Whatever It Takes.

You know when you in a relationship with someone,its about give and take,sometimes you have to do things you may not want to,but its about making the person you with happy,if you cant do that then whats the point of being in a relationship,i believe in doing whatever it takes to make your lover happy,if they a woman and you know she likes flowers then buy them and not just on and occasion,if they like to go to movies,or dinners take them,dont be a boring ass dude who is not doing what it takes to make his lady happy on the outside and the inside,and if you a lady be a woman who is willing to cater to her mans needs if he likes freaky things then do it for him,cause the thing i hate most is when a person has had a person and they take them for granted and then the minute they find someone who is willing to do things with them you get mad,fuck that get on your job while you have the person in your life,dont wait until they threaten to leave to do what you should have done from the start so all im saying is whatever it takes to make them happy do it indeed.

Ho Tendencies.

You know people say once a cheater always a cheater i disagree cause i know a couple of people men and women who used to sleep with all kinds of people but they found that one person who made them settle down and they changed for the better.Now you do have some guys and women who have hoesish tendencies and they cant help it its the hoe in them and those people are never going to settle with one person cause they crave the attention of more than one person to validate them and one person will never be enough plus they love to get attention from everybody except from the one person who is in there corner,so all im saying if they flirt,and got to have so many friends of the opposite sex and they have a bad track record of fucking up then you better hit the exit door or risk being just being a pawn in there game real talk indeed.

Some people never change they are who they are.

You know the biggest misconception in life is that you think you can change a person to suit your needs,now a person will only change if they are really into you and they love you,but most times a person is who they say they are and either you going to deal with them or move on,i dont care how good the sex is,or how spiritual a person you are or how good a person you think you are, sometimes that still is not enough and the person you might want them to be will never come to past so if you dont see enough good qualities to make you happy to deal with them then you need to keep it moving cause its never going to work its that simple.

Dont Be A Basic Bitch

You know its been a minute since i wrote in my blog but i have to say that i am seeing to many people who are in relationships allowing there relationships to become stale,or boring,my thing is its not rocket science,if you truly love the one your with then you will do what is needed to keep the fire blazing if you a woman suck his dick a little more lick his ass if you in to that give him anal if you into that suggest porn,or try and be the aggressor sometimes just let him know that you care about his needs indeed.and if you a man eat your womans pussy more,give her sex a little more cater to her needs a little more,if she likes porn then watch it or get it for her, rub on her just let her know that she is just as important to you as she is to you are to her and do these things cause you never want the one your with to lose interest and want to be with someone else doing the things you should have been doing with them when you had them and thats real talk indeed.