Catching Feelings 2013 (Sexual Edition)

I had to share this one cause this is someone who i know personally but its a perfect example of someone not being able to hold up there end of the bargain, i t was this girl name tish,and she was just getting out of a relationship with her ex who cheated on her,and they had been together for 8 years,so after they broke up she met this guy name eric so eric was like a good friend to her,who she was attracted to,but she didnt want things to get to serious cause she didnt want to lose his friendship,so one day after being friends for a couple monthst eric,and tish went out for lunch,and so she came clean and told him that she was liking him,but she only wanted sex and his friendship,so eric was like cool he was attracted to her as well,so they went back to his place,and he was showing her his new furniture,and they was laughing and having a good time,then she reached over,and kissed him,and so they got really into each other so she stop him and asked him if we go any further you can handle it,so he said of course,so then she shocked him and said she wanted to taste him so she unzipped his pants and started sucking his dick and she sucked his dick so good that he came in her mouth and she swallowed all his juices,then she pushed him back on the couch,and pulled her skirt down,and sat on his face,and rode his face until she came,but then she bent over and told him to lick her asshole so he was like she is freaky so he did it and she was loving it then she suck on him some more and then she put his dick inside her and he fucked and sucked both her holes,and after a night day and night of multiple orgasms she was ready for him to leave,so eric left,and so they were fucking and freaking for over a month,but then eric fucked up one night after tish gave him some asshole and he came in her ass, he told her he loved her and wanted to be her man,but what fucked him up was tish did not want what he wanted,so eric did exactly what tish hoped would not happen he got caught up,and got mad,and started catching feelings,so she had to break it off with him cause she did not want a serious relationship,and eric kept blowing up her phone,to the point she had to threaten him with the police,so finally eric left her alone but he was all fucked up by tish love so my point of this story is people will tell you anything to get in your pants,or to get some sex,but everybody dont want to play by the hand they were dealt,so my advice is lay your cards on the table from the start and if you do that then everybody should like the hand they were dealt real talk.

RESPECT"

You know its a sad day and age we live in now,it seems like nobody respects anybody anymore,in relationships you have couples who call each other bitches,and hoes,i mean just downright disrepecting there love ones,you have women who see another woman and want to call her a bitch cause of eye contact,and then you have shit happen like the women on linwood and davidson fighting at the coney island at 3am in the morning just ratchet shit beating each other up over some words or eye contact,and then nobody trying to stop women from beating each others asses,its like the men standing around got off on that shit,and you know why cause they dont have any respect for women, and its a damn shame that this is the society we live in now,i have a daughter and if saw any women rolling around half naked fighting getting beat up hell yeah i would try and stop it,cause thats the way i was raised and i damn sure not going to call a woman out her name for no reason especially a woman i love,thats just disrespectful to me,but the sad part is this generation is not like the one i grew up in,and some good kids,but its a lot of bad ones being raised with no manners,no structure,and no respect for there elders,and that is why we live in a society where you have wives,or girlfriends,calling there men,bitch niggas,and saying all kind of bad shit to cause they dont respect them,same goes for the men,they quick to put there hands on a woman,or call her out her name cause of the respect they dont have,so all im saying is people we got to do better im just a person who has over a million followers and i hope that after reading this it will help a few change cause the respect issue is terrible. Real Talk.

She Just Wants To Fuck It Doesnt Make Her A hoe or A bitch"

You know its always has been a double standard in the past when it comes to men,and women A man can fuck a woman and not want any emotional connection with her,but now in 2013 when a woman does it she is considered, a hoe,freak,slut,or a freak bitch.But to me that shit is so stupid,thats why i write the truth,cause i like to tell it like it is,and the real just of it is so many niggas come with baggage that a lot of women is tired of they bullshit so they really dont want to deal with a niggas insecurity,or him being abusive,or not wanting to do things with her,so they rather not deal with the bullshit,the lies,the games,all the above,but just as man,a woman does have her needs,and i know you hear some women saying they have there toys,but at the end of the day there is nothing like the real thing,so the modern day woman may be looking for a man, to satisfy her sexual needs,make her cum,and make her feel good,but once he does his job sexually its time for him to go cause thats all she might be looking for at that time,and if thats what she wants then more power to her thats her business and nobody should be judging her cause in reality she just doing what niggas been doing for years, and i dont blame her if thats what she wants. So a lot of guys get caught up in there feelings and think they can give her some dick,and make her change her mind,and want more but if a woman has her mind made up with the mentality that she just wants sex and nothing more,then niggas need to deal with it and move,on cause these are not old days this is how it is for some women, hell some niggas be catching feelings worst than a woman anyway real talk. My thing is be the man that she wants and maybe you might get more than some pussy if not do your job that she needed you to do and keep it moving.

One Bad Apple Should Not Spoil A Bunch"

You know not everybody,but a lot of people have been hurt by love in there lifetime by a no good ass woman or man,and it will hurt,and it will make you put your guard up,but what i hate is people who get fucked over by a person,and then they judge anybody new,the same thinking the next person is going to bring the same bullshit to the table that the one who hurt you did,but what you are doing  by not allowing the next person a chance to give you true happiness,is allowing your ex to continue to have a hold on you and thats fucked up real talk, i mean they will have gone on with there lives,and you still walking around,saying biggas aint shit,or bitches aint shit,or posting negative,messages on social media,looking like a bitter scorned person,and that shit aint cool,and its not a good look,because you are letting a person change the essence of you,and not allowing the true person that you are glow,and shine to the next man or woman,so all im saying is if you are hurt by and individual you will hurt,and you will need time to get over them,but dont let them hold you down to long from finding the true happiness that you deserve real talk.

Its Women You Date And Its Women You Marry"

You know i was talking to my boy the other day,and he was telling me that he liked this girl a lot,they have a good time,they have great sex,she loves to go to the clubs,and party,and drink,and get fucked up,and hang out half the night,and she just wild,and he was like man she is a real freak,and she is really fun,but he said that he was getting tired of all the wild stuff,and ready to settle down,but he said as much as he liked her he couldnt see his self marrying her,so i told him,son its women you marry,and its women you date,cause when you get married its not like the fun stops,its just its a time to settle down,you cut back on the wild things you used to do,you can still be that freak for your mate,and still have some fun,but all the hanging out every night,and trying to bring single person things to a married situation,is not going to work,and if you have somebody thats not ready to adjust there lifestyle to fit the marriage then you must do your homework,before you fall in love with someone who is not ready to settle,cause looks aint everything she can be fine as wine,or the freak,or the party girl,and thats cool to date,but if you looking for someone to call your wife,then better be ready to have some one who is willing to give up the single life indeed.

April 2 2013 I Lost A peace Of My Heart"

On April 2 2013 Just A little Over A week Ago I found My grandmother in her home dead, and it wasnt the worst feeling i have ever had to experience in my life,cause the sad part was i got talk to her for almost 40 minutes, a couple of nights before her death,and we talked like we always have about everything and i still cant believe she is gone,it isnt like she was sick she was active,on the go,and just a great respected lady who i loved,and was like a 2nd mom to me,And now this saturday i have to say my final goodbye to her,and that in itself is going to be hard as well, i know people have told me to cherish the good times,and i eventually i will, but right now my heart hurts,because i have lost not just and icon in my family,but my idol a woman who i patterned my life around,she taught to enjoy life,travel,have fun,not just sit around and do nothing,she would have superbowl parties when i was growing up, she would take me to the racetrack at drc,when i was old enough and we spent our saturdays watching the horses run,and having lunch that was our time,and she loved me and my brothers like we were her sons, and when i gave her the first and only great granddaughter she was so proud,and she loved my daughter just as she loved me and my brothers, mothers day wont be the same this year cause every mothers day me and my mom and grandma,and brothers would go out to dinner and spend time,and now she is gone,and christmas eve this year will be the hardest saddest christmas eve ever because it has been a tradition in my family on christmas eve since 1982 of going to my grandmothers house for dinner,opening gifts,and spending time with family,and last year i am so proud that i hosted the first christmas eve dinner at my house cause my grand mother was tired and i mad her proud,so i know i have the memories,but i am truly going to miss you dora,and people will say dora,yes thats what we called my grandmother by her first name and thats the way she liked it,and i wouldnt have it any other way,so i finally got the strength to write about my dora,and let her know that i love her,i miss her,and life wont be the same with out her,yes i wil move on but you will never be forgotten cause you was the best grandmother i could have ever imagined i love you from your grandson Dion.

There is nobody worth killing Yourself over"

You know its a lot of murder suicides going on lately,in michigan,and all over,i just dont get it,how a person can be so weak,that if a person doesnt want them anymore,they cant just walk away,i mean you got guys,who cant stand rejection,killing there wives,there ladies,there girlfriends,all because they dont want to be in a relationship anymore,to me thats just weak,then to me they want to be cowards,and kill the woman,and there selves, i mean thats some sick shit,i call these type of people unstable creatures,thats why i tell people do you fucking homework before you start getting serious with a person,check there past,how they operated in past relationships,or if they to clingy, or possessive,or jealous,you have to check all that cause if they have these signs,then 9 times out of ten you need to run real talk,cause if a muthafucka tell you if he or she cant have you nobody can,then you need to haul ass cause its a problem,all these women,and men out here that you have to get so gone on one person,that you cant function,then you need help for real cause that shit is not healthy,cute or normal you be having these women who think its cut when a guy act crazy over them,but as soon as the coward ass nigga snap then the shit just got real ,and of course the news will say he seemed like a nice,guy,or she seem like a nice person, fuck that shit i dont want nobody loving me that much that they feel they cant live with out me fuck that shit so if you are with someone who is showing these signs then i suggest you back up.and bounce before you become a domestic violence statistic real talk. nobody love is worth your life.

Aint Nothin Like The Love Of A Good Woman"

You know a lot of times guys will go chasing the love and affection of a woman who has no attentions of being there thru the good,and the bad, a lot of guys be looking for women with big asses,or big tittys,instead of looking for a woman,who you know if you didnt have a dime she would be there,and if you came into a stack,she would be there for you not the money,but someone you can enjoy the money with,somebody,who on your bad days can perk you up,and on your good days you are proud to call her your lady,thats why i be telling guys if you get a woman thats truly in your corner,treat her right fuck chasing after good looks,and that superficial cause that shit dont last forever,im not saying beauty isnt important,but what im saying is find a woman of substance,and that will go along way,cause looks dont last forever,but true love,can stand the test of time,and if more people started realizing it,this world would be a better place.

In the Bedroom It Should Be Give And take"

You know a lot of complaints that i have heard about or saw over the past 2years of blogging is from females is either they have a man in there life who either wants his dick sucked,and for the woman to be ready to fuck him,with out him doing anything thing to get her in the mood,or not taking the time to please her,i have said it time and time again to my fellas out here if you take the time to please your lady in the bedroom the sex,or lovemaking would be so much better real talk,But also what i hear from forums,magazines,and social sites,a lot of men dont like eating pussy,or taking the time to learn a womans,body,and that right there is a big mistake, i mean if you take the time to kiss your woman in her spots,kiss her neck,kiss her back,rub her shoulders her back, her inner thighs,and lick her nipples and suck on them gently and kiss her and im not talking about sloppy kissing im talking about sensual kissing,and then when you go down and get to her pussy,you treat her pussy like the lips on her neck and you tongue kiss the pussy walls, the clit,the lips,and you make love to her hole slowly,and taking your time deep throating her hole with your tongue, until she cums in your mouth,and then after she cums if she wants you to try and make the pussy cum again with your lips then do it,cause i guarantee once she cums from the lips she will be ready to rotate those hips and thighs, and her lips however you want,and that will lead to some great fucking or lovemaking so if she is ready willing and able to satisfy you in anyway then you should do the same,cause i feel there should never be a bad performance in the bedroom once you close those doors the main and only goal is making sure both you and her is cumming and screaming real talk. Anything less would be and injustice.

Team Single My Ass It Just means You Have Nobody"

You know im so sick of seeing Team Single,What the fuck is team single last time i check a team meant more than one,so justify it however you like,now im not knocking people who are single,im knocking those who try to make it seem like its the shit,and they dont need or want nobody,now you may have some who really love being single,but the ones who have to go out there way to always brag about being team single,are the main ones who are lonely as fuck,and i can see not lowering your standards for just anybody just to say you have a man,but sometimes you have to take a long look in the mirror and see whats going on with your self,cause i know damn well being by your self all the time is not for everbody, cause i know damn well nobody wants to spend there good times,and there bad all by themselves i mean having someone to lay up and cuddle with,someone to make love with when your in the mood,someone to talk to and watch movies,and eat dinner with on them rainy days and nights.So all im saying is this team single shit last time i remember there is no i in team so kill that team shit,and just either enjoy your life until you find that right person,or just be bitter and by yourself.

Carl The Truth Sports Preference"

You know i have over a million and a half followers since i started my blog,and i just like to refresh my new followers about the teams that i like as far as nba basketball im Miami Heat baby heat Nation,As far as football i like the hometown Detroit Lions,But im a Baltimore Raven Fan Raven Nation, As far as Baseball Detroit Tigers Until I die,College Football I love The Crimson Tide Of Alabama, I love The U of Miami,And i Like The Wolverines Of Michigan, And as far As College basketball I love The Michigan Wolverines,And i love the North carolina Tarheels, I think Michael jordan Is the Greatest basketball Player ever no doubt No fucking Question.And i love King James, And Akeem Olajuwon Is My favorite Center of all time. Now My dislikes I hate The Spartans Period of Michigan State, i hate Duke, I hate Green Baby Packers, I hate Anything Boston Celtics, New England patriots, Red Sox Period.So if You Ever See Any of my temas winning you will hear About it Cause i do Represent.

Congrats To The Michigan Wolverines

I am especially happy that the michigan wolverines are going to the final four,its been 20 years since the wolverines and the fab five made it to the final four,and i couldnt be happier,so to all the wolverine fans lets rise up and hope saturday we can beat a tough syracuse squad and advance to the national championship game next monday night,but if we dont at least we made it this far proud of the young squad.

You Dont Know My Name"

You know the one thing i hate is when people who have kids especially women,that fall quickly in love with men,and dont even know shit about them,yeah you might know his first name,what he like to eat,you like fucking him,and whatever else he wants you to know,but my thing is until you really spend time with a person,how the fuck you gonna know everything about them,shit these women,and some men be so quick to move a nigga in,and for all the know he could be a rapist,a child molester, a fugitive,you just dont know,but yet the fear of being by yourself some women just bypass getting to know a man,and the fact that you have kids is crazy as hell to me,and im not saying this to a lot of women,cause you have a lot of women who dont play that shit of bringing any old man around there kids,so all im saying is just get to know a person,whats wrong with dating and learning and individual before letting them meet your kids, cause there is nothing more fucked up then somebody you quick to fall in love with bringing harm to your kids and your family all because you was lonely for some dick real talk.