause black lives matter and we as black people have to do better,and we have to realize its some shit going on that is the same shit from the past its just has a much stronger odor right now and with social media you hear and see everything and what i am seeing and hearing im not liking one bit and neither should you so all we can do is pray for better days but for some reason i dont believe things will get better they just keep getting worse real talk.

All That Glitters Is Not Gold.

You know people have images that they feel they have to live up to sometimes even when those images they are portraying are not real.and so when people are viewed as having it all people tend to not want to help those people when they strep out of there shell to ask for help, because they figure they got it going on, but my thing is this if a person comes to you and asked you for help its obvious that image you thought they was living is not gold,so dont judge them by what you thought they had just listen to the person and if you can help them help them not judge them, cause you never know when your day may come that you may need someone to help you i say this all the time be humble whether you got all the shit you want and need or if you dont have a dime be humble cause you never want to be known as a person who is not a person who is worth helping because of what you think you know cause on the outside a person can seem like they got it all but in reality they might not have what you nearly think so it may look like gold to you but remember all that glitters is not gold real talk so if you are willing and able to help a person in need who comes to you and ask you for there help then help them cause you dont lose from giving real talk indeed.