Calm Under Pressure"

You know when you are doing something that you dont want others to know,whether its illegal,or just plain nobody business but if you doing this with a crew,or associates,just make sure that you are working with tough minded people who will have your back,no matter what who if found out they wont snitch or cave in to pressure cause when you have someone like that on your team you can best believe that your team will only go so far,before someone finds the weak link in your crew,and thats real talk. thats why i have a select few who i deal with and you best believe they will never turn there back on anything that is done,there is not one weak link at all and i suggest if you cant have a strong supporting cast,that you fly solo,cause that way only person who can infiltrate you is you and thats real.

Great Sexual Chemistry Doesnt Guarantee Great Compatibilty"

A lot of times people think because they find someone who can make Them Have great orgasms in bed,or make them have the best sex they have ever experienced in life,but once you get past the sexual adventures,the key is do you really like being around that individual,because a lot of times people find out otherwise that the person who made you see stars,had your toes curled,have you screaming out there name,could also be the one you want to get the fuck out,because they may get on your nerves in other areas,and those areas are much more important in life,if you looking for someone to be compatible with,someone you want to build something with, see those are the things i think a lot of people overlook when they trying to establish a long term commitment,now if you just looking for some bomb ass pussy,or some good dick,then thats all good,but if you looking for a person who you can spend your quality time with,come home to,and that person makes you happy in those areas then you got a keeper,cause a big ass,or good ass pussy,or good dick for the ladies,can only go so far if you not seeing eye to eye in the other areas,thats why you have to look at the mental just as much as the physical when looking for mr or mrs right and thats real and i bet you if more people did you would have a lot more people being together who are actually right for each other,and not just arguing 90% of the time and having make up sexy the other 10% and thats real real cause eventually that 10% will become 0% and once it does then you have nothing.

Cherish The Seasons There Called Seasons For A Reason"

You know a lot of times people either overestimate friendships,or romantic relationships,or they tend to undervalue there friendships,and relationships that they may encounter in life,and i think a lot of times the reason for this is people dont take a step back and realize that people come and go like seasons,just how you have winter,spring,summer,and fall,a lot of times this is how people come and go in your life,and for those who are lucky enough to encounter great friendships,or great relationships, you cherish those moments,and those seasons,and if they dont work out,you have to be man or woman,and let it go,and if they happen to be relationships,that go into another season then you are one of those lucky people,but if they are just summer flings,or winter flings,or summer friendships,or winter friendships,then you have to sit back reflect,and realize that everyone you meet is not going to always be there in some capacity forever,and you have to sit back,and reflect on the good times,and move on, so as the leaves begin to fall,and the summer days get shorter,those are how a lot of relationships are meant to be,but the key is if you are lucky again as i have said to have that person going into another season then you hold on to them,and cherish them,but if they leave like the winter snow does in april then there is nothing you can do,but cherish the memories,and move on and accept that god put them there for a reason and that is the way it is real talk.and that is the way it is.

What Happen To The City I was Born And raised In Detroit"

You know i have written about The city i was born and raised in many times but i have not written about it since Detroit declared bankruptcy, and you know honestly if you have lived here or visited here to me its been bankrupt,and its not fair to the people who live hear,the way the city is being talked about,but its the truth,and this goes back from the riots in 67 when the whites started moving out,to the coleman young administration when white politicians didnt want to deal with him,to kwame kilpatrick,and his crooked ways,to a lot of back door underhanded bribes,and stilling from the pension funds,to now in this day and present where we have over 78000 buildings empty,to where there is so much crime because this new generation of youngsters dont have respect for the law,the elderly,or any authority,plus they know that detroits police has been operating on limited resources for years so they are not afraid to do damage,plus lets keep it real the days of niggas in the streets of detroit getting paid,and doing them big illegally you dont see to many street nigga in the dope game cause for one the streets is all dried up,its not a drought season anymore its a damn drought era period yeah you might have just few niggas still pounding the pavement making those chips,but its so few and far between its not funny,so what do you have more know,the hustlers have been replaced by the stick up kids,the home invasions, the car jackers,who are robbing the working class,and those who live in the burbs like me think they immune to this shit they sadly mistaken cause a nigga nowadays will come way out and do shit like it aint shit anymore because they just dont give a fuck and thats a and attitude that police,cant keep in check,and its sad that for the past 20 years all you have heard about is downtown coming back,midtown coming back,but what about the east side of detroit,the neighborhoods there,or the westside of detroit what about those neighborhoods,all you hear about is downtown,and that attitude has led us to today,and its sad and fucked up,cause my era we had cooley high school,redford,murry wright,mackenzie,northern,southwestern,and many more,big high schools and now there gone because the population, has dwindled,and the robing and stealing from are school funds,has taken its toll so now we have went from having over a million people living in the D, to they say 700000 but to me thats and inflated number cause i know damn well its much less,and all you hear people talking about is getting the lights on in detroit,and having better working services,and all this,and yet to me it all sounds like a broken record,and maybe detroit will one day make a comeback to the city i grew up in and loved,but right now i just dont see it until we can get some people in there who only agenda is doing there got damn jobs,and making detroit a better place to live,cause i come from fenkell and tracey,and on a friday night in the summer time i could walk fenkell to wyoming at the dusk of dark safely and not worry about a thing,now you try that and your odds are very slim that you might get robbed or have to fuck somebody up,and thats whats sad cause the kids today have no idea of what it was like just 25 years ago.And thats sad but true,and i just want the youngsters and the new generation that coming up have better detroit,at least have one like i had growing up,or better but not what it is now cause now its all fucked up,and its just a sad state of affairs for The D.

Broken Homes"

You know what im about to write about now is some real shit,and im writing this more fore my fellas more than anything,when you have kids,from a prior relationship,and even though some of the kids from the past relationship,may not be biologically yours,but you have had a relationship with them from damn near day one,then you should not let anyone come between you and the kids,even if you and the person you were with are not together anymore,cause to me thats wrong,especially when you have innocent kids,involved,and whats even more fucked up is when guys meet a new woman,and they get all in,and she fucking him,and wining and dining him to the point where she got his nose open,and he starts letting her call the shots,and then she starts telling him she dont like the fact that he still has a relationship with those kids,even though they not his,and then she starts telling him he is got to let them go,to me you a pussy ass nigga for allowing her to do that to you,and whats even more fucked up is if you and this woman dont work out,and you have allowed her to tear up your relationship with these kids,and now she gone,cause you two dint work out,so now what you supposed to try and restore your relationship back with the kids,if im the kids i say fuck you cause you chose some new pussy over the bond you had developed over the years,my thing is if your new lady cant accept the fact that you have a bond with your kids,whether there yours biologically or not,then you dont need her,and thats real talk.

Sure Guys Would Love To Fuck You,But Will They Want To Marry You"

You know its a lot o women and im not talking about every single woman,so never read what i write and take it personal,cause if you do,then its obvious this topic is hitting close to home,but anyway,i see a lot from the workplace,social media,just women in general who boast and brag about how many guys be giving them likes on facebook,or following them on instagram,or on twitter,and they let a few thirsty ass niggas get in there head,and they think they the shit,and get full of them selves, but what they fail to understand its easy to have a man want to fuck you if you look good,hell if you look half way decent,shit that aint about nothing cause just like a man can have a whole lot of women wanting to fuck him,but instead of boasting and bragging about how many niggas want to put they dick in you and being proud of it,how about where is the line of niggas waiting to wife you,and become your husband,wanting to settle down with you and be your husband,wanting to come home to you every night,and spend his quality time with you and put a ring on your finger,now that is something to be proud of,thats something to want to tell people about not about who wants to fuck,cause anybody can fuck or get fucked,but it takes a special individual to want to make you his wife and thats real talk,and i know marriage is not for everybody,what im saying is have some class about your self and instead of bragging about how many niggas want your pussy brag about how many want your hand in marriage cause that to me is much more significant than a fuck cause thats what it is a fuck is just a fuck but making love is so much more.

You Have To Follow The Rules Of the Game"

Im going to be brief on this one cause i have wrote about this topic before,but i see that a lot of guys be getting caught up in there feelings,acting like bitches,instead of being  a man,and acting like a grown person,when you meet a woman,and this goes for women to,but im seeing it more in my dogs out here,and she tells you that she only wants dinner or a movie,or sex,and thats it,then damn dont get mad if you decide that you think you can change her into wanting more,and it dont work,cause she explained the rules to the game in the beginning,but you chose to play by your rules,and when you do that you get caught up in your feelings,and then you start crying like a little bitch,and once you do that then you end up losing whatever relationship you had cause,she not going to respect you,or trust you cause she now knows that you have gotten caught up in your feelings,and wanting more than she is willing or wanting to give,and to me there is nothing wrong with that cause guys been doing it for ever,and it was fine but shit its 2013 and its way more single women than men,and if they choose to want stay single and just date and nothing more,then you have to know your role,or else go audition for another part,cause your ass trying to play a romantic lead in her life,when she might just want a freak and a goodtime,nothing more nothing lessand thats real,and the same goes for women who be will say they know there role but be on the sneak tip trying to become the leading lady,thats why like i said play by the rules of the game,and if you do what was agreed upon from the start then shit want get all fucked and then you wont have to avoid each other and falling out cause somebody couldnt handle not being number one in that persons life and thats real talk cause to many times this is how people end up snapping and losing there self chasing after someone who only wanted apart of that person and not the whole package.

Ignorant Posts

You know i dont know why people who get on social media like facebook or twitter and think that what they post cant someday be used against them,i mean i was looking at the posts that were made after george zimmerman was found not guilty and i was pissed and still pissed but i had to let my head cool before i wrote in my blog and what i posted,you had ignorant people who were posting there guns,and half them were probably illegal ak 47s talking about going to find zimmerman,and people burning the american flag,you have to be careful how you do things,there is way of doing shit and that just aint it so people before you post think about what you put in cyberspace cause you never know it could come back to haunt you real talk.

REALITY CHECK 2013" (Trayvon Martin No Justice No Peace")

Well last Night shortly after 10pm July 2013 The Flordia Justice System Reminded me,and america why a black mans life is not worth much to this country we called the united states,and i know people are trying to sugar coat the shit in all kinds of ways,saying well in detroit,or chicago,or inner cites period black kids get killed everyday,and there is no fuss,thats because for one,its blacks killing blacks,and the white society dont give a fuck about black on black crime,to them its just one less nigga you got to worry about,perfect example whenever a young white teen does something crazy like here in michigan when tucker cipriano a young teen killed his father and tried to kill his mother and brother,he was white,and they say he was high on the k 2 drug,what did they do here in michigan the shut down all the stores that sold the drug,and put some out of business and made a lot of arrest why because they where white,if it was black kids you wouldnt hardly heard a thing, so when i hear the media saying it wasnt a racist case,and george zimmerman was a racist,it pisses me off because it was racism,and it was a grown man who got his bitch ass out the car even though he was told not to and now a 17 year old boy is dead,and this piece of fat mexican shit walks free,and then you got good old sanford flordia with only 6 people on the jury 5 white females,and one hispanic who deliberate for 16hrs to make it look good only to come back with a horrible verdict of not guilty,but yet mike vick gets 2 years in prison,plus loses over a $100 million in endorsements for killing dogs,man if this aint fucked up,and hypocrisy at its finest then i dont know what is, and then you have a lot of my own people uncle toms who say they trayvon wasnt no angel cause he smoked weed or had gold in his mouth,so i guess that makes him a killer get the fuck out of here with that dumb shit,and then you have those who say the prosecution couldnt prove its case,man thats some bullshit as well the case to me at the least was manslaughter,but i guess i had a little faith in the justice system,but you can best believe i wont ever again not when it comes to the black race,cause in the good old usa yeah we have taken steps in race relations,but in the end we are still to far behind,and it still comes down to black and white its that simple and cant nobody tell me anything different,and for those white people who think they have gotten a victory and zimmerman is free he not free cause now he has to live like a hermit for fear of his life,now who wants to live like that,and i hope that somebody fucks him up and thats real cause i feel that karma is a bitch and it will fuck you up to times harder,and one last thing i have to admit i was pissed,and shocked last night,and i said fuck disney word and fuck flordia,and if people choose to boycott flordia,i aint mad at you cause they do have some fucked up laws,but after a 24hr cooling off period,i realize i cant say i will never go to flordia again,i just might take a hiatus from the place cause i do love orlando and miami and tampa,but if there is a movement that will really work to fuck with the tourism then im all for it cause something must be done,and im the last one to be like we shall overcome fuck that im a radical and i believe in by any means necessary real talk so the marchs is fine,but i say lets use all resources to get justice for the martin family and thats all i have to say about this case cause as of right now no justice no peace and thats all i have to say for now.

Put Something On Her Mind"

You know you have to be willing sometimes as the man to do whatever it takes to leave a lasting impression on the one you are being intimate with,of course all women are different thats where conversation comes in,so you can pay attention and listen to what your lady likes,and dislikes,and what she may have disliked in her past,you might be able to make her like with you,but the key is making that impression so good that when she leaves your sight you will have put something on her mind, i mean lets say you and your significant other decide to go to a nice hotel room,and you decide to have room service,and drinks,and then afterwards,you play some nice soothing music,and you start kissing her,and she enjoys the kissing i mean taking time to kiss,and if you see she enjoys it then start kissing her neck,then pay attention to the sounds she makes,and if she is reacting to your touches,then slowly start undoing her shirt,and lick and kiss,and suck on her breast nice,and slow,where you have her wanting to hop out of her panties,and after you have taken her there cause a lot of times guys forget that women love the foreplay,its like building up a volcano,before it erupts,and then you can be no punk,you have to be willing to go all in,so after you pull her panties down,be prepared for some real wetness going on,and dont be afraid to put your lips on her pussy lips,i dont care how wet the pussy is,cause those juices is the key to some great loving so then as you spread her legs,then you suck on her clit,and put your tongue inside her hole,and fingers if she likes,hell she might like her pussy to ass carack licked,and if so then do it like aint shit to you,and show her you about this sex life with her,and then eat her pussy until she cums,and then come up and slide the dick inside her and fuck her,or make love to her to a rhythm that you both are feeling and if she is loving the strokes shock her and pull it out her pussy,and then go back down and lick and suck her pussy and asshole some more and then put the dick back inside her and fuck her even more until she cums on your dick,and when she does that i guarantee you she will either be at work the next day,or at home thinking about how you put it down,and thats what guys need to realize always please your lady first in bed and i guarantee you it will lead to some great loving in bed. real talk indeed.