Sometimes The Biggest Things Come In Small Packages.

You know sometimes when you are a popular person people assume that you have everything you need in life,and that you can get any woman you want cause they see women chasing after you,but what people fail to realize sometimes everyday people can be walking around with a broken heart,or be coming out of a failed relationship,so people will assume that oh shit they will be alright they can have anybody they want,big ass or big titties or thick as hell,but when you are mature and you looking for more than that thats when you look for someone that can get next to your heart,your wants in life,your needs,your companionship,a friend,and someone who may not have a big ass or big titties,but has a big heart,to give you to get you over a failed relationship,and you will realize this person has been right up under your nose all that time and you had no idea that small as they are they come with the biggest of all your needs and will make you forget the hurt or unhappiness you experienced in your previous relationship and then you will also realize that this person is here to give you whatever you request or want with no questions asked so people out there never judge a book by its cover cause what you need might not be as far away from you as you may have thought indeed.

Dont Be A Basic Bitch Pt 2.

You know the thing i hate about people who are in relationships who take there partner for granted,is when the other person makes a request,or complains and the other person does not listen,if your other half or person you fucking tells you they would like some spice in the bedroom then you should listen and not just disregard what they are asking for,if  for instance they are a female and they want some extra oral stimulation then give it to her,if she wants you to put your tongue in her ass then do it,but dont just say oh you remember i did that so so and so ago nobody wants to hear that shit its like if they have to ask then damn it you need be giving them fresh memories not talking about what you did way back when,and if your man says he wants to try anal,or wants you to toss his salad then you need to not just turn your nose up to it,cause what you want do another woman will and vice versa,all im saying is people keep and open mind and dont become a basic bitch give your lover some excitement sometime to hold them over for your next surprise and thats real talk indeed.

There Just Not Into You.

Sometimes you can be in a relationship,and think everything is going great your having great sex,you are giving that person all of your social time,even when you are working your trying to give them your time,but then all of a sudden the person your with is not giving you the time they once did,they are not as thrilled about having sex with you as they once were,no matter what you say or do they still not excited as they once were,so you start questioning everything you are doing,you try to get answers,you start second guessing your methods,you try everything you can to get that person back to how you once were with them,but guess what sometimes its not you its them they have either found someone else,or they simply not into you no more,and thats something you have to accept and move on,or stick around and be and option,and not a priority,and i dont know about you but i would rather be someones priority than and option,so if that person is not feeling you trust and believe it may hurt,but you will get over it,and when you do trust and believe you will find someone who make you priority number one and that person who made you feel less will not only not matter anymore you will eventually look back and say damn what the fuck was i thinking settling for a person treating you less than you deserve and thats real talk indeed you go to get what you deserve indeed.

Oral Stimulation.

A man Should always want to taste the woman he is about to enter,you should be wanting to marinate her pussy with your tongue,getting her pussy as juicy as possible making her want the dick inside of her even more,and dont just half ass taste lick her clit,suck her clit put your tongue in her hole,suck on her pussy until she can no longer take your tongue make that pussy cum and make it cum hard,find her G spot,if she likes her pussy to be suck then suck on it if she likes it to be licked then lick on it,just take your time and give her oral sensations that will make her always want your tongue,and all so the better you please her pussy with your tongue,The better she will please your dick in return and thats real talk indeed.

Behind Every Great Man Is A Great Woman.

You know sometimes people see a man and they think man he has it going on,he looks good, he dresses good he has money,he travels he goes everywhere it seems like he has it going on,but you know what behind that great man he needs a great woman who is there for him to uplift him when he is down,make a rainy day a sunny day, a woman who not only can get to his heart,but to his stomach and his body,make him feel that he is the most important person in the world,and no one else matters,make him forget that he doesnt need a lot of attention,just the attention of her,when you can find a woman like that you hold on to her,or you seek her,cause anybody can have a good pussy,but you want a woman who has that good loyal pussy that makes you not even second guess if you are number one in her life,because its a feeling you know,because when you look in her eyes you know you are all the man she needs real talk.So fellas if you dont have, or you not sure you have that,then you probably dont cause when you got a loyal beautiful woman behind you trust and believe you will know cause its the greatest feeling in the world indeed.

Happy Sweetest Day.

You know you will hear people tell you to day that sweetest day is for the man and not for the lady dont believe the hype it is for the lovers who love each other or for someone who is feeling someone it can be for the man or the woman,they will say they not celebrating a man made holiday thats bullshit to if you got a sweetie spend some time with them go out to dinner, or a movie or a play or just fuck all day whatever do what you like for who you like and never let know one reign on your parade cause you have to do what makes you happy not what others tell you to do so enjoy your sweetie and if you dont have one then wait your turn cause there is somebody for everybody real talk indeed.

People Will tell you what you want to hear.

You know a lot of times people will act like they straight up and will never lie to you,but you will be surprised how easily some people will lie to you and you may have done nothing but be straight up with them from the start but they still will lie to you because they would rather tell you what you want to hear than tell you the truth,so all im saying is be careful with the company you keep whether its in a relationship or in a friendship everybody not trustworthy indeed.

Its Easy For A person To walk Away,But Holding On To Hardest.

You know A lot of times people end relationships prematurely and then they might end up regretting that move,thats why i tell people if you feel that you truly love that person and you still want that person then fight for that love dont just let it walk out your life so easy,cause when you do that you make the other person feel like the relationship was a lie and you never really loved them,any body can walk away,but holding is the hardest,but if that person is worth holding onto then by all means do it,but if you dont think its worth fighting for then move on give the person a clean break,no need trying to keep up with them and hold on to them if you dont want them cause all you are doing is holding up your chance for finding the happiness you need and the happiness that the person you once loved deserves as well indeed.

Sometimes The Sequel Is Better Than The Original.

Sometimes people who were once in a relationship with a person,tend to move on and say they will never look back,but if you and that person ended on good terms or you feel that the relationship had some unfinished buisness then sometimes you have to put your pride aside and say maybe the second time around might be better than the first,you will never know if you dont try,but if you feel that its not worth going back down that road then its best to leave that door close,but if you feel in your heart that you truly still have feelings for that person,or you feel there is happiness going back to that person then you cant worry about what others think you have to take a chance and see if being with that person again can lead to bigger and better things for you and them indeed.

Just to be living Is A gift all in itself.

You know fathers day and my birthday are coming up but you know what as you get older gifts are cool but just to be able to see the holidays birthdays christmas fathers day whatever that is priceless that is a gift all in itself so i think we all the things going on in our world we living in you look at things differently yes im the first one to say enjoy life to the fullest but i will also be the first to say that they are just another day for me now nothing greater nothing less real talk just happy to be here among the living with my health indeed.

Never Cry Over Spoiled Milk.

You know when you in a relationship,and you loving a person and you having your ups and downs with that person, once that relationship ends,you have to sit back and look at the pros and cons of what you were doing with that person whether if it was for a year or two or three just sit back and say to yourself was that person really making you happy, i mean if you and that person was having that mindblowing sex,great talks,conversations,going on beautiful trips,dinners,movies concerts,plays then ok it might take awhile to get over, but the person you were with was disrespectful,didnt take you nowhere hardly looked down on you, cheated on you then you have to say to yourself well damn what was it,why am i feeling this way over someone who really wasnt doing shit in the first place yes you may hurt now but time heals all wounds and eventually you will distance yourself from that situation and realize that milk was ever fresh that shit was spoiled and im crying over spoiled milk no need for that just find you a new fresh dairy to drink from indeed.

Adversity Reveals A persons True Character.

Everyone in life at some point will deal with adversity whether its a loss of a love one, or the the loss of a job,a relationship break up, after anyone deals with this what they do after the adversity and how they respond to it ,will reveal there true character,and how they respond will show you what kind of person you have been dealing with all this time,and sometimes the character they reveal might shock you but its a lesson learned and the lesson is just because you have known a person all your life,doesnt mean they are meant tostay in your life real talk people come and people go,but a person with true grit and character is there forever where a s a fraud,a hypocrite will be exposed for the phony they truly are indeed.

Whatever It Takes.

You know when you in a relationship with someone,its about give and take,sometimes you have to do things you may not want to,but its about making the person you with happy,if you cant do that then whats the point of being in a relationship,i believe in doing whatever it takes to make your lover happy,if they a woman and you know she likes flowers then buy them and not just on and occasion,if they like to go to movies,or dinners take them,dont be a boring ass dude who is not doing what it takes to make his lady happy on the outside and the inside,and if you a lady be a woman who is willing to cater to her mans needs if he likes freaky things then do it for him,cause the thing i hate most is when a person has had a person and they take them for granted and then the minute they find someone who is willing to do things with them you get mad,fuck that get on your job while you have the person in your life,dont wait until they threaten to leave to do what you should have done from the start so all im saying is whatever it takes to make them happy do it indeed.

Ho Tendencies.

You know people say once a cheater always a cheater i disagree cause i know a couple of people men and women who used to sleep with all kinds of people but they found that one person who made them settle down and they changed for the better.Now you do have some guys and women who have hoesish tendencies and they cant help it its the hoe in them and those people are never going to settle with one person cause they crave the attention of more than one person to validate them and one person will never be enough plus they love to get attention from everybody except from the one person who is in there corner,so all im saying if they flirt,and got to have so many friends of the opposite sex and they have a bad track record of fucking up then you better hit the exit door or risk being just being a pawn in there game real talk indeed.

Some people never change they are who they are.

You know the biggest misconception in life is that you think you can change a person to suit your needs,now a person will only change if they are really into you and they love you,but most times a person is who they say they are and either you going to deal with them or move on,i dont care how good the sex is,or how spiritual a person you are or how good a person you think you are, sometimes that still is not enough and the person you might want them to be will never come to past so if you dont see enough good qualities to make you happy to deal with them then you need to keep it moving cause its never going to work its that simple.

Dont Be A Basic Bitch

You know its been a minute since i wrote in my blog but i have to say that i am seeing to many people who are in relationships allowing there relationships to become stale,or boring,my thing is its not rocket science,if you truly love the one your with then you will do what is needed to keep the fire blazing if you a woman suck his dick a little more lick his ass if you in to that give him anal if you into that suggest porn,or try and be the aggressor sometimes just let him know that you care about his needs indeed.and if you a man eat your womans pussy more,give her sex a little more cater to her needs a little more,if she likes porn then watch it or get it for her, rub on her just let her know that she is just as important to you as she is to you are to her and do these things cause you never want the one your with to lose interest and want to be with someone else doing the things you should have been doing with them when you had them and thats real talk indeed.

Once They Get A Certain Age They Are Who They Are.

You know people fail to realize that once a person gets a certain age the person they are is the person they will be,and if you think you can change them you may have another thing coming,a person has to be willing to change for themselves and not for other people,and if the person you are with doesnt feel like they need to change then thats where the problem will come in,cause a lot of times people think they are just fine not realizing that there ways may be hindering a relationship from growing and thats real talk,so if you not a strong woman,or a strong man,then you will have to accept the person you are dating is never going to be who you want them to be,because a weak person can never have a positive influence in a persons life it will take a person that is respected and strong willed to have a positive influence on a person if not then it is what it is and you will either accept your fate and hope they change for the better or be the mature one and walk away if you see that what you see is what you will always get and thats real talk indeed.

One persons leftovers can become somebody elses Gourmet meal.

You know what is really sad but it happens a lot,in relationships,sometimes the people in the relationship dont even realize there doing it,is when you first get with a person,and you doing all this freaky ass shit to get them in the beginning,sucking there dick extra,sucking there and licking there pussy extra,giving them some bomb ass sex,giving them some anal rubbing there feet giving them massages pedicures,kissing them more dressing up for them making porn videos for them fucking at the drop of a hat,but soon as the person may lose there job,or get fat or get older,somebody decides to pull back and not do the things they once did disregarding the other person in the relationship and then they make the other person feel bored and then after the person complains about it the other person ignores them like im doing what im supposed like there shit dont stank so the other persons starts feeling like there no longer worthy and feel like they dont matter anymore and thats when you open the door for someone else to come in and snatch them from you but i dont condone the cheating i condone talking it out and trying to work it out but if that dont work then you have a problem so what i say to the person getting mistreated raise up get in shape,or get you a job and get your healt or looks right to how you want them and if you feel better about yourself thats all that matters and the person who treated you like shit or like you was and afterthought you just remember at one pint you were a thing of beauty in there eyes and if you cant be that persons thing of beauty anymore then you will be a gourmet meal for someone else so im inspiring people to one raise up and be that person you once were and to those who take for granted the person your with be careful cause you just might lose the perosn who treasured like no other real talk indeed.

Looks can be decieving.

You ever see a person and from the outside looking in,people think that person has it going on,that the person has the money,the exciting life,doing big things,that they have no idea that the person they are being envious of, may have problems just like the next man,but they dont let it be known and people just assume oh he this or that to the point that there own family dont check on them or there mate may not not know to what extreme that there depression is,and it be those people that be the main ones who commit suicide,and then the family members be on the news saying i cant believe they did this,but what people fail to realize is when you have once had it going on,and you have regrets in life about the decisions you have made its hard when those decisions dont pan out the way you expected and its hard when everyone thinks you are the guy and you have to have this image and then cracks start showing in your armor,then you have to be humbled to the point that its embaressing so all im saying is looks can be decieving just because a person may seem to have it all dont assume,check on the person ask them how they are feeling ask them are they ok cause you never know just a couple of kind words or concern can make the diffrence between life and death and thats real talk indeed cause everybody has ups and downs and the downs can break a real nigga indeed.

Make Them Feel Comfortable.

You know its been A minute since i wrote in the blog but im back inspired and ready to go,You know you ever hear someone say why he with her,what she got that i dont have,she dont have no big ass,or she dont have no big tits,or she look ok,and all that dumb superficial hating shit,well a lot of times people get caught up on looks,and looks are important but they are not everything in keeping a person happy,or keeping them wanting to be where you are,its about making the person so comfortable,and at ease htat they want to just spend time with you,make them have a full belly of there favorite food,make them feel important,listening to there thoughts and needs and aspirations,making them laugh and of course giving them some damn good sex without nagging,or being bossy cause nobody wants a bossy bitch real talk,you supposed to make it where that man person when they leave you and is by themselves all they can think about is getting back to you,because you made them feel so good and comfortable that its not just about sex its about the whole atmosphere and when you can do that then you can sit back and have the haters wondering and wishing they had the skills that you have in making your lover only want to be with you and thats real talk indeed.

Its Not Always Financial What A person Does.

You know the old saying you dont miss what you got until its gone, well sometimes people think that just cause a person maybe cant contribute financially as they may like you have to look at what a person does in other ways,such as they may keep the house clean,they may wash the clothes,but the groceries,iron the clothes,take care of the kids,do the repairs,its the little things a person may do,that a person may take for granted until its gone,or that person is gone,so all im saying is be careful to judge a persons full worth basing it on finances cause people do so much more especially if they are a giving human being and not selfish indeed.

MODERN DAY BLACK GENOCIDE 2016.

You know this is really the main reason i came back to doing my blog, and i have to thank msnbc racheal maddox for bringing this story to light,what is going on in an american city flint michigan is a disgrace,and injustice,but im not shocked as some because you have a racist governer rick snyder who has let a mainly black american city drink bath in lead infected water im like are you kidding me this is crazy kids getting sick and this would not happen in a white suburban city but this a governer who has let detroit public schools go down the tubes kids going to school with no toliet paper.mold in the schools,rats running around the schools but yet his punk ass keeps his job,im so happy that this has become a national thing not just local cause at the very least he should be arrested for black genocide modern day racism against black people and im so sick of people saying its 2016 we have come along way keep that we shall overcome shit cause that is not the tune i live by i want action taken against all these modern day slave mentality people,anytime you have human beings drinking and washing up in water that has lead in it,and you knew it wasnt safe you aint shit but the devil,and eventually your horns will show and your ass will be dealt with indeed.

How you got them is How you keep them.

You know i write about this issue at least once every year since i started writing my blog,and i must say i hear,see and read about the same old shit,people claiming they want someone,and then they finally get someone and the things they used to do to get the person,they get comfortable,lazy,and take the person for granted,and then thats when the problems start,people start feeling neglected,people cheat,people leave,people start not caring,it can get real ugly,and the worst thing that can happen is when a person gets where they dont care whether they fuck that person,anymore,or get where they dont care if they go out with the person anymore,so all im saying is if you a man,and you ate her pussy good in the beginning then do it still if you bought flowers in the beginning then get back to it,if you did anything freaky that put a smile on your ladies face then do it cause if you dont someone else will,and if you a woman if you sucked your mans dick just because at the start then damn it get on your fucking job or someone else will,if you gave him asshole,or whatever then get back to it,and if your lover,or mate has to remember the last time they got the things they used to get then you not on your job and thats real talk so all im saying is how you start is how you finish and if you cant finish then someone will be waitting to start what you obviously couldnt finish real talk.

Without your health you have nothing.

You know its been a minute since i posted,and i must say i have plenty of things to write about,starting with not a good friend but my brother Tee is what we call him,he is a hardworking dude,who didnt ask for much out of life,he loves his wife,and his kids,and he goes to work,doesnt make a lot but he is a stand up guy who if he had it he would give it to you,whatever you needed,well tee is 43 years old,and 2weeks ago his life changed in a heartbeat, he had a severe stroke,that caused him to have emergency surgery to relieve blood off his brain,and now he is still in the hospital unable to speak the way he once did,and he has no feeling in his right side from his head to his toes,but with physical therapy and a speech therapist,my buddy will be back, with prayers and hardwork he can do it,but the moral of this story is if we dont go to the doctor get check ups,and eat better exercise then i dont care how much money you have eventually you will have some health problem that can be avoided ahead of time if you take care of yourself and just make life changing habits,and people always think oh im not old,it dont have nothing to do with being old anymore,you got diabetes,heart attacks strokes,all kinds of things and its happening to people in there 30s and 40s so all im saying is my followers,friends,and family if you reading this lets get it together so we can enjoy the fruits of our labor real talk indeed cause to many of us are leaving here and health issues that can be avoided indeed.