Social Media killed The Dating Game.

People keep saying what happen to the dating game,especially women from the ages of 30 to 50 who ask this question daily,well its real simple it used to be a guy would call you,talk to you on the phone for hours,take you to dinner,buy you flowers,buy you a card or candy maybe,take you to a play,or a concert, or go for long walks gettting to know you mentally before the physical came along,well its more single women than there are men, men have the pick of choice,but the problem is you may have a woman who wants to be wined and dined,but then on the other hand  you got a women on social media showing you there titties,there pussy talking about getting a room,or coming to your house or theres before you even know her last name,so once a guy gets the pussy he like shit why should i have to wine and dine you i already got the goodies with out having to work for them,so there is no challenge cause the challenge a guy once had back in the 70s 80s 90s or early 2000s is over cause now its like a buffet for men they dont have to work anymore so the good females that still want to be treated like a lady is being ignored for a chick who just giving up the pussy like its a free meal so until women start demanding more of a man the good ones will continue to be ignored and passed over for a hoe,now there are some good guys who still want a woman to wine and dine,but with all the bad eggs in one bag you just have to sort thru them so the good guys and good women can hook up and show that chivarly is not dead its just be pushed aside for the microwave sex giving out in 2017 real talk,so ladies wondering where the good men at they out there they just got a buffet to choose from and just like any buffet you have bad items and you have good ones the men just have more to choose from cause the men even the ugly ones can get pussy real easy these days and thats because social media killed dating for real.

All that glitters isnt always gold.

you know people on the outside will look at you or and individual and say damn they got it going on they dont have a worry in the world,but you cant always go by appearances,and if you dont truly know a person you wont have any idea of what they are going thru or how they are feeling you just figure they doing great life is good and they dont have a care in the world but you cant always go by what you see you have to sometimes ask,or check on your freiend or mate or husband or wife,cause sometimes you may be surprised on how they truly feel,cause sometimes people may be depressed or not fulfilled,or unhappy,or feel they are not getting what they i want or need in life,it could be sex,it could be personal satisfaction from a job,or having no job at all, i used to wonder why people could walk out of there kids life,or leave there wives,or girlfriends ,or boyfriends or husbands,and never look back,and then people would say how could they do that well sometimes if you not really checking on a person how would you truly know how they feeling,cause life is too short to be miserable,or settling or just existing either you living or existing if you existing that can become very depressing and sucicial thoughts or feeling unwanted or feeling a need to start a new life,so thats why i tell people if you have a mate or brother or sister or mother or father or friend or husband or wife check on them sometimes i mean really check on them ask them how they are feeling and if you feel you can help them try to make them feel better or a t least try so that you can say at least you checked on them and you wont feel a sense of lost if one day you call them or check on them and they are gone,or worst they are dead and thats real talk so all im saying is pay attention sometimes to those who matter before its to late.

Pursuit of happiness

You know sometimes people in life want things that have no meaning, or material things to show off to other people,but to me to each is own i am a person who just wants to be able to travel, spend time with family be healthy and enjoy the fruits of labor and life,some times the little things are the big things in life and if you treasure the little things you will benefit in the long run,of not taking things in life for granted and you will have the pursuit of happiness,cause thats all i need travel spend time with family and never take life for granted cause one day none of us will be here so while im here i want to enjoy all that life has to offer and thats real.

You cant be happy if you still focusing on the past.

you know when you come out of bad relationship you have to heal and take timeand focus on yourself and think about how come your last relationship didnt work and move forward,but once you move on you have to leave all your thoughts and focus on your past in the past,cause if you dont then you will never be able to toatlly move on,and if you are truly happy in your new relationship or person your seeing you wont be still focusing on your past cause when a person is truly happy the last thing they will be thinking about is the person who did them wrong and thats real talk cause if you getting good dick,or good pussy you aint thinking about your ex,cause if you still thinking or talking about your ex then its obvious you not being real with yourself or the person your dating cause if you all in then the past will be just that the past and thats all im going to say about this indeed.

Be his or her medicine not there headache.

You know a lot of times you may not no what your lover,or wife or husband is going thru,and they may be in pain,or getting bored,or feeling sad or down from everyday life,so what you have to do as there mate is make them feel good. maybe give them a surprise massage,or just rub on them,if your a man maybe she needs you to eat her pussy real good make her cum,or fuck her real good deepstroke her pussy until she cums good,or maybe she wants to get away,go on a trip somewhere but just pay attention give her what she needs be her medicine not her headache,and for the ladies maybe your man just wants his dick sucked real good nice slow and wet,or maybe he wants its suck sloppy wet and fast,or he might want some asshole from you or just wants you to give him some pussy and fuck him good,or just surprise him and cook him his favorite meal, or give him a massage but just do something to make him feel good and not let another person get in there cirlce because you didnt do the little things he or she needed and once again be there medicine not there headache real talk indeed.

Attention Whores.

You know on social media you have all sorts of diffrent people who post and have diffrent agendas, but the ones that really get on my nerves is the ones who are constantly posting pictures for a reaction because they have no life so they have to post pictures of there selves or something that is irrelevant but they have to get those likes those likes make there day to the point that if they dont get those likes there day is not going to be good.and that is a shame that your self esteem is based on how many likes you get from friends otr family or complete strangers to make your day complete so i can call you nothing but and attention whore real talk is like hey dont you have something else to do in your life except posting all day and everyday on facebook or instagram or twitter thats just my opinion but who am except the truth who tells like it is real talk.