How You Gonna Open Up The Door For Somebody Else To Come In.

You know i never understand people who say they are ready to settle down and find that right person for them to share there life with, but once they get the person they have seeked attention, they dont know how to seal the deal and when i say seal the deal i dont mean get in there pants i mean getting to know them physically as far as going on a date,going to a movie,having drinks, just being around each other,especially when you know the person you have been pursuing has had trust issues and was coming out of a bad relationship, so what you as a woman or a man should be doing is just be yourself and romance the person you claim you have wanted if not then step aside and be prepared to let someone else come along and get the person you wanted attention,cause for the life of me a lot of people dont realize once you get a man or woman out there shell its the same as opening the door for them to want to date again and you being the person who has opened the door will look like a damn fool opening the door for someone else to walk in when you should be the one opening up there door and closing it with you being in the inside instead of possibly opening the door and letting someone else close the door and you on the outside looking in.

Humbleness Is A check That Can Be Cashed Anywhere.

You know a lot of times people who may have not grown up with anything are very humble people,but you have a lot of people who once they have achieved success in life they forget where they came from, and they start to look down on the very people and neighborhood they came from, so the only love they get is from the area they are living now,but im here to tell you its nothing like being able to recieve love from the hood to the burbs, cause one thing about me is i can have thousands of dollars and still be able to kick it with a person who has not a dime of money in there pocket because i will treat them as if they had a million dollars in there pocket cause i know where i came from and i will never change and if more people were humble then they would know that being is a check you can cash anywhere and nobody will look at you any different whether you in the gutter or in a mansion thats real talk indeed.

Sugarwalls The Remix.(Adult edition Black Love)

You know the reason im calling this the remix is because for my followers from about 3 years ago i wrote about the benefits of pleasing your wife or womans sugarwalls, well for some reason a lot of men seem to be selfish lovers and what i think they are missing out on is the fact that if you eat your ladies pussy real good taking your time then you the one that benefits from this i truly feel that the better attention you give the pussy the better the sex or lovemaking, a man should lay a woman down kissing her neck,her titties,her lips and just warming her up getting her aroused with some soft music and just pleasuring her body before moving down to her belly button kissing her all over then once you get to her pussy if you have aroused her then her pussy should be nice and her then you should start tounge kssing her pussy like the lips on her face then finding her g spot taste her clit and put your tongue in her hole and lick her from asscrack to pussyhole and just be prepared to be in no rush and just lick and suck and lick and suck until she is so aroused that she is ready to cum,and when she is ready to cum dont be no punk be ready to lick and swallow her juices whether her juices is creamy thick or just wet just be a man be her freak and suck then juices up until she tell you to stop,and when she tells you to stop be prepared for some hardcore deepstroking sex and trust and believe is going to be good if you ate her pussy good cause most women love to have there pussy ate real good and i always have said a happy pussy that has been marinated with the tongue will give the dick ultimate fun.

When A Man Gets Bored There Aint Nothing You Can Do About It.

You know years ago R.Kelly Made A Song called when a womans fed up there aint nothing you can do about it,well it goes both ways and i be damn if im not seeing it so much these days is when a woman has a man and thinks that she dont have to do the little things or sexy things she used to do to him anymore cause she got him, well just because you got him dont mean you have to neglect him because if you keep neglecting him the first thing he is going to do is come to you with his complaints and if you not sucking his dick like he likes or sucking it enough,or giving him some pussy on the regular,or maybe some asshole then you might have created a problem because if your man starts telling another woman about his lack of sex at home then thats the first step to him either cheating on you or leaving you,and you no whats even worse is if you neglect him for so long that once you realize you been slacking it might be too late if you all of sudden decide you want to get freaky or sexy and he dont evn notice or even care to engage cause he is bored then you good as fucked cause once a man is bored with your ass and someone else gets his attention there aint nothing you can do about it,so all im saying is ladies if you have a good man and he is coming to you for anything sexual then damn it give in to him you plan on keeping him and hell suck his dick sometimes when he not expecting it be freaky do some shit to blow his mind dont just be basic cause a nigga hates a basic chick indeed and trust and believe you can be a freak in the bedroom and a lady in the streets a man love sit real talk.

Dont Sweat The Petty Stuff (Big Game James Tribute)

You know i have not written in my blog for a week last sunday morning i got the shock of all shockers to me i lost a friend who was only 44 years old a family man who had a wife and two little girls, he died of a sudden heart attack and it still dont seem real cause i just talk to him last saturday on facebook, but you know his death just goes to show me that this life we live is a honor and a blessing and we should never take it for granted,and we should live it to the fullest,and also whatever beefs you may have with people or individuals like my boy used to say dont sweat the petty stuff let that shit go iron out your differences,dont go thru life with a grudge if its not that serious dont be walking around mad at a person over some he say she say stuff man i dont give a fuck about what he or she says just live your life and enjoy each other enjoy your friends,your wife or husband or boyfriend or girlfriend and to me thats all that is important in life so as a tribute to my dog rest in peace big game james woods you were a good dude gone to soon and may your wife and kids heal over time and for anybody reading this blog pick up the phone and call someone who you may have not talked to in awhile because of some dumb shit and just make peace with those you miss and oh yeah dont sweat the petty stuff indeed.

Do People Still Date Anymore.

You know i have wrote about this topic plenty of times so for my followers you know how i feel about this topic, why is it that people especially my dogs out here choose not to put the effort in to dating like we did in the past,well you know why i cant put all the blame on the fellas you got to blame a lot of these females, when you meet people online on social media guys meet a woman they chit chat back and forth online then next thing you know either the woman or the man is exchanging naked photos then next thing the two people meet up and they fucking at a hotel or one each others place,and then after all that then the woman wants respect and wants to be wined and dined but you made it so easy to give the guy the pussy that he is like shit why should i wine and dine you i already got the kitty kat, well i must say im old school i like going on that first date going to dinner talking holding hands going to a movie,then maybe having a drink or more talking afterwards let the vibe bulid up with each other ,then afterwards eventually leading up to some hot sex or lovemaking down the road but at least go on a few dates and get to know each other and see if it can become more than just fucking people so quick to want to get naked without getting to know the person maybe im old fashion but i like bringing my lady flowers and balloons and all that romantic stuff but thats just me,but what i hate even more is guys get the pussy so easy that it makes it hard for the women who are looking for a woman who wants a real relationship a woman who wants to wined and dined and thats real talk indeed so all i have to say is people who still believe in dating dont give up cause its still some people out here who not just into fucking and sucking. but more than that they want movies dinners trips then sex.

Give me my praise and roses while im here so i can smell the roses.

You know over the weekend i went to my cousins 60th surprise birthday party and i must admit she was really surprised and i watched as she recieved love and admiration from people who were there and i was thinking why is it that people have to show people how much they are loved and appreciated when they are dead and gone give people there roses while they are here so they can smell them whats wrong with showing a loved one or friend how much they mean to you while they are alive and well dont wait until they are sick and dead and gone to tell them show them the love they deserve while they are here and thats real talk.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words.

You know its funny how when people tell you that they are interested in you, they dont realize that actions speak louder than words, you can tell a person all day that you are interested in them but if you dont take the time out to call them or text them or ask them out for a date just be creative in your approach then the person you are pursuing will think that you are just like the rest and that your not really serious about being in a relationship or even interested in going on a meaningful date and you cant blame the person if they decide that you are not serious and they decide to move on cause when you are young and in 20s or early 30s you might have time to play games but when you get in your 40s its time out for games and bullshit either you are interested or you not and if you not then keep it moving and go find someone who likes to play games and let that person who wants a future with someone move on and not waste there time cause time is precious and people need to understand that game are for clowns not people.

Life Is What You Make It.

You know this gonna be short and sweet never let anyone keep you from enjoying your life the way you want, you only get one life to live and i truly believe that you should live your life the best way you see fit,and all i ever say is never let life pass you by cause life is too short to settle its short to not be doing anything,and never let anyones hate effect how you live your life,just because a person is not living the life they wanted is no reason you shouldnt,do what makes you happy and if you do that then you are getting the most out of what life has to offer cause like i have said before you only got one life to live so live it to the fullest indeed.

Sometimes The Love You Was Looking For Was Right In Your Face.

You know sometimes people be searching there life looking for love in all the wrong places, looking in the clubs,the bars,at a picnic all over the place,but sometimes the love or person you been looking for is right in your face but you might not noticed it because you to busy looking elsewhere, and sometimes the reason people dont see it cause the person might be a friend who you might work with,or a person who is a family friend who you might think is funny but you had no idea that this person is more than just funny,and this person might actually treat you and cherish you the way others have not,and then also finding out that this woman you worked with is actually someone who turns out to be your best friend and lover,your soulmate,see people go by looks and and superficial things instead of getting to know the person who is really just the right person for you a person who you will never get tired of,never get bored with a person who is willing to make you happy because there joy in life is making you happy that is what you call real love,so people need to quit disregarding signs that are thrown there way and pay attention to those who may be right there in your face cause i know i did and i must admit i never saw it coming but im damn sure glad i did get the message cause my life changed for the better forever,and so will yours especially this one couple who im pulling for that it works out for the better i would love to go to there wedding one day lol.

Its Only So Much Talking You Can Do.

you know when you are in your teens and you like someone some people may be shy,when they like someone so they will play games talk all day and stuff like that but when you get older its only so much talking you should be doing quit beating around the bush if you like someone then tell them and if you dont want people to know how you feel about that person then keep your feelings private but at least let the other person know and if they with it then act on it and stop all the talking and get to some action whether its a date,or a dinner or shit actually getting intimate but damn how much communicating are you going to do actions speak louder than words eventually so all im saying is if you truly feeling someone then get to know the person other than just the phone meet that person see if you two really click and if you do now you doing grown up shit real talk indeed to talk about it be about it.

Sometimes You Have To Cut Your Losses.

You know sometimes you have to come to the realization that everybody is not meant to be in your life forever,and when you realize that the better off you will be especially when you get older cause when you in your teens and your 20s and 30s you might have plenty of friends and associates but when you get in your 40s and you have a wife or husband and kids a family of your own, you will come to realize that you dont need everybody especially muthafuckas who make it seem like you bothering they punk ass when in reality they lucky they even being kept in the loop bitches,so me personally i know who my true friends is my wife is my best friend,then my childhood buddies and i have a few co workers from chrysler who are my dogs for life but those associates that i hardly even text then you will know that its nothing personal its just business and the business is you getting the fuck on and realizing that you had the ultimate friend in me but you didnt know how to act right so now you feel the wrath of not hearing from me and thats how other people need to be realize that everybody comes and goes and you make everybody happy so just close your circle and allow those who you know is your true dogs in i got a homeboy name sean me and him been boys since 94 going to wrestling matches concerts football games and we may not talk a lot but we text at least three or four times a week and he live on the other side of town but you know what he made it to a lot of my events cause thats what homeboys do and for that he a dog foe life so thats just and example of what a true friend is actions speak louder than words and for those who dont get it then you never will but i will be showing you indeed,and i got 5 brothers 2 by blood 3 by friendship and they know who they are cause we going to vegas in september real talk indeed so it dont matter if you known somebody for 30 years if they not wanting to be around you or interact unless its just to ride your dick cause they know you popular then you dont need those type of niggas cause those are bitch niggas so choose your friend sand associates wisely indeed.

You Not And Orignal Screenplay You Just A sequel Of the First Movie.

You know some people might get mad at what im about to write but you know me i dont give a fuck cause its the truth, i hate when people who were cheating with each other and one of the people who were in a relationship decides to leave to be with that person to have a relationship,and once there in the relationship they be surprised when they get cheated on, im like didnt you cheat with that person before you to became a couple, so what makes you think you gonna be treated diffrently you not the original you just a sequel and encore of what they been doing in the past the present and the future so dont hink that your sex or you as a person is going to make that person who cheated with a woman the night before his marriage and weeks after his marriage with over 30 women is going to ever be loyal to you please believe he is going to be that way forever,you just a person of convience for him and the moment you realize that then maybe you will get up and leave this horror movie and go find you a good movie to star in and thats real talk cause you should want to be a leading lady not a supporting cast with you mate real talk indeed.

Support Your Black Tv Shows.

You know whats funny to me well its funny but also sad, is that its 2015 and we as a black community only have a handful of black shoes on the air, but yet i find it funny that people complain about people liking empire cause they got a faggot on the show so what its more to the show than just the gay guy its a good show then you have ignorant people who say i watch power not empire how about watching both cause let me break it down to you out of regular tv and cable we only have blackish on abc power on starz, empire on fox, the game which is about to get canceled on bet, being mary jane on bet,have and have nots on own,love thy neighbor on own,for better or worse on own scandal even though its majority white, how to get away with murder.and thats it. 9 damn tv shows on all those networks,and you know why cause networks think this new generation is ignorant and dumb,and all they think we watch or want to watch is bullshit reality tv vh1 puts bullshit on for black people cause they dont think we our intelligent enough for good tv shows with scripts and plots, and another thing you dont see white people saying im only watching this white show instead of this white show cause they got so many to choose from im not saying you have to watch the few black shows we have but at least dont dog those that do watch them thats all i got to say about it.

Pay Attention to your Mate or some one Else Will.

You know i hate when i sit back and watch people i know who have a man or a woman, and i see from the outside looking in that there relationship is not how it should be,but yet they complain about oh she want this or she wants that,or he want to much from and im like man do you realize that you fucking up,and once a person get tired of your shit thats it,and the worst thing you can do is make the other person not care whether you coming or going,to me thats the worst cause once a person dont care its a wrap,nobody should have to complain in a relationship over and over about the same thing if they do then to me its obvious the other person dont give a fuck and if they dont give a fuck then someone else out there is truly willing to care please believe it people think cause they got a person they dont have to make and effort to keep them but thats bullshit its easy to get in a relationship but the work is keeping it happy,and if you are truly with your soulmate its not even considered work its considered fun cause you love that person so much you are willing to do whatever to make them happy, i know people and i dont give a fuck cause aint nobody going to kick my ass or confront me with what i say cause its the truth,but i no niggas who have a good woman and they been with them forever and wont take them no fucking where i mean been with for over ten plus years and only they ever took them was on a family trip or to see his side of the family no romance whats so ever and yet he think he go t something she just hasnt reached her boiling point but when she do he will be the first one begging and acting a fool but my thing is nigga you knew what you had but you chosed to be a hoe so let her go.And then you have those who have children and there children have never spent a trip not even to cedar point with there dad cause he choose to be barney fife and dont give a fuck about his family to take the time and make memories with his wife and kids but yet the minute she tell him she wont out he will be crying like a monkey and then you got womn who marry these old black muthafuckas and they know they old but yet the old muthatfucka got to pop viagra just to fuck his wife in the ass and yet his dick still dont work and he know she like it up the ass and there kid is grown now so if she decided to leave his ass cause he got a limp dick dont want to travel aor get freaky then he aint got nothing to say but he should have tried harder.so if im on the outside looking in and i can see all this then its obvious you need to pay attention cause im here to tell you i pay attention to mine i travel with her we go to movies we go shopping together we talk all the time we go out to eat and in the bedroom aint nothing i wont do to make her cum and aint shit she wont do to make cum either so all im saying is you dumbasses who be crying and bitching you better start paying attention or you gonna be ass out and some other nigga or woman gonna be where you used to be real talk from the truth.

Are You Living Or Are You Existing.

You know i think its a shame when people who have the oppourtunity to get out and enjoy life and they dont do it i mean there is nothing wrong with working and making a living but its more to life than just work, i dont care who you are everybody needs a vacation and even if its not going out of town and just relaxing doing things that make you happy do them but dont just sit back and not take advantage of what life has to offer, i hate when people sit back and just work work and work,but then complain and hate on people who go on trips,who go to sporting events ,concerts movies plays whatever,my thing is you chose the life you live,so dont hate on the next man cause your life is boring and not the way you want,do something about it cause if you dont you will look up and realize that you are not living you just existing and i be damn if i ever be that way and thats real talk. And for those people who fill the need to hate on the next person for enjoying life trust and believe when your ass get old and cold you gonna wish you had did something in life.

Go See The Doctor.

You know when you are young you think that you are going to be healthy forever,you dont even think about being sick,you dont think about what you eat or drink you just feel like you are invincible well im here to tell you that we have and epidemic of mass proportion in the black community especially with type 2 diabetes hypertension, and obesity, so especially for my dogs in there 40s go to the doctor get check ups,physicals make sure you are ok cause you dont want to be walking around and not knowing if you have something or if your body is out of wack and thats real talk.i go to the doctor whenever i dont feel right cause i want to live for as long as god will let me,and im not trying to leave here no time soon and for people who be saying its cool to be a big fella walking around with a big ass stomach and over weight that shit aint cool that shit is unhealthy and its just slowly but surely taking years off your life and thats serious so for whoever reading my blog keep up with your health cause we leaving here way to early i want to be in my 80s or 90s sipping lemonade in the shade looking back on my life not leaving here in my 40s or 50s real talk go see the doctor.